In death, 43-year-old Nandini gifts lease of life to 3 others


Mumbai, Aug 7 (Mid-day) When Mulund resident Sreeram Gopal lost his 43-year-old wife Nandini a day after she suffered a headache and convulsions, his world came crashing down around him.

Even as he grieved for the sudden and unexpected loss, Gopal now finds some comfort in the fact that his wife will live on, in the lives of others. Less than a day after she was declared brain dead due to cerebral bleeding, Gopal and other family members decided to donate her organs, saving three lives in the process.

“My wife Nandini was admitted on Thursday. The very next day, doctors informed us that she was brain dead and wouldn’t make it. We immediately decided to donate both her kidneys, liver and eyes, since she had always been keen on organ donation,” said Sreeram.

“Why let her organs go to waste when we could help other patients? Since she always said she would want us to donate her organs in case anything happened, it was the right thing to do,” he added. Nandini, who worked as an HR consultant with a private firm, died from cardio-respiratory arrest. Her eyes have been donated to an eye bank.

Of the three women who got a new lease on life because of the donations, one was a 28-year-old woman admitted in Bombay Hospital, in need of a kidney. The two other beneficiaries a 47-year-old woman with a chronic kidney disease and a 72-year-old woman with liver cirrhosis had been on the waiting list in Fortis Hospital, said Santosh Sorate, transplant coordinator of the hospital.

Speaking to mid-day, Dr Haresh Dodeja, nephrologist at the hospital, said, “The 47-year-old woman was on dialysis for the past six years due to a chronic kidney disease. She was on the waiting list for quite a while, and finally had her kidney transplant after the donation. Her condition is stable now.”

The 72-year-old recipient who was suffering from liver cirrhosis will now get another shot at life, after receiving the liver. Dr Rakesh Rai, head of the liver transplant programme at the hospital, said she is now under observation in the ICU following the transplant, and that her condition is also stable.

Too little, too far apart

Dr N K Hase, head of the nephrology department at KEM hospital, said that it has been two months since the last cadaveric donation in the civic-run hospital. “The sad part is that there were three brain dead patients in our hospital in the last one month, but their families refused to donate organs of their patients, though our counsellors repeatedly approached them. There still needs to be more awareness among people to increase the number of cadaver transplants,” said Dr Hase.

Healthy rise

While there were only 20 donations in Mumbai all of 2013, the city has already witnessed 27 cadaver organ donations this year. The highest number of donations before this year was in 2012, when there were 26 cadaver donors, said an official from the Zonal Transplant Coordination Centre (ZTCC).

Despite this, Mumbai is lagging far behind other cities like Chennai, where there are around 80 cadaveric donations every year. Experts say that there is still little awareness among patients and relatives about organ donations, and how it can save lives of those in dire need of transplants.
  

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  • subhashini, chennai

    Thu, Aug 14 2014

    It is really wonderful of the family of Nandhini to have done this generous donation of compassion even at their worst hour of grief.May god protect Nandhinis husband and children and give them peace and courage.May Nandhinis soul rest in peace.

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  • john sequeira, mangaloremarcohydraulic mangalore

    Fri, Aug 08 2014

    may the god RIP...

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  • Stany D'sa, Balehonnur/Dubai

    Fri, Aug 08 2014

    The greatest sacrifice by Nandini. Choicest blessings of AlMighty God to Nandini-Sreeram Gopal & family for generations to come.

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  • M.K., Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 08 2014

    Great Job.

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  • sr.Evelyn Benis , Belthangady

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    You are an inspiration Mr.Sriram Gopalji. God Bless you for this noble task

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  • YESHAVANTH GOPAL SHETTY, M'LORE

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    True Example of 'Service to Mankind'.
    I only wish this to have an exponential growth in awareness and practical Donation in the service of the needy Patients ,from all Citizens in the larger interest of Humanity.
    May the Great Sacrificial Soul rest in peace for what her Husband and other relatives have done by taking a Bold and wise decision.
    Hats off to U,Sreeram Gopalji.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Many years back, in Mumbai, a young woman was thrown out from 1st floor owing to dowry. She had a 6 month's son. In the hospital she begged them to bring the child, because she longed to see him, but they never brought the child to her. When she knew that she would die, she wrote like this:
    "I want to donate my eyes, so that after my death, these eyes may be able to see my son at least once".

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  • Clifford, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    You gave without expecting...
    You are great....

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  • SUNDAR KARITHOTA , HALEANGADI

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    The donation of organ is used for a real needy it is ok. Some people donate for good cause but in hospitals if the donated organs are sold for money, they should be strictly punished. There should be a law to prevent sale of Human organs.

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  • CHARLES SALDANHA, MALAD-MALWANI

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    I STILL REMEMBER A KANNADA MOVIE NAMED CHIRANJEEVI WHICH I SAW AROUND 35 YEARS BACK WHERE A DYING SMALL BOY DONATES HIS EYES TO SOMEONE AND GETS A SECOND LIFE.SURELY NANDINI IS NOT DEAD SHE IS STILL LIVING IN THIS WORLD

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  • raman, UDUPI

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Make a link to site where we can donate oragns and should have card for same. saw one in reliance supermarket of city center in mlore three years back. Should have such cards in all city markets. CSR part of malls.

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  • vellano1, Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Faith in Humanity restored!!! such noble thoughts and actions!! World is beautiful because of such people.. :)

    May her soul rest in peace! and if possible, please do come back again, Nandini! :)

    special thanks to Gopal, considering a swift decision taken, at this trying time, where half of us will be numb, thinking what has hit us, when our close ones die..!...:)

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Jho Markar Bhi Jeehe Hai Usko Hum Bazigar Kehte Hai ...

