Udupi: Love-struck youth stabs teenage girl for refusing marriage

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Udupi, Jun 2: In a startling incident, a love-struck youth allegedly stabbed a young girl after she refused to marry him. The incident took place at Ambalpady here on Saturday June 1.

The accused has been identified as Abdul hailing from Jharkhand.

It is said that on Saturday morning, Sneha (17, name changed), along with her brother and uncle, had gone to a stream near Pallavi rice mill for fishing.

Abdul, who saw her from a distance, approached her and expressed his love and asked her to marry him.

Sneha rejected him and said that she was still in college and had no plans to get married, and that she did not have any feelings for him.

Angered by her response, Abdul took out a knife from his pocket and allegedly stabbed the stab on her neck. When the girl screamed her brother and uncle rushed to her, and seeing them, the frightened Abdul fled away.

The girl was admitted to Ajjarkad district hospital where she is recuperating.

Abdul, who is from Jharkhand, does the work of assembling tiles for houses. He was staying in a rented house in Sneha's neghbourhood.

Udupi police have registered a case.

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Michael Dsouza, Moodubelle
Tue, Jun 04 2013
Mr. Abdul If you would have been a serious lover , you would have allowed her to take her decision by her own and you would have waited and waited till she confirms you to marry her. looking at your decision what we feel is you never loved her you were just attracted of her that's all.

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Tue, Jun 04 2013
Hi Eskey,

Thank God, you have very good self-control over drinks & somoking. Please continue to do so.

To confess myself - I did not suceed in giving up these habbits but I keep everything under control. My wife failed advising/praying for me. (huttu guna gatta hathidaresa hogu dilla)

I am so happy that within a months time of my being in this forum, I have come accross such a lovely guys to coomunicate with.

Bhandarkarmam, we will meet one day in M'lore.

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Tue, Jun 04 2013
Hi Flavian, include me when you meet Bhandarkar mam. Let me watch you two people 'rock'.

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Hi Flavian / Bhandarkarmam
No smoke / no drinks. Hard to believe I know. It is true. I have had my occasional beers during my days at MIT. I have never smoked. I do not want to confess (today) what all we did (rather what we have not done) at MIT Manipal. Stopped drinking even those occasional beers soon after coming out of MIT, years before my marriage. Bhandarkar Sir, It was by choice (not by force). In our ‘Pokri’ gang at the college, I was the one responsible (being the only ‘gandhi’ in our team) for ‘delivering’ my friends safely to each one’s house after every session. Funniest of the incidents was when I got drunk!! for the first time and most probably the last, during the wedding of my friend’s brother. When I came out of the wine shop opposite Lions Club Hall (marriage venue) Bramhagiri, I could hardly keep my steps. I did not have courage to go home that day. I boarded the Mysore Bus from Udupi and slept little over 4 hours all the way to Sullia to my aunt’s house. Till today my parents do not know why I went there all of a sudden.
When I travel abroad I accept a glass of red wine on the aircraft usually along with my wife (not mandatorily, when I am travelling alone on work, I do not drink). I have a policy – I don’t buy drinks / tobacco products for self or to entertain others. At the same time, I never give advice to others on this matter. My friends (a small group, though) know it. So they don’t force me to drink/smoke when I am in their company. Life goes on like this. So far so good.
I agree with you Bhandarkarmam, that eerie silence still prevails in our neighbourhood. Although my wife doesn’t appear like a growling lioness (to my neighbours), I pretend like a ‘squeaky male lamb’ in my house to conserve that precious silence. I enjoy your ‘fishy’ comments Sir, Keep rocking.

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Lawrence, Bangalore
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Abdul u r unfit to love, if u r love is true u r not doing this.

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Hi Bhandarkar,

Your comments makes me feel so happy and I go on laughing to myself both in my heart and my face expression. My colleagues sometimes are perflexed to see this change in my face.

For your information, I am not far from Ashoknagar. Originaly, I am from Highlands, but now staying in Bijai.

Have a good day. Time to concentrate on my work.

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R.Bhandarkar, M'Lore
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Dear Flavian-
EE 'Sundari' Ashoknagar-Vishaya-Yenka Doubt Oondu Maharayare! For the simple fact that I live round Ashoknagar, and for the past few decades and I have not come across
'Possessive Male Tigers' but only 'Squeaking Male Lambs' who are being threatened of the 'Slaughter House' every next day! I have heard
and listened to 'Growling Lionesses' and that's about it! Otherwise there's always an eerie silence in and around Ashoknagar!
And 'Eskey' confirms that's the same in and around Udupi! See he does not even drink and smoke! It's not his will but somebody dear(!) has forced him to be a Gandhi!
Hmm-Something 'Fish'Y Eskey! You reminded me of 'Sharanu' the other day-didn't you??

