Kundapur: Dowry harassment : 28 -year-old Anitha ends life


Silvester Dsouza
Daijiworld Media Network – Kundapur (RJP)

Kundapur, Oct 6: A married woman has committed suicide consuming poison after going through harassment from her husband for a long time.

The deceased Anitha Devadiga (28) is the daughter of Heriya and Sesi Devadiga. The incident has taken place at Senapura, Gangolli. The husband Bhaskar Devadiga from saligrama works for the high court as a clerk.



















During the wedding of the deceased two and half years back, the family of Bhaskar Devadiga had demanded 25 sovereigns of gold in dowry. But Anitha’s family provided much more than demanded to keep the daughter happy. But after a month from the wedding, Bhaskar and his elder brother started asking for more. They even went to the extent of asking Anitha for Rs. 10 lakhs.

A year and half back Anitha was sent to her maternal home at Senapura. But she was never taken back to her husband’s house after that. Bhaskar only visited her occasionally from Bangalore where he worked. But that was only to harass her for money.

Bhaskar had come last week to pick a fight with the wife. The fight ended with a bodily assault on the wife when she threatened that she would end her life if such treatment continued. The husband said he would not care.

And on Monday evening, Anitha consumed poison to breathe her last eventually. Gangolli police have registered a case against Bhaskar Devadiga.

  

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  • Nita, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    If there is a demand for "Dowry", its definite threat to a daughters life.

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  • Jason, Mangaloe

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    No comments because all these people agree with dowry system and probably love to trash women.
    mahendra shetty why aint you speaking? where are you hiding now? Are you ashamed because you too support this system?

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  • Joe Saldanha, Udupi/Santhekatte

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    Thank you Kuldesh. But your thoughts are empty. Do you know British stopped sati and also encouraged widow remarriage. Nobody trusts Indian History. It is like D.D. channel. Do you know besides sati, child abortion and devadasi system was in this culture. 20 years ago western countries banned sending ultrasound machines to India because they were used for such shameful acts. Are you ignorant about the rapes taking place in India? It is our duty to correct the defects and work hard to change it instead of sweeping the dirt under 'culture' carpet.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    if you dont support india history so be it.every one is entitled to thier own perception. that also includes british misconstrued facts which also comes under the ambit of your indian history.

    no one believes wikipedia and it has closed it operation bcoz when we ask for facts, it doesnt have any reliable data.

    "what british did in india was looting and twisting indian history, just that they cant tolerate greatness of indian history and included few evil acts done by few antisocial elements who were in higer echelons in india that time and tried to misinteprate that as indian history"

    yes,widow marriages act was passed in 25 july 1856.widow marriage system is good.everyone supports it.

    devadasi system dont have any mention in vedas or puranas.
    it was done by few anti social elements in the higher echelons of thier society just to cater to thier false ego.

    hindu religion never supports devadasi system nor ther is any mention of it in vedas or holy book.

    i have given you detailed explanation on "sati" system in my below comments
    with proofs.history is known connecting dots form past to present with logic.

    i m not simply commenting crap here rather have done intense research on this topic.

    i m not here to convince anybody.
    i want every hindus to
    know, how thier history have been twisted when they were in subjugation by british forces"

    good day thanks.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    you are taking about female foeticide issue w.r.t ultra sound machines.good topic.

    those who prefer male child and abort female child are pervert elements of the first order and should be given strict punishment by indian law.everyone agrees with this and no religion support this heinous crime.

    but no one should connect this pervert acts indulged by few illiterate,ignorant people to hindu dharma as it is said,

    killing foetus is a grave sin and people who indulge in such acts with ulterior motives will get the same punishment as those who kill people.

    period

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    mr joe,

    **regarding indian history**


    today in one of the leading bangalore english daily,
    there is a article titled:

    "largest harappan stepwell found in kutch "

    few excerpts from it:

    QUOTE:
    "a 5000 year old stepwell has been found in one of the largest harappan cities,dholavira in kutch.
    it is said to be 3 times bigger than great bath of mohenjadaro.

    located in the eastern reservoir of dholavira by experts from archeologocal survey of india,the site
    represents the largest,grandest and the best furnished ancient reservoir found in the country.

