Mangaluru: Projecting women as objects - Sulochana slams Ibrahim Kodijal


Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (SP)

Mangaluru, Oct 25: BJP state co-spokesperson, Sulochana G K Bhat, came down heavily on the statement made by interim president of Dakshina Kannada District Congress Committee, Kodijal Ibrahim, that polygyny is necessitated to fulfill sexual desires of men and that men are allowed to marry any number of times to satiate their hunger for sex. "This is a matter of disgrace. He has insulted the women folk. He has to tender apology for nurturing these thoughts and coming out in the open with them," she said.

Addressing a press conference held in the office of Dakshina Kannada district unit of BJP here on Monday October 24, Sulochana pointed out that according to Kodijal, women are just objects that are meant to meet the sexual desires of women. "By branding women as an entity which is devoid of emotions, and their own independent personality, he has utterly insulted the women community as a whole," she stated.

Sulochana said that a large number of Muslim women and children are going through hell everyday because of the prevalence of triple talaq system. "The experiences of Saira Banu, Afteen Rehman from Jaipur and Parsia Bagwan from Pune bring out the pathetic condition of women divorced by the triple talaq system. All of them have approached courts for redressal of their grievances. Seven different women's organizations from the country have voluntarily joined hands with this case. This brings into the open the gravity of this tradition," she explained. She also urged people to answer 16 questions posed by National Law Commission on this issue.

The BJP leader wondered about the fact that no Congress leaders have so far criticized Kodijal even though he made these derogatory statements by sitting in Congress office. "This projects Congress way of functioning. Congress veteran leader, Janardhana Poojary, has brought several pro-women revolutionary initiatives into practice. I urge him to condemn statements like the above made by Congress leaders and give them sane advice," Sulochana stated.

BJP Dakshina Kannada district president, Sanjeeeva Matandoor, district BJP Women's Morcha president, Puja Pai, office bearers, Prabhamalini, Dhanyavati, Manjula, BJP district spokespersons, Vikas Puttur and Jitendra Kottary were among those who were present at the press conference.

  

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  • Valerian D Souza, Udupi / Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    All evil or outdated practices, some of them of frequent war era of those times, prevailing even now in the society, should be eradicated
    Irrespective of religions, whether it is practiced by Hindus, Muslims, Christians, Buddhists, Jains or any other!
    Reformations do take place and it should in every civilization.
    Good sense for overall betterment of humanity should prevail.

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  • Arvind , Pandeshwar

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Life is costly for others, they are blessed with wealth.
    You mean to say if someone is wealthy enough he can have more than one wife?
    Cannot stick to one wife it's not super glue.

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  • Kusuma Kari G , Kodydka

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Polygamy may be allowed only if the man is able to provide good care to all woman. In current situation life has become very costly and I don't think mamy men can afford to have many wives.so better to stick to one woman

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman/Wash DC

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Kusuma,

    Husband wife relationship is more complex than providing for wife...See Bhaskar Shetty murder case...he provided everything to wife materially...

    Rajeshwari alleges Bhaskar Shetty had a second wife in Saudi and had a 2.5 years girl child...

    I think this spiraled in to deep jealousy and hatred....which resulted in the murder of Bhaskar Shetty...and Rajeshwari enticing Niranjan to get even with husband...

    I don't want to comment polygamy is good or bad....its how you take it...most of Muslim women in gulf countries take it very gracefully...most of Indian women don't take it gracefully...

    Even if wives accept it, I am sure it will make husband unhappy in long run...hence not worth it even if you could afford it and your religion allows it....

    ...JH...

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  • Vantage Point, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    "It is a mistaken statement that has been made to us that the Mohammedans do not believe that women have souls. I am very sorry to say it is an old mistake among Christian people, and they seem to like the mistake. That is a peculiarity in human nature, that people want to say something very bad about others whom they do not like. By the by, you know I am not a Mohammedan, but yet I have had opportunity for studying this religion, and there is not one word in the Koran which says that women have no souls, but in fact it says they have."
    -Swami Vivekananda...

    This is for all the haters from either side...

