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Bantwal: Insta love marriage proves fatal - Young bride ends dowry harassment with suicide

  •   Mon, Oct 30 2023 06:09:58 PM

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Bantwal, Oct 30: The distressing case of a newlywed woman who took her own life due to alleged dowry harassment in her marital home has recently come to light.

The deceased is identified as Nauseen (22), a resident of Subhash Nagar in Sajeep Muda village.

Nauseen had entered into a love marriage with Azman from Ullal just three months ago. Although it was a love marriage, a substantial 180 grams of gold was given as a wedding gift or dowry. Unfortunately, her mother-in-law Zubaida, along with Nauseen's sister-in-law Azmea and her husband, reportedly subjected her to taunts and mental harassment, claiming that the dowry provided by the bride's family was insufficient. It is alleged that they criticized their son for marrying and falling in love with her. This persistent harassment reportedly led Nauseen to leave her husband's home in Ullala and return to her mother's house in Sajeepa. Mentally distressed, Nauseen took her own life by hanging herself in her room on August 25, when no one was at home.

A formal complaint has been filed with the Naseer Nagar police station.

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Nauseen, the daughter of K M Bawa, a resident of Sajeepa Muda, met Azman, a native of Ullal, through social media platforms, primarily Instagram. Their connection blossomed into love, and they received their families' consent to get married. On August 14, they officially tied the knot.

Nauseen's father generously gifted her 180 grams of gold for her wedding. However, Azman allegedly sold Nauseen's belongings within a few days of their marriage and constantly pressured her to provide more gold. In addition to this, her mother-in-law and sister-in-law allegedly subjected her to mental torture, using their love marriage as a pretext.

Nauseen reportedly confided in her family about her ordeal, which led her to seek refuge at her mother's home on August 24, unable to endure her in-laws' harassment. The following day, when her family was away at work, she took reportedly her own life by hanging herself in a room. The police complaint attributes her tragic death to her husband, mother-in-law, and sister-in-law.

A relative of Nauseen, Siddique, has called for a thorough investigation and legal action in the matter, seeking justice for Nauseen.

 

 

 

Suicide is not a solution to any problem. Kindly seek the help of mental health experts if you are under any kind of distress. Call toll free helpline number 9152987821.

 

 
  

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  • Sheikh Najeeb, Udupi / Dubai

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Don't spare this grooms family and put them behind bars,,,a strict action needs to be taken and justice should be given to bride...This is still happening in some houses mostly mother in law and sister in law give taunts to the newly bride and we agree that this is happening still in our provinces. do something like Groom should never marry again to any girl. If he marry with any other girl next her life is also the same condition. circulate his name photo and address with his family members name and put a strong FIR case against the groom.

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  • John Tauro, M'lore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    This doesn't seem to be a genuine love marriage. Looks like a well planned trapped marriage.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Rolf, Dubai "Hang thm all no excuses." As if bunch of Onions ! No judiciary and Legal proceedings ?

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    @ Nayakmaam, Gujjadi/London🤣 Rita, have you read above person's (infact a Lady 💃) comments ?

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Yeah yeah yeah yeah....read the comments. Tragody oooo tragody big tragody. Thu ani tuje manik Rita...bosa ಕುರ್ವ್ಯಾಂತ್....

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  • Venktesh, Moodbidri

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    @Mbeary...i would like to add here to your comments. Almost every culture of middle-east is brought here. Be it in dressing or following culture. In middle East man gives gifts to girls family and never they take anything Baseless stories indeed !

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  • KS Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Fantastic trick: First fall in love -> involve parents -> Boy benefits from the social norm. With or without arranged marriage, girl is the victim and the boy gets to enjoy all the benefits. Not that long ago, parents of both sides kept a distance and love marriage was not part of the social norm. I vividly remember an acquaintance joking that his is a love marriage but with all the benefits of arranged marriage. I stopped my exchanges with him from then on. Husband and in-laws must be thoroughly investigated and be brought to justice for this horrific crime.

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  • Ashok, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    I am sick of these news. hang all those 3 without delay. This dowry system should end asap.

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  • Vinod, Manipal

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Very unfortuante. Thanks to fake world if insta and other social media sites. No doubt todays gen easily fall into trap with super posh pictures of the guys/girls on social media. The pics on insta and FB looks like they are high profile models. Wake up young gen.. There is much more in life than such stupid love.