    experts will investigate the advanced huydaraulic engineering used by harappans to build stepwell"
    UNQUOTE

    just check how indans were advanced and had a fully sfunctional civilisation 5000 years ago.

    history can be misinteprated but archeological findings with modern day technologies like carbon dating
    etc cannot be misinteprated.
    good day,thanks.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    one last final explanation regarding widow marriage:

    i agree widow marriage bill was passed in 1856.

    just bcoz britishers passed the bill, widow marriage didnt started immediatly started in india.
    widow mariages system started at arround 1960's,more than a decade after britishers left india.

    it was started not bcoz of british bill, but bcoz, people realized that its not right for widow or widower to waste thier future life if they are in the prime of thier age and accepted this which is 100% correct decision.


    if the widower has the right to remarry if he is prime age,then widow also has the same right.infact
    widow or widower marriage should be supported by everyone.
    period.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    mr joe,there may be dirt in few people mind who may have indulged in this acts but just bcoz of few perverts who indulge in antisocial acts,it does not mean they represent
    indian culture or religion .
    as no such things are mentioned or or supported in our scriptures.
    period.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    mr joe gonslaves,

    according to united nations report a year back:

    in usa 80500 rapes occur in a year
    and is also higher in the list of racial discrimination towards blacks.

    have you forget recent shooting of a black guy by white policeman in usa for no reason which evoked nationwide protest there where even pres obama had to intervene?

    in the same united nations report,in india 22500 rapes occur in india.

    india is a country with 130 crore people and usa with 30 crore people.

    rapes are done by those people with sick minds .

    dont assosicate those perverts with india or culture or for that matter any country or its culture.

    good day,thanks

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    @J .Gonsalves,Puttur,I have also a small incident to tell,because you say in C.community no dowry is asked.But they expect that parents give enough Gold and Money .well my Story goes so,A mangalorean Girl was engaged with a Boy working in Dubai in Bank,fixed marriage,invitation Cards were printed and date was fixed for marriage,people were invited.He was much particular to get good dowry because he is working in bank in Dubai.And now came the hit.girl and home People had agreed for it and given consent.Now about two to three days or so the Boy was not ready to marry ,saying they should give more and he cancelled the marriage .The Girl is well studied.I will not give more Details here.she is my neighbour.Now imagine ,what she must have felt.Damm this dowry and making Girls life miserable(and parents too)

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  • JR,

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    IF GIRLS OPT FOR SUCIDE THEN WHAT IS THE USE OF LAW?
    AS PER LAW MAN IS TOTALLY BENT ON WOO MEN ONCE HE GETS MARRIED.
    IT SEEMS SOMETHING HIDDEN IN THIS CASE.
    CAN WE BELIEVE SHE IS NOT WITH HUS BEND FOR 2YEARS.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    why cant you go and protest if you are a responsible citizen of this country?
    you should not ask one organisation to fight against all the ills in this society.
    responsible citizen(?) if u r ,should also join hands.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    reply to hubert

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  • Hubert D'souza, Mangalore Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    I Have Never Read Anywhere In Mangalore Any Organization Is Protected Or Saved Innocent Peoples,

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  • Jason, Mangaloe

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    Kuldesh,
    You guys only protest if a cattle is transported and vice versa, Why don't you protest for these kind of news or else at least educate people,
    i Never saw any protest when a virgin cow was raped, why wasn't there any protest for that?

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    "uppu tindavaru neeru kudiyalebeku"

    whoever does crime cannot escape the hands of justice,if not in earths court, then he he has to surely face gods court irrespective of his religion.

    whats the use of commenting?
    there are thousands of criminal act done by antisocial elements daily.
    so you expect sane people to comment and protest on each and every issue?
    then what for courts,police and people elected govts are for?lolz

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  • Hubert D'souza, Mangalore Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Cows Are More Precious than Humans!!!!!!!

