Newly-wed woman unites with lover, a day after marriage


Daijiworld Media Network – Madikeri (RJP)

Madikeri, Oct 22: A newly wedded woman has decided to reunite with her lover just before the wedding reception was held.

The incident took place in Valibettu near Madikeri on Tuesday.

Eerappa from Moornadu and Sudha from Valibettu had got married on October 20 and the reception was scheduled to be held on October 21. As per reports Shashi Kumar also from Valibettu was in love with Sudha for the past two years. But
Sudha’s parents did not let them get married but instead fixed the marriage with Eerappa.
But much before the guests could reach the reception venue on Tuesday, Sudha, the newly wedded woman decided to have a reunion with her lover.

According to the plan, Shashi Kumar and Sudha disappeared from their houses. Some people came to know that the woman with her lover had fled in a car. The people managed to stop the car at Hakaththur and handed over Shashi Kumar and Sudha to the Madikeri rural police.

The police had a tough time with this rare case. Sub Inspector Subrahmanya and Z P former president Papu Sannayya became moderators between the husband and lover of Sudha.


Shashi with Sudha

Sudha insisted that she would go with the lover leaving her just married husband. The husband agreed subject to a condition that he be paid Rs. 5 lac he spent for the wedding. The lover agreed but asked for three days time. The moderators took in writing from Shashi Kumar.

The moderators decided that Sudha will stay at Eerappa’s house with her parents till the ‘ransom’ is paid. All is not well till then. The lover is arranging cash.

  

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  • Vishaal, Ududpi

    Sat, Oct 25 2014

    I don't think it is good idea to leave the girl at Earappa's house till the money has been paid

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  • christine, bendore mangaloor

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    poor girl, what a world.

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  • christine, manglore

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Why she agreed to marry if she was in love with someone else?
    She has the right to oppose the marriage or elope before marriage when proposal going on, before fixing marriage,
    Before in proposal parents done without the will of children, some only stayed without will forcibly, because of value, respect, of the family. That time has gone, this is lesson for all parents, please understand that parents should not come or must not take own decision in the way of choosing life partner, this is most important decisions in their life because .
    Our duty is, we must know their will, in this proposal they agreed or not? Before marriage they should speak each other, know the will, interests and agree. This is their life. And not we, they have to live their life –long together. ( now what respect remain for parents and girl to face the community?)
    What is the use killing the desires, wills, happiness, joy of the children and leave them to live their life in hell because of self gain, or to fulfill our desire to enjoy our life? Is their pain, tears will let us to live peacefully?
    We want our daughters must get good boy from respected family ,wealthy, but we has to think is she will be happy and peaceful with that life?
    Love cannot defend on money. Or money cannot buy love. If it than will be only for short time This is educated generation, don't take blind decision

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  • Af, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Lucky they have united before first night.all is not well in the end she has to stay some ones house till ransom is paid.

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  • Vinod, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Cynthia,

    If he cannot raise 5 lac, some commentators who have supported their genuine cause can help !

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  • Cynthia, Moodbidri

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Climax of the story is: will shashi pay 5 lakh and release his lover ? stay tuned Daijiworld.com

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  • Ryan D'souza, I.C.colony/Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Marriage NOT a Hindi Movie scene!!
    MARRIAGE is a REALITY of expressing LOVE an COMMITMENT..

    Question for Bride's mother what she taught her daughter?

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  • Krishna, karkala

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    The Police have done a biggest blunder.Now Sudha will be harassed by the in-laws. Her life is at risk.She cannot be held as a hostage to recover Rs 5 lak.

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  • KGSHENOY, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    It is always surprising why these people decide to elope just the day before the marriage or on a wrong time?If they had tried to elope earlier Shashi could have saved 5 lakh rupees.

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  • Sundari Ashoknagar, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Love becomes costly.Give Rs.5 lakhs and take lover back. Nana 5 lakhs malpere 5 varsha sari benle. Shobha nee daddi kane. Maduveya modale odi hogabekithalla.Nimma muka nodu sutta badane kayi agide alla? Bhandumamu, paaapa alla?

