Bangalore: Third Suicide of Girl Student in One Week Worries Parents


Daijiworld Media Network - Bangalore

Bangalore, Apr 16: The sudden rise in 'suicide' cases of girl students over the past one week has sent shockwaves across the region. In just one week, two cases were reported in the coastal region, and now one more has come to light, this time from Bangalore.

A fresh case of suicide of an MBA girl student was reported from Bangalore on Sunday April 15.

It may be recalled that engineering student Mehnaz Ali committed suicide on April 10 after alleged harassment from the faculty and management. The incident is still fresh in the minds of the people in the coastal region, and specially within the student community.

The other case was reported from Madhava Pai Memorial College, Manipal, where a 20-year-old student Blanche Carol D'Souza committed suicide after being reportedly caught copying during an exam.

On Sunday, Nagaveni (23), an MBA student in Bangalore ended her life reportedly owing to family problems and loneliness. Nagaveni wished to donate her body parts, but her wish could not be fulfilled as her body found late on Sunday. She was alone at home. Her neighbours, on suspicion, knocked at her door and when no reponse came, peeped in through the windows, only to find Nagaveni hanging from the fan.

Nagaveni had lost both her parents a few years back, and was staying with her sister. But after her sister got married recently, she was left alone in her house.

Interestingly, Nagaveni had won a substantial amount in 'Crorepathi' reality show sometime back, but refused to accept the money and instead requested the TV channel to donate it to the poor.

This kind of behaviour among young students, especially girls, has shocked parents. Those who stay in far-off places while their children are put up in hostels, are a worried lot. In teenage years and early 20s, students are under a lot of pressure, especially from peers and added to that is the burden of expectations in exams. "It is an age where mistakes happen frequently, but one must ensure that they do not lead to extreme steps and are instead converted to stepping stones for a better future. The role of parents and teachers goes a long way in this regard, and an emotional bond between children and parents is the need of the hour," said a child psychologist in the city.

Can the child and women welfare authorities and associations pay attention to this problem and help the society to build young careers in a better way?

  

Top Stories

Comment on this article

  • Girish Nayak, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    It's really a worst & pity situation in society where Parents , Teachers should give proper counselling to children about the real facts. Our great political leaders having Education Institutions has to think about this & help poor people.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [2] Reply Report Abuse

  • GABRIAL DSOUZA, SHIRVA/ SHARJAH

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    All the youth.. face the diificulties and win the life.never give up.. give a challange..learn to face problems and stress..think of your parents.. when you are born..they took so much pain to raise you.. so pay them back by your success.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [1] Reply Report Abuse

  • I DOUZA, M'lore/Kuwait

    Tue, Apr 17 2012

    very sad after reading all these news because my daughter is also staying in hostel & studying and all the time complaining . some time i am also worrying. first of all let give good counselling both teachers as well as hostel in charge.let learn how to handle childrens. be friendly with childrens.

    DisAgree Agree [3] Reply Report Abuse

  • Anita, Mumbai

    Tue, Apr 17 2012

    Hey Bulsam, It is a very good message given to children. Thank you

    DisAgree [1] Agree [2] Reply Report Abuse

  • paul d`souza, balakunje

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    so sad to know the faith of youg ones. i made my daughter strong from her small & i knew the future how hard it is to face & accordingly i put her in practice & today she is PHD from one of the best university from USA. but my bad luck, i won the battle but lost the family. now may be youngsters will not understand, but when they grow, they will understand for sure & i am sure they will not have time even to repent.

    DisAgree Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • peter, mlr

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    when there were 8 to 9 children in a family and all were studying and taking professional courses, having no facilities like now, never heard of this "evil" cause the home itself was a practicle counceling, imotional support and pressure coping hub. what can you expect when there is a single child and parents have no time to spend whth him/her. when this happens the blame is shifted on the institute, friends. are the children getting values like love for self, unselfishnes etc. at home today? the things a child needs to get at each stage must be given at that stage if not this is the result. feel sorry for these young lives desiding to end lifly so cheaply. may she find eternal peace

    DisAgree [1] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Wilson DSouza, Paladka

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Girls are always ahead of boys in exam results and now increase in their suicides too. There may be some relation between the two...??!!

    DisAgree [10] Agree [1] Reply Report Abuse

  • A. S. Mathew, U.S.A.

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Heartfelt condolence to her family.

    Now we are living in a society with high tension and low tolerance: we lost the real laughter in life, and the young generation is totally caught up in a fast march of accomplishing their material goals and to be ahead of others. When some people who are light-hearted feel that they are not loved but simply used or controlled by
    other people, they will get deeper into despondency and depression,
    thus lost their worth and purpose for living. Parents-teachers-
    comapany officials-husbands-wives
    etc must take an attitude of love and compassion towards those people undergoing stress and tensions in life.

    DisAgree Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Kavitha on 'SUICIDE'!
    Many will it 'VOID'
    Then no place to 'HIDE'
    For all will 'CHIDE'!
    So Anamika-
    Go for a long RIDE!

    DisAgree [10] Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Dear Anamika
    I have given my Kavitha.
    'Think people at Daiji..
    ..'Disagree'!