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    No comments from:

    Dinesh Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru
    abhyankar, mumbai
    nagesh nayak, bangalore
    Raj, Mangalore
    India First, India
    KKR, Mangalore
    RSRB, Kundapura / Singapore
    j.anata, Mangaluru / Bengaluru
    Mahendra Shetty, Mumbai Mangalore

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    mr gonslaves,why they need to comment.

    dowry system is a cruel menace that has infiltrated in every religion though no religion supports it and those who indulge in it should be booked and put behind bars.

    police will do that if anybody done wrong.

    in recent times i have never heard taking dowry in hindu society as both the boy and girl are educated and are working.

    menace like dowry has rapidly decreased in hindu society.

    this is the first case i am hearing that too from a seemingly educated family.she should have gone to police and filed a case if there was dowry harassment instead of commiting suicide.

    modern educated women should not fear for anything wrong done to them as she is equal to men in all aspects.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    No comments from:

    Jeevan Mangalore

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Parents should file a case whenever they come to know about rather than waiting for things to change. Dirty minds will never change and somebody will loose life like this

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  • vinayak, mangalore / dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Poor life is gone for no reason. Bhaskar being a HC employee and having known the facts is nothing but a "a##hole". He is well aware of the dowry acts. Demanding dowry or harassing for dowry is a crime and can be booked under criminal case. May her soul RIP

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  • Agee, Indian - UAE

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Pity... Demand dowry is a very bad culture in Indian society...

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    I was not expecting HJV, BD, RS etc... on road today, protesting this incident, and they were not there too...

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  • Mann, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Prasad, Mangalore

    Do not forget he works in a Court as a CLERK...lucrative job!!
    Not only this house, such job holders can build many houses like this in shortest possible tenure.

    That is how the greed builds and entered in his family life too...
    demanded from wife more and more..
    Poor lady.

    Please, ladies facing similar problems in your husband's house, be bold, try and record their demands and go to police instead of meeting their demands, because there will not be any end to those demands from such husbands\in-laws.
    Presently there is no "shame" in returning to your parents house.
    Be strong in this particular matter otherwise it will affect you, your parents and other siblings severely.
    DO not hesitate to go to the Police...

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Its better to die rather than demanding dowry. Shame on all such people who want to enjoy life harassing others.May her soul rest in peace and let her husband spend her time in jail

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  • concerned 1, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    We proudly announce our culture of torturing women for more and more dowry (Although it is illegal).
    May this culture widely spread not only in India but also world wide under BJP and RSS. This is a very good culture......Ask BD\Sene\VHP for more on this culture. Will they agitate and demand justice to this girl!!!? Never.
    Horrible....selfish....Kanninalli raktha illadavaru....Tayi antha hengasarige upadrava kottu thamma hotte tumbuvaru....Demons.
    Bhaskar and his brother - both should be punished severely.
    But the groups mentioned above may take their side to protect them from law....

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    what bjp and rss has to with this incident?you dont have the guts to come with ur real name and commenting b*lls*it here.

    just read one more article above this article
    "rape attempt accused comitted suicide" and give ur expert opinion regarding this.
    lolz.

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  • irene, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    when the groom fly demanded 25 sovereigns of gold the bride fly gave much more than that that is the main reason the precious girl lost her life.parents are in hurry to get their daughters married we are always worried about the status.So this is the end

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    1 . Every suiccide is not dowry harrasement , it can have so many reasons. Also its unfair to put onus only on husband ans in laws for abettment

    2. IPC 498 A which is unfair and draconian for old mother in laws should be applied only after concrete evidence. Also there are increasing cases daughter in laws harrasing their in-laws , so 498 A should b amended so that mother in laws can also counter complain

    3. Laws are strangely silent on cruelty against men , around a lac of suicides cases by married men in a year. Although NGO raising voice over this injustice , laws to safeguard their interest should be enacted and implemented.

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  • Philu, Santa Cruz, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Her soul will not be at peace unless this man and his family responsible for her death are given the due punishment. He is a beggar to ask for dowry. Most Indian boys and their families are like him, they take dowry and continue asking for more even after that. We should expose this man and his family so that he doesn't remarry again. I also strongly feel that all the dowry gifts in cash and kind should be returned to her parents now. That should be one of the clauses now in the process of initiating inquiry and justice for her soul.

