Bengaluru: SP sits in dharna opposite wife's residence leaving citizens baffled


Daijiworld Media Network - Bengaluru (SP)

Bengaluru, Feb 10: IPS officers Arun Rangarajan and Ilakkiya Rangarajan are not in good terms. This was revealed in generous measures when Arun chose to sit in dharna in front of his wife's residence here on Sunday, February 9. Arun's complaint was that his wife was not allowing him to visit his daughter.

Arun Rangarajan is the superintendent of police (internal security department) at Kalaburagi. His wife Ilakkiya, is the deputy commissioner of police for VVIP security here. The two had fallen in love and married, and have a daughter.


Arun Rangarajan


Ilakkiya Rangarajan

The two had separated on account of family quarrels and also had obtained divorce through court. But they had begun to stay together after elders in the family negotiated with them. But the two appear to be in loggerheads again.

Arun had been transferred to Kalaburagi a few months back. Sunday being holiday, he had arrived at the residence of Ilakkiya at Vasanth Nagar to see his daughter. But his wife had shut the door and not allowed him inside. An angry Arun sat on the footpath in front of the house in dharna.

He said that his wife has been harassing him regularly and she is not allowing him to meet his daughter. He claimed that his transfer was affected at his wife's behest and that she got it done through higher officers. He said that he feels insulted at not being allowed to enter the house. "We fell in love when working in Chhattisgarh. My wife was not agreeable to work there and asked me to get transferred to Karnataka and also wrote to the government there. The fight over the transfer has come to this stage," he said.

High grounds policemen who reached the spot tried to convince Arun to stop agitating but Arun did not agree. He did not pay heed to their request to move from the spot. He said that he would go back only after meeting his daughter. But in spite of efforts made by the police, they could not contact Ilakkiya.

 

  

Top Stories

Comment on this article

  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Feb 12 2020

    I feel so sad to hear when divorced parents fight for not to meet their children ,They forget here one important thing.Children/s ,childs happiness their feelings.what they want.

    I know one family who married has a child,got divorced ,had best financial help legally ,went with lover ,took the child,and got written legally not to contact the child till his age of 18.Is it normal?

    Does a boy need his father when he is adult?He will have his friends circle in that age.when he is as a child certainly needs father more .Here too the same sure father wants,longs to see his child.nothing more.why she doesnt allow that to her? what they both do is a fight which will never end like between two dogs.sad.who can heel the cry of that small girls soul?

    DisAgree Agree Reply Report Abuse

  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Ganda Hendira Jagala ...Undu Malaguva Tanaka ...
    Gaadhe Ishtake Mugiyolaa,Nantara Huto Makkala Baalu Narakaaaaa....

    DisAgree Agree Reply Report Abuse

  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Tue, Feb 11 2020

    😳😳😳😳....nantara hutto makla hage......??? What is this Bhandar Sir ? Now you are big... Not maklu now.. You love and take care of your maklu.....

    DisAgree Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Raj, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Better to join in politics so he can change party anytime.

    DisAgree Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    The best solution is to Abandon ...

    DisAgree [5] Agree [7] Reply Report Abuse

  • dk shetty, mangalore/oman

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Hats off to this lady officer, in this battle of egos, who is suffering is the poor daughter, who wants both the parents to stay together and live a normal life.

    What is the use of her education? higher the degree....higher the ego and unwilling to compromise.
    At least for the sake of little one she must allow her husband to meet up their daughter.
    I am sure daughter longs to see her papa, and I am sure this stupid battle between this educated( illiterate) women officer is robbing the peace, well being of family.

    I have seen people fighting pitched battle for custody of children , sadly no one feels the pain of children. I think he should approach court for the custody or visitation rights to his child. I salute this male officer for his silent dharna. Pray to Ishwar they unite and keep that child happy, no happiness is greater than family happiness.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • Wince, Mangaluru

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    It is sad and shameful that a woman police officer deprives her own husband, her child’s father, the parental right to meet his daughter. I am sure she knows the laws inside out and she cannot use her daughter as a pawn to get back at her husband. It looks as though power has corrupted her mind . What if it was the other way around. You would have the woman’s panels and the child right panels screaming and holding dharnas . Sad to see a man that too a police officer is such a state.

    DisAgree Agree [18] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even heard but must be felt with heart i.e. Love

    DisAgree Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Madam Llakkiya... Don't do this yaa.. Father has come to see his daughter and not you. At least be happy and respectful to him thinking at least he knows to recognise his daughter. There are some fathers, who abandon their children and who never turn up at all... How you fell in love? This is what the love is??? You don't love him forget.. But father loves his daughter... Try to understand the meaning between two types of "love"..

    DisAgree [1] Agree [59] Reply Report Abuse

  • Lan,,,,,,,,,a,, Belman / Washington, DC.

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    'Mucchida Bagilu'....these couples new movie...Jossey Sir...Want to direct this movie Sir???....

    ...Tak...Tak...

    DisAgree Agree [15] Reply Report Abuse

  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Lan... Ji, if you change the name of the film as "muchida bagilu tereyali " I will direct the movie... ✋ you are the producer ( I mean to say movie) 💪💪 jossey Sir will be funding in short he will be our financial director... Km? Tik tok

    DisAgree [1] Agree [21] Reply Report Abuse

  • EULALIA DSOUZA, MANGALURU

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Here he sitting in the capacity of a Helpless Father of his child, not as an IPS Officer. This just proves love of parents towards kids. His wife in this case must be another arrogant Police Officer with ego and pride. She should compromise on this and settle dispute for the best of both of them, to keep their jobs secure and also social stigma in place. I pity that kid who may not even know what is happening between the parents.
    I agree to disagree the argument of equality between man and a woman. This suites in certain cases may be. But in a healthy family life, men always have an upper hand and mostly the final say. We should agree to this fact. Being successful in professional field and professional life does not mean a lady should look down upon, at her husband. This in my view is sure un-acceptable. Maintaining life balance and peace , harmony of a family wholly or majorly depends on wife / lady of the family and supported by her husband.

