Finally, Muslim husband performs 'shradh' for departed Hindu wife


New Delhi, Aug 13 (IANS): A Muslim man, Imtiazur Rahman, who was denied permission to perform the final rites of his dead Hindu wife at a temple here last week because of his religion, has finally been able to hold the ceremony with the help of a Bengali philanthropic cultural society in Delhi.

People associated with the Deshbandhu Chittaranjan Memorial Society in the largely Bengali-populated area of Chittaranjan Park in south Delhi said Rahman, his daughter, some family members and friends attended the ceremony on Sunday.

"They were given a room in the society (premises) and his daughter (Ihini Ambreen) performed the ceremony. We were of course disappointed to learn (he was refused permission by the Kali temple society)," a person, who was present at the ceremony, told IANS.

Founded in 1973, the philanthropic society, which runs a non-profit medical centre, library, cultural classes, rents out its premises for social functions.

Rahman, based in Kolkata, lost his wife Nivedita Ghatak in the capital after she suffered multi-organ failure last week. The couple had married 20 years ago in accordance with the Special Marriages Act that allows inter-faith weddings of couples irrespective of their individual faith.

Ghatak was cremated as per Hindu rites at Delhi's Nigam Bodh Ghat but the family could not perform shradh -- a set of Hindu rituals performed for the deceased.

Rahman had booked an August 12 a slot at Kali Mandir Society in Chittaranjan Park after paying Rs 1,300. But he was later told by the temple society that his booking has been cancelled "for obvious reasons".

Ashitava Bhowmik, the president of the temple society, told IANS that the woman could no longer be considered a Hindu after marrying a Muslim "because a woman adopts the surname and belief system of her in-laws and becomes a part of that society".

  

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Tue, Aug 14 2018

    Any discrimination on death is bad and not acceptable

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  • leslie, udupi

    Tue, Aug 14 2018

    It is disgraceful to reject a logical request...
    Life has religions... People... and animals...
    It is our right to to bury or burn where we want...
    No human can stop... God may...

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  • G R PRABHUJI, Mangalore

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    I can't understand the mentality of human being.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    Death doesn't discriminate anyone based on religion or care.

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    SCRAP ALL RELIGIONS. KEEP ONE RELIGION...HUMANITY.
    REMOVE ALL BORDERS. LET ANY BODY TRAVEL WHERE THEY LIKE..AS BIRDS AND ANIMALS. TIME COMES TO PRESERVE OUR EARTH..IT'S UTMOST IMPORTANT. WE ARE SITTING UP ABOVE PILES OF NUCLEAR ARSENALS..LIVING BEHIND NATURAL DISASTERS NOW AND THEN.
    SAD FACT ONE COMMUNITY DISAGREE FOR SAME UPTO LAST.
    NA HUMHNA JIYENGE...NA KI DOOSRO KO.JEENE DEHENGE..
    WE NEED NOW PEACE EVERYWHERE..FROM EACH ONE'S HEART.

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  • Peacelover, India

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    No one can scrap religion, follow it properly ( as mentioned in scriptures ) automatically humanity will flourish.
    No religion over this earth preach violence, nor tell anyone to disseminate. Unfortunately people do not read their scriptures, they depend on Pandit, mulla and priest for their religious activities.

    Life is very short and I do not know from where people find time to hate and discriminate!

    aagah apni mout se koi basher nahi
    saaman sau baras ka pal ki khaber nahi

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    @Jayesh,

    Humanity is just a part of religion. There are so many components of religion ( like equality, justice, right, inheritance, duties, welfare of poor etc....) which make the religion a guidance and a complete way of life.

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    HE TURN TO MODERN JINNAH...WHO MARRIED TO PARSI LADY AND REFUSED DAUGHTER TO MARRY A PARSI GUY. HE TURN TO BE A MESSIAH OF MUSLIM COMMUNITY..WEARING SUIT-BOOT WITH CUBAN CIGAR IN HAND. NANAGE ONDOO SA ARTH AAGU DILLA..
    EELA MAYA LOKA.. KISSIKO PAKADU..KISSKO CHODU..SAMAJ MEIN NAHI AATA..

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  • boja, kudla

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    WHY YOU SO FRUSTRATED ??? PLEASE HAVE SOME GARAM GARAM CHIA N PAKODA.

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  • Ivar, Mangalore

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    Wow, series of pleasant news today!!
    Airshow to BJP ruled UP, Ummer Khalid attacked, Bharath maatha ki Jai dikthat from Muslim board and now this one!!!!
    Wow!

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    IT ONCE AGAIN PROVED FOR SAKE OF LOVE CAN FOREGO EVEN THERE RELIGION. IS HE A TRUE FOLLOWER..MODIFYING HIMSELF ACCORDING TO THE SITUATION.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    @Jayesh,

    Yes he is a true follower of Hinduism. Name doesn't imply one's faith, but the deeds and intentions do.

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  • Sachin Shetty, Mangalore

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    The Mans desire to fulfill her wishes must be appreciated.

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    HOPE SHARUK...AAMIR....SALIM KHAN....FOLLOW THE PATTERN..IF THEY TRULY LOVE THERE BELOVED.

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  • El En Tea, Mumbai

    Tue, Aug 14 2018

    How come you forgot about Karina Kapoor

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    WHAT'S OPINION ABOUT MUSLIM INTELLRCTUALS..?? WHAT HE HAS DONE HIS RIGHT. CAN YOUR MAZAAB GIVE PERMISSION FOR SAME.
    HE CHANGED HIMSELF AND NOT FOLLOWED ALLAH N PROPHET FOR SAKE OF HIS WIFE. HOW CONTRARY.

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  • Nawaz, Udupi/ Kuwait

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    @Jayesh,

    Muslims only pray themselves for the welfare of the deceased in the hereafter. That's it. Direct request with the Almighty. No need to pay Rs.1, 350 for the shradh. No need to ask for permission from the priest or Masjid committee for offering the prayers. Just raise your hands (even raising hands not necessary) and ask for the help from Allah.

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  • JAYESH.S., KARKALA

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    PEOPLE FROM NEW BORN ARE NOT GIVING PERMISSION BY ROMAN PRIESTS TO BURY IN THERE CHURCH. IT'S AN REAL FACT. LATTER ON THEY USE TO CARRY FROM ONE CHURCH TO ANOTHER BEGGING.

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  • boja, kudla

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    ARE YOU DEVKUMAR ???

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  • El En Tea, Mumbai

    Tue, Aug 14 2018

    People New born New life actually they were Catholics baptized in the Church Recieved Holy communion in the Church later they separated from the Church and formed New life or Born again group created their own Prayer center stop going to the Church. Finally they come to beg the Church priests for the burial.
    Born Again New life is not a religion but a group

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Aug 13 2018

    The difference is Education ...

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