Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai
Thanks Bro.
Life is limited. It passes different phases, begins with an infant, childhood, teen, Adult, grown up, middle age and old age. God blessed, I feel and know that I have been enjoying God given beautiful life and keeping young in sprit at Heart. I like to be witty and laugh always. Kapil Sharma is my resource for laughing Hasthe raho aur muskurathe raho.
For everything we need to have controlled life, good health and right job and good family & friends. Above all God’s love & blessings.

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Pammu , india

no

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Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

Like Unlike Married Unmarried sometime fortunate and sometime unfortunate but it is the bitter truth !!!.
'May her soul rest in peace'.

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

Bro, it appears from your various comments on different issues on DW site that you are staying 'literally in a Heaven on Earth'!!!!!

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Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

Stephen, Brahmavar

"Jo bahar se dikhta hai wo andar se hota nahi hai. Specially in married life"

Sub Taqdeer ka khel hai
Pasasnd apna apna
Kayal apna apna
Jyada socho muth
Dhil to paagal hai

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Stephen, Brahmavar

Jo bahar se dikhta hai wo andar se hota nahi hai. Specially in married life.

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Joyson, Mangalore

Aur jo andar hai wo bahar se dikta nahi hai !

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Ronald, Mangalore

The married life can be very challenging as the family expands, parents and in-laws interfere, nagging and dragging goes on, peaceful life is lost. There are already enough issues to deal with in day to day office work but on top of that these personal issues add up. The feeling goes as if we are thrown in middle of turbulent sea. If parents and in-laws leave the couple alone without interfering then most of the problems will be solved. They seem to screw happiness of couple due to their own ego. Unlike in this case most of the time the silent suffers are men but they do not commit suicide. In these situations there should be a way to forget everything else and find a way to attain peace.

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Lenston Dsouza, Nandalike/Kuwait

There is lack of mis-communication between husband & wife. But it dosent mean that, she should take extreme step like suicide.. As we read in many comments, there is something happened in first call of husband itself, otherwise why he called second time to her & when she dint pick the call, he told his law's to go & check.. KUCH THO GADBAD HAI.
Its not easy to get VISA as before in Gulf for wife, because daily new new rule will implemented to control expates in their countries without notice or announcement. Because Gulf media is not same like India media to cover pin to pin news. Its true that, boy will promise girl for taking her gulf after marriage. Otherwise girl will not accept marriage. But in case any delay, girl should understand her husband situation & act wisely. Taking wife to gulf is not like going honeymoon.. Little bit co-operation & understanding, we can avoid such kind of sad incidents. May her younger soul rest in peace..

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amith shetty, mangalore/Muscat

You are bro. But people do not understand difficulties what we are facing. They think we cheated them by fake promises about settling down in gulf. It means girls are accepting marriage proposal just bcz of gulf dream? What is person loose his job ryt after marriage? Why people are selfish now a days.

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

Unlike in olden days, most relationships revolve around job, position, money, assets, property etc. and expectations are very high, there is no room for patience, tolerance, persistence, everything is desired in a jiffy!! The moment some of the above attributes are lost, then the problems start!!

In this world which is after materialistic pleasures and with the crony capitalism going on this is what happens when hopes are dashed!!!

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Antony Fernandes, Mangaluru/USA

Lenston

Let Pavitra's soul rest in peace.
You are right. There are so many instances about gulf rules. There are so many boys or girls told lies about taking them to gulf or other parts of the world.

But one thing is true Lenston while proposing a boy or girl most important is first let them tell "I can not tell I can take you to gulf or any other parts of the world" with this one sentence they may loose a beautiful or a wealthy proposal. But a truly loving boy or girl will definitely marry that is for sure.

