Bantwal: Shadi ya padhai? Chemistry re-exam puts bride-to-be in quandary


Mounesh Vishwakarma
Daijiworld Media Network - Bantwal (SP)

Bantwal, Mar 26: A girl who had planned to enter wedlock on March 31 this year after the completion of her second PU exams is in a quandary now. The government's decision to hold re-examination for chemistry subject for second year pre-university students, after the question paper leaked, has held her in a bind. Now the choices before her are either to get married or appear for her examination.

Razia (name changed to protect privacy), a second PU student of a prestigious college in the taluk, has this riddle before her to crack within a short period. Her marriage had been fixed three months back by her family as well as that of the groom, as they felt that her PU examinations would be over by then. The student, who was enthusiastic about her marriage, also had made good preparation for the examination.

The government's announcement about reexamination in chemistry subject has hit a large number of students like a bolt from the blue. Many have expressed fear about shortage of time for preparations to face this examination again. In the case of Razia, the issue is more complicated as this can have a lasting impact on her future. Initially, the government had announced that reexamination would be held on March 29, just two days before her marriage day. The girl was worried about the prospect of having to appear for the examination just two days before her marriage. On Thursday evening, the government revised the examination schedule and modified the reexamination date as March 31. This news has transformed her into a mental wreck, as she is left undecided whether to get married or face the examination.

A student appearing for the examination has to be inside the centre between 8.50 am and 12.30 pm. All preparations for the marriage have been completed. It would be a daunting task to face the relatives who will be flocking the marriage venue, if the bride herself stays away. Both are important for Razia, and making a final choice has become difficult. Now, it is left for the families to decide whether they could postpone the marriage by a day or two, but with invitations already out, it would take herculean efforts to inform all and sundry.

Negligence on the part of the department of PU education has affected 1.75 lac PU students in the state in various ways like the above. The student in question has no other option open for her but to decide on one of the choices. At present, she is undecided, and time alone will tell what will happen that day.

  

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Mar 27 2016

    dear bride ,can be married after appearing for the exam.Thats your first important ticket to life,suppose bridegroom runaway or in-laws put you out tomorrow.!I think both can be done.Morning exams,Afternoon marriage.So no headache.can enjoy your marriage full.Good luck.when this one runaway .you will get other.but exam Chance you may not get.

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  • Peter Lewis, Kalmady/k s a

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    What is important? Education or Marriage at this age of girl?

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  • Gudana, mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Chemistry of marriage

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  • Yeshavanth G Shettyy, Mangaluru

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Choice is yours based on your priority.Let the decision be your's consciously.
    Best of Luck for whatever be the decision.

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  • CONRAD JOHN TAURO, SHIRVA/UDUPI/DUBAI

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Padhai First...
    Shadi Next...

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  • Thomas Cutinho, Dubai

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    In my opinion boy and parents allow the bride to appear for her exams and after 2 days.....

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  • JR,

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    STATE GOVT. HAS INTRODUCED SHAADI BHAGYA WHICH PROMOTES EARLY MARRIAGE PARTICULARLY FOR MINORITIES.
    IF THEY GET GOOD EDUCATION CONGRESS WILL LOOSE VOTE BANK OF MINORITIES.

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  • BhakSala, Mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    I strictly instruct Modi ji & Smriti ji keeping in mind beti bachao beti padhao slogan to intervene in this matter and find a solution for this poor girl and this is my order

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  • diya, manglore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    this is a state level problem..not central level...

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  • BhakSala, Mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    I strictly instruct Smriti ji to intervene in this matter and find a solution for this poor girl and this is my order or else what is the use of slogan beti bachao beti padhao

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  • Praveen, Mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    BIRYANI FIRST,,, CHEMISTRY IN JUNE,,...

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  • VM , Udupi

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Chemistry First.

    Biriyani Next.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Juvenile Law is still in Limbo ...

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  • Salvador Pereira , Mangalore/Dubai

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    If she is 18 years better she get married. What future she has if she marries so early if she really has an ambition to do something in future by studied. Dont waste time go ahead and marry, else wait for another 3 years till you graduate and become something in life.

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    @shakeel , dubai . In islamic sharia child means below puberty ( below 12 normally ) . So secular laws like PCMA does not apply , and personal nikah laws over ride. Please refer delhi and gujarat high court judgement on this .

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  • Shakeel, Dubai

    Sun, Mar 27 2016

    So only other communities has to follow secular law ..!!

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Radha or Razia, give first preference to complete your studies.
    Baad mein shaadi, ghar abaadi! All the best to you.

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  • shahnawaz kukkikatte, dubai/udupi

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Let the girl take a call on it.
    Early motherhood is not good and shall effect her negatively in the long run.

    Let her give her exams first and get marry when she is 18 PLUS

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  • Albert, mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Moral of the story: Educate your daughter before wedding!
    Give equality to women folks.

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  • Stevev, Mangalore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    If paper was leaked in just 2 districts why the Govt conducting re exam to entire state?
    First of all those 2 district always comes last in PUC result so why the govt cannot conduct re exam to only those 2 district.? Why Dakshina Kannada People are not protesting for this?Better we have separate State and i am sure DK as well as UDUPI will be developed in infra structure as well as will be top educational destination..

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  • Acchu, M,lore

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    Marriage can be postponed, there will not be any issues if marriage date changed since only families are involved in this ceremony.
    Let her attend exam

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  • Shakeel, Dubai

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    What marriage?????? She s still 16 or 17??? Sir we have to report the main subject as child marriage..

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  • vibha, mangaluru

    Sat, Mar 26 2016

    PU student and wedding? wont she be underage ?

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