Bangalore: Child Slips to Death from Mother's Arms


Bangalore: Child Slips to Death from Mother's Arms

Bangalore, Jul 26 (DHNS): It is an eminently avoidable risk for parents to feed their babies standing on the edge of a balcony in a highrise apartment. On Monday morning, this risky way of feeding ended in tragedy for a south Bangalore family.

It was around 8.40 am. Amrutha, a homemaker, had just seen her husband off to office. She started feeding their 18-month-old son Arman. According to available details, the young child was restless and refusing to eat.

The mother then came out of their 9th floor apartment—in Adarsh Rhythm along the Bannergatta Road in JP Nagar —to the floor’s common passage and stood close to the window to feed the child.

What happened next was tragic. She might have calmed the restless child but in the process the plate from which she was feeding the child slipped from his hand. In an attempt to hold on to the plate, the child slipped out of her arms. There were no eye-witness accounts available. The mother was hardly in a position to speak about the tragedy.

From what the police said, the child fell out of the window of the 9th floor corridor to the parapet at a first floor level. The child’s body was smashed beyond recognition. It was instant death. The child was declared brought-dead at a neighbourhood hospital.

Amrutha’s husband Vishal Kashyap, a software engineer at Evaluating Systems, had barely reached his office when he had to return home upon receiving the shocking news.  The couple has a three-and-half-year-old daughter who was inside the apartment at the time of the tragedy.

A security guard at the apartment block, who first saw the body, told Deccan Herald that the child might have slipped through the window and first hit the 8th floor window sun shade (Chejja) and that’s why the direction changed and he fell on the portico/porch. “The head, neck and back were smashed beyond recognition,” he said.

The Kashyaps are said to be originally from Punjab but have settled down in the city. They had moved into the 9th floor flat (Flat No. C-903) a couple of years ago. They are in a state of shock and their relatives in Rajajinagar took them to their house. The autopsy was conducted at KIMS hospital and the body was handed over in the evening.

JP Nagar police said they know only what Amrutha initially told her husband. “She is right now in a state of shock; she has withdrawn into a shell. We are waiting for a detailed account from her as no eye-witness account is available to us,” said police inspector SK Umesh said.

The local police had a tough time entering the residential complex. Hours after the incident, the police team sought permission and entered the area.

Incidentally, two months back a 10th standard student had committed suicide in the same apartment complex.

  

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Jul 27 2011

    Guy's and Gal's please understand that this is a accident.....no mother wants to put her child to death... Let us realize accidents happen....in many of them there is no point of return...it is sad and very sad...!!???

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  • Tony Francis, Udupi

    Wed, Jul 27 2011

    Nagesh, I have been always criticizing your comments,like many others, but today you spoke logic and I salute you - at least now, I assume, you have become quiteMATURE! Hope you will keep it up.

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  • Judith L, Mumbai

    Wed, Jul 27 2011

    I agree with you Joyce, post delivery as the harmones change there are wide mood swings, hence mothers need proper rest and mental support from elders. This lady was managing two small kids alone 3 1/2 years and 18 months old.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    HI, Sam, Mangalore,

    WE FEEL VERY SAD ABOUT CHILD & MOTHER.

    INCIDENT MAY HAPPENS ANYWHERE, TO ANYBODY.

    BUT MOST OF THE COMMENTS ARE WITH BLAMING A BUILDER.

    WHY A BUILDER IS RESPONSIBLE ?

    BUILDER WILL NOT AT ALL COME INTO PICTURE.

    SAM, IN THIS KALIYUGA NO ONE IS BOTHERED ABOUT OTHERS . NO ONE IS HAVING TIME TO SPEND FOR THE SAKE/BENEFIR OF OTHERS.

    WE HAVE TO TAKE UTMOST CARE FOR SELF & OUR FAMILY.

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  • Chelsea, Moodbidri

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Nazeer, Mangalore
    you look stupid here. 18 year old doesn't call baby & no need to feed by mother. you need to go to primary school.

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  • Alwyn, Canada

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Finally Nagesh mamu gets matured with his matured comment mother versu Builder.
    Anyways this incidence is very sad and that is the destiny of that child on this earth. Only we can pray for that little angel to rest in peace. God bless.

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  • Ronan, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Mr Rajesh you got your thoughts wrong. This is not accident this is who cares attitude problem, learn from Nagesh Nayak he is right for the first time. tomorrow you will fall, you will blame the builder? your child plays with the gas stove and bursts you blame the buliders, you buy cheap electrical stuff and get electrocuted you blame the builders. You get some safety programmes for you and family and then blame.
    May the angel get good parents in heaven.

