Shabz, ksa

"Only muslims give standard of living to them not hindus!!!

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alex, mangalore

I think we catholic should be first take pride in our religion and community , I see so many girls and some boys for marriage sake converting to other religion . I think we need to look at our upbringing so that our children no the importance of the Christian faith , for the christian community please note that no material thing can replace your Christian self which we mayn't realize when we convert for the sake of marriage ''what will you gain if you gain the whoe world and loose your soul''.

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Rhyner Pinto, Bantwal

Most of the Catholic Boys have low income and are financially poor. The habit of alcohol among catholic boys has made the matter worse. So More and more catholic girls are attracted towards hindu and muslim boys who will give them a better standard of living after marriage.

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all is well, kinnigoli

Nikleg purergla Marla. Akulu radd jana madime aather aklena illadakulu aik solution malper. Nikulu niklena time waste malporchi.oikaandla yedde beleg undenu use malpule.thanks

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J Dsouza, Mangalore

If a hindu girl married a catholic guy then the entire scene would have taken a different mode.

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Greg D'Cunha, Doha Qatar/Bejai

Kiran Rai and Namitha Pais, Congratulations! Religion & Castes are man made, always be faithful to the only God and follow the moral values by doing good in life & being righteous. Cheers!!

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Anamika, Sullia/Mangalore

Ghar Wapsi offer 5 lacks for muslims and 2 lack for christians. Please let us know Arya Samajs offer for converting stupid girls.

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Anamika, Sullia/Mangalore

Christian girls could not aware of present environment. Arya Samaj is successfully fishing in muddy water.

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Judith L, Mumbai

leave the couple alone and let them live a happy married life what is important is that they should live happily peacefully and bring up a family with moral values and yes it is a reality becose most christian girls prefer hindu boys becos of education however the trend is changing now since more Christian boys are getting into higher studies and post graduation we have to make our community well educated and stronger with good moral values that is more important these days youth rarely give religion first preference and this is the truth the more we preach them the more they will revolt so it is better to preach moral values religion is personal and depends upon each individuals belief and faith.

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Dsouza, Mangalore

Judith why not christian boys they cannot marry there are lots of educated boys in our own community and they are findin difficult to search a christian girls nowadays if girls do like this what about our boys.
First teach moral values to these girls who are spoiling our community why cant she marry him in church or court rather marrying in arya samaja

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Judith L, MUMBAI

Dsouza, pls read my comment properly as said these days younger generation is least bothered about religion they want development and comforts of life. Yes, it is imp. we first built up our community like Jain,Sikhs so that everyone is well educated and have a comfortable life then we shud think abt rehabilitating others otherwise nobody will appreciate our work they will only mudsling we have to refer the poor and needy of other communities to their religious and so called fanatics so that they will know the truth abt how these fanatics actually help their own people but first preference is our community. In mumbai, so much land of church is being sold at peanuts we have to be cautious and lay people should stop leading a sushayagat life high time we come out of our comfort zone stop zealously among ourselves and help each other.

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Sujoy, Mangalore

Hi All,
They Love each other. Let them live happily. Let GOD BLESS THEM.

There is no point in speaking about religion and arguing.

Marriage should be understanding of two HEARTS that's it.

My dear friend. wish you a happy married life and a happy new year.

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Walter Lobo, Bajpe/Fort Lauderdale

When God created Adam, then Eve out of Adam's rib, and then God blessed them into the Covenant of Marriage did Adam ask Eve what was his religion? or Did Eve ask Adam are you Catholic? God Himself said 'Go forth and multiply and fill the earth or universe', God meant it to all people. Marriage is made in heaven, no priest or pundit makes marriage. We all celebrate marriage by calling it wedding function. Love is not blind, instead, we make love blind using religion. If these two adults decided to marry, and it is God's command, they are joined into the Covenant of Marriage by none other than God. They elected to celebrate their marriage in a manner, which is not acceptable to the parents.

