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Mangaluru: Young DJ-musician Jill Gavin D'Souza commits suicide

  •   Thu, Nov 09 2017 10:16:02 PM

Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru

Mangaluru, Nov 9: A young musician and DJ allegedly committed suicide at Bendore here on Thursday November 9.

The deceased has been identified as Jill Gavin D'Souza, a resident of Bendore.

Jill was a drummer as well as DJ with Thermal Shockwave Events.

The reason for taking the extreme step is not yet known.

Sources said that he committed suicide by hanging.

Sources also claimed that before taking the extreme step, he called a girl friend.

Jill was the nephew of noted Konkani musician-composer Claud D'Souza.

 
  

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  • Cutinha, Mangalore/Russia

    Sat, Nov 11 2017

    RIP JILL GAVIN

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  • Himakar, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 11 2017

    RIP JILL GAVIN

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  • Sudhakar Jathanna (Bulla), Bendore,Mangalore/Dubai.

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Our heartfelt and sincere condolences to the family on the untimely death of Jill. May dear Lord Jesus give u all His peace at this time and strength to bear the pain.
    May the departed soul rest in eternal peace with Jesus.

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  • Colson Miranda, Bondel Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Rip Jill Gavin

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  • Austin Jathanna, Bendore,Mangalore/Dubai

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    To Jossey and to all the family members,
    Our heartfelt condolences. May God give you all strength and courage to overcome this tragedy.
    Austin Jathanna and family.

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  • Asha, Mangaluru

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    There is a suicide lifeline in Mangalore!
    Please call 0824- 2983444 if you or someone you know is feeling sad, lost and needs to talk. Trained volunteers will be able to provide free, confidential assistance 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

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  • Gloria, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 11 2017

    ccording to Emile Durkheim’s (A Study in Sociology, New York, The Free Press, 1951) theory on suicide, he concluded that there are four different types of suicide.

    Durkheim’s studies revolved around him trying to understand what makes a person actually commit suicide and what influences or factors may have led that person to that final decision or act.

    Durkheim believed that various sociologically factors and influences were at work such as work pressure, financial, religious, marital to name just a few.

    According to Durkheim, there are four types of suicide:

    Egoistic suicide.

    Altruistic suicide.

    Anomic suicide.

    Fatalistic suicide.

    Egoistic suicide relates to the person being alone or an outsider and subsequently they see themselves alone within the world. This type of person has a low social interaction with others.

    Altruistic suicide is when social group involvement is too high, expectation from a group is being met at a very high level such as a sacrifice for a cult or religion. Another example would be a Marta or a suicide bomber.

    Anomic suicide relates to a low degree of regulation and this kind of suicide is carried out during periods of considerable stress and frustration. A good example would be great financial loss or when the financial market that person controls collapses with severe consequences for many involved.

    Fatalistic suicide is when people are kept under tight regulation such as in Korea. Where there is extreme rule in order or high expectations set upon a person or peoples in which lead them to a sense of no self or individuality.

    The bottom line is this.

    In reality, people who actually commit the physical act of suicide, those who kill themselves often fall into 3 areas.

    The first is depressive where one is feeling considerably sorry for oneself and it could be the result of a breakup from boyfriend or girlfriend or a divorce. In truth, that person will never actually commit suicide but will enter into negative suicidal thoughts and on some level this is possibly very cathartic or even helpful in contrast to their pain and extreme feelings of loss or rejection or towards other similar situations that may arise in their life.

    This is the type of suicide that may happen but probably won’t and often doesn’t, but could.

    The next state is also depressive and may be the result of extreme emotional turmoil often under the influence of alcohol and or drugs and mainly falls under the category of a cry for help and a need for serious attention for all the right reasons. (Not to be underestimated by the use of casual general terms).

    This type of suicide could happen but probably won’t and often doesn’t and is mainly about a demonstration of severe emotional pain and feelings of helplessness and hopelessness with regard to that person’s situation.

    Often that person’s situation has now become so intolerable they only see one way which is to either drink themselves senseless or drug themselves up and find themselves standing on the top of a buildings edge, a ledge, a bridge or a cliff and threatening to jump BUT more than likely won’t because it’s more about demonstrating showing others the severe pain and turmoil that persons is in than to actually end it all if this display of pain brings them help.

    This usually results in other people expressing considerable urgency and grave concern over that person which is in effect what that person needs and can thankfully lead to some form of help and or therapy as a result.

    The third type of suicide is exactly what it says it is. This person will commit suicide, they will kill themselves.

    Often this type or state will result in the act of committing suicide and it will usually be with a clear and sober mind in the decision anyway, to take an overdose, to shoot oneself or jump to their death and is in many cases calmly chosen and decided upon in a clear way.

    There are various videos around online which demonstrate the moments before a person committed suicide, when they actually committed suicide there is often shown a sense of calm and control without any indication of what they were about to do such as waiting at a railway station platform in a calm patient manner the same as all the other commuters and then just as the train approaches they jump in front of it.

    Suicide has many reasons and causes and they are very complex and profound.

    Each individual is unique in their own reasons why they commit suicide or talk about it or just think about it and in most cases it is usually the result of depression and depressed related symptoms that become so insurmountable and so intolerable that after years of therapies and treatments over many years they find themselves at a loss and decide that they cannot and will not continue with their current feelings and thoughts.

