Udupi: Minor Girl Seeks Protection from Husband


Udupi: Minor Girl Seeks Protection from Husband

Daijiworld Media Network – Udupi (SP)

Udupi, Apr 6: Annapoorna, resident of J C Nagar in Bangalore, pleaded for protection at a press conference held here on Tuesday April 5. She said she had been married off against her wishes when she was 16, and that she had run away from husband, unable to bear his harassment.

“I am now aged seventeen and half years. I used to live with my parents at J C Nagar Bangalore. I started from Bangalore on March 28 after writing pre university examination. When I was 16, I was forced to marry my mother’s younger brother. My husband tortures me regularly. I had complained to High Ground police station in Bangalore and office of the police commissioner there about the harassment and torture. Being unable to take it any more, I left home and arrived in Dharmasthala. I had also decided to commit suicide at Kundapur, but a person there asked me to meet Radha Das, vice president of the union of Mahila Mandals. Radha Das provided me succour. I will not return to Bangalore at any cost. My husband has given money to my mother and hence, she does not support me. I am afraid to return. I will either die, or live independently. I request you to extend help to me,” she requested.

Radha Das said that she is trying to convey information about the girl to her parents and husband through the media. She also said that information about the situation she is in, and complaint about harassment will also be sent to the superintendent of police, deputy commissioner and women and child welfare department. She felt that the girl is in need of protection at present.

  

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  • C K DAYANANDA, MANGALURU

    Fri, Apr 08 2011

    Very good and sensible comments by Manoj Castelino, VAMANJOOR/ MANGALORE.

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  • Namratha Lobo, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Thu, Apr 07 2011

    Dear Annapurna,
    I'm not sure whether my message will reach you but I hereby request anyone who can convey my msg to her to do so. Do not get disheartened. Whatever has happened in your life was something that cannot be undone and neither can be erased from your memory. But what this incident brings to you is a chance for a new life, a new identity and a zest for life. Life has many shortcomings and their magnitude varies. But what we have that cannot be taken away or manipulated is our soul. Spread your wings and soar high, may come difficulties but keep your wings strong. My prayer to the Lord Almighty is that he may abide in you and lead you in the right path.

    We women have been termed the weaker sex but the question is who have termed us this way that we have to carry this tag with us. If we believe we are stronger of the sexes(only 2 exist!!) then we are. In India we believe Husband is God, but the truth is there is nobody like God. So do not fear, the blood that flows in you and your mind that is strong willed will protect you. Open to the World and may many like you come out and pour out their sufferings without fear.

     
    (I hope every citizen reading this understands the magnitude of the situation and acts accordingly)

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  • Hisham Ahmed, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 07 2011

    Sister, be bold face the challenge, hope media is supporting you. Now that Daiji World published this incident police, Human rights will listen plus there are women societies all will hep you get away from torture and harassment. Be bold and face the challenge and soon you will find independence from selfish relatives. Your case is very strong and they cannot defend themselves.

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  • Prisha Mascarenhas, Kirem,mangalore

    Thu, Apr 07 2011

    Prasad yekkur, Dubai, I commend your comments. Very well said. People like Nagesh Nayak have small brains, needs to improve in his general knowledge. I wish and pray people in authority will help this girl and readers of daijiworld will get feedback.

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  • alwyn, mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh Nayak ... i think now ypu got enough comments for your record.
    JAI HIND !!!

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  • Shivanand Shetty, Mangalore/Bangalore/USA

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    R.J.Fernandes, Kallianpur/Goa/usa the same thing goes to some of the commentators who always bring BD/RSS/VHP into the matter everytime when the issue is not related to them. What about those commentators. I am not supporting nagesh's comments, but what about those commentators who bring hindu organizations name everytime when something goes wrong in mangalore? Please comment about them also not only nagesh ok.

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  • R.J.Fernandes, Kallianpur/Goa/usa

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    This message is for Mr.Nagesh.
    Are you unemployed?. We can request Daijiworld to arrange for an attendents job in Italy.
    This column is meant for real sensitive issues for help & suggestions. You always go out of the way and bring religion/politics into the subject.
    Please grow up.
    Whatever is the real fact,few things are clear in this case.
    1.The girl in question was 16 years old when got married.
    2.She got married to her mothers brother.
    3.Mothers brother paid certain sum of money to his sister.
    4.She had approached comm.of.Police
    at one stage. What happened?
    So, if you want to help & comment work on these points. Simply do not bring your unemployment frustration here.
    Thanks for listening.

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  • Vijay D'Souza, Pernal/ Doha-Qatar

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Very well said,Mr.Prasad.Yekkur-Dubai.Really appreciate your comments.

