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Mangaluru: Woman alleges Facebook friend raped her, engaged to another

  •   Tue, Aug 23 2016 09:29:12 AM

Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (SP)

Mangaluru, Aug 23: A complaint has been lodged in Kavoor police station in the city against a youth from Bondel. The complainant woman has alleged that the man in question got introduced to her over Facebook, after which he raped after after tricking her into believing that he would marry her.

It is said that the 26-year-old lady from Panjimogaru here came to know about Muhammed Samsheer (29), a resident of Krishnanagara, Bondel, through Facebook about four years back.

Samsheer in course of time, succeeded in earning the woman's trust and getting her phone number, it is said. It has been alleged that he talked to her about his undying love for her and developed illicit relationship with her. But recently she found that he was distancing from her.

The woman found that Samsheer's engagement has been performed with another girl. Marriage invitations have been distributed. On the basis of the woman's complaint, Kavoor police have registered the case and begun investigation.
  

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  • mohan, mangalore

    Thu, Aug 25 2016

    Again normal story. this is all girls fault. she is fully matured. and she is offered him by her own will without knowing boys background,
    Girls must be very carefull in Indian culture. Once girls demoralized she will suffer till death.

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  • HK..Kuloor, Kuloor Manglore

    Wed, Aug 24 2016

    Looks like blackmailing..why she alleges rape over him after a year..character mein kuch kaala hai..

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  • No Nonsense, Udupi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    It was not rape until she found out he was cheating. Rape means doing against ones will, right? She had no issues when she happily believed in him. No when she got cheated, how can she allege rape? Dont misuse the rape law, madam. You can only allege cheating in this case. But not rape.

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  • J.F.D SOUZA, ATTAVAR,MANGALORE

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Better be watchful and careful before you leap!

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Sir,
    "before you sleep!!" would be better.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Nashville

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Arrest Mark Zuckerberg ...

    DisAgree [6] Agree [31] Reply Report Abuse

  • vikram, Dubai

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Raped through Facebook ? try to clap with one hand.

    DisAgree [4] Agree [37] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    JNB
    No FB, Smart phones, internet but mail service was good enough.

    DisAgree Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jossey Saldanha, Nashville

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Just like Duffers blaming '60 years of misrule' for any misadventures ...

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  • SMF, Dubai UAE

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Those who killed innocent man just for just for transporting cows in tempo? what punishment stand for this 24 yrs INNOCENT girl now?
    She is equal responsible for having illicit relationship for 4 yrs and enjoying with this man.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    illicit relationship?

    illicit = forbidden by law, rules, or custom.

    what century are we living in?

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  • stan, udupi/dubai

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Why she slept with him prior to marriage which itself is a immoral act?. She also should be punished along with the boy.

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  • JNB, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Those were different
    When there was no face book
    Only Face to Face

    Sometime think to rewind back to good old days
    And press PAUSE for some time :)

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Boss
    I fully agree with you. After all you are 'L' Guru. Walking hand in hand no problem.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Feeding bottle!
    She has crossed all the limits.
    Four years time would have been enough to feed the baby.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Please arrange her a feeding bottle too !!!

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  • JNB, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Wrong is wrong
    Never becomes right

    Our ancestors set some rules...
    Not allowed before marriage
    Not allowed at all
    Both boy and girl
    Should not allowed

    No smoke
    Without fire.
    After fire
    Do not blame smoke
    Do not drive even if you have Learners license
    Till you get your driving license
    Expired License too dangerous.

