April 21, 2012
November 14 is known as children's day in our country. Every school likes to celebrate this day with pomp and pleasure.
The other day, I was sitting on my couch and reading an article about children's day from an old newspaper dated November 14, 2011. It was quite interesting because this article took me back to my childhood days.
When I was a child I heard people saying 'going to school is fun' but I think this is not always true. I do not know how many people really had fun and enjoyed their school days!
I have very few good memories of my school days like my best friend, some one or two friendly teachers and of course physical education class where I used to get chance to go out from the class (cube/prison) and play with my friends. Other than that it was not as much fun as you would think. There was little or no excitement. We were forced to do things which we were not passionate about.
Many school children including myself used to get scared to go to school. I never felt that school was the place where you make friends and learn while playing. I used to get scared of teachers who used to come to classrooms with big wooden scales. Many times they were also provided with fat sticks. Beating on knuckles was common. When I think about it I get goose bumps. Some children used to bleed because of the beatings. Some teachers used to ask us to push our nose towards the wall until we are suffocated. Thank God now they've stopped beating in schools. Finally someone realised what kids are going through in India schools!
I remember one of my convent educated friends saying, “I hate women in beige colour saris!”
I asked him, “Why?”
He replied ... “The nuns who beat me at school used to wear that colour sari! So I hate that colour.”
On the other hand 'sexual harassment' was the unnoticed issue in many schools. Young girls were forced to stand on the bench though wearing skirts and boys watching.
I have heard some crazy teachers even used to pinch children's body or private parts. This was the most disgusting thing a human can do to another human! It was sexual harassment but children were scared to tell their parents.
Moreover our parents never had any problems with teachers beating us. They used to think that teachers were working hard to help their children to achieve their goals. So how could a child tell his/her parent that teachers were beating and pinching on their body/private parts? Parents it is a sexual harassment! Do not let it go unnoticed!!!
Spending five and half days (Monday to Saturday afternoon) in classrooms was again a waste of time. There were no practical experiences or self-study/research. Everything spoon fed! Many students did not know where their school library was. Most of the students never understood their subject at all. Parents and teachers wanted a good score that's all. You were never encouraged in issues in which you were passionate about! Our parents had already decided our future. You had to be a doctor or an engineer because your dad/mum/granddad was as well! A doctor's son or daughter couldn't be a painter or dancer! We were forced into things in which we spend the rest of our lives without any excitement or passion! So for many children learning by heart was the best option to get good scores. Being history students many students struggled to tell the exact dates of World War I and II! So what is the use of this kind of education?
I think it's time to change the education system in our country. Education should be fun. Teachers should be friendly and at the same time they should set ground rules for their learners. They should not beat any learners, instead they should be punished in a way they learn from their mistakes. Parent should recognise and encourage their children's talents and passion rather them pushing them into something were they really do not enjoy! They should fight against beating and sexual abuse. Government and educational authorities should act effectively on sexual abuse or any kind of physical harassment on children. Study hours should be reduced and students should get a chance to do research, self-study and even part-time work where they get practical knowledge. It's no point spending 20-25 years in classrooms and not know how to fill job application!
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