    There’s also another out of the box category of people who commit suicide unexpectedly who prior to the act of committing suicide weren’t suffering from any depression and that an unexpected event in their life resulted in the decision to end it all, such as shameful guilt due to carrying out an illegal or deviant, dishonest act or behaviour.

    Many people who had been found out or were about to be found out for certain illegal activities and the shame and horror that would bring to both them and their family members ended in them taking their own life.

    If you or anyone you know has suicidal thoughts or tendencies the Samaritans are there to help.

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  • Alwyn Crasta, Bendur, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Heartfelt condolences to Jossy & fly. and Claud & fly.

    May Jill Gavin's soul rest in peace.

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  • FLORA DSOUZA, Kalmady - Jerimeri (Mumbai)

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Very sad and shocking news... May his soul Rest In Peace!

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  • Canute Joy, Mangaluru

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    May his soul Rest In Peace

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Quite shocking news indeed.May his soul rest in peace

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  • Magnus Iroll Dsouza, Kulshekar

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Very Shooking and sad news. May his soul Rest in peace.

    Heartfelt condolences to Jossy uncle and Family.

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  • ALDRIN D SOUZA, bikernakatte

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    RIP Bro. Miss you

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  • Jossie Pinto, Nanthoor/USA

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Heartfelt Sympathies Jossy & Fly. So shocking to hear the news. May his soul rest in peace and may the good Lord give you enough strength to bear this untimely loss. You are in our prayers.

    With deepest symathies
    Jossie Pinto and family

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  • C.G.Sequeira, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Shocked to hear about the sad, sudden and untimely demise of Jill Gavin.Heartfelt condolences to Jossie, Julie, Jack and the bereaved family members. May his departed soul rest in Peace.

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  • Nikhil, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Such a kind hearted person .RIP Jill .Such a tough guy u were mn. Never saw this coming .May God keep u safe and be happy bro .Miss u Heart felt condolences to the family members

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  • ramesh, bantwal

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    RIP

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  • Gerry D’Mello, Bendur/Canada

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    The sad news of Jill’s untimely demise has come as a great shock to the entire music world. We pray Almighty God to grant great strength to Jossie, Julie, Jack & the entire bereaved family to bear this terrible loss. May Jill’s departed soul Rest In Peace!

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  • C. D'Souza., Mangaluru

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    He was a fine young man and I was very happy to meet him. His gentle nature, miraculous mind, brilliant humour and his passion for music inspired us. He gave many people a reason to laugh and enjoy a moment in their life with his music. He was a very gifted human being. Depression coupled with addiction is a heavy disease. He has obtained the peace he was seeking. Gone to soon. FAREWELL GILL. Rest In Peace.

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  • CRD, Mangalore/ Kuwait

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Eternal rest grant unto Jill Lord may his soul rest in peace..

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  • VALERIAN DSILVA, Manglore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    rest in peace dear JILL.

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  • Robin, Byndoor

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Let Gavin RIP....

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  • Sujith Pinto, Kadri, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Can't believe you took such an extreme step bro!! You will be missed forever. Hearfelt Condolences to Jossy Uncle, Jake and his family members. Rest in Peace bro!! Adieu to you!!!!!

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  • ricardo lobo, nakre.....Karkala

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

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  • Gladson Dsouza, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Rest in peace jill

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  • Rajesh Prakash, Bendur M'lore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    We will miss you dear Jill. May u r soul rest in peace

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  • Prakash D' Cunha, Bajpe/Ashoknagar/Abudhabi

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    May his soul rest in peace.

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  • Tom Cat, Navi Mumbai

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Permenent solution for a temporary problem.

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  • Jason and tonita pereira, Bendur

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Dear Dsouza family,
    Please accept our heart felt sympathies and condolences.
    Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

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  • Orton Cordeiro, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Telling again & again Suicide is not the solution of problems.

    RIP Bro.

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  • Cyril Richard Fernandes, MANGALURU

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    May his soul rest in peace

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    RIP Jill ...

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  • Earl, Mangalore/Dubai

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    RIP young man!

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  • Satya, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Oh No!
    Such a mentally strong boy... I don't understand what made him to take this extreme step.

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  • Adeline Lobo, Bendur/Kuwait

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    My heartfelt condolences to Jossy, Julie, Jack & all the family members. Almighty God give strength to bear his loss.

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  • Jane Pinto, Mangalore, Doha Qatar

    Fri, Nov 10 2017

    Very sad.....heartfelt condolences to the family.

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  • john, udupi

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    Please GOD not man to be peaceful n happy in life.

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  • Edrin, moodbidri

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    Extremely shocked by this news..... May his soul rest in peace...

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  • Shaun, Mangalore

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    U wil be missed ......... May your soul rest in peace jill

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  • AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    RIP. Very devastating news to the family members and friends. A grim reminder: Professional life and fans don't bring fulfillment in life. God does.

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  • Ignatius Noronha, Kadri tollgate. Mangalore / Canada

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    heartfelt condolences to Claud / Jossy Family.May his Soul rest in peace.
    Ignatius Family. Canada.

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  • Jason and tonita pereira, Bendur

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    Dear dsouza family...
    Please accept our heart felt condolences ..shocked..to hear this...RIP Gavin..

    Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

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  • ds Dsouza, bendoor

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    RIP jill gavin

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  • Terrence DSouza, Vamanjore/Dubai

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    Shocking. Very sad. We will miss you Dear Jill. We all will pray for you.

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  • Don, Mangalore

    Thu, Nov 09 2017

    RIP Jill.

    May God give your loved one the strength to bear this loss.

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