Bangalore: Misuse of dowry law by women a serious concern


Bangalore: Misuse of dowry law by women a serious concern

Daijiworld Media Network – Bangalore (EP)

Bangalore, Oct 13: The law prohibiting dowry harassment is meant to protect the woman from torture of her husband and in-laws. Sadly though, the law has been grossly misused repeatedly for vicious motives.

Several dowry harassment cases lodged in the court in the last two years have been quashed in the court for lack of evidence and a good many of them are found to be false, clearly indicating that the law against dowry harassment is being misused by many women and their families against the husbands.

Among the 21,669 dowry harassment cases filed during 2011 to August 2013, as many as 7,220 are found to be false. Of the the remaining 14,449 cases, some are still in the investigation stages, while in some others, the chargesheets yet to be filed.

The police are not sure how many of them will lead to punishment of the guilty. While witnesses have hesitated to give their statements in some cases, there are some which are found to be false in the preliminary stages itself due to lack of evidence.

Significantly, most of the cases are lodged by employees of IT and BT.

The laws that have come into force to safeguard the interests of women and prevent their harassment, are being used by the women to harass men. The Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code is being misused the most, making the men and their families the scapegoats.

State director general of police, Lalrokhuma Pachau has said that it is the duty of the police to lodge a complaint when a person or a woman comes to the police station and complains of injustice.

When it is discovered that the complaint is unfounded, the suspects are released, but it takes years, putting the persons through utmost mental, if not physical agony. In some other instances, even though the complaint looks to be genuine at the onset, police fail to get suitable witnesses and the cases get quashed in the court for inability to prove the guilt.


The responsibility of organizations and the police

The state has seven thousand women's organizations. Four thousand of them are in Bangalore alone. Some organizations wait for such opportunities. If family disputes are taken to them, compromise in the family becomes difficult. A private TV channel recently reported about such organizations. Though a complaint was registered in the police station against them, nothing happened.
 
Before granting permission to an organization, the departments concerned should verify its credentials. The work done by the organizations in the name of social service should also be scrutinized.
 
Those who register complaints of dowry harassment normally complain of harassment by the family. The complaint aims to send the entire family of the man to the prison. Such complaints have increased these days.


Supreme Court's concern

The Supreme Court, in fact had expressed concerns over the increasing number of dowry harassment cases in courts across the country and asked the central government to have a re-look on the law dealing with such cases.

The court observed that most of the complaints under Section 498 A of the IPC are filed in the heat of the moment over trivial issues without proper deliberations, filed with oblique motive. At the same time, the court said that a rapid increase in the number of genuine cases of dowry harassment is also a matter of serious concern.

  

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  • pradeep, Udupi

    Sun, Mar 22 2015

    your apology on social media has no meaning unless you set right the damage you caused to the fellow living souls. The latter is considered as true repentance. Fear God, He is watching everything, He will judge your wickedness if you do not set things right with souls you have harassed/tormented. You cannot bribe God with any materials to wash your sin, but only with true and honest repentance substantiated with apology, and confession only to the souls you have tormented.

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  • Santosh, Bangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2015

    Is there any committee to help husbands in these matters in bangalore are law in India is against husbands.

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  • Gurnam, jind,Haryana

    Sat, Dec 27 2014

    Can man demand gujara bhata during defance in dowry or divorce cause.

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  • Dipen patel, gujarat

    Tue, Nov 11 2014

    Hello all i read above all and my bad luck is that i am currently suffering from the same and my family too.my wife had gone to her parents since a month now my father in law asking for divorce if i am not giving it then he told me to break my legs and will file for domestic violence and dowry now i am helpless .and very bad thing is that today is my 1st marriage anniversary.i feeel that i am really a person with bad luck that i found this people as in laws.how depressed we are that i know.but still have hope on law i hope law will help me in clean cheat as i am a not in fault till date

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  • rajesh, vadodara,gujarat india

