Karwar: Lovers marry, upload photo on Facebook - Receive threats in comments section


Daijiworld Media Network - Karwar (SP)

Karwar, Aug 6: A boy and a girl belonging to different castes fell in love with each other and have since got married. The girl’s parents are hell bent against this alliance. The newly married couple has approached the district superintendent police seeking protection.

Neelakanta Naik from Hegdekatta village in Sirsi taluk and Vasudha Hegde of the same village loved each other. But the family of the girl was dead against this match.

As both the boy and the girl are majors, with mutual consent, they got married in the sub-registrar's office at Ankola in Uttara Kannada district. The husband-wife duo has deserted their homes and are staying in Ankola from a week. In the meanwhile, the parents of the girl have filed complaint of kidnap in Sirsi police station against the youth. The couple says that they have also posed threats to the boy through social websites.

Both Neelakanta and Vasudha are deeply in love with one another. The parents of Vasudha have only one grouse against the boy that he belongs to a caste that is different than their own. They tried to separate the lovers, but the lovers were far too deep in love with one another. The girl ditched her house and married the youth in the presence of his family members. The couple shared their joy at getting married by uploading the fact that they have married each other on Facebook. The relatives of the girl, who got angry, have posted comments threatening the duo to attack them if they return to their village.

The couple says they are getting threatening comments on the websites and intimidating calls from the police station. They have approached the district superintendent of police seeking protection. The youth says that the girl is totally in love with her and the marriage was performed as per her insistence. The couple says that various tactics are followed with the lone aim of separating them. They have been seeking justice.

The police have to extend protection to the lovers who have got married. It is regrettable that the people continue to harass lovers just because they belong to different castes.

 

 

 

 

  

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  • Jessy, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 07 2021

    Why Flavian? You are absolutely correct. Some are unlucky. Totally understand the feelings

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sat, Aug 07 2021

    Love is above all. Its not one way. Its mutual give & take and always live eternally in love but some are unlucky.

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  • Dinesh, Dubai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Some have problem with Love Jihad. Can we call this cast jihad?

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  • rolf, Dubai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    100% Pak involvement to defame our country need to do proper investigation.

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  • Harish Bhat, Rayee

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Couple of years ago same type of love story had happened near Punjalakatte. Now they have three children all belongs to lower cast. God bless this couple too.

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  • Krystal D’Silva, Udupi/Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I know the verse too. But that does not mean that you stay with someone who abuses you or cheats on you. All I’m trying to say is that sometimes people get scared to choose love because they know that in the long term, if their partner ends up being the wrong person, they do not have the freedom to leave him/her because the parents and family will say “I told you so” instead of supporting their child to get out of the marriage

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  • Haji Ashwaq Momdio, Bajpe, Petrol pump

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Love as no religion

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  • AJ, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Oh man that was epic reply....He must have been cursing himself for writing that comment...

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  • Rishi, Thane/Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Jeevan, Single out any family who is having 3 aurat and 36 bacchas in this 21st century in India, let c is it true or false spreaded by the people like u. And conveying JAI SRI RAM in every line is good, but it should come from heart. If u take peg or whatever, if somebody says JAI SRI RAM in front of u in this condition, Then u will ask YER YA RAM

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    How do we stop Fake Names in Daijee ...

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  • Royston Mathias, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I point of Daijiworld is to deliver news and allow people to share their views on it. If some people comment using fake names, that is the least of the problem. If you're too focused on people using their fake names then maybe you're not using this website for the purpose that it was created and focusing too much on the nitty-gritty...the things which don't matter. Even if people were forced to use their real name, you would not be connecting with them so it would hardly matter who they are. Only their opinion matters.

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  • Kanishka Lobo, Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    how do we stop people commenting ridiculous things which sometimes don't even make sense on EVERY news post? @Jossey

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  • Uday, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Jossey Saldanha - you should be knowing since you are sitting in the office and commenting

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  • Prem, Moodbidri

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Whereis "Naavella Ondu" group now?

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  • Chetan, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Are all those who have married to the same caste happy in life?

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  • I wish I was There, Bahrain

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Parents should let these newly wedded couple live in Peace.

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  • Joel, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Superstition runs very deep in every Indians blood be it any religion, caste or creed

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  • anil, mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    but both are hindus....? nawella onedu

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  • Dr Avitus Rodrigues, Bajpe/Bangalore/Singapore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    The family should be ashamed. Parents say that they have put their life on hold for their children but are ready to take their life when something like this happens ONLY because they are worried about what the community will say. Let your children love. If they know that you will understand them and not just scold them, they may actually tell you their secrets and listen to you if you do not agree with what they are doing. They will not tell you anything or listen to your advise if all you do is scold them about their decisions in life. Majority of children these days have boyfriends/girlfriends. But most don't tell their parents. And then when they tell you, if you react the way they predicted then obviously they won't listen to you and they will prefer that you kill them rather than them listening to you. It's ironic how parents don't understand this. Just talk to your children. And then see how they will share everything and you will have the upper hand.

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  • Marilou Steven, Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    When the couple is strongly United no one can separate them. They are majors and they know what they are doing and I feel that their parents should accept it on satisfaction that the boy is not demanding dowry or harassing the girls family in any way. Now her parents should not interfere but let them live in Peace together.. When they write rubbish on the comments section on facebook they will only make things worse for themselves. They should live and let live 👍🙏.

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  • Marilou Steven, Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    When the couple is strongly United no one can separate them. They are majors and they know what they are doing and I feel that their parents should accept it on satisfaction that the boy is not demanding dowry or harassing the girls family in any way. Now her parents should not interfere but let them live in Peace together.. When they write rubbish on the comments section on facebook they will only make things worse for themselves. They should live and let live 👍🙏.

