'70% of elderly faced abuse': Survey rates Bengaluru worst city for senior citizens


New Delhi, Jun 15 (PTI): Nearly 1 in every 2 elderly people faced abuse in public spaces across India and Delhi was among the least abusive cities, a report by HelpAge India has claimed.

According to the report, 'How India treats its elderly', 23 per cent of the elderly in the national capital faced abuse as against 70 per cent in Bengaluru, which recorded the maximum abuse, followed by 60 per cent in Hyderabad, 59 per cent in Guwahati, 52 per cent in Kolkata, 49 per cent in Chennai and 33 per cent in Mumbai.

The national average was 44 per cent.

"We had conversations with more than 4,000 people in different cities across the country. They have shared their stories of discrimination in society. From pushing and ignoring to misbehaving with them, there have been horrific incidents which elderly people have gone through," says Manjira Khurana, the Country Head-Communication and Advocacy of HelpAge India.

Noting that mistreatment of the elderly in public spaces was "inexcusable", the report that was released here today, also features first-hand accounts of the rampant abuse faced by senior citizens in public transport, hospitals and malls.

Sixteen per cent of those who travel by public bus mention incidents of misbehaviour by bus conductor, while 17 per cent of mall staff is reported to have behaved badly with the elderly.

Columnist and author Santosh Desai termed the findings of the data "alarming" and said that improving the behaviour of people toward the elderly was one of the primary steps towards achieving a progressive society.

"The most disturbing thing is that we have made an image of ourselves that we respect elders. Whereas the reality on the ground is somewhat different. You can't quote the growth of GDP as the only contributing factor to make a progressive society. Improvement of people plays an important role and unfortunately, this is not happening," said Desai.

Quoting several people who feel threatened to even move out of their homes due to experiences of abuse, the report notes how many feel stepping out as a "necessary evil".

An awareness drive among the youth was also conducted.

"During our campaigns, we talked to youth about this problem. They agree that they are aware of such incidents but most of them refrain from intervening when they come across such situations," Khurana said.

Talking about the importance of the research report, Mathew Cherian, CEO of HelpAge India, says, "Elderly abuse is a sensitive topic. Over the past few years, we have been studying and researching elderly abuse within closed doors of one's home.

"We have surveyed the elders as well as the youth perspective. This year we have moved out of the home into the broader area of public space."

  

Top Stories

Comment on this article

  • vincent rodrigues, bangaluru/Katapadi

    Fri, Jun 16 2017

    Bangaluru is no more a city for senior citizens since all over the people wants to settle here

    DisAgree Agree [2] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Jun 16 2017

    Sad but true,elder generation is forgotten from youngerones and all over the world same complaints.Self in India where previously grandparents and parents were very much adoredand cared,now it is quite opposite.Old homes are increasing and waiting list is long.I myself experienced in a house where the old mother had to sit inside a room when visitors were there ,in another house with well educated doctors house ,there was no place for mother .was kept in old home,brought her only for marraige ceremony and back again in home .How sad.They dont pass in our house is the answer.In old homes ,when they cry and call for help,are bound to bed and tablets are the answer.In extreem ,can also possible a claps and shout.how can this be avoided?When bothare working ,no time to give attention to old people.So seniors ,think about it when you are mobile,and please make arrangemnets if you can in advance.Dont think your children will care you,many of them have only eyes on your money and assets.

    DisAgree Agree [1] Reply Report Abuse

  • Suraj, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    It is a cycle ,every individual has to go through old age and number old people increasing every year. Countries and health care systems will need to find innovative and sustainable ways to cope with the demographic shift in increase in percentage of old people.
    1. There should be more old age homes to accommodate growing old people who become burden to families. Some percentage of gradjuty and pension strictly has to go to old age homes and orphanages.
    2. Children in all schools should visit Old age homes and Orphanages atleast once in a year so that children can understand the problems of old age people. Old people also feel happy when the children visit them.Children should be given assignment to write an essay on old age people and orphan children. This will create an awareness.
    3.Old people should leave some percentage of assets in their Will to Old age homes and Orphanages. Should not leave all the wealth to their family.

    DisAgree Agree [1] Reply Report Abuse

  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    I agree that 70% of elderly face abuse but you cannot blame them. Society and lifestyle have changed. Older people cannot adjust to it and hence they have become helpless.