    Mon, Oct 20 2014

    my wife and his father give me warning to i have to pay them 25lakh inr otherwise they file 498A fake dowry case just friday they make agasit my all family NC applicatin to police station and when we go there he told us police his supportter so they no afraid to police butthey told police them friend now may be this time diwali vacation we can't do anything please try to suppport me and give me your mobile no and give me best idea to protect my family actually my wife is carachter less that she accepted from india and still i am in saudi arbia but my mother sister and brother in india that's why his father black mail me and my family i want to requst to you please as soon as possible help me by anyway i have ni time to do any good thing only support and give me some good idea and i have all proof agaist my wife but my sasur father in law only gie me warning to my family by blackmaik becasue he told me police sp his friend so he can make fake case to me

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  • Prashant Gupta, New Delhi

    Tue, Sep 30 2014

    498a has become really dangerous. it is like a weapon without safety lock.I have seen cases when husband got bail after jail but after that girl stopped to come to court and poor husband and his family is coming on every date because otherwise their bail will be cancelled. Court is just waiting for girl to appear and giving another date.

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  • gupta m, Lucknow

    Wed, Sep 10 2014

    498a must be made non-cognizable & bailable. Initial harassment of husband's family encourages wives to book them in fake 498a case. Wife tries to let husband 'n his family knee down against her wicked and unlawful demands. Women must demand share in their parent's property and oppose their parents to give dowry. No parents want to give their daughters share in their property but are always ready to give gifts in the name of dowry. Dowry givers must also be punished.

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  • rajesh , vadodara

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    my wife and my father in law give me warning i have to give them 25 lakh or they fill against me and my family fake dowry case please help me to give some good suggestion .

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  • Avinash Gupta, Mumbai

    Sun, Aug 31 2014

    Y wife has been harrassing by filing many times false dowry case although poloce gave cleqn chit then shee approachd courtfor DV And again 498a. Such wen shall be punished for false complain and put behind bars so others cant tk Iit for granted to misuse. It should be made madatory during marriage that all the gifts from either side shal be d and submitted alongwith with marriage certificate from both bride and grooms as nowadays groom apend more than abride in many cases .498a shall be aboliahed n it should b categorised between states and educated and seeing the family background of groom otherwise when it comes to equality of ma and women than y there is no law for man to prevent harrassment from wife. Its a very aerious concern and such women are spoiling the culture of the nation and also their own children by creating negativity in the mind of children against father and not allowing to meet them which is torture on both father and son.

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  • Mahesh, Bangalore

    Sat, Aug 09 2014

    Rina,
    There is right time to take the wrong people down. And wrong people will never stay up for long time by misusing the laws. So all we have to do is have patience and strike the people misusing law at right time with no mercy.

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  • Rajnish, Delhi

    Sun, Jun 22 2014

    Yes I agree with your comments then only these types of false allegations will stop

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  • Prashant kumar , begusarai/bihar

    Mon, Jun 16 2014

    Yes I agree woman's misusing dowry law.
    I suffering from this type of case..
    I m only 20 year old....
    I am acused of child marriage....
    Plz help me... My family is suffering from mental torture

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  • NEERAJ SINGH, DELHI

    Sat, May 24 2014

    misuse of dowry law by women, bangaloreMonday, May 19, 2014
    My family is going through the same problem v have false dowry n harassment case on us by my wife in law n her family its really a mental torture

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  • ABHISHEK, SILIGURI

    Fri, May 23 2014

    MY in-laws and wife are misusing the law to harass us. They are torturing us mentally.

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  • cs vishwanath, bangalore

    Fri, May 23 2014

    498A should be regd after through enquiry and verification of veracity of complaint. Law makers should amend this urgently.