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  • NN, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 26 2016

    VP,was "Sathi" (Burning wife alive on the husband's funeral Pire) also an old mistake?

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Big philosophical answer by our brother.
    I hope our sisters & daughters in M'lore and elsewhere will be spared from false Love & respected henceforth.
    Thanks

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    You yourself can be the best judge of your women. Why only men can indulge in out of the way of life? All have to answer on the final day of judgement (for their sins) No one is going defend. Not even wife. Please justify and do not simply give examples or quotes.

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  • EMRAN, MANGALORE/KSA

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Think of a widow women or women who has no one to take care...is it good for her marry a man who already married and become second wife and fulfill her desires and secure her future life or live single without any security??? Islam give More respect to Women than any Religion...please study Islam before commenting

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  • Sandeep, bangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Does a married man can allow his wife to marry a one more man citing a reason that no one is there take care of that man, is that allowed in your system. Equality. As long as people are not adapting them to changes society will not change, Muslims should try to adopt themselves to changes

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Polygamy, Talaq (3), Sexual craving, outside secret connections etc., only for men. Superhuman beings.
    Even women too are human beings born with same type of instincts and desires but their acts/virtues are considered as sins and abnormal.
    If men can do why can't women too.
    Bring a common Civil law to apply both the genders. We are not living in forgone era of the times.

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  • Mohith, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Kodijal may not even know the real triple marriage or triple talaq as he is coming from one of the corrupted party in India, which has no hopes survival in the coming election. I don't think even Muslim men or women will like the idea of polygyn, unless the woman who he married turned out to be a immoral woman, and he has no reason to live with such women. Othewise no human will like Polygy and one law should be implemented according to Indian Constitutition which is above all religion.
    Jai Hind.

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  • Flaian, Mangaluru/KUwait

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    BJP loosing next Parliament elections but who will win and form the government at the center?
    Even all the splinter groups join they cannot. Congress under Mother & Son Co. is not in a position to do any good. Big question mark ? BJP ha already consolidated their position.

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    MAM, where were you when Pink CHA**I MUTALIK attacked Home Stay girls ???

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  • melwyn, shirva

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    that time so many people commented & shouted for equality. why they are silent now?

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  • Kenneth, Shirva

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Whether we hate or support Modi/BJP, I think we should oppose Triple Talaq system and should support UCC. It will abolish differences prevailing in one single society.

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  • RIZ, Dubai

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Boss, aap ko pata hain what i triple talaq first read the quran and hadis then comments

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  • pircki, panchanabettu

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    that means people don't want equality?

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  • EMRAN, MANGALORE/KSA

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Wait and see.., people will say Triple talak to MODi and BJP in comming Election...

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  • Alphonso Rodrigues, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Mr. Emran, Okay agreed, then explain to me why is Cong losing 'state after state'?
    Is it due to the video 'Rahul with Jackie Shroff'?

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  • PAM Suvarna, Karla

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    May be you are day dreaming about fall down of PM Modi.
    Now time is been changed brother,people are scrutinizing and comparing governance of past and present very carefully.

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Mam,
    What about your Supremo MODIJI's Wife ???
    What about Yeddyurappa's Wife Mysterious Death and about SHOBHAKKA ???
    What About RAGHUPATI Bhat's Wife ???
    What About RENUKACHARYA ???
    The List Continues.....
    First Please Talk about all these, then later on will think about Muslim Womens...

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  • Deekshith, Kalladka

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    ಅಣ್ಣಾ ಬುಡೊರ್ಚಿ ನಿಕ್ಲು .. ತ್ರಿಪಲ್ ತಲಾಖ್ ಬೋಡು ಪಂದ್ ಪ್ರತಿಭಟನೆ ಮಲ್ಪುಲೆ .. ಇನಿ ಯುನಿಫಾರ್ಮ್ ಸಿವಿಲ್ ಕೋಡ್ ಬೊರ್ಚಿ ಪನ್ಪುನ ನಿಕ್ಲು ಎಲ್ಲೆ ಷರಿಯಾ ಕಾನೂನು ಮಾತೆರೆಗ್ಲಾ ಬೋಡು ಪಂದ್ ಪ್ರತಿಭಟನೆ ಮಲ್ಪೆರೆ ಉಂಡು ಅತೆ?