    DisAgree Agree Reply Report Abuse

  • Lakshmi Wilson, Gorigudda Mangaluru TOwn

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    It is very sad that children treat eldelry parents nowadays with out respect. As far as I am aware many children dont listen to parents and only trouble them . They do not listen to them and always take advanatage of their wealth. Even when they want to get married they ignore their parents wishes go against their wishes and marry whom they like. Though a person can marry whom they like they must also respect the parents wishes. Now relation ship between children and parents are so complicated that they do not know whats happening. I feel all schildren must respect their parents wishes and marry the person whom the parents also like. Otherwise as a family we can not live a nice life. Respect parensts treat them well and be good in life. Parents must be treated like god because its parents who bring us up in life. We cant be ignoring them at any point of life. We must respect our parnets wishes and treat them well. Trust in god follow the principles mentioned in rleigious books and lead a very respected life. Craze for money sometimes pushes children to do anything. This is not all right. Social workers and other elders in society must teach the younger generation the value of money relatioship and honesty. May God bless all elderly parents with godo behavioru form children. This is my prayer I am sure young people will slowly change and respect their parents May there be godo behaviuor from children towards parents.

    DisAgree Agree Reply Report Abuse

  • J.F.D SOUZA, Attavar, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Its true that most of the elderly people/senior citizens face such problems inside their house itself. Why go outside and quote examples. If they are not treated well by their own kith and kin then what about others - outsiders? The olden days are gone and now the situation is quite different. Elderly people suffer so badly now.

    DisAgree Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • Dr Mohan Prabhu, LL.D, QC, Mangalore (Kankanady)/Ottawa, Canada

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    It is a sad commentary on our society as a whole, not just in India but all over the world. I her such accounts, and even more terrible, even in Canada, especially in the homes for the aged and helpless, who are often denied basic necessities and are overprescribed with sleeping pills (often deliberately), so that they are not a nuisance to their caretakers. In our society, as soon as the the children find their parents cannot be cared for at home, they find a home for the elderly where they can be forgotten.
    Perhaps the elderly who, in some cases, have their own financial means, should think of themselves first when it comes to spending rather than leave a "bounty" to their undeserving children, and give whatever is left to charity.

    It is also true that people live much longer and kept alive by modern medicines, but the prolonged life is the big problem for society which is unable to cope.

    DisAgree [2] Agree [3] Reply Report Abuse

  • shibu, Dubai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    I feel pitty on Pappu urf Rahul.
    no one congress supporter is following him in Twitter.
    he announced he is going for another birthday bash in Italy and no congress supporter know about this.

    and only non congress people follow him in Twitter for entertainment.

    DisAgree [14] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rajesh, dubai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    This elderly may be praying god to give them 2nd life as Cow. Cow is getting more respect in India than these elderly people?????

    DisAgree [6] Agree [13] Reply Report Abuse

  • Lynette Dsouza, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Helpage India needs an applaud for good survey and good work.

    DisAgree [4] Agree [3] Reply Report Abuse

  • Socialist, Udupi

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Now a days mentality of almost all parents is that; our daughter should be in abroad; should marry a boy who will take / keep our daughter away from her *** in Law's, so initially abuse will start from inside our homes. normally parents of boy will end-up in elderly homes. No any religious leaders worried about teaching/preaching to respect elders\parents to guide their children's in right way.
    society is the general output of group of peoples. the result from wrong directed youngsters is abusing \ misbehaving with elders. " NO SURPRISE"

    DisAgree [1] Agree [2] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian dsouza, chik/bengaluru

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Highest FDI in the country and highest influx of people from all over India!!!never heard of anyone from any cities coming to BLR and complaining !!!!
    check influx into all cities BLR ranks top !!!then why do people still want to come if its worst !!!!! let kannadigas not spoil our own name and help get better every citizen has a responsibility .

    DisAgree [8] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mum/Man

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Bro, What connection this report of sr citizen abuse survey have with ur post?

    DisAgree [1] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • shibu, Dubai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    first time in 70 year

    DisAgree [8] Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mum/Man

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    70% elderly being abused may be a world record!!!

    DisAgree Agree [10] Reply Report Abuse

  • Namith, Kottara

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    One more feather in Siddus cap

    DisAgree [8] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Only Congress conducts honest surveys ...

    DisAgree [10] Agree [17] Reply Report Abuse

  • shibu, Dubai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    but even congress survey cant say how many days rahul will be in Italy this time

    DisAgree [16] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • shibu, Dubai

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    One more Bhagya from state govt

    DisAgree [17] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Nithya, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Bangalore has become too mechanical.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    PTI pti possessed of nagpur survey.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [7] Reply Report Abuse


Leave a Comment

Title: '70% of elderly faced abuse': Survey rates Bengaluru worst city for senior citizens



You have 2000 characters left.

Disclaimer:

Please write your correct name and email address. Kindly do not post any personal, abusive, defamatory, infringing, obscene, indecent, discriminatory or unlawful or similar comments. Daijiworld.com will not be responsible for any defamatory message posted under this article.

Please note that sending false messages to insult, defame, intimidate, mislead or deceive people or to intentionally cause public disorder is punishable under law. It is obligatory on Daijiworld to provide the IP address and other details of senders of such comments, to the authority concerned upon request.

Hence, sending offensive comments using daijiworld will be purely at your own risk, and in no way will Daijiworld.com be held responsible.