Where were the parents when these two love birds courting? Now accept the reality and accept the newly weds, encourage them to live a good life. Let them pray either in temple or in a church, God is every where. In the old testament church was not there, instead temple was commonly used. My congratulations to the newly wedded couple. May God Bless them. Let Infant Jesus guide them, and let the parents welcome them and treat them with dignity and honor, and accept them as part of their family. The message of Christmas is Hope, Faith, Peace and Joy. This newly wedded couple have hope and faith in them, let hem have peace and have joy. Where God has joined them let non one separate them.

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rahul, Mlore

some Christian gals hv no faith in with christianity

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Manu Nainad , Nainad /Bangalore

God bless you my dear. Hope you will realize your mistake and will come back. You people are really lucky show me where is the bad comment of people. My Dear People what if the boy was converted to girl's religion. I'm sure the comments will be on that situation "mooji k*****ya bya***si aayeg ka#podya etc etc.. Never miss the great love in this world of your parents. They really get hurt. Expect a miracle in your life.

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Darius, Dubai

Unless a person he/she is (divorce/separated) & discarded/ignored by their own communities they can look elsewhere for love & civilisation
Particularly one should not disgrace other religion by such variety adventurism thereby offending serious believers

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Alwyn dsouza, deralakatte

Namitha wat u did was very wrong.you cheated ur family, friends and the people of ur religion. you were the role model for all in church. you are the teacher in a catholic school. if u do lyk this then what is the moral you teach the children. we the parishioners piety ur mom and ur family. we all together strongly disagree for ur decision. you cheated all the parishioners. on the christmas eve you took part in the celebration in church and the next day u ran behind a hindu guy. is this the moral taught to you. my suggestion to u is dont cheat people anymore u hve already hurted many souls

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Anonymous , karkala

Mrs. Rai paid I hope the day will come to remember what you have done.To raise you you wanted your parents,when you were walking to hold your hand you wanted your father.now that you are strong you need police protection!!you made your family hopeless people.After few years when you conceive police can't give any protection.This time its your God who died for you on the cross and your parents.Good luck.I am surprised to see your smile when your parents are crying for giving you birth.

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sunill, bengaluru

my commnet is not related to this article but in general.

for god, every one in this world are his children.it cannot be only a group of people

this truth should be understood by all religions that, they are worshipping the same god in different names as there cannot be different god for different set of people in this world.

if all the religions claim that they are worshipping the supreme power then there is only one god who they call in different names.

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Munna Bhai, Doha /Qatar

Looks Like New Years First Victim Of Love Chaddi , Anyways happy married Life for the Young Couples, Poor parents !!

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P Lobo, mlore

Dear couples u have given pain to ur parents. Please every day specially namitha never forget to pray for ur family members. Because of ur love namitha, ur family members may feel like never to live more. Please pray for them daily because human love doesn't last long but God's love last longs.Tell uur husband not to get in to the hatred groups. Instead to support these marriages in future. Rai take care of namitha well. May God be with u. Pray with him. He Will guide u.

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cynthia, Mangalore

Well said Samson. Most of Hindus r supporting it because hindu guy married to other religion girl.its fine.love is love is above religion blah blah..if the other religion boy had married hindu girl new year in mangalore had seed blood sheded roads.It would have not accepted as love above religion. It might have called conversion n love jihad.BITTER TRUTH.

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BRAIN TWISTER, UDUPI

It is nothing but the madness and igo of parents of Bride to an extent.. India OR D.K is normally famous for arranged marriage in all religions. But now a days when arranged marriage comes brides parents were dreams for heaven even-though they are poor or middle they only need a groom from Abroad and take their daughter with him or else no marriage. now a days many youngsters in India are non married because of the madness of bride's parents.No parents looking for sincerity or good nature of boy other than money or abroad visa. But parents will be ok.. if their daughter run away with a guy who is lower than their status and causing shame for their family, religion and unrest in the minds of society peoples..
Parents spoiling the youths, religious leaders must teach the parents to look for the nature not the money or IGO
(disliking peoples please put your views.)

