Woman gives triple talaq to husband in Haryana, elopes with lover


Yamunanagar, Aug 19 (PTI): Amid the controversy over triple talaq, a woman here turned the tables on her husband, using the contentious practice to 'divorce' him.

Shazia, a mother of three, 'divorced' her husband, Abbas, by writing 'talaq talaq talaq' on a piece of paper, police said on Saturday.

The woman, a resident of Unhedi village, then eloped with her lover, who also happens to be her nephew, they said.

The practice of instant talaq is used by some Muslim men to divorce women.

In a landmark verdict, the Supreme Court last year had ruled that the practice of divorce through triple talaq among Muslims as 'void', 'illegal' and 'unconstitutional'.

The government later brought a bill that criminalises instant triple talaq, which was passed by the Lok Sabha. But an amended version of the bill is yet to be taken up by the Rajya Sabha.

Shazia, in a letter to her husband, said, "I am divorcing you out of my own free will. I am leaving this house because you tortured me ever since we got married. You would beat me after getting drunk. Hence, I am taking talaq." She added that she was not doing it under anybody's influence.

"Nobody else is responsible," Shazia wrote.

Police said she eloped with her nephew, who is a bachelor.

 

  

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Baab Joseph
    1 .You are talking of sanctity of maariages.They don't hold good today.
    2.Bible and other holy scriptures are for you and me.
    3.Today models change every day.
    4. No place for emotions .
    5.Jet set life.
    6.No value for human life....Every one busy running after God knows what.
    7.No contact with blood relations. Friends neighbors more important.
    8.Law rules more.
    9Divorce marriage numbers equal.
    Understood No ?

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Mon, Aug 20 2018

    Dear R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru,

    For your kind information God's word is final for humans.

    Word of God doesn't change models colours and acts for their materialistic and worldly affairs.


    Matthew 24:35 Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away.


    Further for your kind information you should read about the following peoples voices in the web and youtube

    Sam Shamoun. Dr. David Wood, Pastor Joseph, Brother Jerry Thomas of India, Brother Tony Costa explain well about the flaws and fallacies 1400 religion.

    Dr. Zakir Naik can make 25 mistakes in 5 min- Dr. Nabeel Qureshi
    Dr. Nabeel quraishi was a Muslim converted to Islam.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Here the lady ranaway with her nephew giving tripple talaq.I doubt about her giving the reason to her husband ,of beating her after get drunk.may be quite possible.but in background is her lover there.That too Nephew . Previously women were not educated couldnt runaway ,had to obey him whether he beat her ,or go to back mother house.Now women know that she can take life in her hands,law too makes easy for her.Still divorce is being done often now even for simple reason.many men drive women to divorce for simple reason as in hindu religion ,because of big dowry.Not satisfied even after marraige.sad.Children are suffering here.many times women suffer.and stay because of children.many men make make it easy just go and marry a second time.Anyway divorce is a solution if nothing functions.

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  • Mohammed Sadiq, Udupi

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Islam is perfect but not Muslims..
    Allah hate's the word divorce.
    Separating is only at the extreme situation, where no compromising is possible.
    Both male and female have equal rights.
    Kids are father's responsibility.
    This is Islam.

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  • Arun, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    No religion is perfect. As all religions are man made. With the amount of information available now so freely and the scientific progress, people are questioning everything written in religious books. And they are finding a lot of inconsistency, contradictions, and questionable things in books! Non religious numbers are increasing everwhere. If not for fear of persecution by government and society, non religious people will openly admit their lack of faith in religion in many countries.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Arun,

    Just read the book Quran and the Modern Science by Maurice Bucaille, a scientist who converted to Islam after studying Quran.

    He came to the conclusion that the Quran is the revelation from the Almighty; and no human being cannot write 1400 years ago about modern science with such a precision.

    This book explains how the Quran flawlessly covers the topics of Creation of Universe, Astronomy, Geology, Biology, Embryology.

    Just read this book and decide whether all religions are man made or it is something else.

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  • Indian, Bangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Just wanted to know why Islanmic counties completely depend on Western science and technology when they know everything about science.

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  • Anil, MP

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @ Indian,

    You nailed it bro.... What a reply....

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Indian& Anil,

    No need to nail it so early.