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  • misuse of dowry law by women, bangalore

    Mon, May 19 2014

    My family is going through the same problem v have false dowry n harassment case on us by my daughter in law n her family its really a mental torture

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  • saurav, delhi

    Sat, Jun 14 2014

    sir we are with u.sir we have a trust and we can help u my contact no is 09654663722

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  • Suresh, Bangalore

    Tue, May 06 2014

    I have been noticed, By using dowry rich peoples will harass their son in laws and many girls are doing all illegal activities affairs and their husbends are to just keep quite. If the boy asks dowary then they should complaint before marriage after marriage to missuse this law is absoultely wrong, If the dowary taken by Boy if it is proved then only the boy should be punished why it is arrested to hole family and put them in prision till the Bail is going to be given

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  • Rakesh, Shimoga

    Sat, Mar 22 2014

    Yes, I strongly agree that 498 is being misused and men, and his family are mentally tortured. Supreme court and central govt plz help all Men and his family.

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  • vedamurthy.p, nelamangala

    Tue, Feb 11 2014

    What a law?living in mother in laws house by threatening and a case 498A! is it the law of India?that too from 5 years case not yet solved though i got divorce!this law only put more weight to advocates(Not all lawyers r like this but to search them in torch light)

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  • Punishment for misuse, Bangalore

    Thu, Jan 23 2014

    Where there is a punishment for guilty, there should be equal punishment for the false accusers. This way it is win-win for both sides.

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  • nimmy, chennai

    Fri, Nov 22 2013

    We are also victims of false dowry and domestic violence laws. My daughter in-law is seperated from my son for over a year and a half. Now she gives complaint of domestic violence, few months earlier she complained for dowry harassment and it was proved false.I hope the laws protect both the genders equally.

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  • niranjan, gulbarga

    Thu, Nov 21 2013

    Respected sir, my wife has lodged a false dowry case against me my sister and mom. i am passing through a very critical stage. They just want to threaten me for this reason they are doing like this. But i am suffering from mental harassment.

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  • Amit, Pune

    Tue, Nov 19 2013

    Appreciate that you have the guts to admit your fault in public.
    But it does not lessen the pain that your husband must have gone through.
    It does not let the truth come out that law is to bring justice and not to appease women.
    It does not let the truth come out that extortion in the name of failed marriage continues unabated.
    It does not awaken our LEJ (Legislature, utive and Judiciary) to the fact that the provision of s.498A being role based(for wife and not women) is role based and not gender based and hence, unconstitutional.
    It does not lessen the destruction that husbands go in the name of buying peace.

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  • satya, indira nagar

    Mon, Nov 18 2013

    This law like 498a is only being MISUSED by educated ladies..should remove this law to save nation.
    I saw 10 cases in my IT company and found all of them 200% fase and girl has files just to satiate her ego and jide her extramarital affair which was found..

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  • Mallampati Suresh, Bangalore

    Fri, Oct 18 2013

    always all the failed marriages attracts section 498a.

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  • Naveen, Moodbidri

    Thu, Oct 17 2013

    This is a serious and unfortunate issue affecting husbands and in laws whenever the marriage goes sour.Many women today do not think twice before harassing husbands and in-laws with false dowry, domestic violence,abuse cases.I know of an incident where a woman in my locality has lodged a false case of abuse against her NRI husband and aged in-laws to extort money and seek revenge.It is unfortunate that the courts admit such cases and thanks to our lengthy judicial process innocent people are harassed no end.Hope the laws change in the near future and such misuse of law is strictly dealt with and punished.

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  • Ethan Avidhan Hans, Florida/ mangalore

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    Use this law on the offenders IPC 405. Criminal breach of trust. Whoever, being in any manner entrusted with property, or with any dominion over property, dishonestly misappropriates or converts to his own use that property

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  • Deepika Bhardwaj, gurgaon

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    I am a woman...a sister and a friend of several thousand people who are victims on abuse of this law. People have lost lives due to this menace but no one is bothered. Is this the empowerment feminists wanted to bring in our country??? Are mothers sisters not women? End of this law shall come soon. My documentary Martyrs of Marriage is an effort towards that. write to me at martyrsofmarriage@gmail.com to share your story.