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  • John Pinto, Chickmagalur /Doha

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    It is a noble cause to donate organs instead our organs perishing in the soil / fire , It is a humble cause as we see the lives living after our death .

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  • alwyn d,souza, mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    HATS OFF TO MR GOPAL YOU ARE THE ONE LIKE LIVING SAINT IN THIS WORLD VERY FEW PEOPLE LIKE GOPAL WE PRAY FOR THE DEPARTED SOUL AND MAY GOD BLESS GOPAL AND HIS FAMILY

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  • Walter Appos, Kuwait

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE , A VERY GOOD TEACHING ,FOR ALL OF US
    GOD BLESS THE FAMILY .

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  • Shiva, Udupi / Qatar

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Hats off to your Noble Cause. RIP to departed soul.

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  • Lily Grace, Mangalore/Mumbai/Dubai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Dear Gopal, Hats off to you. Your determination to fufil Nandini's wish is marvellous. And Nandini, you left a memory forever in our hearts. Its a lesson to all of us. May your soul rest in peace and may God give strength to Gopal and family to bear this loss. God Bless you.

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  • KUMARASWAMY, MANGALORE

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    GREAT WORK BY NANDINI & HER FAMILY. EVERYBODY SHOULD DO THIS.

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  • ROBOT KEM, INDIA

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Dear Nandini and Shreeram, you are the ROLE MODEL to our present society. because of such these few people's (known & unknown) way of thinking/living, the whole world/humanity is being saved.
    GOD BLESS ALL SUCH HUMANS

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  • sr. rose agnes ac, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Great inspiration Mr.Gopal. God bless you and your family.
    Prayers. sr.rose agnes

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  • Clarence, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Even though you are no more in this world you will always be remember by these three women got new life. What a great job to give new life to others. A big Salute and RIP dear Nandini Sis.

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  • Ida Noel DSouza, Kulshekar / Dubai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    God bless Nandini's family.

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  • RP, Mlore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    God bless the family for their noble gesture.

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  • Prathibha Anil, Pumpwell

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    hats off u madam.

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  • Norman, Dubai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    "Life is short.. Make That Sweet".. The wonderful work done by herself and by her husband. what a noble gesture.may her soul rest in peace. May God bless their family.

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  • ZAMEER, UDIPI

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Wahha ... you teach us there are so many ways to live in this world, Nandini you and your family gift, a lesson to world those who feels "JUG JUG JEO..AMEEN"

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  • Alban D Souza , Udyavara (Bajjodi) Mumbai DOha Qatar

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    In giving we receive -Lord Jesus Christ said and u will live for ever. The great act of Nandini even she died by body live in spirit for ever. She never died but lives. May Almighty God bless her family and rest her soul in peace. Such people are saints unselfish and live for others.

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  • VITTAL SHETTY, MANGALORE/ABUDHABI

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Nandini is still alive.God Bless you Sriram and your family.

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  • Lawrence D Souza, bangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Today in TIMES OF INDIA NEWS Paper also mention Pope Benedict XVII "Organ Donation is a special from of witness to LOVE ... In a period like ours marked by selfishness, it is ever more urgent to understand ... Logic of free giving is vital to a correct conception of life as Jesus has taught us, only whoever gives one's own life can save it." PRAISE THE LORD

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  • Anil Dmello, Nakre, Mira Road, Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    What a wonderful act. What a kid thought. What a noble gesture. Nandini will live for ever in the minds of not just three people who have received the organs but in the minds all those who have appreciated this act of kindness.

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  • Mangalorian, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    No words to comment,,,only I will say

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  • Michael Noronha, Mysore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    May Jesus bless Sreeram Gopal and family for this great act of kindness amidst the sorrow of losing a dear one.

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  • joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    What a wonderful act. What a kid thought. What a noble gesture. Nandini will live for ever in the minds of not just three people who have received the organs but in the minds all those who have appreciated this act of kindness.

    Joe Gonsalves

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    It is indeed a very good act by Nandini's husband. My cousin Francis Aranha, Santacruz, Mumbai had given in writing while he was alive that his full body be used for organ donation and research. When he died some months ago, his body was taken by KEM hospital and we do not know how many organs were donated and all that since nothing returned. No funeral since there was no body. Only months Mass was held. I salute Francis.

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  • Rahul Kumar, Mangalore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Nandini you are an Angel sent from heaven.

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  • Vanesa Gomes, Mumbai

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    How do we put our self on the donor list? I would like to donate my organs when dead.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Extending my heartfelt sympathy to the Family of Nandini,I extend my wishes to them at the same time.It is mostly Family members who hesitate to donate organs .One way they feel loss of their Family member,other-side by donating they feel one way again doing injustice through the Body opening etc.may be.People have to still get used this.or they may think of other blood ,cast .who knows.well now the Nandini lives in other People s Body giving them quite new Chance and life. Respect to the Family even in their mourning had the Kind heart towards the sick.

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  • Achhu, M,lore

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Dead body feels Pain, it is scientifically proved..

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Nandini lives on even after her death. Praise worthy job done by Nandini & her husband. This reflects a positive change in society's mindset towards organ donation. May Almighty God bless her family & rest her soul in peace.

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  • leslie, udupi

    Thu, Aug 07 2014

    Life is a strange game...
    One looses and others stand to gain...
    However near relatives are having really great hearts...
    God still dwells among us...

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