    Quran is not a book of science so that Arabs know everything about science. Quran is the book of Guidance revealed by the Almighty to all human beings.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Polygamy and Divorce are the biggest evils of the society.

    THE GOVERNMENT SHOULD MAKE LAWS TO STOP POLYGAMY, DOWRY AND CHILD MARRIAGES IN THE COUNTRY.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [39] Reply Report Abuse

  • Arun, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Why do u say divorce is evil? If marriages dont work, divorce gives a way out so that they have a chance to rebuild their life. Saying divorce evil is very myopic view of life reality

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Marriage is not an agreement to follow accordingly.

    Marriage is a Holy Matrimoney to live together.

    Therefore, both the proposed boy and girl should have mutual understanding prior to the marriage.

    ONCE MARRIED DON'T SAY MARRIAGE DIDN'T WORK.

    PRIOR TO MARRIAGE ALL YOUR YES AND NO WITH EACH OTHER SHOULD BE RESOLVED.

    THERE IS NO QUESTION MARRIAGE IS NOT WORKING AFTER THE MARRIAGE.

    THINK BEFORE INK.

    HENCE DIVORCE AND DOWRY ARE THE EVILS OF THE SOCIETY.

    NO BARGAINING IN THIS CASE JUST BECAUSE IT IS WRITTEN IN YOUR BOOK.

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  • Arun, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Joesph- marriage is an agreement. Its a legal bond. Law of the land also says the same. Marriages used to happen even before major religions came into civilizations and made it holy!!

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Marriage is not an agreement. Marriage is a Holy Sacrament.

    Marriage is solemnised to both the bride and bridegroom.

    An agreement can be broken.

    Holy Matrimony is not for breaking, it is a Holy Sacrament.

    Hence in between a man and a woman/ boy and a girl marriage is not for breaking as and when one likes.

    Women is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when she likes.and man is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when he likes.

    In the love and holiness children are born and in holiness children should be brought up. God loves everybody and when we love Him he comes and makes his abode in us.

    MARRIAGE IS NOT AN AGREEMENT LIKE BUYING OF A HOUSE OR A RENTED HOUSE.

    HENCE POLYGAMY AND DOWRY ARE EVIL OF THE SOCIETY.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    God did not made religion. Man made religion. We Christians live in in the faith of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

    Women is not like a Bondwomen. She is un-purchasable.
    Bondman and Bondman are purchased with an agreement for maid or for a work in the land.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Now Corrected Message: Women is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when he likes.and man is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when she likes.

    (Before: Women is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when she likes.and man is not a material to be used and thrown out as and when he likes).

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Arun,

    Just believe me. It's impossible to make him understand why divorce is a must in so many cases to come out of the problem to start a new life. I had explained him with various practical examples earlier.

    Just ask Joseph, what the husband in this case should do if he wants to remarry, when his wife has already eloped with someone else. When divorce is already a crime according to him;'and if he marries without divorce, then that is polygamy and that is also a crime according to him. Then ask Joseph what is the solution. May be he will instruct to go on a search of the eloped wife and try to convince her. And beg her to come back. If she doesn't agree just stay with her and her lover/ husband. Marriage is Holy after all.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    So have multiple mistress, girlfriends, prostitutes is good but giving life to someone through polygamy is evil?? What sort of evil modern thinking it is?

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    TELL ME MULTIPLE MARRIAGES ARE NOT LIKE A PROSTITUTION ?? ?!!! YES THEY ARE LIKE PROSTITUTION.

    A MAN THROWS OUT HIS WIFE LIKE A PIECE OF PAPER IS THROWN OUT???!!!

    A WIFE IS NOT LIKED TO A MAN AND HE THROWS OUT AND MARRIES ANOTHER. IT IS LIKE A PROSTITUTION.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @ Joseph,

    Why can't you just stick to one topic at a time. You start with something and suddenly move to something else that is not related to the first topic; and end your topic with something totally irrelevant. Have some control on yourself and write something that can be used by others to come to some conclusions.

    You start with polygamy and suddenly say that the husband throws out his wife and marries other. How come it is polygamy if he throws her wife out?