    DisAgree [7] Agree [26] Reply Report Abuse

  • Shashi Shetty, Santhoor

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    respects to the father in a officer. He has all the rights to be with his daughter. The courts must give a firm instruction on this . Fathers cannot be robbed of their parenting rights because, they are separated with the wife.
    Our sympathy is with you dear officer. Moreover, you are protesting in a very just manner whats wrong with it.

    DisAgree Agree [28] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Saink,

    "One can either work or fall in love. You cant do them simultaneously"
    You do not seem to be well experience on the matter.
    Love develops and works or rules in two hearts. In the mean time office work will be in progress. But this couple fell apart because of ego and pride.

    DisAgree Agree [5] Reply Report Abuse

  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    'wife spectre' has not spared any one, raja or runk...even many topmost personalities..better to stay away totally with 'mutual consent'...

    DisAgree Agree [4] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rajesh. D., Manglore, Dubai

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Pride & Ego breaks the family.

    Do not rob the right of the father of meeting their own children. Though you poison your children's mind by saying bad things about their father or mother when children are small, but when they cross teen age they will come to know the facts & actual story. Most of the time it bounces back on the person who poisoned children's mind coz Nature & God will stand against this. 

     Whoever considers Money & Power is greater than family life just dump them, they try to seek happiness through those values which they never get in their life and die alone with all the frustrations even if they are filthy rich

    DisAgree Agree [22] Reply Report Abuse

  • Sainik, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    "We fell in love when working in Chhattisgarh. "
    One can either work or fall in love. You cant do them simultaneously.
    It means you were not working and wasting public money like most of the Govt servants.

    DisAgree [16] Agree [8] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Wife is holding better post than him and she acts in a care a hut attitude.
    This man must should try to control his emotions and must find out a solution once for all.
    This type of dharna may effect his mental balance and also his professional life. Better to find out a new partner and get settled and lead life for better.

    DisAgree Agree [29] Reply Report Abuse

  • Robin, Byndoor

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    This is the Situation of a Police Officer !!!! ???

    What about common man ? Freedom and Equality sometimes pose danger. That daughter is the one suffers most.

    In another article, Bipin Rawat says the Indian Soldiers are not ready to see Ladies in Combat roles. In reality nature created them with less masculine than men. Feminists are not ready to accept the truth of nature. They just see only equality.

    We are grateful to our mother who decided to be at home leaving father to go for job. New era is horrible. Future is too horrible.

    DisAgree [4] Agree [35] Reply Report Abuse

  • Satya, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    I partially agree with you and partially disagree. I do believe men and women are equal and all avenues should be open to them. In a patriarchal society like ours in the past a woman was at the mercy of men and had to compromise even if grave atrocities were committed against her. Such marriages and relationships were a sham but to outsiders seemed to be working fine. Today with education and job security a woman can stand up to atrocities and walk out of such relationships. Since many of us men get exposed, we are against women's liberation which is understandable.

    As regards to the second part on a combat role for women, I do agree with you. Wars are not fought between women and men separately. Therefore in war when women are made to face battle hardened men or terrorists they do not stand a chance and secondly can become victims of atrocities like rape, molestation and torture. International laws and safe guards like the Geneva convention only exist on paper and reality is totally different. Women definitely can play a role in safe covert operations, backhand support, intelligence areas, interrogative roles etc, but definitely not in front line combat. To some women my comment might seem misogynistic, but that is the reality.

    DisAgree [5] Agree [13] Reply Report Abuse

  • Robin, Byndoor

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    I also endorse your views to some extent. You are also in Democracy in which I am. Court gave justice to these police couple in terms of divorce but court never gave justice to daughter. (may be court is waiting for her to become major and approach it). Till then what is her fate ?

    DisAgree Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Satya, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    This is the sad part. Couple going through sour relationships and break ups often hold the children at ransom to get back at their estranged partners. Such people will either prevent meetings between the child and the estranged parent or try to poison the child's mind against the other parent. This is simply cruel, both to the parent and the child. Children deserve and require the love and affection of both parents and they should not be dragged into such mean politics. Whatever be the relationship between the couples the parent who has the custody of the child should see to it that the child gets sufficient time to spend with the estranged parent.

    DisAgree Agree [3] Report Abuse

  • Harish, Nanthur

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Whatever fight leave aside,. parents or dad must Love to meet kids. It's basic right

    DisAgree [1] Agree [50] Reply Report Abuse

  • SD, MANGALORE

    Mon, Feb 10 2020

    Wife Phobia has not spared any one including commoners, businessmen, officers, scientists and all.

    DisAgree [1] Agree [31] Reply Report Abuse


Leave a Comment

Title: Bengaluru: SP sits in dharna opposite wife's residence leaving citizens baffled



You have 2000 characters left.

Disclaimer:

Please write your correct name and email address. Kindly do not post any personal, abusive, defamatory, infringing, obscene, indecent, discriminatory or unlawful or similar comments. Daijiworld.com will not be responsible for any defamatory message posted under this article.

Please note that sending false messages to insult, defame, intimidate, mislead or deceive people or to intentionally cause public disorder is punishable under law. It is obligatory on Daijiworld to provide the IP address and other details of senders of such comments, to the authority concerned upon request.

Hence, sending offensive comments using daijiworld will be purely at your own risk, and in no way will Daijiworld.com be held responsible.