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Hi Eskey,

No smoke no drinks how come. I am impressed by your down to earth confession.

what about when you travel abroad ?

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Mon, Jun 03 2013

Sundari,

You have expressed what took place before and after the married life.
Great sacrfices and patience. God bless you.

In my openion man(married) is possessive about his wife, because he loves his wife. I am one of them. Let other married men put forwad their point of view.

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R.Bhandarkar, M'Lore
Mon, Jun 03 2013
Juliet Mai
Kallen? Bollu Shayaari Boraita Monun Haaven Boaraije Gee? Tar vaaza...
Abdul
Na Boli Bul-Bul-
Churi Daala Tune Khullam-Khul
Lekin Ab Hai Gul !

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Leslie Fernandes, Brahmagiri, Udupi
Sun, Jun 02 2013
SUNDARI,
YOU HAVE DONE YOUR SACRIFICE AND GOD WILL PROVIDE YOU PEACE.
ACCEPTANCE IS MORE PRECIOUS VIRTUE THAN TOLERANCE.
YOU HAVE TOLERATED HIM FOR THE BETTERMENT OF YOUR YOUNGER SIBLINGS THEN AND OVER 35 LONG YEARS YOU HAVE ACCEPTED HIM.
GREAT LIFE SISTER. I SALUTE YOU.

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Peter Lewis, Kalmady/k s a
Sun, Jun 02 2013
FIrst of all need to throw out these criminal creatures from our state from where they originate. Do not allow them stay near of you.

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sundari ashoknagar, Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
35 years back I got married to a person I imagined, I loved him.After some meetings, when I said I do not want to marry him, he told me that he will shoot me with the gun he possessed and shoot himself later. I thought if he does that my sisters who are 5 in number will be affected since I was the older one and I did not want my parents to go through all the questioning later on. Then I said yes and now we have completed 35 years. He is very possessive, sometimes very rude but now I live for my daughter and son. If I had stood by my word then? I cannot imagine. Aisa bhi hota hai.

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BILAL, riyadh
Sun, Jun 02 2013
STORY IS INCOMPLETE.....
BUT ANYWAY BETTER THAN RAPE..!!!

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Boy Stabbed girl. Only girl's name changed. If the boy's name was also changed like PREM (Salman Khan) or VIJAY (Amitabh) then there will be less than 10 comments in this forum. Anybody agree with me?

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Roshan Braganza, Mumbai
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Amidst above such incidents , only boys are blamed by society and media . Physical assault is wrong , but no one knows real reason. I seriously do not thing it as ` first sight kind ` of crush , may be they involed since long time. The girls are very intelligent in switching sides and creating a ` story`. But we can also see such girls , getting married at age as young as fourteen ( not illegal since courts have quashed charges upon consent of girl ) . Education does not stop , some continue even after marriege.

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Dear Eskey,

just add some flavour to the incident. That's all.

I have made a note of your view point.

It's raining in M'lore, chil out.

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Dear Flavian, I am right in the middle of the rain. rain.... rain... everywhere, Mangalore to Udupi. Hot in-between the rains. Trying to Chill out without smoke and drink (swalpa Gandhi type mahraayre!!)

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Yamby, Qatar / Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
rizwan, Dubai/MangaloreSunday, June 02, 2013
...Love at first sight !!!

No, Love @ Knife Point....

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rizwan, Dubai/Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Yamby, Qatar/Mangalore
After the incident, the culprit is OUT OF SIGHT....

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Sathish.R.S, Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Dear Bolluji,
Its Heavily raining at Bangalore, due to Congress rule ??? It was Draught few year back due to BJP rule ?? does it mean so??.... Are you so badly and blindly politically brainwashed?.. its easy to rule India to any party, as long as Bollus are there......

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HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain
Sun, Jun 02 2013
One sided affair wanted to marry by force and stabbing innocent girl , what a stupid attitude. Beat up the loser... beat in to an inch of his life before presently him in court..

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Irshad Shaikh, Udupi/Dubai
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Better gilrs take Karate classes for self deffence. I dont think these type of incidents will stop.
Love ke liye saala KUCH BHI KAREGA???
Bollu ee vonthe manipande kullu.

