Bangalore: Desperate for Son, Father Batters Three-month-old Daughter


Bangalore: Desperate for Son, Father Batters Three-month-old Daughter

With Inputs from DHNS

Bangalore, Apr 9 (IANS): She has a severe head injury, bite marks all over her body and is on life support in a Bangalore hospital. The shocking case of three-month-old Afreen - allegedly battered by her own father as he wanted a male child - came to light Monday.

Afreen, who was allegedly tortured Thursday, has suffered brain haemorrhage, doctors attending to her at the government-run Vani Vilas Hospital in Bangalore told reporters.


Reshma (mother)


Afreen

The baby's father Umar Farook, 25, was arrested late Sunday on a complaint from his 19-year-old wife Reshma Bhanu, police said.

This is perhaps the first such case reported in recent years in Bangalore. But in a country with a lopsided sex ratio of 914 females per 1,000 males - as per the provisional data of the 2011 Census - it added another shameful chapter to the history of abandoned, battered and unwanted girl children.

The case comes close on the heels of battered baby Falak, who died late last month at the reputed All India Institute of Medical Sciences in Delhi after battling for life for nearly two months.

Police said Afreen's mother Reshma told them that Farook, who works in a shop in the busy Shivajinagar area of Bangalore's central business district, had been frequently torturing the baby to kill her as he wanted a son.

Describing the assault on the baby, Reshma said she noticed some bite marks on the baby on April 5 and when she questioned Farooq, he brushed aside the injuries as insect bites. The next day, Reshma not only noticed cigarette burns on baby’s forehead and posterior, her neck was found dislocated. She later learnt that Farooq had banged the baby’s head on the wall when she was in the cradle. The baby developed fits on the morning of April 7 and vomited blood. Later, Reshma discovered that her husband tried to kill the baby by suffocating it with a pillow.

Police said besides severe head injury, leading to haemorrhage, there were bite marks on several parts of the baby's body. The baby is on ventilator and doctors said only after 48 hours of observation could they comment on her chances of recovery.

Farook, however, told a TV channel that he has not tortured the baby. Asked why then his wife was asserting that he had done so, he said in Hindi, "I don't know."

Reshma and Farook were married in December 2010, police said.

The incident came to light after doctors at the Vani Vilas Hospital informed the state Child Welfare Committee about the admission of a tortured baby. The committee in turn alerted police.

In New Delhi, Shanta Sinha, chairperson of the National Commission for Protection of Child Rights (NCPCR), described the incident as "shocking" and said an inquiry will be conducted.

"Really it's shocking, alarming...the man has to be booked for attempting to murder the child," Sinha said. "We will certainly call for an inquiry... but I think somewhere the government has to keep a watch on every girl born."

Referring to an incident in Jodhpur, Rajasthan, where a newborn baby girl was abandoned by two couples fighting over a baby boy last month, Sinha said "...some are denying they had a girl...There is an all pervasive atmosphere that does not welcome a girl's arrival".

According to a United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) report, although a marginal increase in general sex ratio at the national level was observed between 1981 and 2001, the child sex ratio continued to decline over five decades.

Earlier this month, two baby girls were found abandoned - one on the roadside, another in hospital - in two separate incidents in Madhya Pradesh and Uttar Pradesh.

  

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  • M Sunil, Bangalore

    Wed, Apr 11 2012

    Latest news is that Baby Afreen has merged with the almighty. That is she has left the cruel world behind and is now safe with the Angels. Let us pray to God for the soul of Afreen and may God give strength to her mother.

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  • Prashanth, Udupi / Bangalore

    Wed, Apr 11 2012

    So cruel father.....Shame on him for being a father...He wants a girl to get married & enjoy his life but he dosent want a girl child...Wah Farook.U should be hanged in the public...

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Mr. Lawrence(USA) I fully agree with your comment/s. It worth while for the readers to have how a woman bears a child without knowing to know whether it is a male or female. It is God's gift and you have to take it. In this particular case this monster should have killed himself or given a TALAK as per Muslim law and got married the second or third time till she bore a male child. That also it is in the hands of God unless he believes in God. My reply comment may be long but with your valuable comment with mine will help the other people.

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  • Dinesh Gras, Dubai(Byndoor)

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    I saw this man on TV and there is no repentence about his act on his face.He is really a satan. Should take stringent action on him so that nobody could dare to do so.