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BABA, BANGALORE

Both are adults so please don't call them "missing couple". As one of the parties is a Hindu and the other one is not, the ritual in the Arya Samaj does not amount to a legally valid marriage. If they are serious, the couple should enter into a marriage under the Indian Marriages Act.

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Seema, Mumbai

Marriage as it is the adjustment of two people. To make adjustment easier, it is better one marries in the same culture n religion. Children also grow up well with a sense of security. Youngsters should avoid causing pain & hurt to their parents during this biggest decision of their life and start new life with their parents blessings. Family support is the biggest blessings on this earth.

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Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

Marriage is just a custom if both partners love each other. Love has to raise above religion , caste creed , financial status and also age gaps. cousen marriages also good. Its hyppocracy of society is that it puts restrictions and encourages arranged marriages ( which is often forced ). Like to quote a wonderfull nupital which went viral on web. 60 year old satish apte married 18 year old Lisa ( pune )

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Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

Marriage is just a custom if both partners love each other. Love has to raise above religion , caste creed , financial status and also age gaps. cousen marriages also good. Its hyppocracy of society is that it puts restrictions and encourages arranged marriages ( which is often forced ). Like to quote a wonderfull nupital which went viral on web. 60 year old satish apte married 18 year old Lisa ( pune )

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Victor, Mangalore

This is not a true love. This is called Khujli!!!!. Most of the readers don't know her mother health condition. Definitely she will suffer life long

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Roy D' Silva, Kulshekar / Dubai

Know several sucessfull marriages between Catholics and Bunts.. Raicule & Paisere niklek dever suki dhapathya jeevana korad..

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N.M, Mangalore

Dear All...let them get married and stay happy.

And , its time for people from mangalore-udupi and Bajrang Dal, Ramsena, Goonda Dals, Ravana vedike, PFI, SDPI and pastors to stop of their dirty habit of interfering in someone else's private lives.

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indian, UAE

Is that true love or Only physical attraction... seeking help from police after marriage.

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True indian, kudla

If they are above 18 then it comes under their fundamental rights so threatening is offensive. But i see some people talking in favour of this but i also saw same people wander here and there and try to convince them and bring back if its inside their family . what i feel is for every move you take in life you need parents blessing . when you are mature enough to understand what is right and wrong. How can someone ignore their parents who looked after them for so many years for someone who recently met. Iam totally against this kind of thing which happens against parents . A father can stay strong but i cant see any mother shed tears for such thing .

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YESHAVANTH GOPAL SHETTY, M'LORE

Evrything in fair in Love & War.Let's accept it & guide the newly wedded couple by supporting & blessing.India is a Country with Communal Harmony & let's practice what is preached peacefully.Let's shun hatredness.
May God bless us all.
Happy New Year to all the readers.

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Tom Cat, Mangalore

Arya Samaj wrong number is not PK

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Lesley, Udupi / Sharjah

Just to ask, while doing all this (Marriage, Police complaint), they dint even think of their parents once who gave birth and thought to be civilized in this society...

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jeevan, mangalore

Happy married life Rai and Pais.....

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True indian, kudla

Firstly i dont have any rights to oppose this wedding because its every citizens fundemental right . I see some people supporting this,but i have also seen people who talk in favour of such thing and they take a U turn when it happens in their own family. They wander here and there and try to convince boy/girl to return back . See before taking every step about life you should think about what will happen in future and without parents blessing a life is empty. A father can adjust but i cant see any mother who shed tears for such incidents .Iam totally against this.PEACE

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Fredrick Castelino, Udyavara

In the recent years usually many christian girls are marrying hindu or muslim boys whereas hindu or muslim girs are not marrying christians (very minimum. I think there are some loopholes with the parents of Christians. So I request all the parents of Christians to guide the girls properly and avoid such problems.