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  • kuldesh, bangalore

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    why she had to play with life of the guy who in no way was at fault.

    she could have gone with her lover before marriage.you are talking about money.who will recompansate the reputation of his and his family auctioned by this lady in public.

    good day,thanks

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Its good for the husband that she left him. Otherwise his married life would have been a living hell.

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  • joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    The model of the story is that the parents should not come in the way of important decisions taken by adult children.
    Joe Gonsalves

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  • ilyas, Balehonnur/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Kya isi baat per chai pe charcha ho jaaye?

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  • Vinod, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    ood that she took a bold step on the wedding day or else she would have entertained her ex-lover even after she got married. Finally, only the boys are victimized. He came and raped.
    Moral of the story : “ Old flames die hard”

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  • peter, Brahmavar

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Majority have sympathy and support since she is a girl. If the bride groom has done this what is our response. This is the modern world girls are not innocent as olden days. She cheated the man knowingly where she can and she has the right to oppose the marriage. Shame on this lady what guarantee she will not ran from this poor fellow with some other excuse.

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  • Rosario Fernandes, Kallianpur

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Usually such cases happen in movies. The fault is from both parents & the bride.
    Firstly, parents should have accepted the decision since the girl is an adult.
    Secondly, the girl should have showed the same courage before the reception. She made a mockery of her parent's respect in society.
    However, this is a lesson to those parents who blindly refuse their children's choice. We are in 21st century, parent's control over children is only up to certain age. This has to be understand by parents.
    Finally,I wish them happy future, but show your courage at right place and right time.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Rs 5 lakhs...
    How he counted perfectly...Yes or No?
    Moral: Have 'fixed mind'..Elope.
    Or else...Lose Precisely Rs 5 lakhs.

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  • D'Souza, Mumbai-Muscat

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Fully honouring her right to choose a partner, the question is Why only a day AFTER marriage ?

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  • Fathima, ksa

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    if she take right decision before marriage ,she could have saved 5 lakhs from her lover .hahaha

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  • Rosario Fernandes, Kallianpur

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Fatima madam, money is the root of all evil. In this case money is secondary issue.

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  • Rajesh , Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I dont think it is the good decision by the bride. She could have shown the same courage a few days earlier so that she could have saved the embarrassing meted to her new husband who is not at any fault in this case.

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  • ramesh shettigar, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    che che reception da vanas mis aand

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Shashi Kumar, that shows your true Love for Sudaha.

    Some demand dowry from girls and here the boy is ready to part with 5 lac to achieve is true Love. Quite inspiring incident is isn’t it?

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  • Ranga, Mangalore/Thailand

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    The heading of the story is "EK..PHOOL..DHO..MALI"

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  • Rupesh , Mumbai/Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    After staying at Eerappa’s house till the money is arranged, the story may not turn the other way like "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam".

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  • D.P.SHETTY, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Marriages are made in heaven. What idea sir ji.

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  • John R Lobo, Kaikamba

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    This is NOT made in Heaven.....But Madikeri Rural Police Station

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  • Ravi, Udyavarar

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Now Shashi will experience hell to arrange 5 lakh rupees

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  • Vicky D, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    It's a good decision by the bride. Many people who get married just to please their parents later in life will make their partners life miserable.
    Also they take revenge on the parents by continuously complaining about their married partners & try contacting their ex lover.
    If Sashikumar delays in arranging the amount, Sudha may fall in love with Erappa..!

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    In this case man (Lover) will be questioned, what if it is happened in other way then also man (husband) would have questioned so girls are safe.

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  • Dr S Kamath , Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I think people with First Name Shashi are very good Lovers to attract Married ladies .All the best Shashi

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Nowadays love is measured with beauty.. Beauty without good character is dangerous.
    ponnu porlu ullal ancha aaye love mante..

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  • Hubert D'souza, Mangalore Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    SHSHI GOT LIFE PARTNER SUDHA FOR 5 LACS!!!!!

