London: Sikh couple in UK told 'they can't adopt white child'


London, Jun 27 (PTI): A Sikh couple in the UK have alleged that they were refused permission to adopt a white child because of their "cultural heritage" and told to adopt a child from India instead.

Sandeep and Reena Mander, British-born business professionals from Berkshire, were quoted by The Times as saying that they were told not to apply to become adoptive parents on the basis that white British or European applicants would be given preference.

The couple, who are of Sikh-Indian heritage, had told Adopt Berkshire adoption agency that they would be delighted to adopt a child of any ethnic background but were rejected as potential parents on the grounds that only white children were available.

The Manders, both in their 30s, claimed they were told to adopt a child from India instead.

Adoption agencies are allowed to prioritise on the basis of race in order to match children to prospective parents of the same ethnic background. But the government has also said that a child's ethnicity should not be a barrier to adoption.

The Manders, whose cause has been taken up by Prime Minister Theresa May as their local MP, will take their case to court.

They are applying to Slough county court, seeking a declaration that the policy should allow them to adopt. They are being represented by the law firm McAllister Olivarius and their case is supported by the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC).

David Isaac, chair of the EHRC, said, "There are many children who are waiting for a loving family like Sandeep and Reena to help give them a better life. To be denied this because of so-called cultural heritage is wrong."

The Manders had an assessment and home visit from Adopt Berkshire, an agency run by the Royal Borough of Windsor and Maidenhead (RBWM), last year.

They were allegedly told that, while in other respects they would be suitable adoptive parents, they could not apply because only white children were available for adoption and therefore white couples would be given priority.

Adopt Berkshire has not commented on the allegations but its website says that it welcomes applicants from different cultural, religious and sexual backgrounds.

Mander, vice-president of sales at Continuum Commerce Solutions, a payments technology company, said that the couple had been trying to conceive for seven years, including 16 sessions of IVF treatment, and decided to adopt.

"Having attended introductory workshops organised by RBWM and Adopt Berkshire, giving an adopted child — no matter what race — the security of a loving home was all we wanted to do," he told the daily.

"What we didn't expect was a refusal for us to even apply for adoption, not because of our incapability to adopt, but because our cultural heritage was defined as 'Indian/Pakistani'," he said.

The Manders tried at first to get the agency's decision reversed through the council's complaints procedure and the Local Government Ombudsman, which is awaiting the outcome of their legal action.

  

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  • Aubb, Kuwait

    Wed, Jun 28 2017

    If the Sikh couple are British citizens, they should not be prevented from adopting a white child.

    Does British law prevent Sikhs from employing people of Indian, Chinese, European, US origins?

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  • Leslie, udupi

    Wed, Jun 28 2017

    Life needs life...
    Lesser lives need life more...
    Mandars,
    Please come back to roots...
    There are many more deserving children here who need your warmth...
    Come on guys... Just do it....

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  • Praveen s, Permannur

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Why Indians love White child....there is visa issue is there for survive they adapting white child....evey one looking for their own benefit.... Still they are in early 30 , means its goal mall..modi ka desi produced not want means its surly lapda card

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    This Sikh couple should adopt an Indian child as there are many Indian children who are orphans and want to have parential love.

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  • Kishore Kumar, Mangaluru/UAE

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Why do they want to adopt 'WHITE' child?, anyway good decision by UK.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    They have got a beautiful house!
    Liked the view from the dining table.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Respect the law of the land. Do not complain if it doesn't suite your interests, when you are living there.

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  • Ahmed K.C., Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Adopt a child from India. We have orphans here who need some compassion and care.

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  • MILAN, LUCERNE

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    GOOD DECISION,

    DisAgree [4] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • vincent rodrigues, bangaluru/Katapadi

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Legal compliance of the nation where the couple stays need to be complied in adoption

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 27 2017

    Is their blood White ...

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