True Story: Sophie's Struggle

June 25, 2011

Sophie was a very simple, quiet and innocent girl who had just finished her Class X and was waiting for her results. She was from a very poor family, her father worked in a carpentry shop earning a pittance and mother was a domestic servant. Her parents struggled to bring up their 7 children.

It was a sunny morning and Sophie was doing her housework as usual, when she heard her mother speak about her marriage proposal. Her eyes filled with tears when she heard that someone named Julian, a fish merchant 10 years elder to her wanted to marry her. She had just finished her X std and had a great desire to study further and become someone in life. She felt as if her dreams would remain dreams and never come true.

Days passed, months passed and her parents somehow took loans from others and got her married. She was married to Julian and her family life started. Julian was a stubborn and hot tempered person who used to smoke and drink every night and quarrel with Sophie at mealtimes. She worked hard all day and at night she had no peace. Not a day would  pass without a fight. She would cry but nobody was there to listen to her sobs. Her father-in-law was a cruel person who used to hurt her with sharp words and curse her parents for no reason.

A few months later she realized she was expecting and was filled with joy over her pregnancy. She thought perhaps now her husband would be happy and her life would see a turning point. Months passed and she gave birth to a baby girl. It was the happiest moment of her life and soon she forgot her past days. Her husband came to meet her in the hospital but when he came to know that he had a girl he was not happy. He had expected a boy child. He considered the girl child a burden to the family and too expensive to look after. Sophie, who had waited for this day, was very sad to know that her husband did not want the girl.

In spite of her husband not caring for her or her baby she never let her child feel unloved by the father. She loved the child unconditionally and gave all the love of a mother as well as of a father. She would get up early in the morning and make breakfast for the family and then take care of her child. There was no one to give her postnatal care, or even to enquire over her well-being. Days passed, nights passed and everything was as usual for her. Every day her husband would quarrel and beat and curse her and her child and her parents for getting her married to him. In spite of all these tortures and beatings from her husband and her father-in-law she brought up her child. A year later she was pregnant again, and again gave birth to a girl. This time too Julian had expected a boy from her and the birth of the girl made him lose his mind. He never came to the hospital to see her or the baby.

Sophie cried a lot over her husband's rejection, yet she was happy and hugged her child and gave her lots of love. Now a proud mother of two daughters, she brought them up and gave them whatever their hearts desired. Both started going to school and as usual Sophie ignored whatever insults her husband hurled at her. Years passed and she gave birth to another baby girl and her husband went mad with anger and abused her, beat her and everyday got drunk and fought with her. Sophie would keep quiet and tolerate her husband. Her days passed hearing her husband’s shoutings and finally she was fed up.

One night she left her three daughters and without telling anyone she left the house. She went to a nearby river and stepped into it. She went on and on, deeper and deeper into the water, not in her senses anymore, and all of a sudden she had a vision of her three daughters calling her and beckoning her. She turned around and saw that she had gone deep into the river, but somehow she managed to go back to her house and saw her children sleeping in their room. She hugged them and cried inconsolably, and promised never to leave them alone ever again.

From then on she lived just for them. When she had another daughter her husband completely stopped talking to her and never saw his daughters. Sophie was very sad about it but she loved all her children and this little child was an angel for her. Days and years passed and life was as usual for her. She spent her life for her four daughters and finally she had a baby boy which made her husband a little happy, and somehow she managed with him. All four daughters finished their studies and settled down in life. She had given her children the life they deserved, and that's all that mattered to her.

By Sona Pinto, Kuwait
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Comment on this article

  • miraclin, Chennai

    Wed, Jul 13 2011

    Pain could be realised only when u undergo the same kind of trouble from ur betterhalf,manhood fails to realise the value of the girl who ve cm all the way to share the life, life is too short, its sin to spoil the intimacy between the spouse,in many cases the girls inlaws plays a vital and cruel role in making the girls life tougher and pushing her to critical and bad part of life, themotherinlaws and the sister inlaws often forgets that they too belong to womn hood, in somecases a human to human respect are missing,the girl's inlaws are the reason behind the misunderstanding, lack of intimacy between spouses, verbal abuse , harrasment.even though women folk are educated they hesitate to bring this kind of inhuman attack to light by considering their family reputation and children's future.

    Its very heart breaking and sorrowfull life , each and every moment will become burdenfull and the situation pushes her often to end up life and she need to reconsider the decision by keeping the children in mind, its mearly like a cat on the wall.women folks are being torcherd only by women folk they are inspirational charecters to the mankind to illtreat a woman , the women in the form of inlaws conspires and harrss the women, and push the mankind to do so,though women try their best level to keep the relationship smooth it endup in vain attempt.men are good unless influenced by womenfolk to torchere the same womenfolk

  • JESINTHA RASQUINHA., ujire, AbuDhabi.

    Sat, Jul 09 2011

    This is a real story. Even now there are many mothers facing the same problem. Many of them do not share about their miserable conditions but bear it silently. No one wants to put their family in shame. These kinds of evils are there in the society which should be removed. It is not only the women facing such kind of problems, many men do face.*It is one's own duty to take care of one's partner. All should learn to forgive and live happily to have a successful life. Life is short and one must learn to make it sweet.