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  • Justin Lobo, Bangalore KSA

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait, Why are you mentioning about science while the subject is about divorce. What relation has to do with religion and Science. My religion is good and others religion is bad you mean to say. You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. Presently Divorce is a biggest problem facing the world and it should be dealt with severely.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Justin Lobo,

    You don't act like hypocrite.

    Somebody had commented that all religions are man made. So I had to explain them that it is not true by taking the example of Quran and claiming that no human being can write a book like Quran 1400 years ago with such a precision in the field of science.

    So it was not me who started to comment out of the subject. I was just replying to something which I found not correct in the comment section. But you never put your objection when somebody else commented out of subject and suddenly got alert when I replied to that. May be you could not digest my answer or you are not comfortable to discuss science.

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  • Justin Lobo, Bangalore KSA

    Mon, Aug 20 2018

    @Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait, Joseph was responding to commentators and to the current news. Polygamy is the main reason. You are bringing conversions. I can give you plenty of learned men converted from Muslims to Christianity. Your little mind cannot go into it.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    IS NOT MISSYAR MARRIAGES ARE PROSTITUTION???!!!

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  • Alan, Mangalore/U.S.A

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Ahmad, What do you mean by saying giving life through polygamy, You are automatically assuming that a noble deed has been done. How about injustice done to the former wife. Polygamy has to be stopped ,immediately , without any waste of time.It is a stupid man made decision. everything was done to harress the girl child or women. Triple talaq should also be banned , like polygamy. Only legal divorce should be allowed , which gives a fair alimony to the women to take fend for herself & her family. Justifying Polygamy & triple talaq , as a noble deed is simply too horrible to comprehend. Triple talaq and polygamy was done with only one thing in mind , and that was to to for the men to bed with as many women as possible in the guise of giving life to the poor young widow & taking advantage of her for reasons other than religion. Please bear in mind that i have nothing against your religion, My friends, classmates ,& collegues follow Islam & i am so very impressed by their religion & their faith & their generosity but this man made rules have to be thrown out of the dustbin.

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  • NN, NN

    Mon, Aug 20 2018

    Ahmed, what do you mean by giving life to someone? When I was growing up my neighbor Muslim man had 2 wives under the same roof and they were rolling beedis and this man used to gamble with their hard earned money. You mean to say the Muslim women are not capable of earning their daily bread? One wife at a time is the universal law.

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  • Mark Dcruz, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Credit goes to Modi and BJPee team.. !

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  • Critic, Mangaluru

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Men always are blamed by society but in reality he is oppressed...

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  • Luv, Mlore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Write " talak talak talak in 10 seconds...
    then desert your three children and run away with boy friend !!

    It should be a eye opener for male chauvinist society ....
    Imagine the plight of wife& children when a man does the same ...
    That too when a women is not even allowed to earn a living by herself...

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Luv,

    Husband is still accountable to look after his children, even after divorce; if the children are in their young age.
    For the wife, after talaq; her father, brothers and children are still alive to look after her.

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  • sri_elder, Karkala

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    All laws are man made for men's convenience..

    Now women started writing law for themselves for their convenience...

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  • mohan, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Tripple talaque law is both for men and women...... so there is no issue....

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    i am wondering why always women seek sympathy when it comes they are wrong?
    marriage is a mutual contract, and as any contract there are also some misunderstanding, over possessive, like others they have to solve themselves , but now a days i see people have too much ego problems and when their demand has not been fulfilled, they will use all law against them, and most importantly money matters.
    my advise is if you are not happy break-up happily and live your own life without harassing others with whom you have lived once.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    By the if women in Islam has to divorce it's called as Qhula not Talaq. The word Talaq is given by men not women.

    Here women doesn't need to proclaim Talaq 3 times either instantly or once a month of 3 consecutive menstruation period of a women.

    If she needs divorce she can approach Kazi with her arbitrators and file Qhula, if husband don't respond/dont appear in front of Kazi then the Kazi has right to Dissolve the Nikah (fask e nikah). If husband appears before Kazi then based on hearings of both either a reconciliation can be made or Qhula can be obtained. Almost priority will be given to clear their differences and to reconciliate. If reconciliation fails then ultimate step is to provide divorce so that both can part away from each other and start a new life rather than living torture life under the safe roof.