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014


    Dear Parents
    Before you fix any Bride or Groom first ask their opinion clearly but not forcibly. This is FB/WHATSAP/TWITTER/WECHAT Era So if they prepare then you cant repair. otherwise this incident will happen.

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  • abhyankar, mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    good solution at the end. Eerappa is nice and well matured guy . everything agreed on mutual understanding.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I feel pity with the bridegroom because he got punished, a dent in one's self respect and got punished for his undoing act!!!Marriage is a thin bond between the two it may break anytime if you not care it personally!!!

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  • shaan, manglore/dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Ajab Prem Ki Ghazab Kahani but this story is Ghazab Prem ki Ajab Kahani

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  • RODRIGUES, UDUPI/ DUBAI

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    finally sudha is taking good decision , it's late but if she is not taking this decision now.. then her boyfriend and new husband both are not happy whole life with sudha. but only thing her boyfriend loosing 5 lacs for his love....kuch pane keliye...kuch kona padtha hai...gd luck...

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  • majid, MANGALORE

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    now the question is her boyfriend able to pay the ransom of 5 lack and what happens if not as she will not be accepted by her husband again.

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  • vashal, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    First of all the Girls parents should be punished because they should take Matured girl's approval.
    Secondly the so called Idiot moderator asked the girl to stay in Eerappa a temporary husband.Its Totally not agreeable.Very poor decision from the Police /Moderator.

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  • Shobha K, kapu/Mum

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    well said Mr. Bhandarkar sometimes you talk the truth appreciated.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Shoba Madam...
    Adene Diyaar Athaa?
    You talk the truth sometimes!!!
    Yeth Bejaar Aaand Gothaa!!!
    EEr Panpini Yaan Mallah 'budi' Pandadaa??...
    Have I ever lied to you???Or in this forum? In fact i am the only one telling my true life story here.
    Have you?
    Now tell me...
    Where do you live? Your D.O.B.
    Correct address...and everything...

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  • R.Fernandes, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Hehehe. Bonte ditar. Trap aapunda gottinji....

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Dubai ad Bonte dindaa 'No use' athe? Daala thikuji!

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  • ummar , mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    TUM HI HOOOOO HUB TUM HIHOOO ..ZINDAGI AB TUM HI HOOO.... IS THIS TRUE LINES FOR THS COUPLE..

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  • S N Bangs, Thannirubhavi

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Is it dowry in Reverse Gear?

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  • FIZA, dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    dil to bacha and pagal he ji :) due respect to both of them and errappa to :)

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  • vinay, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Now I have some doubt! whether she had first night with Erappa or not?
    If yes, then Shashi is a loser.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    She must have told Shashi about it. He has all the means to find out if she is telling the truth.

    Why are you tensed ?

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  • vinay, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I am not tensed maai...But eager to know....thats all.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Thu, Oct 23 2014

    Hmmmm,,,point to be noted...looks like Maai is leading here with slight margin over Vinay...

    Padle padle Gaali(air/hawa)...daiji commentators...

    Where are you hiding Bhandumaam? Where is your Japanese machine?? I want to get its dealership!!!

    ...JH...

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  • jeetendra hegde, mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    ohhhh, what a joke..eerappa become veerappan.

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  • Pasha, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I think Eerappa is Lucky.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Eeerappa is Lucky..but, more than that he is a good human being..He didn't attack lovers..He didn't force police to file FIR..agreed for compromise which is very correct from his point of view..He is undergoing massive pressure,still he has contrlled his emotions..He wants Rs.5 Lacs which he spent already..thats all..I give full marks to him..

    Girl is UNLUCKY,not to have Eerappa like husband..She preferred Shashi who was sleeping like KUMBHAKARNA,woke up after lover's marriage with Eerappa..If he fails to arrange Rs.5 lacs,what will Sudha do ? Million $ question..

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  • Najeeb Sheikh, Udupi / Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Hum yaar hain tumhare........ dil daar hai tumhare .........humse mila karo...tum humse mila karo...Love is Blind

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  • rizwan, Dubai/Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    KAHO NA PYAAR HAI.....