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  • Dev Sagar, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Union Minister of State Giriraj Singh today said that religion can protect us only if we do the same for it, stressing that the Hindus need to increase their population in the country. How can someone in a responsible position issue irresponsible statements like this. Does he realise that who will look after those children??? As of now we have enough and more children dying daily due to malnutrition all over India, rampant child labour to support family, girls being sold for prostitution or begging and so on.

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  • nazeer huasain, jeddah saudi ArabiaJ

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Marriage is better than live in relationships where any of the couple can easuly say TATA BYE BYE in a minute .Kodijal was right as per quranic verse.Your prime minister cannot handle one wife and deserted her long back without any status is now more concerned about muslim ladies .What a joke.imaamsaab has no business about janmashtami .

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  • Robert Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Its the legal issue. There should not be scope for polygamy as per Indian penal code.
    better and worse can be a persons individual view. Law should not recognize a 2nd marriage.

    Make Uniform civil code - all Indians are equal. One can practice any religion but have a uniform civil code.

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  • nazeer Husain, jeddah saudi Arabi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    You may have any changes in any kind of law but shariah based on quran is unchangable.We have lot of immoralities legalised in india like live in relationships or descent prostitution dance bar of ladies artist same sex marriage which all are complete feature of antisocialisation but coutrs have no problem with it.When ladies dance bar ban removed the supreme court oppoined that its livelyhood of indian dance artist cannot be disturbed where as banning beef in maharashtra no courts ever said that buthcery is also the livelyhood of more than five lakh quraishi community in mumbai.Double standars will never superseed shariah at any cost.Quran is complete constitution of muslim anywhere in the world .

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  • melwyn, shirva

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    if it is fine then give the same rights to women also.

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  • Frank, Tulu Nadu Rajya

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Nobody in India cares for sharia law. Sharia law is applicable only in Saudi Arabia. As far as beef banning, obviously it is wrong on the part of the Govt. to ban it and rob the livelyhood of the people. In Kerala for instance all the people eat beef. pls not I am a non-beef eater.

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  • KRISHNA, MANGALORE

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    YOU ARE 100 % CORRECT MR PAIS

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  • dev, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    i support Uniform civil code.

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  • KRISHNA, MANGALORE

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    I support Uniform Civil Code
    All should be equal

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  • Negilya yogi, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Also government need to think about birth control - need to put set limit for maximum number of kids one can have, irrespective of religion, cast. Already we are seeing too much fluctuations in religions growth curve. by putting child birth limit India can achieve future Population control & religious fights / domination's.

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  • Mohan, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Better leave it to Muslim women.

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  • Saihu, mangalore/Dubai

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    In our modern India, Irony is ..
    People never had a cow, talking about cow.
    People who never wear burkha, talking about burkha wearing women.
    People abandoned their wife, talking about triple talaq
    People who never had the love of spouse/lover, debating on valentine day
    People who terrorise people by holding sticks/words and gun openly, talking about peace.
    People who running terrorist camps, debating on growing terrorism
    People who disregard father of nation and constitution, talking about patriotism.
    And the joke of the day is, the people who even in their dreams thinks about destruction of muslims, talking about pathetic conditions of muslims...

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  • Alphonso Rodrigues, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    You have missed out something-
    People who know nothing on economics, speak about setting up factories like 'Aaloo ka factory'.