    DisAgree [7] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • M Dsouza, Puttur/Dubai

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Children are like orphans nowadays.no body to care and share.Only materialistic things are supplied.Parental Guidance is not at all there.Parents live their lives in their own way and children live their lives in their own way.There is no sync between parents and children.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • anamika, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Dear Bhandarkaar...
    Please continue your kavithaa
    we miss them too much...

    DisAgree [3] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    The students, if caught copying in exams, should be given counseling before sending them home. The headmasters, the principals or administrators of such centre should take responsibility of counseling them. They should make them feel less guilty with few good words, advices on daily study schedules and to study hard for the next supplement exam. They should explain the psychological effect on students who are getting good marks through hard work and a few who is getting the same result by copying. All those encouraging words are the greatest psychological boosters for them.
    The authority should also have printed letter for the parents of those who were caught copying. The letter should warn not to humiliate their wards for their mistake of copying during examination instead to encourage them to prepare better with study schedules and they personally see that their ward work hard for the coming supplement exams. The letter should also mention the danger of their ward’s vulnerable age and them going into depression and few to even have suicidal tendencies.
    Hey kids, we love you for whatever you are. Next time avoid copying and involve in studying. Why are you scared of the syllabus that teaches more about our environments and about all living and non-living beings created by GOD.
    The CREATOR is the complete authority on our GOOD and BAD as well as our LIFE and DEATH. Like copying in exam, even committing suicide is another short cut you do to avoid difficulties. But the loved on you leave behind are the one who suffer immensely for months and years and few weak hearts in the family will even succumb with such tragedy. You, the GenNext! Think, think & think but never turn suicidal which is a cowardly act, instead be courageous and face this difficult world head-on.
    God bless!

    DisAgree [2] Agree [39] Reply Report Abuse

  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Put it down to lack of 'personalised' and 'tender' care from quarters that matter.
    Upbringing and 'childhood environment' play a great role in shaping up any personality. A complex childhood even in a case of a grown up adult is not difficult o detect ! I could find that out analysing the behaviour pattern of my Boss! I mean it's that glaring. We give or reciprocate the way we recieve! In our days 'love' n 'care'had a different tinge to it. Everything was not 'commercialised' and there was a 'humane' touch in everything we did. This has helped us evolve better.We had that much overflowing and willing it to 'share' with anyone pretty!
    No many used to come forward though because it was the same with them at their household too! They were not lacking or lagging behind! The subsitution by the 'artificial' has caused immense damage to the 'physche' of the young today, the result of which is there for all to see. The out-come is 'over-reaching' which has it's own disastrous repercussions.

    DisAgree [3] Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • S Sequeira, Puttur/Dubai

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Children are brought up with so much of love and concern during childhood in the present days.They do not know any hardships.So when they grow up and encounter a small insult will make them end their lives. Children should be educated more about realities of life than the book knowledge.
    They should be made aware of how to face life challenges. At least 1 parent should be with the child during the teen age to guide them. Teen age is dream age.Till they are matured parents should support them in the right way.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    The recent developments of suicides among Students particularly, makes educational bosses to give a serious thought how to calm down the trend.This is the time for teachers,Management of educational institutions and parents to treat unmeasured childrens in a compassionate and sympathetic way.Every educational institution of Higher study, need to establish counseling section on priority basis.What we hearing , pertaining issue of suicides among the students are alarming and need to be contained.Govt should come out with sustainable solutions else the trend will go as trend setter.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [11] Reply Report Abuse

  • Arif, Uchila/Dubai

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Nagaveni trying to help the poor with money. To achieve her objective — of mitigating the rich-poor divide in society - she even started taking loans from financiers, and was heavily in debt. Nagaveni may have found it difficult to make ends meet with the repayment of loans and a rent of Rs2,000 to pay monthly, weighing upon her, the police said.Nagaveni hanging with a note left for her elder sister.

    “I am depressed over the poverty in the society. So I am taking this decision to kill myself…This society looks down upon people who have lost their parents and who are poor…” the note said.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • Krishna, Mangalore

    Mon, Apr 16 2012

    Compared to couple of decades back the stress on the youth particularly the students is more. It is not the burden of the subjects but the exposure of students to the appraisal and evaluation by the faculty that makes them continuously at the mercy of the faculty. However intellignet a student may be if he/ she has to depend on the mercies for internal assessment, continuous evaluation or the CCE the CBSE has introduced all keep them not only fully engaged but also make them feel helpless.
    Now a days we see any student of any course running after some" project work" which many times seems to be useless.
    Cant we think of doing away with the subjective evaluation and concentrate on objective one ?

    DisAgree [1] Agree [32] Reply Report Abuse


Leave a Comment

Title: Bangalore: Third Suicide of Girl Student in One Week Worries Parents



You have 2000 characters left.

Disclaimer:

Please write your correct name and email address. Kindly do not post any personal, abusive, defamatory, infringing, obscene, indecent, discriminatory or unlawful or similar comments. Daijiworld.com will not be responsible for any defamatory message posted under this article.

Please note that sending false messages to insult, defame, intimidate, mislead or deceive people or to intentionally cause public disorder is punishable under law. It is obligatory on Daijiworld to provide the IP address and other details of senders of such comments, to the authority concerned upon request.

Hence, sending offensive comments using daijiworld will be purely at your own risk, and in no way will Daijiworld.com be held responsible.