Mangalore: NWF Holds Interactive Session About Atrocities on Women


Mangalore: NWF Holds Interactive Session About Atrocities on Women

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Daijiworld Media Network—Mangalore (NM)

Mangalore, May 21: The National Women’s Front (NWF), Karnataka, organized an interactive session highlighting the atrocities on women after a six-day, anti-dowry campaign at Town Hall in the city on Monday May 21.

After inaugurating the conference, A S Zainaba, vice-president of NWF, said that now marriage has become a financial transaction rather than an exchange of love and women are considered to be a product in the bargain.

Pointing to the issue of selective abortion, Zainaba said that the mother is forced to abort if the baby is a girl. “Though there is a strong law being enforced against the acceptance or demanding of dowry by the Dowry Prohibition Act, the law has remained in the books and the issue is practiced without fear. She opined that even in this advanced era, the practice is prevalent and cited some of the statistics of infanticide and dowry deaths.

The talk was followed by an interactive session on the topic of dowry. Dildhar Bhatkal, secretary of NWF, presided over the session. Fathima Nasima presented the keynote address. Shahidha Aslam compered on the occasion. Zunaida Sultan, Rayihan Hakim, Mumthaz Pakkaladka, Kairunisa Sayyad, and Farzaana Jafar Faizi were part of the session.

The valedictory programme will be presided over by Shahidha Thasnim. Mayor Gulzar Banu, Aathradi Amritha, Kavitha, Kamala Gowda, advocate Nusruth Jahan Kashimji, and Bharathi will be present on the dais.

  

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  • roshan braganza, udyavara

    Thu, May 24 2012

    these can b some of the reasons 1. In the case men marrying several girls , children can be easily idientified with their parents , which is not true in case women having multiple husbands. Children can b often confused who the father is. 2 . Men r more polygamous in nature than women 3. Women have more chances to inherit and transmit STD( sexually transmitted dissease ) 4. Men having more wives , socially accepteble and easy going. For eg : all girls can stay with husband in house , but vice versa looks odd. Eg : girl has to go different house everybody to meet each husband.... And list goes on.....

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  • sheharaj, belvai

    Wed, May 23 2012

    Nice programe from NWF sisters. Thanks Daijiworld for wonderful coveragemasha allah good social work by National Womens Front (NWF)..

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  • samad padubidiri, samad abudhabi

    Wed, May 23 2012

    good programe from NWF SISTERS..MASHA ALLAH..

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  • asiya, mangalore

    Wed, May 23 2012

    First of all, it is important for us to keep in mind that Islam came to establish two very important fundamentals for human beings:Rights and Limits.
    Everyone and everything has certain rights given to it by the Creator and Sustainer of the universe (Allah). At the same time, each creation has its own limitations established by Allah.
    He men of Islam have come to be known today as the most monogamous of all men on earth (we only have one wife). Check for yourself and see. In the majority of all the Muslim homes on earth, a man gets married once, to one woman and then he stays married to her until the death of either himself or his wife.

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  • Atanu Sen, Moodbidri/Hooghly

    Wed, May 23 2012

    Mr.Hasan Yusuf, Mangalore - Kuwait

    Well said Hasanbhai. Still doubt in Middle East countries gals/women's sitting idle at home without marriage because bridegroom cannot afford hefty sum for bride's father. After all dowry money given by groom lands direct to bride's father. Most of the bridgegrooms prefer to marry gals from poor countries like India/Indonesia at low cost.

    Hum Hyderbad jayengi
    Nikkah Karengi
    Walima Karengi
    Phir pani Nayengi

    Arabs that's why most of them choose India there marriage destination.

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  • Pasha, Karnataka

    Wed, May 23 2012

    What if the man is sick, can the woman marry again?
    Also maybe the woman cannot concieve because the man is firing blanks, can the woman marry again, or are the above not allowed by Islam?
    What about when the sex ratio is 1000 boys to 900 girls can the woman have 4 husbands, does Islam allow that?
    Any religion is male dominated to beat women to submission. Remember that.