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  • Lavina, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    No need more enquiries about him, how he treated to our sister likewise punish him very badly or hang him infront of her parents.

    May her soul rest in peace.

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  • ZAMEER, UDIPI

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    no one care human life, only animals important make a big issue think big achievement

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    1.Look at the photo of the 'Confirmed Killer'.
    2. Pestering your own wife for money?
    3. What is marriage then according to this beast? Mortgaging his vitals??

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  • Anil, Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Nammalli ondu vadike ede "ganda hendathi sari samanavagi sukha dukkha hanchikollabeku " so evanigu poison kudisibidi !

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  • krishna bhatt, moodabidri

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    The Accused should be suspended from govt. service & legal proceedings to be initiated against the crime.

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  • Master, Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    In hindu community so much of dowry case end with Suicide. Such a guy working in Court,how he dare to ask dowry? please send him jail without any enquiry. That is lesson for all who is asking dowry.

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  • shalini salian, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    This case should be put on fast track court so that justice is done to he deceased girl immediately. Such boys who force married girls to commit suicide due to dowry should be hanged.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    God had plucked, a just blossomed, most beautiful flower, Anitha, from his garden and presented to Bhasker, the most precious gift as his wife, a person to be the mother of his children, a person to love, share and care his life till her/his death. Such a flower was burnt in its youth by a fate called dowry system and also due to avarice of a devil incarnate, her husband. May her soul rest in peace. My only prayer is, God's beautiful creations, our sisters should be freed from this cruel system and live a fruitful life as designed by Him.

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  • vijay P., Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 08 2014

    Arey ho Santan, the problem is very simple. Forget about your wordy thoughts. Every grown up person should know their rights. WHAT DO YOU SAY?

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  • joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    This kind of brutality must be severely dealt with. Dowry harassment cases are on the increase and it is expedient that a viable solution is found to end the trauma caused to poor unsuspecting wives from respectable families.

    Parents should take good care to ensure that their daughters do not get married into families with doubtful records.

    Another answer is to these crimes is to hold counseling sessions at various places - thus avoid these difficult situations

    Joe Gonsalves

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  • vijay P., Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Sad news...may her soul rest in peace.
    It clearly shows how much backward we still are. Imagine a person who doesn't know their own God given rights. My heart bleeds for you people who are still stuck in 60's. Comeon, standup for your rights. People, when you kneel before your maker please ask for wisdom not wealth. While wisdom may serve you good wealth will only make you miserable. Main Bola tho bologi ki boltha hai...jaane do!

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  • Reeta, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Unbelievable comments. bsateesh is such an animal.

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  • Bhandara, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    All I can say is, our beautiful culture that slowly and steadily kill young bridges in the name of dowry but, we are proud of our culture and hate all other cultures which believe in ethics, equal rights, freedom etc. If the British had not occupied India, probably, we would have continued Sati, child marriage and abuse of women who is treated as nothing but toys in the hands of men - the real animals
    May the deceased find solace and rest in peace. I wish the law takes it's course and punishes the culprit severely.

    All those who trumpet, our culture, our culture, please start cleaning our culture of this dreadful disease.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    bandara,

    know the history and then comment.british cooked up false stories and some dumbs believed.

    in hindu customs,do you know women are not even allowed to come to cremation sites? infact they will not even leave thier houses.

    yes,but during invasions by enemies,after they defeat hindu kings and kill them,they used to enslave thier queens and rape them.even if queens consume poison to prevent this heinous acts,they used to rape thier dead bodies.thats why they use to jump on the pyre of thier husbands to prevent this attrocious act by enemies.

    britishes painted that all women use to commit sati after thier husband death.if that was the case,
    then there would be no women left in this country and majority of children would have been on streets begging.

    there is not even a single mention of this term sati in vedas or puranas.

    britishers saved this country.lolz.britishers came,looted and went.thats all.

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014


    child marriage:
    hindu religion never support child marriage.there is no mention of it in vedas or puranas.

    abuse of women:
    its only in hindu religion, women have been given the godess status.

    sanskrit shloka:

    "yatr naryastu poojyante tatr ramante devata"

    that means:
    where women are respected,gods and angels reside there.
    some stupids may have done it in past and some stupids may be still doing it.
    but these stupids are there in every religion
    who needs to brought to task in accordance with indian legal system.