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  • Rochelle, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    @Nagesh Nayak
    For the first time Nagesh talks sense.
    Children cry for everything, that does not mean you have to put the kids life at risk by feeding or over feeding him on a balcony wall showing some rosy pictures. Most of of the kids are over fed like pigs and when the kids act cranky parents do all these nonsense stuff. She could have taken the kid to the ground floor to feed where the kid could have met some small children to see atleast.
    I feel sorry for the family for the loss of the kid.

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  • Rochelle, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Empathise with the family and a good lesson to all parents who dont care about foreseeing a problem. The problem here is not about living in heights without grill, Its a matter of safety precautions that each parents have to learn and adopt in day today life. "Nothing will happen attitude" is the major cause for disaster. Even small things like a cable, a bucket on the way, little water on the floor, slippery floor in the toilet can kill people.
    Here in this case looks like the child was seated at the balcony wall and fed, otherwise this instance wouldnt have happened. Not to make people feel bad about my view, but its the fact.
    My Company teaches me more on these small safety issues to take care on a day to day basis to avoid such instances not only for me and family, but also to see there is no danger for others as well. Suggest most of the people learn some basics of safety to human life and also almost all companies should give a Quality Health Safety environment training to their employees.

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  • L,

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    very sad and shocking news. May the bays soul rest in peace and the mother get little moral support so as to come out from such a trgedy condition












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  • Sam, Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Most of the comments are immature. Please dont blame mother. You lost nothing, but she lost her own son. It can happen to any one. take it as a lesson. May god strengthen them to bear with this great lose.

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  • Nazeer, Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    That stupid mother only to be blamed for this incdence. Some mothers are really adament in feeding their babies even the baby doesn't want to eat. If the baby is really hungry it will cry for food. Due to an ignorant mother an 18 year old baby lost it's life. I am really feel very sorry for that innocent baby. If you consult the any paediatrician he will guide in a better way. Also please keep on changing the food type and the taste so the child will accept it.
    May the child's soul rest in peace at heaven!

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  • joyce, mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    May the child rest in peace.
    Tragedy and a sad news. Child is 18 months old.In my opinion, it is better to rule out postpartum depression for mother, before blaming her for her carelessness.Many a times people are ignorant of a postnatal mothers depressive state and leave the lady alone to struggle with small child which can pose a high risk for childs safety.

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  • N. Dias, Goa

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Gosh, what a tragedy. I get scared of heights hence my flat is on the first floor. I get scared even to go to the terrace of my house let alone a 9th floor. I am scared of heights. I feel giddy when I see down. Hence I dont look down from a height.

    May all learn a lesson and the child rest in peace.

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  • SHETTIGAR, UAE/ KINNIMULKI

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Feels bad. But it was mere carelessness on the part of the mother. How can someone feed a baby close to an open window that too at such great heights?? Also just imagining the plight of the mother when she saw her child slipping and falling down from her own hands and she couldn't do anything...

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  • Jean, Kerala

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Dear Vishal, please support & console Amrutha to the best you can, as she can survive this tragedy only with your love...

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  • balanna, Dubai/Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    This is just an accident. It is not fair to blame the mother. Try to understand the mother's pain. However people can learn a lesson to be more cautious.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Whose fault ..?
    1.It is not mother's fault fully..It is her destiny to lose child.When child doesn't take food,mothers do all types of circus to feed.Unfortunatley she stood in the balcony.
    2.It is not builders fault fully.He built according to the plan and profit.His policy is money first,safety next.
    3.It is the fault of officials(100%) who gave license to builder to build a building which doesn't have safety.
    4.It is fault of people who keep silent after seeing blunders/accidnets every time.

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  • Judith L, Mumbai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    This is very sad news. We mothers, get worried even if there is a slight scratch on our child. Safety is important, houses especially with toddler and small children should have grills. May the little angel rest in peace. May God give strenght to the parents to bear the irrepairable loss.

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  • Peter, Brahmavar/Sharjah

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Only the mother knows the pain in her heart while baby slipped from her hand and dead. I have no word to console her

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  • hassanmukha, bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    The architect must be given 'Architecht of the year'award for planning such an apartment,even though it was mother's fault.

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  • Jawar D'Souza, m'lore/Doha

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    This is a very unfortunate we cannot blame BJP or Congress for this, we have to blame our fate. It ia a real agony for the parents and relatives God has to give strength to bear the loss. What I dont understand is why there is no parapet for every floor window. In Bombay all the balcony's are installed with grill's, this not for child safety, but to be safe from theives.

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  • Dr Alexander Dsouza, Bangalore/USA

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Mr nagesh naik...
    I always see your arrogant comments on Cultures society,moral family values, corruption..
    today i like your way of dealings..
    thanx nagesh.. You are right..
    Mother is responsible for her babys death..
    Always we must think before..Its not fun as we thought..
    atleast it will be a lesson for many people who taking things just silly..
    Thanx again Nagesk naik.

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  • Sunitha, Bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Folks, Its an accident and nobody should be blamed for this. Please give the moral support to the mother and take it as a lesson to secure yourself and your family, never a builder can do this for u in each step.

