Udupi: Lovers marry - Parents fail to woo girl as police intervene


Pareekshith Shet

Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (SP)

Udupi, Dec 1: A family which tried to take back their daughter who had fallen in love with a youth, eloped with him and married him, was counselled by the police personnel from the town to desist from forcing the girl away. They finally succeeded in sending the family back to their village, and the married couple, to their home. The incident occurred in front of Maithri Complex near service bus stand here on Wednesday November 30.

Gangadhar (29) and Yallamma (19), both from Hunagunda taluk in Bagalkot district, were in love with each other since the last four years. As the girl's parents opposed the alliance, they ran away from their respective families seven months back, became man and wife through registered marriage, and settled down at Padubidri in the taluk. Since sometime, they have been working for Udupi Power Corporation Ltd and staying at Padubidri.

It is learnt that the family of the boy was agreeable for their relationship. After coming to know that the two had got married, the parents of the girl reportedly told the couple over phone that they were prepared to approve their marriage. At the request of the girl's parents, the couple gleefully came to Udupi. However, they were shocked to find that the girl's parents had come with six to seven persons, with the aim of forcibly taking her away back home. After the girl refused, there was fight between them, at which locals alerted the police.

The police led the couple to police station and provided protection to them. The case was referred to women's police station here, where discussions were held with the family members of the girl as well as the recently married couple. The parents of the girl argued that the marriage that was solemnized without the presence and approval of bride's parents cannot be treated as marriage as per their customs. The police personnel finally succeeded in convincing the family of the girl that being a major, the girl has the right to marry the person of her choice. The issue came to a close with the parents returning to Bagalkot, and the couple to Padubidri.

 

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  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Dec 02 2016

    Congratulations to the Young couple.Still I wish they married with parents approval without eloping.They should be careful in future too since Girls parents might try again to make some Problems.How about his parents again ,saying that she didnt bring any dowry ?one never know.Still be happy and live together Long .I find parents Blessings is more important to have a happy Family life instead of quarreling.Parents also should think sometimes that children should be happy with their Chosen Partners ,not your choice.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Thanks to police officer for convincing the girl’s parents in right direction. Four years of association culminating in happy ending of tying the wedding knot. They deserve.
    May God bless them in their future life. Let their Love live forever as husband & wife.
    Best wishes.

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  • Priya, Muscat

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Let the same spirit of love bonding be with you both till your last breath. Wish you both a very happy married life.

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  • Navin Shetty, Manipal/ Bahrain

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Happy married life. lead a good life and set an example.

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  • Af,,, mangalore

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Live and let live.

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  • Santan Mascarenas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Who will tell these Idiots - couple are from the same Religion ...

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  • Elwyn Goveas, Valencia

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Just marriage is not adequate. It is certainly a long long way to go.
    1.Speak to the parents for consent.
    2.Get their blessings
    3.Get the marriage registration done.
    4.Throw a small marriage party on behalf of the couples with a open bar

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    @elwyn , civil registration is not mandatory , religious ceremony documents sufficient

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    From your 4th suggestion, I feel like marrying baar, baar.

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  • stee, sakleshpur

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    GOD BLESS...

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  • Acchu, M'lore

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Happy married life.. enjoy your life in Mangalore. Please do not join any right wing group.

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  • Isham, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Thu, Dec 01 2016

    Well said. These are the easy targets for right/left/top/bottom wings.

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