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  • Flavian, Manglauru/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Lydia Madam,
    Very good question/clarification indeed.
    In the meantime why the girls act so innocent/ignorant and suddenly entire scenario turns into a rape.
    No control. Crazy to believe and succumb to the all the false promises and allow full freedom.
    Such incidents do occur even with boys & girls of same community too when no control over emotions. Mangalore boys are bit famous from time memorial.
    Why Bhandumam is quiet these days. (Sanyas pakadliya kya?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Flavian Sir...
    Tumhee Sangaa?
    'Thalee Petunk-Dhon haath' Voi Moo?
    Haanga '2 haathacho' Kaayen Kaam naa
    Mhon mujo Vaad...
    Haanga 'Petche' Doosrenth..Voi Moo?
    Kaalen Nonsense...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Nowadays , i see, boy-girl, man -woman, do all that very easily. That time no problem, no shouting and all that.
    After some 4 years or so..ache and other difficulties, problems start.
    what the hell, law and police can do if ache and all starts after 4 years?
    Nonsense fellows.
    What 2 hands to clap? here without hands only everything has been done.
    Simple and silly case..is it not?

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  • NITHIN, mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    After i red the new's this .Its a love Ji***ad which girl's will never understand . So my message is simple to the girl if that boy had sex with you in pretext of marriage if he do not listen to you and marry you .Put 2 rounds in his head and make sure u succeed then go police and surrender if the girls start doing this Non of the guys will have guts to to do this with girls .

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  • Ali, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    It is her fault as well his. He should be punished by stoning according to sharia law. He must have trapped many innocent girls and he will keep doing so. Young innocent girls should be educated about getting exploited by men.

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    If Your Demands has not been Fulfilled, Take Revenge
    At the Age of 26 Can't make out which is Good and Which is Bad
    Traditions which need to be Happen After Marriage, if you Performed those Before Marriage itself, then What's Remaining there for After Marriage
    When these Girls will Learn ???

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    And, what did the man do ? Test drive to ensure that he can perform after legal marriage (to some other woman) ?

    Why does he not do that test-driving with the girl he is engaged ? Does he have guts ?

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Lydia Mam,
    I am not Supporting Culprit
    This is an Advice for Girls
    As per Survey 95% of Such Case are Fake

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Aug 24 2016

    @Lydia kadri,it is simple,he didnt take the engaged Girl with to drive because either she didnt agree to come before marraige or parents didnt allow.The men try everything to take when one is ready, risk is less.women cry when not reachable is and file rape when not succeded.Probably this Girl had her fun and now when came to know he is engaged or already married,filed the case.She must be not knowing the meaning of RApe exactly.where were her parents all These years?She Needs some Consulting in psychiatric ward.

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  • Madhu, mlore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    what a caveman mindset you have !!
    there is no chastity for men it's only for women ..
    If men sleep around before marriage it's fine but when women does it it's sin ..
    If a man cheats on the pretext of marriage thats also woman's fault ..

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Madhu
    Instead of Blaming, please do teach Values to Girls by Organising Events instead of Organising Such Rallies and Spending a Huge Amount on Banners and Cut-outs.

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  • N.M, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    IS this a joke?

    She knew him for 4 years and had a relation with him.

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  • avani, mlore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    I feel pity for this lady. Now, see people are blaming her. Girls, beware of vultures(covered as parrots) looking for their prey. Do not ever fall to their trap. You will be blamed by the society. Sad but true. Even women start blaming you. If you surrender bodily, make sure to make up your mind to ignore him if eventually if he ditches you. If you cannot do that, do not allow him to touch. Because end of the day you are blamed. Sad but true.

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  • gm, mlur

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    How many times they raped?

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  • Peter Lewis, Kalmady/k s a

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Do not use facebook for marriage Proposals. Leave this matter to your Parents.

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  • Flavian, Mangluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Shankaranna,
    'For having sex BEFORE marriage.." is not a crime as far as i know!
    (May be with a prostitute)
    Never say like that!
    Having sex with someone in the pretext of true love is definitely a sin but also a crime.
    Why he had to choose a girl from other community to satisfy his lust for sex. Did he have courage to treat the girl whom he got engaged in a similar way.
    One day there could be another attack like the one which took place on a Cow transporter.
    Punish the girl equally for her secret dealings betraying the trust and honesty of her parents

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  • PAM Suvarna, Karla

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Police need to apply recent legal points while charging this kind of complaints,this case prima facie reveals that case of two adults of opposite genders having sex with mutual consent.It may not attract rape.