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  • Achhu, M,lore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    He has good touch in court so no worries..
    Only way to get justice, public should catch him and throw stone at him until he dies.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Again one Young Girl had to suecide because of dammed dowry harassement.Her husband must have married her not because of having a wife but to collect Money / Gold.Otherwise he wouldnt harm her and send her to parents house.Future brides,please learn the Boy before you marry,see that he should promise not to ask any more dowry.In case he does,go out of that house and try to work ,and live your own.It is better to live peacefully than harrasement and a life with daily assault .Husband is only when he behave like one.Afterall a Girl is not a cow that to be melked for ever.She should be loved and honoured.I am sure he will marry again and start this Play from beginning.He should be punished and just kickoff from Job.and his brother also.what he wants to do with this Money and Gold?Cant he earn and feed the wife ? then he shouldnt have married.Shame on him and brother.Mayher Soul rest in peace atleast in Heaven.

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  • dsouza, dsouza

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Hang him public place. ...

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  • Raasta, Jamaica

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    RIP Lady... be a man ... live on ur strength not by begging dowry .. shame on u .. hang that as##le

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    One woman dies every hour due to dowry related reasons on an average in the country, which has seen a steady rise in such cases between 2007 and 2011, according to official data. Bhaskar(BAS....)SHOULD BE KILLED BY PUBLIC AND HANG HIM ON POLE SO THAT PUBLIC SEE HIM AND SPIT ON HIS FACE....EYE FOR AN EYE THEN ONLY DOWRY SYSTEM IN INDIA CAN BE STOPPED.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Actually there is no demand for dowry in Christian Community:

    Here is a real truthful story a decade back:

    Bide groom went to see a bride. Bride was very pretty. Before agreeing to the proposal, the girl asked the bride groom: What is your bank balance.

    The Bride Groom responded: Thuvem moje koden kaazar zavenchem nahim Poisyam koden kaazar zaavmchem. Bankachya poisywaalya kodench kaazar zaa. (You are not marrying with me, you are marrying to a money. You get married with the bank's Money man). And he directly rejected her searched another proposal and married.

    I appreciated the move.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    This is nothing..Baab Joseph!
    Now girls ask how you 'balance' at night also in addition to the 'bank balance'! This 'balancing act'of the boy in question is also 'gauged' by the girl well in advance!
    Kallo Kaal Ailaa -Saangyaa Baab!!
    (I would have asked..Thukaa Haavn Zaay Gee..Haavn Kashen 'Balance' Karthaa-Theyn Zaay? Is it not?)

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  • clifford, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Sad to hear when young girls take like this extreme step because of dowry. Education and a small job would have saved her life. Husband should be punished.

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  • AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Introduce Bride-Price whereby Bride pays to the parents of the Bride so that he is careful how he treats her lest he might end up losing her if he treats her badly.

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  • Shail, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Shame on these hi#daas asking and torturing wife for dowry..

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  • bsatheesh, udupi/dubai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    guys please don't believe the case.Nowadays its a common practise of ladies to blame boys for torture,mental harassment,dowry case. All bullshit.

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  • kannan puratchi kural, Chennai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Is all women's suicide after marriage is dowry death/304B? If husband committing suicide after marriage then y no arrest on women? How it is constitutionally valid?

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  • Sudhi, byndoor

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Sometimes or most of the times husband and wife quarrel for different reasons. Small matters becomes big issues due to ego problems. This common in almost all the family. If both have severe ego problem the matter becomes serious with both alleging against each other for one or the other matter. If parents and other members also have such problem and if husband or wife think that they dont have support from any of them, then this type of incident may occur. But whatever may be the reasons the first conclusion or allegations of people will be of dowry harassment. what is the truth only wife and husband and their family members will be knowing.

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  • Ashok, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    I feel so angry that I feel like kicking him reading the whole thing. Such people have no right to live. What has he given her apart from tension. He is not even living with her then why has he married her. Police should book him for forcing her to commit suicide and file a case of murder. He should be immediately terminated from High court job and he should beg on the street.