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  • Abdul Khader Kukkaje, Mangalore/Abudhabi

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Congratulations
    For your wonderful Job.
    NWF successfully done it, which conducted by only women. Especially the Muslim women with good gathering. This program is from women to women, because the message of this program partially applying women also, why? Because in demanding dowry, there is a very important role to bridegroom’s mother. Most of the mothers are accepting and looking for money and gold to their son. So this movement should try to brain-wash such elderly women also.

    Same time this is very shame to the men who is demanding dowry and who are those married with the demand of dowry. Here this is shame to our community and there leaders as well as their clergies (mullas) for creating such a helpless situation to our sisters which they are protesting against dowry, even this dowry system against Islam. If the Muslims are the true follower of Islam, then never entering this evil in Muslim society. Still there is responsible to Muslims should fight against all the social evils and anti social activities if it is exists in any human society. But here very less number of Non-Muslim women were present.

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  • saleem, uppala / dubai

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Great work NWF - There was no much dowry system in mangalore - This evil spread from Kerala - Still grooms much intreseted to have proposal from Kerala State -
    Once again well done - Keep the good work - god bless you

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  • Hasan Yusuf, Mangalore - Kuwait

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Mrs. Cynthia Moodbidri,

    Islam allows men to marry until four subject several conditions. It is not a joke and there proper WISDOM on this permission.

    1- In many countries, the female count is more than males. If one marries one girl, then what about the remaining thousands of sisters in that country. They cannot be public properties.

    2- In case of war, in the mass death of males, hundreds or thousands widows come into existence. Dont you think marrying widows is good decision.

    3- If the wife is sick and doctor advises not have the physical relationship with the wife, men are allowed to marry more than one to fulfil their requirment in a legal way.

    4- If the wife is not conceiving, in that case Islam allows to marry more than one to have the children.

    Like that....the list goes further dear sister Cynthia. Therefore please learn the WISDOM behind Islamic teachings before criticizing the same.

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  • Hasan Yusuf, Mangalore - Kuwait

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Good Campaign by Women/ NWF against DOWRY and other Anti-Social Practices. This kind of awreness campaign has to be conducted on frequent basis both by Men and Women. Our women are to be appreciated for organizing such kind of awareness campaigns.

    Marriage is not a commercial business, and it is not a showroom for lavish celebrations. Marriage is HOLY UNION OF TWO SOULS, a basic requirement for a sacred family life through which a pious Society / generation will be esatablished. Simple marriages are always blessed.

    Join together and kick-out evil practices from the society!! so that peace will prevail among the families.

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  • Hasan Yusuf, Mangalore / Kuwait

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Mrs. Maria,

    re: brother gets 1 share girls get half share in father's property.

    Look at the wisdom here. In Islam, in a family set up, all the financial responsibility of the family is on male members, for example husband, father, brothers etc. as per the cases.

    No financial burden on girls, and it is not mandatory on girls. If the girls wish, they can spend on family, but not mandatory. But for men it is mandatory to spend on their parents, wife, children, unmarried sisters etc.

    That is the share in father's property in 1 for brothers and half of that is for sisters.

    Hope you have understood the point.

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  • roshan braganza, udyavara

    Tue, May 22 2012

    @cynthia moodabidri , muslims have their personal law under shariat enacted in 1938. Age of marriage for girls is after maturity ( which can vary from 14 to 18) and wives upto 4 are allowed , if they can support them . Its legal and cultural . Even in christianity it was legal and changed in later end of 20 th century . Even now its normal in some christian countries.

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  • abdul samad, mangalore

    Tue, May 22 2012

    HUM HONGE KAMMIYAB..HUM HONGE KAMMIYAB EK DIN..MANN MEIN HAI VISHVAS PURA HAI VISHVAS..HUM HONGE KAMMIYAB EK DIN..

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  • Atanu Sen, Moodbidri/Hooghly

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Ms.Cynthia, Moodbidri

    Should also ban 'Live-in-Relationship'.