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  • Roshan P D'Mello, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    This is not called "TRUE LOVE".. This is something that ENDs every night after making LOVE.

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DUBAI

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    WE CAN CALL THIS AS TRUE LOVE..

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  • raju poojary, mangalore/mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    TRUE CRAZINESS

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    R.Bhandarkar, M'loreThursday, October 16, 2014
    A girls' 'first love' is....
    1.Very very pure...
    2.Purer and whiter than that of snow..
    3.One she never forgets the whole of her life.
    4.One which she will cling to with all her might,never willing to let go. Everything else is second-hand.
    5.Something she will sacrifice
    everything to be near to.
    How I know ..You ask?
    Haven't I told you so many times.
    Just look at the 'innocent delight' on the girl's face! I never advocate 'Boys' anything. They can be believed only from 'knee joint' downwards. There may be exceptions like errrrrrrr..forget it!
    Hope this Girl finds true joy in her life for the sacrifices made
    and the boy keeps up his promise.
    ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
    The above I had written when a Christian Girl married a Hindu Boy
    and I maintain it.
    Girls are like that...most of them. Boys should never hurt them. if they do, they will repent for life.
    I tell you the truth.
    Never love and leave a girl in the lurch and helpless. Your family down the line will suffer. You can get way with anything but never by cheating a girl.
    If a girl cheats..you ask.. It's o.k. She will repent too...but boy you do not do it.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    R. Bhandarkar
    What you say here, may be right, because I had read somewhere, the following in a book by a writer. "My dad said, that the first time you fall in love, it changes you forever and no matter how hard you try, that feeling just never goes away."

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  • R.Fernandes, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Saggige bajil... enchi saavya?
    Is it wedding cost or buying price?

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  • gm, mlore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    PARENTS OR SOCIETY SHOULD NOT STOP THE GROWN UP PEOPLE (I MEAN GIRLS AND BOYS) SPECIALLY ING THEIR LIFE PARTNER. IF THEY DO SO THEY WILL SPOIL 3 LIVES.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    VERY FUNNY WEDDING..If lover fails to arrange cash,then "ONE DAY HUSBAND" Eerappa will have to look after Sudha and her parents..Extra burden ...Rs 5 lacs plus...!

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Kaisa yeh Ishq hai?
    Ajab sa Risk hai....

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  • India First, India

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Enchi Saav Marre !! She could have done this before her marriage !! Abhi paisa, ijjath sab lut gaya ....

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Why the lover made to pay ? The parents must have held responsible for the payment.

    They could have let her marry Shashi in the first place, leaving all customary/traditional compulsions.

    Where is their respect now, when the bride rebelled against a marriage arranged by them ?

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    That is the penalty for the lover for not eloping with her before the wedding.

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  • jeetendra hegde, mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I say why to pay anything?...how policemen sent her to erappa's home if she is not interested in this marriage...what if they harmed her physically under their custody?..

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  • D.P.SHETTY, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Hell Mr.Hegde,who will pay for his expenses from marriage card to first night?

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  • vellano1, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    haha... eerappa Papa, why he cldnt speak to the girl before the marriage and know her interests? i think, girl did justice to her innerself and love, rather than cheating on her hubby and her parents!

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  • ISMAIL K PERINJE., PERINJE.

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Bride @ fault...Why she agreed to marry his 'official' husband?5 lakh seems to be not affordable for lovers but 'She and He' must pay to save the LOVE!!!!!!!

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Ismail,

    You are holding her responsible as if she hid the fact that she loved Shashi. Why ? Why ? Why ?

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  • ISMAIL K PERINJE., PERINJE.

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    Lydia Lobo Kadri,

    Should she tried to elope with hubby then the amount spent could be saved and arranging 5 lakh might be a herculean task for both.Otherwise,if bride made representation with her 'official husband' there might had some solutions.Now Bridegroom lost money,health and undergone mental trauma ...Therefore,I think bride made mistake.

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