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  • Devraj Panda, Sonepur

    Tue, Feb 25 2014

    Women cheat , Her father & mother cheat and make fool to a man ,after that any problem occur due to cheating they take help of 498

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  • Friend, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    It is not the wife, but lawyers who rake up the issue (exploitng weak condition of a distressed lady) & encourage ladies to book a false case against her husband & in-laws.
    Recently one of my friend's wife approached a lawyer (in car street) and he exploited her weakness and made sure that the family with minor differences has broken into major pieces. He asked the lady to prepare forged papers in a clinic for domestic violence & asked her to file FIR in Barke police station.
    My friend loved his wife too much and also kept all his wealth in his wife's name. Lawyer advised the lady to abandon the house with all wealth, valuable & children when her husband is away on business. This lady done the same. When my friend (husband) returned, he found his home abandoned and waiting police (SI Poovappa of Barke police station) arrested him, his sister & his parents. My friend & friend's sister both lost the job on this account & also lost the name in the society. Now he is away from his wife, children, wealth, house, even job to earn his bread. His old parents (75 age) are also become like mad people after undergoing these pains. Finally, a family is ruined. Children also suffered & will continue to suffer throughout their life.

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  • myluv, kerala

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    But who is going to bell the cat? That the law knows so called women are spoiling the the family with this law.Still the law itself is keeping quite.i read some has commented that he had money to pay the gal and her family is having a good time with his money in dubai.He had money so came out by paying the amount.think of the family who loose their dear ones laying their life because they cant fight the case inspite of being genuine.Who cant see their face of the beloved one before they are laid to rest.They fear the arrest and stay back in the place where they work (abroad)I am myself a victim.That is why i can feel the pain.I feel ashamed to say tht i am a women...each day i wake up with a fear of hearing any bad news from my brother...

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  • Rina, Bangalore

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    We may be the weaker souls but Luckily only we WOMEN are always above the Law.!!

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  • P.Ravi Suvarna, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 16 2013

    Rina, I think you would agree that " it take two hands for a clap " !

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Yes , some genuine news thread on this site ( after usual , useless and one sided women issues ). Atleast this issue now coming in public forum , and victims are more of women itself ( aged mother in laws and sister in laws ). I hope something positive will come out in coming years. as of now one needs to be very carefull about this issue , blood sucking wamps are already in market. Always e have prenupital agreement and legal documents in dowry issues , always rely on third party witness . Note your spouses weakness , u can manifest this in someform later. There are some clauses in law ( gender neutral ) , where one can fake incidents ( acid attacks ) , which can be equaliser for false complaints . And lastly having migrating islamic country or far eastern latin countries is also very good option , as men have more rights here. India is loosing ground as feminist country , thanx for media frenzy and propaganda.

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  • Radhakrishna Khandige, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Sheela Madam, Have U repaired the damage caused?If there was a damage by ur act of taking adventage of mere law,is it not ur moral duty to setright it? Do u think I am wrong in asking this eventhough Iam not a party in ur family mater. Apology has got more value and meening if the problem is settled on the basis of moral grounds!

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  • Radhakrishna Khandige, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Sheela Madam, Have U repaired the damage caused?If there was a damage by ur act of taking adventage of mere law,is it not ur moral duty to  set  it right? Do u think I am wrong in asking this eventhough Iam not a party in ur family mater. Apology has got more value and meening if the problem is settled on the basis of moral grounds!

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  • P S Shetty, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    ಅತ್ತೆಗೊಂದು ಕಾಲ ಸೊಸೆಗೊಂದು ಕಾಲ. ಗಂಡಿಗೊಂದು ಕಾಲ ಹೆಣ್ಣಿಗೊಂದು ಕಾಲ.
    ಮೊದಲೆಲ್ಲಾ ಅತ್ತೆ & ಗಂಡ ಕೂಡಿ ನಿಸ್ಸಾಹಾಯಕ ಹೆಂಡತಿಯನ್ನು ವರದಕ್ಷಿಣೆಗಾಗಿ ಕೆರೋಸಿನ್ ಹಾಕಿ ಸುಡುತ್ತಿದ್ದರು. ಈಗ ಹೆಂಡತಿ ಸೇಡು ತೀರಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳುವ ಕಾಲ ಬಂದಿದೆ.
    ಆದರೆ ಭಾರತದಲ್ಲಿ ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಉತ್ತಮ ಕಾನೂನುಗಳೂ ದುರುಪಯೋಗ ಆಗುತ್ತಿವೆ, ಅದು ಮಾತ್ರ ದುರಾದೃಷ್ಟ.