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  • Derick D'souza, M'lore/Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Mr Dev sagar/mangalore- Muthalik and his bajrangdal party will active to protect our indian womens on Feb-14 every year valentine's day only.other days they don't have duty.

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  • Maya, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    An article that prompts a comment.
    No Parent has the right to force a child to marry against their wish.
    Your child did not come into this world as a commodity to be bargained and bartered with. Handle children with care, they have feelings and minds of their own. This is what education teaches us.

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  • Rakesh Dsouza, Mangalore, Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    I'm sorry to say that all our respected readers are misusing the comment column for unwanted stuff and diverting the topic to somewhere....moreover fights each other like street dogs....
    It will be great if our readers can only give their opinions / views / advice on the subject which is fair and please don't blame each other...
    Hope all our readers take this in possitive way.....And don't care if there is any negative coments on me.

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  • Denz, Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Prasad, Yekku-Dubai U r 100% Correct my dear. u r comments r based on reality not only on Drama,

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  • RAJ ULLAL, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    @Manoj Castelino, VAMANJOOR/ MANGALORE i agree with you that Roman Catholics donot have any links with conversion activities. At same i want to tell you that there are some of the commentators who always spread anti hindu comments without having any knowledge.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Dear Mr. Manoj Castelino, VAMANJOOR/ MANGALORE,

    You think for a while wisely and ink. Have you commented rightly by accusing??? WIDOW MARRIAGE IS MORALLY ALLOWED. THINK OF YOUR OTHER COMMENTS.

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  • MAYUR, KARKALA

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Dear Friends,
    After reading all the comments from various sections of people, it is noticed that we are forgotten about the news what is written in the paper. We fight like d……… do we need to do that. Common dears we all Indians and be a Indian. Why do we bring religious in to this subject? Requesting all of them just write comments and your views and not to bring religious and do not hurt anyone community sentiment. There is a says “We cannot change others but we can change ourselves” then society will change automatically.

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  • Melwin Pimto, Mangalore/Ahmedabad

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Please can you guys (nagesh nayak, bangalore, Pramod muthalik, _ regarding this Girl, It would be a great help to this girl. Try to do something good at this time. All the best.

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  • Manoj Castelino, VAMANJOOR/ MANGALORE

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Mr Nagesh Nayak, All these forced conversions are done by a seperate religious group called newlife, protestants or bibble society. They have nothing to do with christians (RC). RC church has no control over these people. Because of these guys shameless deeds christians get attacked. The fact is christans(RC) are highly affected by these conversions than hindu brothers. They operate everywhere and use false literature, identity,big money, jobs and even widow marriage. So its the time for everyone to take action against these people.

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  • Neil, Dubai/M'lore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    It is simple the girl is minor and all the accused could be punished under child marriage act/rape including the mother for forceful marriage

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  • JACOBNELSON, MUMBAI

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    YESTERDAY YOU WERE WATCHING TV.
    IS IT INDIAN TECHNOLOGY OR FOREIGN TECHNOLOGY.
    SINCE YOU ARE A VEGAN AND ALWAYS HATE FOREIGNERS-EUROPEANS ETC YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO WATCH TV,TRAVEL BY VEHICLE,TRAIN SINCE THESE ALL ARE FOREIGN IDEAS.
    ONLY USE BULLOK CART,VODA(DHONI) AND KANNADA NEWS PAPER.

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  • Celine Harry Almeida, Kundapur / Vasai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    This is madness. Here is one child in trouble. Should we not focus on helping her rather than washing our dirty linen now. Please someone, show her means of being independent and bring the smile back on her face please.

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  • veena dsouza, MANGLORE

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    very sad to hear about this story if you can make something solution and reachout with help do it people are just commenting against religion and making fun of the things its just wasting time look at her face how much she is in trouble please pray for her and provide some job to live independently

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  • Viwan Noronha, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Please ignore comments of those FOOLS who comment not related to the topic. As they appear only when they can point fingers at others. " barking DOG sheldom bites" ....

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    hi, Don, Mangalore/Bangalore,

    Same words are boomerang on you when you guys jump & commented recklessly on SHRIMAAN NITYANANDA SwAMIJI & SHRIMAAN PRAMOD MUTALIKJI.

    what made you now to hate me ?

    did not you guys write 'n' of comments against another community & hinduism?

    do you want proof?

    now same media exposed your karmakanda's & you wish we should keep quiet.

    what you sow it will reap.

    there are other episodes which will telecast soon.

    wait & watch.

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  • Sandesh, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Ravi Poojary , Its applicable for you also dont divert topic

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  • Ravi Poojary, Bangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh Mama dont divert the the topic. Post you comments related to this topic. Where is your hero MUTALIK after telhelka expose. Must be hidden some where. He has done grave mistake by attacking girls and he did this only and only for MONEY.