  • peter pinto, Navi Mumbai

    Sun, Jul 03 2011

    Nice example and good article.
    Here Sophie did not loose her hope.When lost, she has overcome.
    Think of couples who have no children at all and still they live in life with hope.
    We need more articles of this nature to give solace to the hopefull couples.

  • A. S. Mathew, U.S.A.

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    This is one out of a million similar stories, and very heart- breaking to read. Every human being
    is basically and sometimes totally
    different than the other person
    even the twins are different in
    their character, attitude and
    dreams. If anybody can get a partner with 51% similarity in
    nature, habits, purpose and
    dreams that person is a very
    lucky person. In this story,
    the mother is a loving and caring
    person and the husband is a cruel
    and self-centered person. She has
    suffered a lot of pain, shed tears
    every day, but her love for the
    children kept her moving one day
    at a time.

    We all try to marry our children
    to highly famous and rich
    families with great expectation of
    having a safe and happy future for
    our children, but events may take
    place contrary to the dreams. I have watched unbearable
    selfishness and greed from people
    of high status families, and
    the suppossed to be happily married
    couples are fighting every day for
    anything and everything in life.
    But I have seen very ordinary people having a great family life.
    It takes unconditional love,
    selfless approach, forgiving spirit, deep faith in God, humility, mutual appreciation
    and trust to have a happy married
    life. It takes an earnest effort
    from both sides along with God's
    blessings to reach that delightful destination of life.

  • ashenoy, mangloor

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    While the true story cannot be disputed when it is real,there is " absolute trueness" missing in this story. The reason for husbands treatment towards his wife. And why  he supported the family despite being drunk and abusive.

  • thelma, abu dhabi

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    From day one the lady has complained of being illtreated by her husband and F-I-L ... but why then on earth, has she accepted him on bed to bear 5 children from him .... was she tied to bed and did the husband force her for physical relations ... knowing the status she lived, wasn't it the lady's responsibility to opt for a smaller family ... a good mother is not the one who only gives birth to children and love them , but to understand her standard of living and provide the best to her children....in this particur case, i'm sure the same history will be repeated (getting the 1st child married at a very young age) ...

  • geo agrar, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    dear sonu,
    Personally I admire your social thought. As a writer you have accomplished your task and now it is in readers hands and they could view it, experience it and give personal touch from each one's self expeiences. Do not go for any justification after writing, just thank the comments, accept the.
    However you punched it well the objective was to depict GIRL CHILD. curtail study, marry her without her consent, child marriage, dowry touch, male dominance, hatred for feminine sect.. so many simple but true substance. keep up writing. god bless you.

  • Sona Pinto, Honnavar

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    Expenses like food, clothing, studying were taken care by the father nothing was less for them. But money is not everything in life my dear. Money can’t buy happiness nor love in one’s life. This was what she wanted from her husband which neither she nor her children could get. This incident brings girls life into light. You see how girls are been ill treated and reviled by people. Thank you readers for spending your precious time in reading this short incident and also thanks for your good comments which inspired me to continue writing. Secondly readers, I am not blaming nor I am abusing husbands nor do I say that women are angels or innocent. I am just trying to bring this incident in light so that people should understand the importance of girl child and treat girls and boys equally.


  • Dolfred D'souza, Goa/Mangalore/UK

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    You know it's never fifty-fifty in a marriage. It's always seventy-thirty, or sixty-forty. Someone falls in love first. Someone puts someone else up on a pedestal. Someone works very hard to keep things rolling smoothly someone else sails along for the ride. So people please don't blame husbands or wives. It depends on each marriage. Please don't generalize!

  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    The story shows the strugles of a mother in handling the tough situations in the family. As per the narration here the husband is completely at fault. He should know that that boy child he was expecting may kick his A$$ one day when he grows up for propery. Girl childs are much better and care takers of parents when needed in old age. One thing i do not understand from this story is that is the husband did not care at all for his daughters? who was earning for bread, cloths and education? is it only mother contributed 100% for the four daughters?.

  • jossy dsouza, Mangalore/Bendore

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    Readers, I think this story is one sided, Women are more abusive these days than Men. Because they work and earn and do as they please !!!! So please stop publishing these type of stries in Daiji world. I can show you out of 12 families live here there are eight Women are very abusive to trier husbands ! So called marriages, and values...Bul Sh.. If you can't trust your own husband why marry ?

  • Raj, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    Baseless

  • steve, sharjah

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    @Nisa Abudhabi, If man blame wife then he is stupid. If women blame man the what is she supposed to be....... idiot? According to me both are nonsense right!!

  • steve, Sharjah

    Mon, Jun 27 2011

    Why these days article only related on abusing HUSBANDS? Do you think the wives are ANGELS? or so called innocents? The frustration is the key for all troubles in the family whether it is material, physical or emotional. Who knows what is the reason behind to get married to this man by her mother?