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MANJUNATH BHANDARY BELINJE.HOSAMANE, KASARAGOD

WISH YOU HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

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masif, Jubail

Gar Vapasi??
Love Jihad??
Saffron Jihad?
Holly love?

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ana, Mangalore/mangalore

Aiyyo...!!!!!!

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catholic, mangalore(paneer)

think abt ur fly... we hope u wil cme bck...

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varun, mangalore

Hard for parents but they should understand that adult children are independent..In this case, does she wanted to come back to Hinduism, as her ancestors were from GSBs? Given her surname, looks like here ancestors were GSBs?In inter religious marriages, one person has to compromise more for a smooth marriage.. what will happen when children come into picture? Its ok if both or at a least one is an atheist but if both are believers in respective god(S), what will they teach their kids?? that your god is the only god and should be worshiped or children should worship god worshiped by both parents?? Not easy... lets not forget the cultural differences.. best of luck!

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Dsouza, Mangalore

Why Arya samaja everyday conversion are taking place there girls be careful inter religion marriages are not long lasting it will create so much problem in society and for the children also and the marriages which are taking place in arya samaj is to convert other religion girls to Hinduism why cant they do court marriage instead of marrying in arya samaja

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Ryan D'souza, I.C.Colony/Mumbai

Inter Caste marriages fails most of times India due to culture, tradition, way of worship to God, food and standard level, language..etc.
In India every state have their language and their own culture, own type of food which is nowhere to be seen in world except India, these type of relationship purely for comes out of attraction and pleasure purpose.
This is my experience..I personally lived and worked atleast 9 countries in the world.

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Praveen, Kulshekar

Good luck newly wed. But if it was Kiran Pais and Namitha Rai then BD, RS would have arrived before the rest. In this case they have got no issues at all

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nowfal, kasaragod

central govts beti bachavo bahu lao campaign......

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vijay dsouza,

Namitha Pais, at least you should have given respect the Lord Jesus Christ

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RAJ, KAVOOR

LOVE HAS NO RELIGION

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Zeitgeist, Mangalore

All religion ever does is spread hatred.

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Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

People who have watched the movie PK will now co-relate Arya Samaj to Wrong Number ...

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urban dsouza, BELMAN .KUWAIT

THESE KIND OF MARRIAGES DISCOURAGED BECAUSE IT CREATES LOT OF TENSION IN FAMILIES AND IN COMMUNITIES

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Anonymous,

Is it Ghar Vaapsi or Love Kesari or Cheddi Jihaad?

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Rajesh, Dubai

Marriages are made in A1 (Arya Samaja).. Let them live...
I think Arya Samaja is becoming a conversion center .. Investigation should be conducted.

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Vasudev Bhat, Rayee

Bhoo Lavo Beti Bachavo.....All the best. Let us rejoice christian population is reduced by one and Hindu population is increased by one.

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Manu, mangalore

Yella OK...aryasamaj yake....duty of aryasamaj is to convert...they could have done secular wedding...All these inter religious marriage as blessing of aryasamaj....something fishy....!!

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Valerian D Souza, Udupi / Mumbai

In many parts of the world, Name, Fame, Qualification, Job, Business, look, economic status are all looked at and given importance.
Character people care, yes. But Religion? Least bothered!
In India, it is opposite!
Hyper religious! Addicted!

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Manesh, Bangalore

Marriages are made in heaven.....let them live...

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Bryan, Bahrain

Really hmmmmm, But my marriage was made in Bahrain..lol

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Dev, Mangalore

Couple with couple of coupling problems!
Again Aryasamaj is in news, it seems they haven't learnt a lesson of not causing these heartaches & heart burns by tying the knot in their way.
Time & again we request the couple to get their marriage registered with a Registrar than using these organisations, so that no one will interfere later.

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joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

Whatever the differences are and whatever communities the bride and the groom may belong to - they are now a wedded couple and all should support them in the common lives together ahead of them.