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  • Arshad Kadli, Bhatkal / Al Khobar

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh,
    No christian supported Ebenzer incident in that particular news articles comments.
    Now you suddenly remember Ebenzer while reading story of Annapoorna and start crying foul.
    Why dont you start home for these poor souls and prevent them from risk of conversion. A separate section for women like Annapoorna and another for Old Age people.
    With their care you will have all your complains against Minorities will be over.
    Nobody will go to there Christians if you provide better abode to them.
    Jai Ho....

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  • Ganesh, Mangaladevi, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Dear cm instead of giving land for cricket team and 1 crores for tn temple. could u pls. do something for above metter. if u have time, all time u running delhi for advani answer.

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  • Shivanand Shetty, Mangalore/Bangalore/USA

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Peter Pereira, Pune, alwyn, mangalore, Akil dsouza, Mangalore here i am not supporting nagesh's comments, but whatever you commented against nagesh sometimes applies to you also because i have seen you people commenting on hindu organizations everytime when something goes wrong in mangalore. That too without knowing the truth.

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  • Roshan , Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Mr. Nagesh Nayak . u spk every time against Christianity saying that Christians convert Hindus so & so… But could plz tell me that, what have u done to ur poor fellow guys of Hindu religious ppl. Have you ever supported them in any sense? U just keep on writing some philosophy against Christianity.

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  • Margarita, Mangalore / Mumbai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    I appreciate the courage gathered by the girl at the age of 17. Well done, it is better to live independently rather than living like an animal in a marriage for the society sake. Parents need to be punished getting married to the girl against their wish and selling them for moneys sake.

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  • Akil dsouza, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh are you job less?? do some social work my dear.. dont comment rubbish..

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  • Indian, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Where is beti bacho wala muthalik

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  • Norbert , MANGALORE/DUBAI

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    NAGESH NAYAK,PLEASE COMMENT ON TODAY'S ISSUE.ONE GIRL IS SUFFERING AND YOU ENJOY.DON'T JUMP LIKE MONKEY.BE A GOOD MAN.

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  • Peter Pereira, Pune

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Maamu, can you please tell me how much have you contributed to the welfare of any one Indians, even in your own community ? You have ample of venom to spill on minority and ever ready to accuse them, blind to see and recognise their sacrifice and service to the needy, irrespective of religion. You and people of similar mentality never do good to fellow men, but, if others offer help, you are ready to color it as efforts to convert. Despite your senseless lengthy comments, what is your contribution to the welfare of less fortunate people ?

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  • Najeeb, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Girl should get justice...grab her husband to prison..cops world cup everything is over now get back to work...look after public problem not politician,players & celebrety

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  • Dev Sagar, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Where is Muthalik, the Bajrangdal and the so called protectors of Indian women? They are there only to create nuisance in society. When there is a real problem or need they are nowhere to be seen.

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  • Don, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh nayak you are such and idiot , dharthi ka boj, you have no idea what the heck you talking about. you have negative thinking in every subject. Brother,why you always hate other community people? what they did bad to you? think about this. don't forget brother, "what goes arround comes around " so waite and see you have a bad days coming towards you soon. stop this hating each other things , writing bad about other community, hurting someone by your comments .... please stop this. get well soon bro.

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  • avani, mangalore/uae

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Forget about harrassment. Firstly, getting a 16 yr old girl(minor) to marry itself is crime by law. Why police kept quite when she complained. I agree that it is only one side story till now. But if her age is proved as 16 yrs when married, no need of other side story here. They can be simply booked under IPC. In such case we have to appreciate this girl's courage. Let God give her strength to be independent and lead a good life.

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  • Wilma Danthi, Sooda/Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton says
    "When a person is down in the world, an ounce of help is better than a pound of preaching".

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh Nayak,

    Don't put so much pressure on your feather brain - nobody is converting anybody here. Rather, use your resources on educating people that its bad to marry girls with a generation gap no matter what the traditions/culture have been ! You can even appoint your tribesmen (BD/SRS) to do this work - they are anyway concerned about others' daughters' - you see ?

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  • alwyn sequeira, kulshekar

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    nagesh nayak admitted we have converted them now they have no one to look after them pls convert them into human beings and give them roti kapda aur makan
    commenting is easy my dear feed an animal first and then talk of humanity

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  • Prasad, Yekkur / Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    I've been reading Daijiworld past several years but never commented. I've always been reading comments of NAGESH NAYAK who is insensible. Piece of advice NAGESH NAYAK, barking dogs seldom bite. Your  comments will only be taken in air, don't expect any results. I'm a Hindu myself & proud to be one but a pragmatic Hindu unlike you. I've studied in Milagres & St. Aloysius with many other Hindus & Muslims too. Do we have any disciplined institutions like these? Stop talking crap, work towards development of society. Go join the defence forces, protect our borders if you’ve guts in you. Correct your home first then come to comment about others. I don’t care what you will be commenting about me, you will only be considered FOOLISH & you are one. Cheers!!! (To rest of my Hindu brothers – No Jai Bajrang Dal, No Jai Ram Sena but only JAI HIND).