    It's a simple procedure yet people make it complicated by filing unwanted cases towards each other humiliating, torturing each others family.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Modern contraceptive techniques make that "once a month of 3 consecutive menstruation period" phrase totally obsolete!!!

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    It's looks obsolete for u but not for the believers and followers.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Shankar,

    In Islam, sexual relationship is not allowed during menstrual period. So,to give more chance to the couple to reunite by allowing more time for intimate relationship, it is not allowed to give talaq during menstruation.

    If no menstruation, just 3 talaqs; one in a month.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    She should be tried as per law.
    Gender equality first.

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  • SB, Mlore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    First time in 71 years.

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  • Arun, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    That is an excuse to justify her act.

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  • Arin, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    So husband to be blamed even when wife ran away with another man?

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  • Ramesh S, MANGALORE

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    ..now support from Men to ban TTL will pour in..

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  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Islam has provision of "Khula" for those woman who wants divorce from men who are not worthy of being a good husband.
    She doesn't have to write 3 times talaq as it is wrongly interpreted.
    Please watch brother Imran 's youtube video on topic "triple talaq"

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    If the husband is beating after getting drunk, she would have easily got divorce from husband. Was there any need to elope with someone? ((Nephew?)

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Nehle Pe Dehla ...

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    I had written in my comments earlier that why Modi is showing partilaity by not bringing law for imprisoning women who leave their husband instantly without any notice. I had found some disagrees even though my question was absolutely valid and realistic.

    Let Modi bring new law for this case also if he is not playing politics in this issue. But I am sure that Modi does not have that much daring as he is just playing vote bank politics always.

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  • Maniar, Suratkal

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Some people unable to digest the truth upto now.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Muniar,

    Yes. Unlike your feku master and their podi gang, I cannot digest injustice or partiality and using the people's problems for political benefits. I am not that much selfish.
    If some married woman elopes with someone else, for any normal husband, it's just equivalent to a relief from an unwanted burden and a blessing in disguise. Just say Hawaa Aane De and continue with the normally life.

    To you, it may be a grief to spend with, throughout your life.

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  • Maniar, Suratkal

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    You mean eloping with nephew is acceptable. Need to keep open windows always.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Maniar,
    It's not advisable to comment while intoxicated.
    Normal people keep the Windows slightly opened to allow fresh air inside. But You may keep your Windows open for the reasons known to you.

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  • sri_elder, Karkala

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Madiddunno maharaya...

    Very good initiative by ladies 😁

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Sri,
    I don't know when you say the same to husband of Jasho da Ben of Gujarat.

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  • parvez hamad, mangalore/dxb

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    yes people we got todays topic start your comments. shuru hojao

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Ye Kya baa
    Talaaq Ultaa Maara ?
    Kidhar thaa ab.tak Bhatijaa
    Pakaa rahaa thaa Kya Samosaa
    Ek dum baahar aa ko Lafdaa
    Talaaq Na Talaaq
    Iski ijaazat kahin bhi nahin baa !

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  • Maniar, Suratkal

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    It's same like a high profile lady from bangalore shakereh khakeeli fall into love with swami shraddhananda...even after having grown-up children. Sanskar at last.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Maniar,
    Can you please elaborate the story? Why can't you be more clear in your comments.
    I did not understand why you referred to sanskar.

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  • Maniar, Suratkal

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Day is near..one or other day..womens will come on road and agitate against menfolk.. for caged them from long.

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  • Rose, Mangalore

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Ab aagaya bahut acche din.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Maniar.

    What non sense.
    How can they come out when they are caged. And if they have already come out, why should they agitate against menfolk. Just don't go back. You are just enjoying by making a mountain out of a molehill.

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  • Maniar, Suratkal

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Better we feed them satwik food rather than highly fatty food in all the seasons. Food make people active more.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    @Maniar,

    Great. I appreciate your level of dignity.

    When husband divorces his wife - husband is wrong
    When wife divorces husband- husband is wrong
    When husband gives triple talaq- husband is wrong
    When wife elopes with her lover- husband is wrong.

    Better marry a Robot with artificial intelligence and programmed to obey his (its) wife.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Sun, Aug 19 2018

    Only one exception- Feku is always right. Let him abandon his wife. No problem at all. Because he is the law.

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