Mangaluru: Spurned by lover, disheartened youth commits suicide


Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (SP)

Mangaluru, Dec 17: Through a complaint that was filed with a delay of several days at Panambur police station here, the complainant has claimed that a youth ended his life, after the love affair he had with a young woman was abruptly broken by the lady at the last minute. The incident had occurred at Kudumbur Colony in Bykampady here.

It is gathered that Anand D'Souza (28), the victim, became acquainted with a girl from Jalligudde here over cellphone. The initial acquaintance soon turned into mutual love, which grew from strength to strength over a period of three years.

Anand, who had bagged a well-paying job in a foreign country, it is claimed, met the demands of the girl's family, which was not well-to-do. Over these three years, he provided a scooter, motor bike, and auto rickshaw to the family of the girl out of his own funds, his family members said. It is also alleged that during this period, the youth remitted nearly Rs 20 lac to the family of the girl, although he failed to financially support his own family during this period.

The girl, for reasons unknown, distanced herself from the youth, and told Anand that she had decided to ditch him. Anand, who was shocked at this sudden turnaround, told his family members about the sacrifices he had made so far for his lover's family, sought their apologies, and ended his life by hanging himself at his home on November 22, his close ones stated.

The family of Anand has now filed a case of fraud against the girl and her parents.

  

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Thu, Dec 18 2014

    It does not matter ' yes' or ' no' in true love. One has to be 'happy' about the partners happiness. But broken relationships has the stigma for a while and needs time to come out of it . Here relative , friends come into picture who can be critical in lifting the Moral .

    Realy sorry about this Young Innocent Soul , May God bless him and his family. As its abettment to suicide , Girl should be booked accordingly and deserves nothing less than life imprisonment. And all valuables given to girl and family has to seized and handed over to boyz family.

    Likewise , suicide cases are growing exponentially among men , high time laws are to b made gender neutral . So that girl can also be arrested under false promise of marriage and to be dealt as ' sexual abuse ' against the boy. I hope fast track lower courts ( which are often Anti men and has women judges ) gives the right justice to this young soul.

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  • PRK, Mangalore

    Thu, Dec 18 2014

    ab is discussion me tu CHINA ko kyon gusaa raha he?!! we ppl only know about some cheap quality products in tha name of china make but we really don't know how advance they are in all fields the only country which is overtaking US in every fields.

    simple example: Apple's iPhone... Its designed in US hardware assembled in China!!

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  • Henry Sequeira, Kateel/USA

    Thu, Dec 18 2014

    Sorry to say among majority of the Mangalururians emotions rule life. Dysfunctional families are galore. Children are not taught to have plan A, B, C in every relationship or how to negotiate in a difficult situation with a cool mind. Only thing that is often taught is hardcore morality from the pulpits and not mercy or flexibility. Result is what we hear and see.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    May his Soul rest in peace.Poor fellow ,thought of getting a true loving Girl,poured all the Money on her and Family.At the end the truth of real life put him into a shock.Thats bitter.couldn't overcome the bitterness.There are People who seek one only to feder one out and let them fall.he was mesmerized by Girl.There is no evidence of cheating or not getting married to him.(may be she got another sheep)Heartfelt sympathy to his Family.

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  • Ryan D'souza, I.C.Colony/Mumbai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Anand D'Souza is still innocent because he did everything for good cause NOT for bad cause. God would bless him and curse goes to girl for killing his money and murdering him morally in well planned manner.
    There are many out there.. in recent incident I came across married girl ditched her hard working husband by having extra marital affair with employer just for money... that her mother badly looking for it..this case, mother was to main culprit, daughter was just a Catputli, at the end husband was ended up with committed suicide under running train wheels in Mumbai..it is important that parents has teach kids a good moral at early age and themselves.. they have to keep in and out..

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  • leeda, Bellore-Denmark

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    My heartfelt condolences to Anand`s Family members. And May His soul rest in Peace. In this case girls Family is guilty for His death. Love is blind Anand loved the girl sincerely with all His Heart and may be worked hard. How can they demand such a Things of huge amount before the marriage?Shame on you girls Family members you all loved not the person only His Money. How can you all leave a Peace full life, after Anand`s death?

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  • Good Samaritan, Mlore/ Dubai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Live example of how a girl can make a man a hero from zero and a Hero to Zerooo!!

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  • munnabhai, mumbai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Anand gave 'ananda' to her but got 'dukkha' in return from woman who should be punished by public first.RIP

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  • sarfaraz, Belapu,Dubai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Hennu..Honnu..Mannu..!!
    ...anyways RIP

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DUBAI

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    REALLY VERY SAD STORY..LOVE IS BLIND ANAND,YOUR LOVER IS BETRAYED YOU..GOD MAY GRANT YOU ETERNAL REST..AMEN..

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  • Kusuma Kumari G, Nellore/Kodyadka

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Sad indeed. This story tells the gorl was cruel. She just used him and when she got all favours from him he ditched cruel girl indeed. The man should have took help from her friends and married the girl instead committing suicide

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  • Charan Das, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    How money will be recovered from gal's family and handed over to the family of Anand.

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  • Jesse, mangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Is there any proof to prove with anands fly? If not this is bull%#it no one will come to help anands fly neither anand is not a kid to send all his wealth. I can say that he is one of the stupid (booba)fellow in mangalore and around.

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  • martin,

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    girl has nothing2 do in dis.she has every right2 accept/reject.its for boy if he had anything called "COMMON-SENSE"..
    1) he'd never've ignored his own people over a girl.
    2)he'd never've ended in dis tragic-cowardly manner.
    MORAL: v r in a 21st century.old style "LOVE-TRUST-LOYALTY" all have changed definition.NOW its ME-MYSELF-MY DECISION.terms & conditions apply LOVE too.so be practical.always keep PLAN-B ready
    GOOD LUCK

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    The girl is from Jalligudde
    In Hindi Jalli means FAKE
    RIP Anand ...

