Four-year relationship ends on wedding day - police complaint filed


Daijiworld Media Network - Mysuru (SP)

Mysuru, Jun 11: A youth, who expressed his love for a fellow employee and promised several times to marry her since the last four years, played truant on the wedding day. He took shelter under the guise of caste difference for absenting himself from the function.

The marriage of Subrahmanya (28), son of Malegowda and Aarati couple from Honnahalli in Chanmarajanagar talauk was fixed with a 22-year-old lady from Kyatanahalli in Heggada Devana Kote taluk in the district. The function was to be held at Buddhavihar at Ballal Circle here, where relatives of the girl had assembled with flowers and other arrangements. After waiting for hours at the marriage venue in vain, the family of the bride-to-be filed a complaint in women's police station here.

While Subrahmanya worked as supplier in a private hotel here, the girl discharged duty as cashier. Since the last four years, both were in love with each other.

"Subramanya was after me and pestered me agree to his proposal for marriage four years ago. When I rejected, he consumed poison and was hospitalized. His friends blackmailed and pressurized me to accept his advances. As there was no alternative, I agreed and began to love him. We lived for two years together in Kyatamaranahalli. He convinced me that he would marry me, and used me for satiating his sexual desires. He took away Rs 95,000 I had accumulated for buying a scooter. I also parted with gold ornaments worth Rs one lac as he wanted money to start a hotel," the girl said.

When the girl insisted on marriage at an early date six months back, Subrahmanya said his family was not agreeable because of caste differences. Alerted by his change of behaviour, the woman contacted some organizations, and brought pressure on him. The youth agreed to marry her. On Wednesday, arrangements for marriage had been made under the supervision former city mayor, Purushotham. As the youth remained away, the marriage could not be conducted.

Purushotham said he had contacted Subrahmanya thrice over phone, and that the groom-to-be had agreed to marry this girl. 'We waited for him, but he went missing,' he explained.

  

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  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Jun 12 2015

    Arranged marriages are like a lotteries.sometimes turns out good sometimes like a empty.but both have to learn to learn each other pass to another love each other.Thank God nowadays arranged matches also less and they learn and talk mostly previous to marriage.Even love marriages are also no quarantine for lifelong partnership.

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  • JNB, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 12 2015

    Hardly Davidson
    Or
    LML Puska

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  • William, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 12 2015

    Hey Babare Ba, Ek for her, ongi for husband & Tisri for the child.... !!!

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  • PEACE LOVER, INDIA

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Curiosity increases when something is hidden! I mean to say people always wish for things which they don’t have. If a person succeeds in getting the thing which he supposes to get after the marriage, surly he will not marry, he will look for a fresh one. Enjoyed for couple of years, now caste and religion is coming in between! He should have evaluated these things before consuming poison.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    People are busy blaming the guy over here but we what we really need to address the elephant in the room. And that is our stupid society. just see that things what a couple have to go through to get married. religion, cast, permission from parents. One of the the many things that is wrong with our culture. But some bury their head in the sand and glorify it.

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  • Vicky, MANGALORE

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Some more funny Movie titles:-
    Tujo Mog, Marli Shendi
    Mujen Caste, Mog chaki past
    Haven Love karun Sodlen
    Havn Idiot tigel Idiot.
    Tuka Mog karunk FriendsagelForce Zai.
    Tujo Caste tuka Napunsak Kortolo.
    Sex Jali, Mog Gelo.

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  • Abdul, Dubai

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Not sure who can come to her rescue now? she has already admitted that Subramanya has looted everything of her. If Subramnya comes again to rescue then he will only look to what else left to loot. He is a big lootera.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    gm, mlure

    Appreciated your good wishes but who would go for second hand when genuine, fresh models are available in the market I mean society.

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  • manohar, mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    who can guarantee the freshness? Very very rare in present day.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Frank in any case is making a Konkani movie...
    I think this event offers 'suitable story material'....
    Titles...
    ' Hotelanthu Wadlo Mog'...
    ' Mog Nai Tho Rog'
    ' Cash- Supply'
    'Mogache Pinda'
    'Laadee Sodlyaar Ge -Lee'...
    I think even frank is excited at the prospect. I am waiting for his call to give 'final touches' to the
    script of which the story is already there.
    For curtain raiser discussions and all that we will have..
    Lydia, Flavian Baab, Jossey and Henry on the Panel...

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Henry Misquith,

    Right choice in wrong direction?

    What is remaining after fours years of experience.

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  • shuba, mumbai

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Though something unusual took place on a wedding day itself at least the
    bride and her family can have a
    peaceful life instead of giving their daughter in marriage to such a low mentality inhuman who would have created much more difficulties
    if the wedding has to take place.