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  • jacobneslon, Mumbai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh it happens in Bangalore as long as BJP GOVT is there Police will not take any action!
    You must have read in Daji before Acid attack case dismissed by attorny general becasue Acid thrown on poor lady doctor.

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  • Lawrence Saldanha, Kanajar/Kuwait

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Dear friends,

    "Undiya Gundanna, Mundaas moovathu mola"
    What is the relation between the subject in question and alleged conversion/sexual harrassment?

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  • Clement Noronha, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh nayak, seems any you dont have any job other than commenting such things. I have been reading everytime but here instead of helping and giving suggestion for the sitution you are talking something which is not related or none of your business.

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  • Ashok, UDUPI/ Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nice comments from Mr. Nagesh Nayak , Bangalore. Mr. Nagesh you have missed "Praise the Lord" article published by Daiji. Please search in More Top Stories. Please read & increase your Knowledge.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    HEY, alwyn, mangalore,

    DO YOU BELIEVE SAMAYA TV.

    YESTERDAY THERE WAS HALF AN HOUR PROGRAMME ABOUT YOUR EBENEZER KARMAKANDA IN MULKY.

    I HAVE COMMENTED ON THE BASIS OF ABOVE PROGRAMME .

    THEY HAVE SHOWED ALL LIVE INTERVIEWS OF CHILDRENS.

    A JOY ( CHRISTAIN ) IS A WARDEN THERE.

    BUT AS PER YOU JOY IS NOT A CHRISTAIN.

    ALWYN, DO NOT JUMP & COMMENT.

    MY SINCERE REQUET TO YOU GO TO MULKY & SEE THE REALITY .

    MULKY IS HALF AN HOUR JOURNEY FROM MANGALORE.

    ALWYN, FYI, EBENEZER IS HAVING LOTS OF CENTRES & THEY DO WHAT SAMYAY TV SHOWED LIVE.

    PLEASE GO & SEE THE SITUATION THEN COMMENT WHETHER TRUE OR BASELESS ALLEGATIONS.



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  • alwyn, mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Nagesh Nayak... if nobody comments...u sit down & comment 100 time or more.u will be happy to see that. u have ample time for false allegations. by the way in this matter no christian is involved...so sit & start typing...

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  • diana pinto, Dubai

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Parents who force their daughters marry without girls wish should put in jail.
    Young girls deaths is becoming a fashion in our country.

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  • The Guru, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    ISMAIL K PERINJE, PERINJE/YANBU-KSA

    Human Rights People will only bark when terrorists are killed, so please dont blame them :-)

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Highly surprised to note that there is no comments on Karmakanda of EBENEZER MERCY HOME in Mulky.

    we have seen lacs of comments , 24x7 telecast of PUB ATTACK.

    In mulky ebenezer prayer hall & mercy home following activities were used to carry :

    1. CONVERTING HINDU CHIDRENS INTO CHRISTAINITY.

    2. CHILDRENS ARE USED TO CLEAN TOILETS, WASH CLOTHES ETCC.

    3. A GIRL WAS SEXUALLY HARASSED BY THE WARDEN.

    4. 30 CHILDRENS ARE MADE TO STAY IN SMALL ROOMS .

    5. UNHYGINEC ATMOSPHERE INSIDE THE MERCYHALL.

    WHY PSUEDOS KEPT SILENT, DUMB,DEAF,NAMARD ON THIS ISSUE.

    COME ON & SEE THE EBENEZER PRAYER HALL & COMMENT BY HEART.

    1.

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  • Liza, Karnataka, India

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    To know the fact, both the sides should sit together and discuss the matter in front of the high authority. Anywhere, any place whoever forces their children either boy or girl to marry against their wish just for money or any reason should be brought to justice. Hope someone helps her to earn daily living.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, MANGALORE/BAHRAIN

    Wed, Apr 06 2011

    Very good comment
    I, 2 agree with you Ismail, well said.

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  • ISMAIL K PERINJE, PERINJE/YANBU-KSA

    Tue, Apr 05 2011

    It is one side of the story and the otherside may differs from this.But surprising factor is that after complaining to Police Commissioner of Banagalore about the domestic voilence,she did not get justice ! Human Rights Commission and Women and Child Welfare department need to look in to the matter very seriously and those who made her to suffer need to be brought to justice.Her Husband and parents are certainly having danger of going to jail for illeagal marriege and tortures.

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