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  • rony, mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    My dear jossey saldana that is jalli not jali

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  • Aadil Khan, Kasaragod/Saudi Arabia

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    My sympathy to the Anand's family.

    I would say he is s a stupid to spend so much of funds on a girl who is just a friend.

    Our society is biased. If a boy breaches the trust of a girl and ditch her, all groups will descend on streets to get her justice.

    Now, what these groups have planned against the girl and her family for the betrayal?

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  • oswald lobo, mangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    here it is to comment from one's own opinion.but actual incident comes to face the same, one will do the same thing.Here Anand lost everything at end what he can do.Money is not easy to earn.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    COWARD ANAND DSOUZA.

    HE HAD ENOUGH COURAGE TO FINANCE 20 LACS TO A FAMILY OF LOVER.

    HE DITCHED HIS OWN FAMILY.

    MAY HIS SOUL RIP.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Girl, thy name is not only Jealousy but also lust and betrayal!

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  • Af, mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    A Weak hearted could not bear the pain .god knows how much he trusted her, cheater girl must face the same and she will.

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  • Krishna, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    RIP,,,,Very sad news...this is a lesson who love girls, ignoring the parents...

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  • Lawrence D Souza, Bangalore

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    HE DID BIG MISTAKE - RIP MAN

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  • ANTONY, MANGALORE

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    This is more LUST than love, one does not neglect ones family. The fool should have realised this sooner.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Oh Dear Anand D’souza…. I don’t know whether I have to pay homage or shed tears…. But just for one such girl in your life you left behind of your many beloveds including your Mother who gave birth to you. This is the Christmas gift you offered to your beloved Mother? Sorry I can’t forgive your action….though I pray with God to give you eternal peace

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Foolish fellow.

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  • Mohsin Ahmed abu dhabi, Moolur

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Very sad...we have to appreciate him for his TRUE AND HEARTY LOVE

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    His love may be true. Instead of committing suicide he should have fought with him being alive.His case becomes very weak as he himself is dead.Shame on all those people who want to enjoy life at others money.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    That is very bad. How can the woman's family demand things from someone before the relationship is sealed.

    Moreover, how could he pour his earnings on them while neglecting his own family ? RIP Anand.

    Sad. The woman's family must face the legal consequences.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    What can law do here?
    For 'rape' by man only ,law is helpless,goes for DNA and other long drawn out process and justice is hardly delivered.
    Here what proof against girl? Has she sung 'duets' with Anand? Has Anand kept the 'bills' of squeeze?
    Any such precedents? No- No.
    Girls smile many a times and 'boy' thinks love!Is it not? She will say same thing, that because she smiled Anand brought gifts.You understand Mai??
    Times may have changed but these 'little little' things do not.
    Is it not?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Think this can come under
    'Motional Asset Atyaachaar' category.
    Is it not?

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  • Anwar Sadath, Riyadh/Mangalur

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Love is made in china no guarantee and it even if it through then it doesn't run long

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Poor Anand!
    Sought joy in the company of this girl. Must have been floored by the 'poet's', the imaginary 'heaven' revolving round the presence of a 'beloved' and all that!Was in the 9nth Moon or is it Heaven -they call it?
    Magar Mere Yaroon:
    Har Kisiko Nahin Milta Yahaan Pyaar Zindagi Mein....
    Wafa Nahin Be-Wafaa Milten Yahaan Laakhon Mein....
    Pyaar To Naseebwallon Ko Milta Hai Magar....
    Aashiq Jal Jaata Is Pyaar Mein Aksar!
    May you get true love soon dear Anand.

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  • Real Mangalorean, Mangalore/ Jubail

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Dear Sir,

    How u expect him to get the real love again when he is no more!! What logic u put to write that??

    He shouldn't have ended his life, at least he should have thought of his beloved family before taking this step. This Christmas may the worst ever Christmas his family will go through just coz of his foolishness of ending his life for a girl who just used him as an Income for her family.
    RIP Anand!

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    I made a concession in his case dear.
    Some people come back to get they want somehow.In case he does not, may He discover it wherever he has gone.
    Satisfied?
    And what Real Mangalorean? Name aa?
    You are Real Phirki aa??

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  • jacintha, middle east

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Condolences to Anand's family, and RIP Anand.

    The girl and her family - their conscience is dead, even if they are physically alive - ie if the incident is true. What life it is, when half is dead inside.

    The man has to use his judgement of love. How can love be measured by money and goodies - that the girl demanded and he supplied? Why did he not sense the single track of love and another track of extortion.

    Finally, suicide is not the answer. He had proof of getting conned, so he should expose the family, than die. Be a man.

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  • Sudhi, byndoor

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Time has changed. Few years back, most of the boys use to cheat girls, now it is girls turn. When boys are cheated people laugh at him. Very few blame the girl. Boys are beaten just for proposing a girl or even just for looking at a girl. When girl stares at a boy it is not wrong when boys stares back at her it is wrong. This is reality of life.

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  • Lewis, Udupi

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Now no one will comment like- kill that girl, hang that girl, because she is a girl and she can do any crime.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

    Wed, Dec 17 2014

    Anand is no more,my condolence to the family.
    What an idiot to end one's life simply because a girl refused to marry him . Are all his efforts to reach to this stage in career and his parent's efforts to raise him up mean nothing if a girl refuses to marry him?

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