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  • Kannan Puratchi kural, Chennai

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Planned destruction of family system using gender biased laws. Due to these false cases all the kids of those are forced to single parenting that too mostly with women. This is the major reason for current Juvenile crimes. We need:
    gender neutral laws,
    Speedy trial and finish the case within 6 months,
    false complainants has to be punished severely,
    men's ministry to analyze married mens suicided as it is double than married women suicides. This is as per NCRB data.

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  • Lavina Puri, Belgaum

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Why blame only the Women. Are Men saints in a marriage problem ?

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  • JOHN DSOUZA, MUMBAI/USA

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    I have been one of the Victim of this one sided law where me and my family were blamed for dowry harassment and false case charged against us and after paying huge Compensation to the girl and her lawyer the case was taken back as we could not fight this one side law and the case as we were all working in Gulf. Beware of such one sided laws and Girls whojust marry for making money using this one sided law and spoiling the reputation of Boys family and now that girl and her family member in Dubai enjoying life in my hard earned money as compensation. I have all the document were Police complaint was given and then we had to pay huge amount as compensation in lakhs. Thank God I am already of this case by paying huge amount as compensation. But feel sorry for Guys who don't have any monetary support what will be the life of their and family who cannot bear the expenses

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  • Sheela Kamath, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    To be very honest and taking advise from my lawyer in our divorce case, I used this law to my benefit ! Morally, I am wrong, and I sinfully apologise.

    The actual law is totally against the men folk which I truthfully agree.

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  • Rohan, BANGALORE

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    You women claim that you want gender equality whereas in reality you want female domination. I am glad that you accepted your fault. But you should be punished severely for this crime of false case. But in Indian legal system, women cannot be punished and men are the losers. Where is gender equality then?

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  • Sheela Kamath, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    I have personally and publicly apologised in MY CASE through these columns. I have been honest. Hence please do not rake up my issue. It may / could be different with the other Women / men. May God bless you all.

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  • Deepika Bhardwaj, gurgaon

    Mon, Oct 14 2013

    I appreciate Sheela dat u have the guts to accept it. Very few women do. But can u come on a public forum and say this? Can u speak this on a national television? If yes let me know. I am making a film on 498a misuse and would like to present your views in that. Contact me at martyrsofmarriage@gmail.com

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  • vinay, bangalore

    Sun, Feb 02 2014

    Its strongly agreed. then where is the equality

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  • Sathish Shetty, Mangalore/Dubai

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Kamath,
    yes you have done the mistake, but how many persons have courage to accept it.

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  • Prashanth, Bangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    Woman can make and break the family.No matter how powerful man may be in society but he will stumble infront of woman power.Unique creation and greatest mystery.Man never understood woman since her creation and never be.

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  • Ummar, Udupi / Dubai

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    absolutely right.
    most of the women misuses the law for their safe separation from the marriage.
    Reason for the false cases
    1. Hide their extra martial affairs
    2. Lack of freedom
    3. Feel the injustice
    4. Neglected from husband and his family
    5. Not happy with joint family
    6. Unhappy in sexual life
    so to come out of these problems just blame husband and in-laws in the name of dowry harassment and get sympathy from relatives and society and get road open for future.

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  • Abdul Rafiq, Uchila / Dubai

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    First, please make dowry system legal in India. whatever giving & taking during the marriage, should be registered and documented through the Notary, police station or court. In case of divorce, groom should return everything to her whatever he have taken as a dowry. Secondly, if a woman filed a dowry harassment case against her husband, and later if it proves that complaint is false, then she should be punished. No one should be allowed to misuse the law.

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  • Ramchandra Kini, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 13 2013

    The Women should be punished with 10 yrs RI for a false complaint in a divorce or normal matter.

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