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  • Aditya SK, Hejamady

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Congratulations to the newly wed couples .... Police should look into those threatening goons ....

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    some brainless people think their cast is hybrid and try to dominate lower cast in majority India, only when election comes they talk abut religion dharam, kathra hai etc - they got khathra from themselves only which they don't know.

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  • Haji Adhwaq Momdio, Bajpe, Petrol pump

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Love is blind

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I wonder if we are living in Somalia ...

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  • Sonal Pinto, Udupi

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    So are you?

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  • Jason Dias, Niddodi/Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    No, you live in Nalasopara !!!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Sonal Pinto, Udupi - Use your Real Name ...

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  • Sonal Pinto, Udupi

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I could say the same thing to you

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  • real kujuma, kodial

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    when the Manuvada will end from the sanatana Hindu community? Even in 21st century same stone age thoughts

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  • Shanel Fernandes, Mangalore/Singapore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    From the Hindu community? I think it's majority of India to be honest. The same thought process exists in Muslims and Christians. We may 'pretend' to be forward people but really, everyone will go back to the Stone Age thinking if something like this was to happen in their household

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  • Kitta, Mlore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Those who inspired by Taliban ideology no need any suggestion

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  • Jeevan, Kudlaa

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Boda kujuma sheera... Jai Sri ram

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  • Real kujuma, Kodial

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Kujumagau sheera athu, chattambade ishta

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  • Kiran, Kundapur

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Theen Bheevi Dozen Bacha in which community

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  • rolf, Dubai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    But in other community one man can marry more women as men are more strong. not like others 5 Men can marry one woman.

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  • Rishi, Thane/Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Have u seen any family with 3 biwi and dozen bacchha in India or just heard, please clarify

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  • Aditya SK, Hejamady

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Do you have any answer for the end of terrorism in the world ?? why is women of your community still made to follow the stone age old customs ???

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  • Jeevan, Kudlaa

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Forget manuvada ? Why Shia , Sunnis not marrying each other and fighting ??? Jai Sri Ram

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  • Mohammed, India

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Who told you?? Is it mentioned in geeta??

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  • Jeevan, Kudlaa

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I never heard those who follow manuvada never become jihadists ... Jai Sri Ram

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  • real kujuma, kodial

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    i think husband belongs to the cast that came from feet and girl from chest or head? what kind of primitive thoughts and calling sanskari

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  • Santhosh, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Kujuma, When it comes to your community, you will say ye andar ki baat hain, they will solve themselves but when it is from other community you start barking. Hypocrite

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  • Jeevan, Kudlaa

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Sanskari ? Our sanskari is better than those who plant bomb and kill innocent all over the world in the name of jihad. Jai Sri Ram

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  • Aditya SK, Hejamady

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Taliban culture is ruining your existence, male chauvinism suppressed the liberty of your women ....

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  • Jeevan, Kudlaa

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    21st century ??? 3 aurat, 36 baccha , dozen cycle puncture shop is it required in this century??? Jai Sri Ram

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  • Gretta Mendonca, Udupi/NZ

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    There had to be someone who would point out religion in this. But lets not forget that it could just as easily have been Catholics or Muslims. And it is very evident in this comments section why people have issues with other religion. When you are acting like this in the comments section, then it is very easy to guess how you would react if someone from your family decided to have an inter-caste marriage. Don't point fingers when you yourself have the Stone Age thinking.

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  • Rahul Kejar, mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Real, fake , neutral kujuma frustrated with specific people after seeing his comments...

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  • Krystal D'silva, Udupi/Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    So they got married and the family have a problem? Isn't this like almost 80% of families when their kids choose love marriage, especially when its with someone of a different caste? The families always have the point that 'we took care of you' 'we paid for your education' etc etc and they always have this looming over their children. And God forbid, if the child marries against the family's wish and then later goes through divorce then that child may as well commit suicide because the family will not let her live in peace. Instead, don't have babies. If you are not ready to accept that your child will have wishes and dreams which will not be the same yours and that sometimes they will make mistakes as well, don't have kids. Have pets instead, because you can train them to do what you want.

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  • Keith Abraham, Kulshekar/Mumbai

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    yaar, if you suffocate pets, even they will bite the owner at some point. or in most cases, they will just run away.

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  • Rishan Pinto, Mangalore/Singapore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    I like this comment 🤣

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Good one for the people they think their cast is always costly "Have pets instead, because you can train them to do what you want" they only fir for this........................kind of animals.

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  • Melroy D'souza, Bajpe/Bangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    If you see how people treat pets here, then you will not wish this upon them. Having pets is a fashion statement here more than providing love and care for them. I wouldn't wish this upon pets or children

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  • John, Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    Malachi 2:16, Bible verse says 16 “For I hate divorce!” says the Lord, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty,” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.” Also, Old age of parents or their children's, do pets take care ?

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  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Aug 06 2021

    First of all congratulations to the couple.They fell in love ,are afterall not minors ,and realized their wish to marry.Didnt runaway .With the blessings of officials ,and his parents .Why parents of girls are still trying to make problems ,telling not their caste,.They must be happy first of all because she got married a person who she loves ,parents need not extend lacs of Dowry,he didnt ask (I suppose)or any car.but only girl.same time they didnt have to spend any penny for the marraige.They have to wake up .be happy that a girl married ,she is happy.There wont be any problems ,that boy asking the girl more dowry from parents,or pushing her out of house.etc.Times are gone where they look for caste ,religion s,educated.Only look that he or she is of a good character ,love.has a job ,to go on with daily life.How many marraiges in Hindu religion had problems about dowry,or threatening ,going back when wishes were not fulfilled.Last but least Police should really warn them not to trouble couple in future,otherwise ,they may face trouble from court.

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