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  • Clifford, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Only solution for like these cases is education. If the girl is graduate or post gradute then she will fight legally instead of suicide. Parents should give good education to girls specially instead of gold or dowry.

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai-Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    RIP! This man, if the story is to believed, has demonic traits; he should have castigated his family and stood firmly in support of his loving wife if he really loved her, and not behind her parents money!

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    What a tragody.He sold her gold within few days?That means he never loved her but her Gold?People kindly check your Partner thoroughly before you marry him.God seems to be attracting and later start to harass.Even he would sell her dead body also?Now her parents should ask back money or gold given .Useless fellow.Looks like out to hunt one more?Heartfelt sympathy to her family.May her soul rest in peace .She shouldnt have loose hopes and suicide but be self and lead life without himR given talaq?

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai -Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Rita; this particular incident crosses all limits, but, overall, the first criterion before getting married is to see how much of wealth and property the other person has! In short, everything revolves around money! In this case, the boy should have been very strict and stopped his parents from harassing his wife for more money as he was in love with her!!

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    RUdolf R Mumbai ,what he himself sold gold ,and harassed her to bring more .So no question of making parents to stopping.Such people dont give value to persons but their gold and money assets.Never marry person who is fixed to such things .What brings all these weathy things when he doesnt have love in his heart?

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  • Nayakmaam, Gujjadi/London

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    Oi Ritakka...........I am living here in the UK for the last 20 years and my wife has kept all her gold in a safe deposit locker in her parents town of Belthangady since our marriage because she doesn't trust anyone both inside and outside the house here in the UK. She must have had some influence from you?......ha ha ha.... :-)..... God Bless all

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  • jayanna, udupi/udui

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Such a precious life cut short so soon. Such a sad story

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  • Stephane, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    That dude simply looks like Gujiri Giraki, and he doesn't seem to be worth whatever his father-in-law paid. Sadly, a young girl's life is lost. Girls, please understand Hindu, Christian, and Muslim young girls are all in trouble.

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  • SHAMSHUDDIN MOHAMMED, dammam saudi arabia

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajihoon...................

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  • NM Prabhu, KIREM/Dubai

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    This is all you have to say ....very very sad .

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  • Namma Oorda, Kodial

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Sold 180 grams in few days? Sorry for the deceased's parents. RIP.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Society doesn't change by being educated only. It changes by changing the way of thinking.

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  • Mbeary, Dxb

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    This death is on the hands of useless ulema of mangalore and the sleeping or media hungry so called muslim leaders. All they do is attend rich peoples function, ribbon cutting and go to gulf on invitation. This practice of dowry is begotten by the culture of the region and has no scope in islamic law. The value of mehr has become a joke infront if this dowry/gift given by bride. All they have to do is to announce fatwa to limit the gold given by brides family and cost of wedding spent. But its too much to expect anything from them.

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  • Eva, Kirem

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    @Mbeary...i would like to add here to your comments. Almost every culture of middle-east is brought here. Be it in dressing or following culture. In middle East man gives gifts to girls family and never they take anything from girls parents. Why don't you implement this?

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  • Abdul Samad, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    In Islam dowry is prohibited so as suicidal. Marriage could have been broken by divorce him when you see it not working. But killing herself is not a solution at all. On the other hand, the guilty must be punished.

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  • Shetty, Kudla

    Tue, Oct 31 2023

    This is nothing less than murder.

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  • Nithin, Bangalore/SA

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    So sad , i pity the young girl for all the mental harrasement she must have gone thru,May God punish azman in such manner where in he also suffers mentally , no idea what judement our indian law will be.

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  • VNR, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    As per islam and prophets Teaching ... ... Boy Should give Dowry (Mahr) to girl during the time of wedding ...But no .... in asian Countries all going Against ....Even During Marriage functions there is no concept of 50 - 50 sharing of expenses between parties . .. Boys party should fully bear all the expensions of marriage .. by this the marraiage will have blessing and barkath. Also Lavish Wedding and Wastage is also not Recommended. After marriage Boy should Provide seperate accomadation to his wife.. if Not possible atleast seperate room in his house

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  • Joseph Vincent Raju, Peaceful I say!

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Such a peaceful religion! Rip Nauseen mam.

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  • Derrik Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Such a beautiful wife given to that Dumb husband. May her soul rest in peace. Arrest that husband , MIL and SIL too and do that same torture to them

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  • Rolf, Dubai

    Mon, Oct 30 2023

    Hang thm all no excuses.

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