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  • Rajesh, mangalore

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Until the Boys parents stop DEMANDING dowry and articles from the girls family this will continue, there are two issues here 1) dowry and marraige expenses have to be looked after by the girls family 2) the ego that if u reproduce a male baby u r considered a MAN. i have 2 daughters and both are doing well and i am so happy that they take care of me and am sure will do the same for the time till i die. thank you God for such wonderful daughters.

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  • Ashok, Udupi/Dubai

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    I wonder Why God blessed him so cute & healthy baby girl? God you are great. Yenu ninna leele ?

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  • Aloka Nath, Bengaluru

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Hang him or put him in jail forever, but who will take care of Reshma Bhanu? It is a pity that she will have to go back to the same person. We should make girls stand on their own. All education should be free and compulsory. They should be compulsorily given a job. Only when she is economically self sufficient should be allowed to marry and continue to lead family life. Depending on man always, up to marriage depend on father or brother, after marriage on husband, in old age on sons always depend on man makes her vulnerable. It is only economic freedom gives her self protection.

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  • Ajay Lobo, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    So nice of you Lawrence. I am touched by your real life experience. You are truly a man who knows how to respect woman. We need people like you on this universe. I wanted baby girl as my first child and God blessed with me two baby girl's. Sad to see why men don't understand importance of woman. I have seen some instances where educated men too long for boy and harass the girl child.

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  • Alban D' Souza, Udyavara Mumbai Doha Qatar

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Alas! This is a very cruel thing!. How can one do for his own child like this? We are human beings. Even the animal loves the babies born. Wheater a girl baby or a baby boy . It is God's gift, and believe me the girl is the beauty of the family and she can bring laurels to the family and society. Let us love the children inspite of their gender. This is a beautiful creation and nature crated by God and given to all his Children freely.

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  • Lawrence, USA

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    I was raised tenderly by my mother and 6 sisters and I always wanted to have a girl child. God blessed me with one and I have raised her from day one. She is so adorable and today she is 20 years old, away from home for studies. I am worried about her every single day. It is the best gift God has ever given to me. If something bad happen to her, I am afraid, whether my life is worth living.

    It is mind boggling to hear the news of father torturing to kill a 3 months old baby because is a girl. Many have suggested a public hanging for him. India does'nt do public hanging. I am a Roman Catholic and I never supported the death penalty. In this case I am making an exeption. I will even bear the expenses to ship him out to other country where the public hanging is allowed.

    I know, on the day of final judgement, God will ask me why did I support the death penalty? Then I will ask HIM, Lord, why did you create such a human being?

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  • wilma, mumbai

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Really it's shocking,alarming the man has to br booked for attempting to harm and muder the child.What is happening every body wants a male child.welfare committe has to do something about it.Why the new born girl child is abandoned or battered.He has no right to live in this world he should get the strict punishment.

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Afreen, May God heal your wounds by His Miraculous Hand. Reshma Bhanu.I am sure Our Almighty God will bring back your daughter completely healed after the torture by her father Umar Farook who is not a human being but a devil. He deserves the maximum punishment for attempt to murder the innocent child who is just three months old.

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  • Jigmig, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Lord touch the baby with your holy hands and heal her wounds. I wish the baby speedy rocovery and a bright future.

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  • Lancelot N Tauro, Manglore - Doha Qatar

    Tue, Apr 10 2012

    Cruel animal in the society.

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  • shahab / Dubai, Kasaragod

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Save girl child else your son will be forced to be gay.

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  • Gerald, modankap-bantval

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    THIS GUY NEED A COUNSELING FROM JAKIR NAYAK !!! OTHERWISE SHOULD SEND TO MENTAL HOSPITAL

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  • Rakesh shetty, manglaore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    SO BAD. BETTER FAMILY MEMBERS SHOULD KILL HIM IN FRONT OF PUBLIC OPENLY.

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  • Sunita, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Really sad and horrific...but where was the mother and what was she doing when the baby was getting thrashed by the father? The baby would have surely wailed in pain...how come she discovered the marks only later?

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  • Polly D, Balman/Dubai

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    It is indeed sad that the Dad who should protect the child is bent on killing her at the tender age of few months.I as a mother of sons and daughters can say sons and daughters are not same. DAUGHTERS are anytime far superior to sons. How many daughters you have come across who harm their parents or wish ill for parents or siblings or change and forget their parents after marriage. Even after marriage daughters still care for their parents and siblings, not necessarily with money but with their prayers, phone calls and good wishes. Daughters are blessings from heaven above. May I request each parent to give a tight hug to your daughters and also to your sons as our support to our little angel, Baby Farook, and whisper a special prayer for her speedy recovery. Hope someone can adopt her and shower her with unconditional love - she does not deserve a dangerous father like Umar as I cannot imagine what he will do if his wife gives birth to few more daughters.