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  • Wilma Baretto, Mangalore/Dubai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Its all mothers fault why she has to stand near the balcony window to feed her baby that also 9th floor? sometimes people doesn't use brain they follow their mind.

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family! It is pure accident, bad luck, and nobody can be blamed for it, it just happened in a split second!!

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  • Dora Rego[nee Pais], Nirkan, Bantwal/amboli, andheri west

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Very shocking news. Feeling sad for the parents specially the mother. Accidents don't happen with information. Parents with children while living in flats first floor and above should enclose their balconies and windows

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  • shahina, mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    anything can happen anywhere u cannot blame anybody for this it s all faith

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  • Raghavendra, Padmanabhanagar

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    This is the silliest comment I've ever seen.

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  • philip gomes, bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Tragic lesson for all to remember. take good care of your children when they are small.our child our responsibility and not the builder nor anyone like some comments here.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    hi, Hema, Bangalaore,

    DO NOT BLAME BUILDERS WITHOUT KNOWING REAL FACT.

    IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A MOTHER TO TAKE CARE OF HER CHILDRENS.

    BUILDER'S RESPONSIBILITY COMES ONLY WHEN STRUCTURE FALL DOWN OR ANY DEFECT IN BUILDING.

    DO NOT COMMENT WITH HALF KNOWLEDGE.

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  • alwyn, mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    HEMA bANGALORE....you mean to say after selling the flat builder has to stand near the building & catch who falls down... what u think ?

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  • Arjun, India

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    The parents need lot of emotional support to get over this great loss. Any finger pointing towards mother will destroy this family. There is no system in our country to ensure such counselling and also there is no system to prevent the mother from being verbally and mentally abused by relatives, including husband.

    Many building in mangalore also lacks adequate safety, this also need to be addressed. Let almighty give enough strength to the family to overcome this loss.

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  • Preethi R Baretto, Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Such a sad news.. Mother will be filled with Trauma right now. she needs Ventilation and not any Questions to be asked about the Tragedy.

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  • Louis D'Souza, Udupi/Kuwait

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    May his soul rest in peace. Shocking news. Those who stay in multi story buildings must cover their balconys with grills.

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  • Hema, Bangalaore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Very much shocked of news, its all because of the builder, if the builder had taken adequate safety measures it would have not happened......

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  • Oliver, Mangalore/Dubai

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    An Accident occurs to make us wise or rather wisen us up and take necessary precautions, if she could try to save the falling plate as stated (an inanimated object) she would be wise enough to do other wise, our thoughts are with the Family in Sorrow

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  • Bhalchandra Kapse, Kolhapur

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    A very sad event! In future, no one should take such type of risk in balconies & open windows while being with infants. Accidents do not come by giving hints.

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  • Joyce, Moodbidri / Kuwait

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    My heart cries for that mother..death of her own child in her hands..Lord please help her to recover from this shock, only you can console her, people may speak manythings but as a mother I can understand..how a mother stuggles just to feed her child and losing him for a lifetime in this process..can't even imagine her pain...Bless her and all the family members Lord!!!

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    VERY VERY SAD NEWS.

    A INNOCENT CHILD LOST ITS LIFE .

    SOME COMMENTS ARE AGAINST THE BUILDER WHICH IS NOT CORRECT.

    MOTHER IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE DEATH OF INNOCENT BABY.

    MORAL OF THE STOREY :

    WE HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF SELF & FAMILY.

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  • Shashi Shetty, Santhoor/ Manipal

    Tue, Jul 26 2011

    Sometimes we will have to beleive in fate than all the safety standards. countless mothers feed their children on the balcony and the incidents like this happens rarely. However, prevention is always better . my sympathy is with the poor mother I hope Kashyap family will take care of this lady without blaming her. I know a family in Chennai whose child fell under it's own grandfathers car right in their portico.

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  • Amul, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 25 2011

    Very shocking news. I have seen most of the mothers/housemaids use these simple procedure to feed their child.

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  • Rajesh, mangalore

    Mon, Jul 25 2011

    All mothers would like to come to open air spce to feed their child when the refuse to feed ,my wife is same.the tragedy is something they dont think , dont blame the mother ,imagine what her mental statusnow will be all those who visit her willbe saying ' u should not have gone so close ' please give her a break.let her recuperate. the bulider should be penalised, go to city mall when u go down the stairs , see the railings attached a child will easily slip and ..... and we call this world class God help us

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  • Dave, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 25 2011

    What we can say?
    Educated-illiterates- only do this.
    I remember in US Singer Madonna was fined after she ignored the authorities warning in not fixing barricades to her window with her toddler child in that house.
    Do we need to inculde the Fire department permission to any building to have adequate child safety measures before any one comes to rent or own any property or building.

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