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  • Fayaz Ahmed, Haleangadi/Jubail

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Ladies,
    Well done, wonderful Job you are doing. We must axe  dowry system.If there is a dowry in marriage its not called marriage then it would be business.

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  • Abdul Samad, Mangalore / Riyadh

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Congrats to NWF for their noble work to eradicate un-Islamic dowry system.

    Ms. Cynthia,
    Please study Islam before making any comments. Islam permits male to marry more than 1 upto 4 IF HE IS CAPABLE TO LOOK HIS WIVES WITHOUT ANY DISCRIMINATION.

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Anybody who demands 'dowry' when he gets a beautiful partner is a
    'Moorkha'. Let us be practical but 'dowry deaths','in-laws harassment' etc always gets highlighted but that of a 'hen pecked' husband rarely and believe me (almost all married Males will!) it's a big number out there! Agree? 'Dowry' for many
    is also an unforeseen -Honey-Trap'!

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, udupi

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Nice Programe and nice gathering. Good Move NWF.

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  • suhail, mangalore/muscat

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Dear Cynthia, Moodbidri
    yes we can abolish that too..and also we need your support ...together we can build an evil free society.

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  • Maria, Mangalore

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Girls,
    If you are against to Dowry at that time of wedding given by your parents... You dont even have equal share fm your fathers property too. According to islam when ur brother gets 1 share girls get half share.

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  • Maria, Mangalore

    Tue, May 22 2012

    Girls,
    If you are against to Dowry at that time of wedding given by your parents... You dont even have equal share fm your fathers property too. According to islam when ur brother gets 1 share girls get half share.

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  • roshan braganza, udyavara

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Dowry is a very cultural thing and exist in almost all casts. Interestingly in past men , used to give dowry ('vadhudakshine') . Even now is some casts men give dowry. Attriocity for dowry is very bad and dowry harassment law is already there. But some peaple misuse dowry harrasment law against their husbands , and put whole family under trial. One can read lot of such cases today. This issue also should be discussed and laws be made gender neutral.

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  • Lukmanul Hakeem, Kunjathbail , Mangalore

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Good deeds by NWF .Try to forward this program to all muslim brothers and sisters, they can understand naughty of dowry system . All the best carry on in future ...

    And also thanks to Daijiworld

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  • Abdul, Dubai

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Masha Allah good job from NWF

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  • Cynthia, Moodbidri

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Can you also fight against Polygomy and girls given in marriage at 17 years & less??

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  • pasha, Karnataka

    Mon, May 21 2012

    As long as you women remain door mats you will have to suffer the brunt dished out to you by your men folk. Remember religion is nothing but control of a group by others. Until you gather up some courage and kick these guys on their matrimonial parts they will keep on treating you like a piece of meat. Stop talking and start acting. Either put up or shut up.

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  • Anwar Sadath, Deralakatte

    Mon, May 21 2012

    masha allah good social work by National Womens Front (NWF)..
    Dowry is a big devil in Muslim cast..
    Keep Moving NWF..

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Good going NWF...Parents and male children individually need to take an oath not to taste/touch the Dowry money/kind/wealth of any brides.In some family parents forces their son to 'beg' for dowry!There should be active JAMATH committee to monitor the illegal business(dowry) of the it's member family.We have to isolate and corner those who are indulging in Dowry.

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  • Althaf, Kaup/Doha

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Nice programe from NWF sisters. Thanks Daijiworld for wonderful coverage.

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  • mansoor,

    Mon, May 21 2012

    good programe..

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  • Nesma , Sampya puttur

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Seems nice to think who get marriage but the organizer should call for mothers because 90% of demanding dowry some mothers and father. if look the stage or auditorium there are a small number of mothers.

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  • Abdulkhader, Al Khobar

    Mon, May 21 2012

    Dowry and female foeticide has widely spreaded without any moral guilty feeling between all community. The new generation neither feared of god nor any law.

    Thank NWF, at least few people like you and aamir khan are still around us. Hats off you for your noble work...

    Abdulkhader B, Alkhobar.

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