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  • Arshad Hasan, Bhatkal / Al Khobar

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    It is very sad that these type of people are in our society despite following facts.
    #Our President is a woman.
    #Ruling Party Chairperson is a woman.
    #Largest opposition BJP has a powerful woman leader like Sushma.
    #Many large states have or had women CM.
    #We had women in top positions in judiciary.
    #We had a powerful women prime minister for long tenure.
    With all the above facts still we are struggling to find solutions to alarming disparity in sex ratio all over (except kerala)particularly in Haryana, Punjab, Rajasthan etc.
    And the innocent Falaks, and Afreens.......becoming victims of sick mentality.
    Unless women themselves raise the flag and revolt against the system we will have only men left in the country and will have to get girls from outside for getting married.

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  • Kurt Waschnig, Oldenburg Germany

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Dear Irene, you are so right. regards Kurt

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  • Saifulla Sulaiman, Gerukatte, Abu Dhabi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    In this fastest world the humanity is disappearing from each & every people. in my point of view the poverty may cause for him to do the nasty task. even any reason he made totally wrong.I could not understand why people become ghost. I am getting too sad for such news.

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  • irene, mumbai

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Instead giving thanks to the almighty he is not happy with the baby girl.How many couples are visiting temples churches to get a child.He is not a human.Without a lady how he came to this world.He requires strict punishment.There are so many orpanages who takes the kids for adoption.

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  • MAS, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    He is not a human he is a SHAITAN better to hang him in publicly, we should not keep such type of men in the society.

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  • Kurt Waschnig, Oldenburg Germany

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    This crime committed by the 25 year old father of the baby girl 3 months old is so gruesome that one cannot say anything.
    I am ashamed and feel for the baby girl.
    Let us hope that she will recover from the heavy injuries.
    I am speechless and so sorry.

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  • veena dsouza, m'lore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    AppreciatING THE comments of AJAY LOBO,M'LORE....
    What type of cruel animal.. he is not a father no meaning of living this kind of man killing his own child how can he do that shameless heartless man keep him in jail oodhari sadakne do no point of giving him life innocent angel & helpless mother god bless them...God knows how many r suffering more like this....

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  • shahnawaz kukkikatte, dubai/udupi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Height of ignorance. This man is not a man but a monster. He forgot that his wife, mother sisters are females.....Scientifically its this mans fault to give birth to a female child. Women always carry "X" chromosome and men carry "Y" chromosome. If x is fertilised with y, then boy is born and if x is fertilised with x then girl is born. Now its time to bash and beat men for the conception of female children and its not women....what an ignorance....Why the social organisations do a tv compaign about the sex determination and hold men responsible for this... At least late is better than never...

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Crook Farook
    Sure recipe for 'son'
    Is not under the 'sun'
    There's no magic 'bun'
    To get that exact'sunburn'
    But all very well know
    From where each one have come from!!

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  • Dexter, Abu Dhabi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    This man seems to be mentally unstable. Throw him in a mental hospital. Seriously, this man is not fit to be a father or a husband.

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  • james, mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    HE SHOULD BE HANGED IN PUBLIC PLACE LIKE HOW THEY WILL DO IT IN ARAB COUNTIRES, SPECIALLY KSA (SAUDI)

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  • M.H. SHAREEF, Ullal, Abu-Dhabi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Hang Him. This so called father who attempted the murder of his own child. vWhy the man in this incident could not understand that he was also born out of a Girl who has fed him, looked after him? And also now he is enjoying life with a woman and when it comes to child, why he does not want a Girl child?

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  • NAUFAL, UDDABETTU

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    shameless creature.whatend all punishment he given to his baby,same punishment should give to Farook.

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  • Herrick Kunder, Mangalore/ Mumbai

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    This kind of things happens only because people think that there is no place called as hell. People please believe that there is hell which is really a worst place for even criminals to be.

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  • Rita, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Oh no, another baby Falak who died in same way like with human bite marks all over the body, head skull was broken, hand was broken, leg was broken etc etc. Please enough is enough, the father farooq also should be tortured in a same way so that none of them will do the same again. Our indian police and Law is useless, again there is a question mark suppose police punish the father farooq again human rights people may oppose this. But my sincere request with everyone dont forgive that man at all.

