Bengaluru: Wife kills HIV-positive husband for demanding sex


Daijiworld Media Network - Bengaluru (SP)

Bengaluru, Feb 27: A woman, who was angered by the fact that her husband, who has been suffering from AIDS, was forcing her to have sex with him, kicked him in the private parts, which caused his death on the spot. The incident happened on Saturday February 25 night at Marutinagara in the city.

The victim was a 45-year-old man whose identity has been kept under wraps. His wife, Sharmila (name changed), who is aged around 35, stands arrested by police personnel of Byatarayanapura station here.

The couple hail from Kodagu district. They had moved to the city a few years ago, and had acquired their own house sometime later. The couple have a daughter who studied in eighth standard. The victim used to work as driver for a distillery company located on Mysore Road here.


Police briefing about murder

When Ramesh fell sick a few years back, the doctors who conducted tests on him had diagnosed him to be suffering from AIDS. The couple continued to live together thereafter but the wife had kept distance from her husband since she came to know about his condition. It is said that the husband approached and pestered her often to engage in sexual activities with him, but she steadfastly refused to yield.

“In her statement, Sharmila said that as the victim pestered her to have sex with him. She asked him to wear condom but he refused. She claimed that as he allegedly forced himself upon her, she kicked him and she did not intend to kill him. We are investigating further into the case,” a police official said.

Meanwhile, victim’s elder sister, in her complaint to the police, has alleged that Sharmila had extra marital affair with a man and suspected that the duo might have murdered the victim. Based on her complaint, the police have also picked up a man for questioning.

Sharmila also has mentioned in her statement that her husband accused of her extra-marital affair while demanding sex from her.

The couple many a times fought on this issue. Elders from both the families had held discussions about six months back, and advised them to live amicably with mutual understanding. Still, differences persisted on this contentious issue, it is gathered.

  

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  • Sushmitha, Bangalore

    Sun, Mar 19 2017

    She knew her responsibility towards her daughter, no responsible father would ever do this. I pray the woman is freed for her daughters sake. And she did all this in self defence , he would have given her a slow death if she didn't prevent him. It's clear that this man was drowning and he wanted to take her with him .

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Feb 28 2017

    It is a very sensitive matter.we cant say who is here the culprit.with a kick she killed him can be prooved with postmartum.It might kill because the pain can cause shock and where the kick falls.Otherthing it is not clear how he got the aids,who all are effected if woman and child too?did he take medicine from time to time?when he takes the medicine(took)and is not positive could have normal sex.but doctor should proove it.It was his wife who stayed with him with all sickness ,must appriciate her.may be it was a bymistake her kick caused him his end.cant generalize that she killed him ,because she has illicit affair.It was he killed her life with his sickness :Naturally he wanted from her sex,but they could have consulted in this affair a specialist ,instead of quarrelling daily.It is now tragody ,and all will give her fault.he didnt want to wear condom and it was last verdict.may his soul rest in peace.heartfelt sympathy to his daughter.

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  • Deanna somerville, Canada

    Wed, Mar 01 2017

    But how can a kick to tesitcles kill ? It is not a vital organ

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  • J.F.D SOUZA, Attavar,Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    HIV husband should not demand sex from his wife as he is going to spread the disease to her also making her sick aqnd to suffer. May be to protect herself she made a defenceful act but not with an intention of murder or killing her husband. the entire fault lies on her husband even he knowing that he is a HIV positive man.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash DC.

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Kadrimai is always right in Women's affairs....Amen...

    ...JH...

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Tue, Feb 28 2017

    Hey, Langoo do you know what meaning of Mai is.........Second thing HIV is a virus, and it needs host to survive. It will cause AIDS only when it is transmitted / attacked to another living cell of a recipient. There might be many persons with HIV but they might be carrier means they do not show any symptoms. Oh nemo shivaye......

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  • Anticorrupt, Mangalore, Kuwait

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    It is no where mentioned that the man was drunk. With one or two kicks in the private part or any other sensitive part, a man will not die on the spot. very rarely a hit in the head can lead to spot death.
    if she had hit her husband more than once, he would have defended himself and there would be injuries to both. This looks to be fishy and more than one person is involved in this murder.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    He got the proper and ultimate treatment....but fatal!!!!