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  • Felix, Udupi / Oman

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Friends, with curiosity just now I logged in my FB account...but it didn't lead to bedroom...For them yes, it lead to bedroom.

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  • JR,

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    THERE IS DETAILS OF MAN BUT NOT WOMEN.
    SUCH ONE SIDED NEWS SHOULD NOT BE PUBLISHED.
    WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WHETHER SHE IS MARRIED OR NOT ?
    WHETHER SHE IS RAPED IN FACEBOOK OR PHYSICALLY IF SO WHERE & WHEN ?
    ALWAYS HALF FILLED MAKES MORE SOUND SO THAT EVEN POLICE NEVER TAKE A GENUINE COMPLAINT BUT HERE THEY ARE MORE INTERESTED WHEN IT IS DUMMY ISSUE SIMPLY WASTE OF TIME/ENERGY.

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, Dubai

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Jawani da charbi, now a days Trust means throwing dust to dustbin

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  • Prashanth, Mangaluru

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Dont belive....?

    now a days all blackmailing......!!

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  • Sensible, India

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    How can mutual sex termed as rape ? may be cheat.. and If a gal ditches her lover and marries a rich guy.. can the guy also charge the gal of rape

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Charbi... bete daala atth

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  • nisha, kuwait / mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Four years back she came to know that guy and then both were in love and how this term RAPE is used... when they had compromised and had mutual physical relation... These days Women misuses situation and keeps false blame just on Boy... Boy if he had all these why he had to marry other he should marry same girl why this cheat... Fast growing technology is also an issue social sites gets introduced to unknown people... Even girl is WRONG

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  • rajesh 2, uduipi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    may be she is trying to misuse the loopholes of our legal system and want to extort money from him. If he were to kidnap and rape you, where were you all these days until his engagement? if it you who have submitted yourself to him for mutual pleasure, why blame him alone now? your too are at fault. now a days it is legal extortion carried out using media and pressure tactics and publishing names.

    it was face book then that gave enjoyment for free, now check your fate book that where these false allegations will land you?

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  • Mohammed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    So the word rape is misused, again! Two consenting adults engaging physically doesn't/shouldn't amount to rape. Charge him with outraging the modesty of a women, Cheating with false pretext of marriage or any section/s so related to cheating/betrayal. Whatever be the case, the man in question has to be reprimanded by the court of law for his misdeeds. Roadside romeos play around quite too often to their hearts content and leave the lady halfway through the journey. Punish him, for long, but under the right sections.

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  • FRANCIS, Dubai

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Mohammed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi,
    As I told earlier that the girl too is also 'Partner in Crime', no girl should offer herself of her weakness to any man before marriage.

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  • Dev Kumar, Katipalla/New Delhi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Francis...
    In short..it's very easy to fool gals. They believe everything. For that you should hold such characteristics. Otherwise you will fall in soup. Before fall in love develop shield around you and than act.

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  • PEDDU, MANGALURU

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    RAPE IS USED FOR SELF DEFENSE PURPOSE

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Put both of them behind bars

    Man : For cheating and raping

    woman: For having sex with him BEFORE marriage and accusing him of rape when he got engaged to another girl.

    Note:Don't become too much Social..Too much Social becomes Science later..

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    'For having sex BEFORE marriage.." is not a crime as far as i know!

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  • rajesh 2, uduipi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    having sex BEFORE marriage.." is not a crime as far as i know!

    then calling it rape now, after enjoying it for free is a big crime. Having sex before marriage is not for the purpose of marriage but for the purpose of enjoyment and entertainment alone. i hope rss bd's vhp's culture and sanskars have undergone a swooping change now a days.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Sex BEFORE marriage may or may not be a crime..But,one thing is sure Sex BEFORE marriage is the MAIN reason for many problems..Hennige Sheelave Sarvaswa..If she understands it,good for her and society..or else same type problem arises..Police complaint,Court,Taunting/teasing from close family members/neighbour..Finally,Girl will put herself in Jail..So,please avoid sex BEFORE marriage..Boy who waits patiently till marriage is the right partner for Girl..Just Remember that..