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Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait
Sun, Jun 02 2013
The Article says:

"Abdul, who saw her from a distance, approached her and expressed his love and asked her to marry him."

Isn't it so riduculous that the love developes on the spot (love at first sight and advances follow) or they were having secret contacts with each other over the time.?

By the way, where are our Mangalore
Heroes ? Conducting back stage
study or scared of Moral polices?

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Dear Flavian, please do not invite moral police again. I am sure the Girl (or her parents) must have given a police complaint. Let police investigate and take appropriate action. No moral police nor 'kundapur' justice anymore.

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Ted, Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Direct result of watching too many Telugu Movies.

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juliet mascarenhas, bejai mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Bhandargar maam,
Bollu ne aapko banaya ullu.Thode din me aap banega gollu.Kya shairi maara he yaar.Jaane do.
Looks there is shortage of girls in Jharkand.

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rizwan, Dubai/Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
...Love at first sight !!!

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sunnylara, bangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
i think he is inspired from movie age is 17

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SAFWAN, SHAHAMA/uae
Sun, Jun 02 2013
He is a tile mason, He want to assemble the hearts like tiles.
“Mere photo ko seene se yaar, chipkale saiyaan Fevicol se
Fevicol se.. Fevicol se..”
He tried it. Unsuccefull love ended in crime.
Now the time for Jharkhand man to learn some Karnataka art lessons from Udupi Police!!!!!!!!!

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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Sun, Jun 02 2013
I am glad that she took the courage to converse with him and boldly refuse his advancing. The men had their attention on fishing - whats wrong with it ?

I wish she was even bolder, a self-defense trained lioness - he would have got his jaws broken !

I wish the girl a speedy recovery.

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Leslie Fernandes, Brahmagiri, Udupi
Sun, Jun 02 2013
BEING BORN AS BEAUTIFUL AND ATTRACTIVE ALSO BECOMES A CURSE AT TIMES.
SAD INCIDENT INDEED.
GIRL HAS SUFFERED PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY FOR NO FAULT OF HERS.

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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Bollu,

The brother and uncle of this girl is too, just like you, thought the government will take care of the girl !

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ravi, dubai
Sun, Jun 02 2013
very sad news...pls gv him the same punsihment let him feel the pain.same punishment should be there for the same crime

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Rajesh Dsouza, Mangalore/Dubai
Sun, Jun 02 2013
This is effect of TV, films and social network. Now a days most of the youth doesnt know the family values and also parents are not going to teach them all about this.

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Bollu, Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Person from 'Jharkand' entered so interior to 'Ambalpady'..Really strange..!! Where are our all people..may be draining in 'Gadang'...!! Reason behind gals shine in all exams..is due to boys only after 'love'..!! What's happening in 'congress rule' god only knows..somebody keep 'door' open at 11.30 p.m..!!!

Begani Love Mein Abdul Deewana..
Kaise Samjhau..Mushkil Hai Samjana..

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Paul, Mangalore/Dubai
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Mr. Bollu,
You are fit for ur name. Your comment as no sense. What politics has to do this love story ?He expressed his love because the girl refused he stabbed .Nor congress told the girl to refuse nor told the boy to express his love. Think when you comment

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Paul sir, please give this kind of advice ALSO to congress supporters who drag BJP & Sangh pariwar in all bad issues happening in our coastal districts. We thank you Sir

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Nawaz, Udupi
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Mr.Bollu, eer school potijjeraa??? Even Jharkand is in India. He doesn't need visa to enter Ambalpadi. Please write sensibly!!!

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ESKEY, UDUPI
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Why in all 'stab for love' stories, FISH is common? Something is fishy isn't it Bhandarkarmam?

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ನ್ಯಾಯಕ್ಕಾಗಿ , ಅಬುಧಾಬಿ / ಉಬಾರ್
Sun, Jun 02 2013
highly condemnable act if its true... during the conversation between two fellows, what her brother n uncle were doing? were they waiting to get stabbed? don't know the other face of the coin..

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CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DXB-SHARJAH
Sun, Jun 02 2013
SUBHAN ALLAH..!LOVE IS BLIND..ISQE..ISQE..ME KUTCH BHI HOTHA HAI..

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Bollu, Mangalore
Sun, Jun 02 2013
Love after all is a sacrifice...
It won't struck in mind..to damage..the person you loved the most..!!
Now-a-days not able to understand what type of love..!!
Devare Balla..Love cannot be achieved by force..!!
Very sad to learn a delhi gal died due to acid attack in mumbai..

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