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  • Prasad, Mangalore/Sharjah

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Very, very sad and unfortunate incident. He should be sacked from his job.It is good that at least you have published the Dhule raja's photo. I think they build the house from the dowry.....

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  • manoj, udupi

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    screw him hard.do not leave these kind of guys who take dowry....shame on u

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  • Rolston , mangalore

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Parents paid more than demanded during marraige to keep daughter happy ??? MONEY CANNOT BUY HAPPINESS

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Dowry system is biggest asset of our great culture!

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  • Abdul Rafiq, Uchila / Dubai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    May her soul rest in peace.
    Working for High court and dowry harassment for wife! not bad.
    Hope ABVP will conduct a road show tomorrow in the name of protest.

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  • Ummar, Udupi / Dubai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Fortunately there will be no protest because his name is Bhaskar.
    One suggestion to all chaddis that look at your home before preaching big ....

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  • vellano1, Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Rest in Peace girl.. Our system has failed you.. we r sorry!!!

    ITS A SHAME, FOR ANY MAN TO LIVE ON A WOMAN'S MONEY!! its better if u beg with a bowl in hand, idiot! worst is he works in HIGH COURT..?? I hope the court takes strict action, stripping him off the job and rotting in Jail instead!!

    Educated Hindu brothers, please understand... its a evil system, of dowry!! though, I hate casteism.. but atleast, in this case follow Brahmins, who discourage dowry!! there is never a short cut to success and money!!... ur hard work can only give u a good night's sleep!.. and more over educate girls and make them work.. so, that they can end a marriage rather than ending their life!

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  • Judith L, Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Getting their daughter's married should not be the only aim of parents . It is sad in our culture once a girl is married she is said to have no right in maternal home and whatever problems she should not leave her husband's house even if it means death this mentality is the only cause for dominating Indian women by Indian men and showing that she does not have her own identity. It is high time parents treat daughter equally with sons get them educated and stand on their own feet. Then we will hear less such dowry death cases. Marriages should be a choice not enforced.

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  • Praveen , Uliya

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    hang him unto death! having owned so big house and Govt. salary, why he requires MONEY?? it is not he who is greedy, but his brother is also the same! What is the fate of his brothers wife? Pls ask her whether she underwent any such instances? If yes, both brothers should be h....d.

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  • JNB, Bejai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    RIP,

    [we Indians (Bharathians) need to change our culture very badly]
    before blaming western culture,
    this kind of culture nowhere in the world except in Hindustan....

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 06 2014


    DOWRY AND POLYGAMY ARE THE EVILS OF THE SOCIETY.

    UNLESS THE SOCIETY DON'T GET RID OFF SELFISHNESS IN DOWRY AND CRAZY FOR POLYGAMY THIS KIND OF SELF IMMOLATION/SUICIDE WILL GO ON......

    ANOTHER WAY IS: THE WOMEN SHOULD HAVE COMPLAINED TO POLICE CONCERNING TO HARASSMENT FROM IN-LAWS AND IF DONE SO SHE HAS TO FACE DIVORCE.


    An innocent life is just vanished in harassment for dowry.

    May the deceased Rest In Peace.

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  • Peter Lewis, Kalmady/k s a

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Dear parents, if your daughter facing dowry harassment from her husband or his relatives take it seriously. He loves money not your daughter. My sympathies to the deceased family.

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  • hans, udupi

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Another sad case of a young girl being driven to suicide by her greedy husband and in-laws.With a adverse sex ratio already men are paying to obtain bride's.It's high time that people stop paying anything to their greedy in-laws.

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  • vivek, hirebile / abu dhabi

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    Is this our Culture HINDUTWAA....all Bajarnag's cheddi's ....should focus on saving such lives of their own comuninty, before they preach BIG....

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  • Shekh M, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    Whatever cheddi-sanghi's proud of their culture

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 06 2014

    IS DOWRY KILLING A WAY OF LIFE MOHAN BHAGWAT ...

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  • Sathish shetty, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    This is the way some pray stations preach and followers blindly follow

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 07 2014

    satish, i am sure chaddis preach rape AND DOWRY KILLING...

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