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  • Af,,, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    daal me kuc hkaala hai, proper investigation truth will come.

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    How many of them carry this virus because of him?

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  • Jacob John, Qatar/ Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    and marital rape is not even discussed in public forums

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Frazer Town,Bangaluru

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Facts are not convincing.Detailed investigation will only bring the truth vindicated

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Haven't you guys heard of Self Defense ...

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  • geoffrey, hat hill

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    It's said suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary issue, but this lady found a permanent solution to a permanent issue. LOL

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  • Asif, Riyadh /Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    If he is confirmed HIV positive....and forcing for insecure sex.. Then it's nothing but he is trying to kill her... And she did self defense.... Whats wrong in that... She has to take care of her daughter... It's great about her that she agreed to stay with him even after knowing him as HIV positive.. He as responsible dad.. How come.. Forcing him for sex... She is innocent.....

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    An innocent person does not kill another.

    A killer is a murderer, and must be fully investigated by a court.

    90% of the matters become totally different once some investigations begins.

    Otherwise it is a miscarriage of justice.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Mr. Mangalorean,

    I am replying in this manner assuming is that he IS HIV patient.

    Tell me, where did he bring HIV from ? Dowry ? If he had access to sex outside marriage, why does he need wife ? Rather, his wife is a true hermit to have sustained him, for the respect of their family, for the sake of their daughter. But the beast does not understand this. He thinks that a wife is at par with the prostitutes who gave the disease to him in blessing. Does he deserve a human companion ? How will his daughter have a alliance in future ?

    Well, if the tests prove that he has no infection of the said disease, the law shall take its course to declare her a murderer.

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    A provocative title of an article gets us, the feeble-minded, to pass an immediate judgment, and hang an innocent person!

    Most people in today's world read the title of an article and nothing beyond it.

    If the title of an article is sufficient for us to pass judgement why should India spend thousands of crores each year on a legal system?

    "The truth is that laws are being misused. Around 80 per cent of the cases we get turn out to be false" - says an article on dowry-related cases on the Hindu.

    Supreme Court has itself declared that 85% of the rape cases turn out to be false allegation and nothing more!

    A proper investigation might reveal - eventually - that the man was innocent after all. Why should we declare the man a monster after reading just the title of the article?

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  • Jacinta Rodrigues, Milagres, Mangaluru

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Mrs Lydia Lobo you are absolutely right.
    One more thing is that the victim's sister has complained to the police saying that she (Sharmila- changed name) was involved in extra marital sex..... Which needs to be proved, whereas her brother was all the way involved in the extra marital sex, then why she didn't complain to the police about it? Is she having any other motive?

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  • sudha, mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    MRS Lydia lobo ,
    Why are you concluding HIV is from sex with...it could be due to many other reason as well right.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash DC.

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    HIV (Virus) can be passed by contact of body fluid...including transfusion of blood, sharing needles for injecting as well sexual contacts...when HIV started in 1980s many Surgeons and Nurses also contracted HIV...

    There is a saying in English..'Give bad name to a dog before you kill it'....first prove if the guy had HIV...if yes I think she should not be charged with anything...

    Jumping to conclusion without knowing full facts is dangerous...

    ...JH...


    ...

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Can wife produce Doctor's certificate or record that her husband was a HIV-Positive patient..? If she can ,then i think this case can not be called as murder..It is a SELF DEFENSE act..If she had sex with him she would have received AIDS as gift..!! She is a good wife ,despite knowing her husband had AIDS, she continued to live with him for daughter's future...

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  • Sadi, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    If this murder has defendable, we wouldn't have PM right now.

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  • Lewis, udupi

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    what is she had an affair with someone, but she was staying with the husband so that no one would come to know about it? And both made a plan as Self Defence than??

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Mon, Feb 27 2017

    Complicated case. Feel sorry for the young daughter.

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