    Girls wanted to study and work till 35-40 and then want to get married and this they can do after the marriage. The key word ‘trust’ has lost in transaction of today’s marriage life.

    Let author know that if men and women are not responsible to take care of their families then that couple must blame not individual. Great article emotion filled but one sided and without solution.

  • felix moras, Angelore, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    what are we trying to understand/achive from this true story? 5 children... who was looking after? mother alone? seems to be one sided story.

  • Sunil Shetty, Bengrodi

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    But what about expesnes like food & Clothing for all 5 daughters.Whether husband taken care or wife was working

  • Ashraf Sheikh, Dubai

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    This is such an emotional one sided story. This is more damaging than good. True, the husband may have had serious limitations but that doesnt mean the woman becomes ah angel 24/7

  • francis, mumbai

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    although her husband hated her from day 1 of their marriage , the couple had good time to make five children, There must have been some fault in the Lady also, pls do not blame the man alone

  • nisa, Abu Dhabi

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    It is Almighty God who creates whatever He pleases. He gives daughters to whom He pleases and gives sons to whom He pleases.
    Couples role in this regard is very limited. Stupid husbands who blame wife only??

  • glisten d'silva, m'lore

    Sun, Jun 26 2011

    GooD One..

  • sahul hameed, sajipa/sharjah

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    ReallY heart touching story thanks Ms Sona.

  • geo agrar, mangalore

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    good way of presenting social issue, family and spouse rejections on trivail issues, and happy positive decision for the children. heart is stronger than mind. Keep up Sona(Sunitha?).God bless U.

  • Jimmy Noronha, Bellore,Kulshekar,Lucknow

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    The other day a gentleman, well educated and a Class I government servant came to me with his wife carrying a small child accompanied by another small girl. He invited me to the celebration of his child’s first birthday. He was celebrating the birthday in a very grand scale and out of curiousity I asked the gender of the child and he replied he is celebrating the birthday as it is a boy child.

    I was taken aback by this expression as it came from a well educated man. I will certainly not attend this birthday celebration. Moreover, I must express my resentment, when people talk about a girl being fair or dark. What’s there in colour my dear? Some years ago an English lady in Muscat, repeatedly asked me if my sister was my real sister as she is very fair like my mother and I am not so fair like my father and she went on to ask if my sister and I were the issues of the same parents, and with a burst of temper I directed this lady to go and ask that question to my mother and the lady peeled off from the site obviously hanging her head in shame. I love this article.

  • Tony, Mangalore/Sydney

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Wonder this sort of continuous ill treatment by a husband to his wife still happening! Are not there appropriate Government agencies and counselling avenues available to address such issues?. I don`t think one should put up any more with such harsh treatment and nonsense in one`s married life in the modern era. Also, it used to be true that, way back, a male child was preferred, at least the first one, but these days any child - boy or a girl - it`s a great gift and should be accepted held with equal dignity, revere and happiness. By the way, there is no point in having more than three children, irrespective of their sex, if one cannot look after and bring them up in proper environment.

  • George D' Souza, Adam Kudru / AUH

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Nice heart touching, that's what happening in our place early years. Thanks and God bless you Ms. Sona

  • HENRY MISQUITH/M'lore, Bahrain

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Very true article,
    very well written,
    Hats off to u Sona Pinto.

    Henry Misquith,Bahrain

  • John DSouza, Mangalore

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Model Mother, True follower of Christ by carrying her cross with courage and determination.
    The love and grace of Almighty God brought her back from the deep water to complete her mission.
    Praise the Lord.

  • Narendra Shetty, Katapadi/Alkhobar

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Very touchy, about real motherly love and how mothers scarifies their entire life for the sake of their children, nice one.

  • Roshan D'Souza, Chikmaglur/Kuwait

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Nice one,keep writing thanks Sunitha.

  • Ronnie D'Souza, Bendur-Mumbai

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    An encouraging story and a happy end. Many women are suffering
    in the similar way. Ideal in such
    cases to contact The Parish Priest.
    Many are victim of ALCOHOLISM. Thank God there is Alcoholics Anonymous,one gets help from them.
    AL Anon helps the suffering members of an alcoholic.

    I encourage you Sona,pls keep on writing on such issues. God Bless and use you through Daijiworld

  • Mohammed/Katipalla, Mangalore/Katipalla

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Nice 1

  • norbert, bantwal /kuwait

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Really heart touching story thanks ms.sona

  • stanly d,almeida, pakshikere/mulund,mumbai

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Nice article ( a true story happening in our country - early marriages,hating girl child, mother's struggle ).Thanks Ms.Sona.

  • alwyn, Neermarga, Mangalore

    Sat, Jun 25 2011

    Good one, liked it.

  • GreG, Bejai/Doha QAtar

    Fri, Jun 24 2011

    Its Heart Touching Incident. May God Bless her and may she experience joy atleast now on and for the rest of the life.
    Education is more important and more than all Moral Science,Behaviour, Catechism which is most important is never high lighted in todays education. I wish the quality of education system improve in future.


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