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Lenston Dsouza, Nandalike/Kuwait

Antony Fernandes, Mangaluru/USA
Do you think that, if u put True Love & Foreign Dream in Left & Right side of Beam Scale. Which one will weight more...?? May be like you & me will get true love by god's grace. But most of the time, love will start on basis of your Valet Weight & etc... Because by birth it self we are teaching our youngsters to just take-take-take, not to share.. When they grown-up, they will live an mechanical life by smelling currency, not wiping tears.. Then now you tell me, how you can expect an pure love without any expectation..??

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Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

So many different views and opinions! What's the use. She is gone for ever.
Truth will come out and that's police job.

R.I.P.

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Rudolf, Mumbai

RIP!!

If everything was hunky dory after marriage then something in the phone conversation that day triggered this drastic step!!

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Rebecca D'Souza, Mangalore

RIP.

Most probably the husband must have told her in his first call to her that day, that the visa application was rejected.

If the conversation was recorded it might help.

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avani, mlore

RIP. On the morning of the incident husband spoke to her. When he called 2nd time she did not pick the call. Probably the conversation on that morning may give some clue as to the reason.

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SUHAN, Mangalore

As ladies by nature very emotional, they may take the drastic step if hurt by their husband or in laws. When husband lives far away there multi factors which may come in the way of woman's life which may put her in difficulty.The married life of couple who live in different places is a hell, who invented gulf to deprive of married life to many gulf workers?

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Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

Married life will be bliss if husband can delete the word "SUSPICION" ....

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James D'souza, Belman/Mumbai

These incidents happens in most of the families where In-laws... Interfere in married life of couple just to control them or other selfish agenda,most of the times mother in law interferes

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stan, dubai

Boy from Dubai means ladies may think the boy will take the girl immediately to Dubai..... It is not easy, may be this news hurt her.

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Moab, India

And those taken to dubai will come back and accuse their husbands of dowry, this is the world now a days. nobody is happy. If only happiness were to be available in plastic bottles!!!

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Nishar Ahmed, Mangalore

RIP SISTER PAVITRA Hertfelf condolences to her family and friends. SOME GIRLS ARE TOO SENSITIVE FOR THIS GRNERATION.. GOD KNOWS WHAT WAS THE REEASON BEHIND. SUICIDE IS TRULY UNFAIR... NOBODY HAVE MORAL RIGHTS TO KILL HER/HIMSELF OR SOUL WHICH GIVEN BY GOD.. FOR ANY PROBLEM SUCIDE NEVER COULD BE A SOLLUTION. THOSE WHO COMMITTING INFACT THEY RIPPING THE HEART OF THEIR LOVED PEOPLES.

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Rita, Germany

Tragic and sad.It must have been a shock to her husband when he came to know as well as home People.Something is fishy here.was anything disturbed in her husbands first call?why he called second time again and asked father in law direct?why Young Girls immediately try suecide nowadays?was she so emotional?Heartfelt sympathy to Family members.may her Soul find peace in heaven.

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AHMED,

FEMALES LIKE ROSES HANDLE THEM CAREFULLY EVEN SMALL HARSH WORD THEY CAN NOT TOLERATE

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S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, Dubai

But "Pavitra and Satish were a happy couple with no marital dispute" then what type of situation to take extremely "suicide" decision

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HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

Olagina Guttu Shivane Balla. RIP girl

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HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

..without any reason no one commits suicide. Very sad, RIP

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ISMAIL K PERINJE, PERINJE

Purely social issue and like this unfortunate incidents takes place in the family of average NRI FAMILIES especially gulf NRI WORKERS[wife in india and husband in gulf}.This issue is very sensitive and repercussions of such issues are fatal.VERY VERY SAD &TRAGIC NEWS.MAY SOUL REST IN PEACE.

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Ramesh S, mangalore

100% true..after marriage couple spend very less time together..very short time to understand each other..particularly for lady its very difficult to adjust since, in her inlaw house she may feel in secure since husband abroad and she cant live in her parental house also for long there may be unmarried siblings..for average earner taking family a dream only.. plight of ordinary NRI's who chase mirage in desert..RIP..

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