Hope the differences will be resolved and the couple will be left to themselves without any hurdles.

Joe Gonsalves

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Melwin Pinto , Mangaluru

Stop building walls!! Build bridges instead.... We are basically human beings... let us learn to live as human beings... Religions are man made... I am surprised they need protection in a 'cultured' and 'civilized' land...

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joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

Whatever the differences are and whatever communities the bride and the groom may belong to - they are now a wedded couple and all should support them in the common lives together ahead of them.

Hope the differences will be resolved and the couple will be left to themselves without any hurdles.

Joe Gonsalves

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common man, Mangalore

PLEASE STOP SILLY COMMUNAL COMMENTS!! PLEASE ALLOW PEOPLE TO LOVE AND CHOOSE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF LOVE... They have made a choice... respect it please...

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Samson, Udupi / Saudi

When a HINDU guy marries muslim or christian girl, all put pics of helping n doing drama... but when a christian or muslim guy marries a HINDU girl tat guy will be crashed to death lik anything..... This is a Bloody stupid culture... Useless ppl

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HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

@Samson, Udupi / Saudi
'Bahu lavo. Beti Bachao'

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manipal, manipal

It never happend... In fact when hindu guy married other religious it had happen....

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Albert, Mangalore

Mr. Samson, please be a Human!
Wish them a happy married life!!

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Rajesh, Udupi

R u in your sense? There are at least 20 cases which i know of where girl is hiinddu and nothing happened to them at all. Bl##dy is the word suits your culture better.

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HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

Now both of them are husband & wife as per Hindu rituals and were in love for some years. Now it is too late to separate this couple. Pyar kiya toh darna kya, wish you both happy & prosperous married life.

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ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

I am of the opinion that Parivaar members must take note of intolerance within Hindu religion for these kind of marriages (upper cast vs lower cast)

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dam, mangalore

Its looks like Love Kesari is going on Christian girls...

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disgusted person, mlore

This is cheap and disgusting of you to think like this! People like you create problems and barriers!!

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Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

People,

Every Police Station in Karnataka should appoint a "Government Purohit" to solemnize the inter caste marriages so couple feel secure...

Police have their own band,,, it could be used for this occasion...now what is missing??? Sweet Shop and Crackers,,, Police can fire their century old .303 rifles...perfect...

...JH...

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ISMAIL K PERINJE., PERINJE.

Langoolacharya,


What is missing?An important component of Marriage is GARLAND which is missing na?

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HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

Yeh langoo(r) GARLAND ka bhav kya jane, Ismail bhai??

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Pedro Sam, Mulky

saibere baritha angadi du undu....eru onji angadi padle

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Suleman Byari, Udupi

Rai & Pai are different religion???.

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Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

Right, like Byari and Byri...

I think this caste , religion should be abolished...just a number should be give like Police Constables...DK 420 etc...

Yeh PC 420 illi barappa....

...JH...

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A.M Shaikh, Dubai, Belapu, Kaup

Yes Suleman Bhai,
One is belongs to BD and another is RS.
Wish Kiran and Mangala long and happy married life.

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Varun, mangalore

Pai attu, Pai's (baiamma). I am sure Rai and Pai would have other issues although the dharma is the same.

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manipal, manipal

Its not Pai its pai's Christan...

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lawrence, abudhabi mangalore

Mr S.Byari read tha news properly it is not pai it is pais.u mis understand about pai and pais.

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dapne dsouza, Udupi / Abu dhabi

Read properly not Pai, Pais!!!

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boss, madanthyar

after their child name is KIRMITHA RAI OR KIRMITHA PAIS

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R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

In case of daughter name her:
Ramitha.....
In case of boy name him:
Ran Raina.......
That is if people around you allow you to live in peace. If not there will be all sorts of complaints, counter-complaints and all that-You know?
Arya Samaj?? There was one 'Bournvita' case there some time back...Is it not?

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