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  • GANGARAM, MOODBIDRI

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    NOW A DAYS OUR YOUNGER GENERATION CANNOT DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST, BECAUSE OF THIS, THESE ALL PROBLEMS ARISES.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Gangaram,

    Actually, Indian culture does have a concept of romantic love. I would seriously doubt that in the past they knew the difference between the two.

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  • Pritham, Musact

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    95000 which scooter?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    With Six Gears.
    Sixth Gear...effortless rearing.
    So 95000..O.k.?
    In Muscat and all -you do not get.
    In Muscat -only biscat.

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  • JNB, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 12 2015

    Hardly Devidson
    Or
    LML Puska

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    When you know the difference between “Pyaar and Chaahat” this problem will never arise….. Name Subrahmanya Aur Kaam Duryodhan Ka!!!! Marriage means to knot for lifelong…. But this animal thought it is the day for detachment!!!

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, BAHRAIN

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Had sex for 2 years. Hope she makes the right choice next time.

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  • gm, mlur

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Dear Girl, How you people agree to give everything before marriage. Your than, maan, dhan everything looted this guy from you. If he is ready to marry you in the future please do not marry him, he will cheat you anytime. You will get a good person as your life partner. All the best and god bless you.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Joyson,
    Seeking pleasure is not one way traffic.
    Both are partners in crime and when things go overboard or beyond control the sense of realization prevails in girls mind and heart.
    In this episode the boy is not lucky, he is a mastermind. He is a package of all wicked brains.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    The people of a kind attitude 'use and throw'. Unfortunate bride !!!.

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  • Kusuma Kumari G Nellore , Nellore/Kodyadka

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    The love life is totally different from real life, I feel sad for the bride. Anyway life is sometimes more complex than we think'

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  • CONRAD JOHN TAURO, SHIRVA/UDUPI/DUBAI

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Catch him scratch him.Give justice to girl.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Where to 'scratch him'? nonsense.
    The girl has already scratched..no?
    Conraada- Scratch Malyaar'Karpuche'...
    Amee thakaa kaalyaak karpeeje?
    Kaam naa gee???

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  • fb, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Enjoyed almost half of the life & now blaming...............
    This situation could happen in arranged marriage & patched up with sweet kids to move on the life.

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  • Joyson, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Some girls never understand. Why they are letting men to have physical relationship even before marriage?. Some men actually do not want to commit longterm relationship. They only want to take pleasure. In this case he got what he wanted so backed off. Lucky fellow. He got even money, gold etc from her. She saved money to buy a scooter and gave the money to him. why? to run away on a new scooter?

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  • wilson, mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    need punishment for subrahmanya is , 4years behind bars for cheating in relationship&cut his 4 fingers also.then each time he realize value of Time&Trust.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Hi Jossey,

    Welcome back.

    How come you realized after so many years? (just kidding)

    May I clarify. True Love cannot be fake but most of the affairs are(pretext of Love) and end up in a sad story.
    Everything remains 'Gone with wind'

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    LOVE IS ALSO FAKE ...

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Love is not fake Jossy. In this case the guy is fake. He never loved her. He had only lust to take everything from her (pleasure, money, gold etc etc). He even got a free scooter (from her money) to run away.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    If he had died out of his poison stint, the girl would have been booked. Now, upon being cheated by him, she will be blamed because she lived with him for two years.

    Are women made to be at the receiving end always ? Get hold of him, don't book him for rape but surely for cheating. Confiscate all his rights/assets to repay the loss she has suffered !

    Thats not all - if he is unable to compensate, get hold of all his friends who pestered her into this relationship !

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Lydia Mai....
    'Are women made to be at the receiving end always ?"...Unquote.
    Kallen? Always...
    Haavn Na gee?
    Haath cum Kaleez Baazun Gethlo??
    Haanga maagir Roshan Asaa, Baab D'souzaa Asaa, 2-3 Shetty Asaat...
    Mosth Zaan Asaat... 'Chedvaan Laath...Nai Haath Dille'...
    Thankaa Ek' Karunaa Poorit' Drishter Polainaath Tumhee..Kaalyak??
    Mysuru aanth Ekaa Chedu ak Eklyaan haath Dilyaar Tumhee hangaa 'bobo' Marthaat?
    Kodialaanth Kitle Chede Asaat'Maar Khelle'?? Thyen Kaayen Naa Kee??
    Hyenth gee Tumche 'Women Lib'???

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  • Dhurva, Athradi

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Better always depend upon parents for arranged marriage.
    It's guaranteed at last 70%.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Arranged marriages are like breeding program.

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  • Hussain, dxb

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    What about Love marriages? Cross breed ?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    No No...
    Comb and Breed....

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 11 2015

    Hussain,

    Isnt arrange marriage is where two strangers marry and figure out how to live together. It has nothing to do about love. There should exist a term called love marriage. Isn't marriage a thing that happens two people who love each other. Arrange marriages are like searching a mate with superficial traits and money.

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