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  • kannadiga, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    DEAR SO CALLED BJP LEADER SOLOCHANA,
    WHY YOU ANGRY OR SO DISRUPTED ABOUT KODIJAL STATEMENT. HE IS MUSLIM AND HAS THE RIFGT TO TALK ABOUT MUSLIM WOMAN AND MULISM LAWAS FOR MUSLIM WOMAN.
    AS I KNOW THERE IS ENOUGH LEADERS IN MUSLIM COMMUNITY TO TAKE CARE THEIR RELEGION AS WELL THIER PEOPLE.
    PLS DONT WASTE YOUR TIME TO SPEAK ABOUT THE ISSUE.
    IF YOU HAVE ANY CONSIDERATION ABOUT WOMAN TAKE CARE ABOUT YOUR OWN SISTERS.
    WAT A PITY NOW ALL ARE VERY MUCH INTERESTED IN MUSLIM WOMAN RIGHTS.
    SOLOCHANA MAM BUT YOU DONT KNOW WAT YOUR PARTY DID AT GUJARAT A FEW YEARS BACK....
    CAN YOU ANSWER ....!!!!!!!!!!!
    ""MOSALE KANNEERU FOR UP ELECTION""
    BUT PEOPLE OF GREAT INDIA ARE WELL CLEVER AND THEY WILL NOT REPAET THE MISTAKE WAT THEY DID TWO YEARS BACK..
    JAI INDIA
    JAI HIND.

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  • indima, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    we are talking about equality, secularism etc.... then to whom these lectures are applicable??

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  • Indian, mumbai

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Dear BJP speaker I wished you had conveyed this message to all Indians who breed like cats and dogs who give birth to children though they cannot afford to look after them and then the end result 3000 children die daily due to malnutrition esp in UP and north Indian states these children either made to slog in child labour to support family, girls sold to pimps or sold to mafia in child begging. total failure on part of govt and citizens.

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  • PAM Suvarna, Karla

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Dear Indian,

    I agree with your view,
    Kodijal may be just wanted to please some of his male members who planning to go for more than one wife,but other community too need to think about population control of our country,which is the major problem our country is facing and undergoing.

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  • steven, dxb

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    As per the article we should encourage now gender division including no marriages no men or women cooperation for whatever reason none should look each other neither talk or walk sleep or help for whatever reason. Divide India into Four parts transgenders, Men, Women and children. Rest put them into grave.

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  • Indian, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Yes Mam you are 100% right.

    Please clarify regarding MODI's wife Jasodabein too....

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  • nelson, uchila

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    earlier many people talked about Modi's wife & now they are tired hence they keep quiet on this issue.

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  • Indian, India

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Everybody need fame now, koi kuch b bolta hai media me aake... n what triple talaq u r talking about??? If u people are interested to know about talaq, then i request you, please read quran..

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  • Sathurine Fernandes, udupi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Well Said Sulochana Madam. A Person who holds important roll in the Adminstration must not utter these unwanted words.I hope men also will agree.

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  • Hussain, Abudhabi

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Triple talaq followed in India must be abolished...

    Triple Talaq as per "Qur'an and Sunnah" must be encouraged !
    Muslim Clerics who issues ridiculous fatwas must be jailed.

    Pls don't politicize this !

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  • sam imran, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Sylochana madam, what about RSS? they are playing with muslim girl students burkha..it is covering womens modesty..

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  • jeevan, mangalore

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Madam..
    What else we expect from a person like Kodijal ???

    Do you remember how congi compromised with fundamentalist forces in Shah Bano case...

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  • RIZ, Dubai

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    Madam what ever we talk you make statement
    please check with Mr Modi where his wife and what he did for her after getting marriage

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  • Clifford Fernandes, Toronto

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    The greater problem of women in India is like people of all religions, who marry and betray the woman for life. Look at the atrocities committed on dalits. Look at the daily rape of dalit and tribal women in India. The UCC is just a vote getting idea.

    It is like this:

    A merchant who sold sugar and groceries, got angry on a farmer from whom he purchased butter, which was 900 gm as against one kg. When confronted the farmer told him "Sir, I am a poor villager, I don't have enough money to buy the required weights to weigh butter. I put the 1 kg sugar you give me on one side of the scale and weigh butter on another side".

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  • Shahina Farooq, Surathkal

    Tue, Oct 25 2016

    It is definitely wrong on part of kodijal to think women as objects he should have considered emancipated women in muzaffarnagar riots and godhra...
    It is definitely right on part of BJP having people like Dilwar Khan who enjoyed the same benefit...And also the leader of the nation who strengthened the women's cause by showing Jashodaben as example...Sulochana is entirely right she knows the pain of Muslim women like me....Muslims should reform themselves and liberate their women taking cue from Jashodaben...

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