Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (NR)
Pics by Ahmed Anwar
Mangalore, Jan 21: The wedding of twelve couples belonging to under-privileged families was solemnised as per Muslim traditions at a mass marriage ceremony organized by the Beary's Welfare Forum (BWF), Abu Dhabi at Shaadi Mahal here on Sunday, January 20.
Giving a brief background about the forum, BWF president Mohammed Ali Uchil informed that BWF is an association of the Beary community originally hailing from coastal Karnataka, though now most of them have settled in Abu Dhabi. The forum undertakes projects aimed at uplifting the community in the region of its origin.
Condemning the dowry system as a bane on society, Uchil said that due to the dowry system which is still widely prevalent in society, many poor parents were unable to find worthy suitors for their daughters. In this context, he promised that the Beary association would do its best to assist such families to get their daughters married.
According to Uchil, their aim was to eradicate the menace of dowry system from the Beary community. "By organizing this mass marriage function, we would like to set an example for the rest of our community", he declared staunchly. He also said that they have taken it up as a challenge to erase this custom that has crept into the community. "The girls who were married off on Sunday were either destitute or from extremely poor families," he pointed out.
In order to control the marriage budget, the marriage expenses and the menu were kept simple. However, the badam milk, ghee rice, mutton curry and dal made the feast quite delectable. Each couple was allowed to invite a maximum of 100 guests. “We wanted to minimise expenses and save money for the couples. They have been gifted with some money and gold ornaments,” Uchil informed.
Former Kannur University chancellor Prof M Abdul Rehman, president of Kendra Beary Sahitya Parishat (KBSP) M B Abdul Rehman, former MLA K M Ibrahim, former Ullal MLA U T Khader, B Ibrahim, and Ahmed Moideen were present at the mass marriage function.