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Hennige mmathra yaake sheelave sarvaswa?
    Gandigiruva ella freedammu hennigyaakirbaardu?

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Shankar,

    That is because, she has a sack to contain his reject. Which, if married is considered blessing, otherwise a shame.

    Several women have endured such disgrace and delivered/reared a life for which they are 50% responsible.

    To avoid all this humiliation, a woman must decide whether she wants a life of respect or disgrace. And, men should value a woman and be valuable !

    In general, man is just a clown hopping here and there as need arises and woman a container holding his reject. Smart women understand this, rip apart (abort) his residue and walk off never to look at him again ! Those who still continue with him, cry 'RAPE' instead of 'Grapes are sour'

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  • Af,,, mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    No instead putting them behind the bar, lets re unite some how convincing second girl and let them get married problem solved.
    apna bhoj uniko utanedho.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Hagalu kanda baavige rathri haaruvude?

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Shankar,

    Kelavarige baavi saaku - hagalu/raatri agattay alla ! Anthahavarannu baavige thalli bida-beku !

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  • SHEKH, BAHRAIN

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    HAVING SEX IS NOT A CRIME, BUT GIVING RAPE NAME FOR MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING DISGUSTING...

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    With all what is happening around, is the woman retarded not to understand his motives ? Leave alone FB friendship, Samsheer does not allow women in his family to go out of the house unaccompanied. How could the victim let herself near someone who doesn't trust his own women ?

    Why are you available free for him when women in his community aren't ? This is where you falter ! Treat them the same way they treat their own women !

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Lydia,
    is there a 'communal' shade in your comment?!!

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    You don't see the truth in my comment ??? Should I have asked him to be shot as you did without holding both of them responsible ?

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Lydia Mam,
    In your Statement "Why are you available free for him", What does it Mean, There will be Free and Paid ???
    and "when women in his community aren't", Where you find here in news about Girls Community???
    You mean to Say If in Same Community is it Allowed ???

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Mohammed,

    Are you not the same gentlemen (above) to whose comment I questioned 'Why does he not do that test-driving with the girl he is engaged ? Does he have guts ?'

    Let him prove his behaviour with the girl he is engaged too, I will take back my comment and publicly apologise ! That will explain you the meaning of 'Free' !

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  • Subash Rao, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Blame yourself.

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman/Wash DC

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Can any 'Kanoon Vidhwaans' define the definition of rape please....as per Indian law...

    ...JH...

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  • Dev Kumar, Katipalla/New Delhi

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Face book and Whatsapp become easy way to reach to women's all over the world. No one at home..not knows where and when she reached to her detination. Otherwise earlier it only covered locality itself. By which chances of knowing of development to one and all. Make friendship with unknown person and keep silent..as nothing as happened.
    Great western countries thinking to reach women's who are trapped inside for long. One more thing reach people none other than pokemon.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Shoot him point blank!

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    I disagree Shankar, to clap, the need to be two hands. A relationship (that may have been branded rape at convenience) too require two people !

    Remember, FB does not allow minors to have an account !

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman/Wash DC

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    I agree to disagree....

    ...JH...

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    After having both of your views on my comment, i too agree to disagree with my comment.
    I rephrase the comment as below.
    ...not point blank. Use a sniper.
    Olthu bathundu pand gothayere balli!

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  • FRANCIS, Dubai

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Shankar, Lydia and Langoolacharya, it's really a beautiful conversation between you 'Trinity'. I like it....
    As rightly told by Lydia, definitely we need two hands to clap, clap and make sound. The girl in question is also 'Partner in Crime!!

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  • Shah , Paramajal/Ontario

    Tue, Aug 23 2016

    Lovely comments Lydia. 2 hand for clapping make loud sound. Why people think not about that. Not rape when do it and enjoy. Why blamed the boy now. Why girl complained? "Malpunaga kushi...itte aand gathi".

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