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  • norbert, mangalore/dubai

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    If he dos'nt like girls,why he marry the girl? hang him in public.

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, udupi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    If baby girl or boy what is the wrong in it? why these kind of person did inhuman behavior with baby girl?

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  • Mohd, Abu Dhabi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    HANG HIM IMMEDIATELY IN PUBLIC

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  • paddu, mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Umar Farook is still 25 yrs old. Then what we can expect from him???
    He produced only child ..But donot know how to take care...

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  • Ajay Lobo, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    This man is not fit to live in this world. Sad to see these kind of people who try to kill the girl child. They forget about their mother who is a lady. There should not be any difference between boy and girl. Nowadays we see in many cases girl child supporting her family. It's high time this man should be punished.

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  • Dinesh Gras, Byndoor(Dubai)

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    The culprit father should be punished mecilessly for this inhuman act.This type of devils are disgrace to the society.

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Umar Farook
    A third rate Crook
    Bring him to Book
    Or see that he drowns in a Brook..

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  • Ramesh, Udupi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Tortur him remaining of his life until he gets the value of girl. who ever do this kind of things should remember how they came to this life. Thier mother was also a girl. So please treat with same manner for girl or boy. its not a matter of boy or girl, it matters how we grow them. if boy become same like this father no use to be a boy.

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  • Dr Dhananjaya Bhatt, Udupi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Children are gods gift We must accept them weather they are girls or boys why simply do this This is crueal and sad

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  • Prashanth Poojary, Karkala/Abudhabi

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    This farook is a devil in the form of human being,
    Ismail Saab Farook should be booked under 307 of IPC instead of 302,i pray this small angel should live long with lots of happy in her life ahead.

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  • Brian Charles Dsouza, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Its indeed sad to hear what Farooq had done with the innocent child, Children are gift of God, its God who is giving us and without him its impossible, so let accept as it is, These days both boy and girl are equal, He has done cruelty and its hard to bear for anyone what an inhuman person he proved to be.
    In life he can only be worse certainly not better

    Let God gives strength to his wife to bear the situation and let her daughter cure sooner.

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  • Jawar D'Souza, M'lore/Doha

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Jail him for life,he can make as many boy's there, nasty creature.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Umar Farook..I HATE YOU FROM THE CORE OF MY HEART...Even Talibanis won't do such a barbaric act.

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  • Mohammed , Bangalore

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    There is no difference between animal and farooq he has showed inhuman behavior

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  • Sonia, Mangalore / Sharjah

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    My kind Request to all to focus on 'Lakshmi Matha' who is continuously been killed all over India without any Mercy.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Hang This so called father who attempted the murder of his own child. There shall not be any mercy on such saddists.

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  • haneef, mali

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    cruel pervert idiot, he should banged barely on tarmac! no should dare in future to do this act!

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  • Nancy, Belman

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Why the man in this incident could not understand that he was also born out of a Girl who has fed him, looked after him? And also now he is enjoying life with a woman and when it comes to child, why he does not want a Girl child?

    Is it not that becasue, of these type of men brings cruelity in the society?

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  • Lavin Noronha, Paladka/Bahrain

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Totally, unacceptable behavior by this monster father. What’s in there with a son that a daughter cannot do given a chance? He is a blot on paternity. All must condemn these evil acts.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Really monster.How is conscience allows him to do inhuman act on innocent baby?He should booked IPC 302 and sent to jail with out bail.

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  • alfred, mumbai/muscat

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    It is really a inhuman, savagely act and done by none other than the father and that also to a 3 month old baby, if he did not want it he ciuld have given it to the orphange or to any childless couple who would have willingly adopted it. Now this man should get a beating of his life in the station same treatment should be meted out to him just to show how painful it is to do on child who hardly can tell about her pain, If he is released on bail the locality people should strip him and beat him in open so that no other father will dare do this to their child. Really disgusting.

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  • Kudlada Kumaranne, Kudla

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Lobo re,

    Sama pandar tule.. Erenancha pura think maltunda india will be very nice country among evrything.. Hope it will Kapuga ate

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Sad. If this continues, all states in India will go Rajastan/Haryana way - males of one family sharing ONE woman !

    Please let us raise voice and convince people - without a girl child the society will lose its balance. More abductions/rapes will take place.

    One request - please do not bring religion into this - our society is made out of men and women - not religions !

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  • Kudlada Kumaranne, Kudla

    Mon, Apr 09 2012

    Namaskara.. Kaliyuga dadala Avoli So sad to hear this news

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