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Puttur: Newly married woman consumes poison, ends life

  •   Fri, Apr 28 2023 09:14:27 AM

Daijiworld Media Network – Puttur (MS)

Puttur, Apr 28: A woman, who got married just two months ago, consumed poison and killed herself at her parent’s house.

The deceased is identified as Harshita (28), daughter of Guddakodi Balappa Poojary of Kedila village in Bantwal taluk.

Harshita got married to Prashant, manager of Kemminje temple on February 10. After marriage, Harshita lived in her husband’s house and went to her parent’s house on April 23.

On April 24, Harshita said to her mother that she had consumed poison. Though she was rushed to the hospital immediately, she succumbed.

A case is filed in the Puttur police station according to the complaint filed by her mother saying that Harshita killed herself due to mental depression.

 

 

 
  

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  • Praveen, Dubai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    I agree. It is still unknown truth 99% of times married life is ruined by In –law's either from boys side or girl side by interfering in their personal & professional life. That is why married couples like live in abroad where no one can easily interfere. Eg: If someone asks daughter in law whether she like to live with mother in law or like to live separately with husband. All 100% answer going to be separately even if it is just small 1 room kitchen. --- Radha Gopi Kamath, Siddapura Fri, Apr 28 2023 Quote:Sometimes, it is the girls mother and sister who spoil girls married life by loading her brain with dirt

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Praveen, very true; a third person entering the inner circle of the family (mostly in-laws), and interfering with the family affairs is a sure shot equation for disaster of the family! IMHO, these outsiders come in as saints and play all possible games to destroy the family, while playing the victims card to show their innocence to the outsiders!

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Monty, your advise is very right, but it should be for a pretty extended period of time; forest therapy wherein the patient goes and stays in a dense forest without any contact with the outside world has been proven to cure depressive disorders in Japan! The problem with PTSD origin depression is the horrendous recordings of past events do not get wiped out, but are permanently recorded even though one has long forgotten the event as surface as nightmares mostly ofd persecution the feelings one experiences just cannot be explained by words! BTW, I have studied many psychiatrists in the US and other advanced countries suggesting psylocybin as a potent cure, but that is illegal!! So also some psychiatrists have used ketamine as a very useful medication in drug resistant depression; but I wonder any psychiatrist would have used it here! This platform and the news gave me an option to open out; and I am sure there would be many who can relate to me!!

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Rudy sir, keep aside for the time being, going to forest/visiting psychiatrists etc. Try to cut off the things that pains you may be friends/relatives/tv serials/fake you tube videos etc which make you irritate and make you to recall the past memories for your inner strength/strength for nervous system and for your own mental peace. Concentrate on lovely hobbies singing/dancing/painting/writing stories/write biography/playing visting malls (just sit comfortably and watch people of different characters 😀) practise some mudras and accupressure points for calming the thoughts etc. Start writing affirmations what you want ...you need good health of mind and peace ..write it down..while sleeping after prayers say in your mind you are healthy, you have best nervous system and affirmations like this. Automatically, your brain start concentrating on such affirmations and miraculously you will be healed. You need some time for that. Just sit and meditate...Family interference is a couple's life is really condemnable.

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  • Anil (Professor), Mangalore

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Very Sad, May her soul rest in peace. We pray to female goddess, but we torture our own female members of our family for money etc. I somehow feel many people doesn't realize how short the life is. We should make our life and other's life happy.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    ವಿಧಿ ಲಿಖಿತ ವಿವಾಹ ದೌರ್ಭಾಗ್ಯ .. R I P 🙏🙏🙏

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  • Dinesh, Dubai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    What kind of Jihad it was with Temple Manager?.....To be probed properly... truth will come out

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  • Radha Gopi Kamath, Siddapura

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Sometimes, it is the girls mother and sister who spoil girls married life by loading her brain with dirt. I have done the same mistake when 20 years ago. I and my mother have had a very bad married life. Our in-laws made us do household work and our husband did not love us. So, when my younger sister got married 20 years back, I told her all my bad experiences and asked her to keep husband in control. I did not even know her husband or his family when I gave this advice to my sister. Today, her husband is mentally unstable and his family is completely broken and depressed. Only my sister is happy but I destroyed a family because of my advice. I did not even stop after giving advice, I call my sister everyday and tell her many horror stories of my family life. My mother too does the same. We both spoiled my sister's married life. My sister does not understand that and loves us so much and hates her husband's family. She doesn't have a good heart like me and my mother.

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  • mohan prabhu, mangalore/canada

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    sad to hear. true story. newly married should be left alone to sort their differences. advice/interference can backfire. Thank you for being so frank and open.

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  • Radha Gopi Kamath, Siddapura

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Yes Mohan Mam. I did this mistake and I realize now. I should have not interfered in her life. Her husband and his family are destroyed now. I was very jealous of her because her husband loved her and her in-laws also loved her very much because she was the first daugther-in-law in their family., In fact, her father-in-law washed her feet with turmeric with his own hands when she entered their home. I feel very bad for spoiling their family. Now, her husband and his family do not respect me and my mother. I have a lot of wealth but there is no love from husband prabhu maam.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    After doing so many things, you are saying you and your mother have good hearts !! For your kind invitation, there are equal number of families of husband's side say his parents/sisters/relatives etc to fill in the ears of the man, i.e. husbands and apply sour/spicy masala and make him to ill treat his wife ...divorce and desperate. They even use evil sources and make the families seperate....

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  • Radha Gopi Kamath, Siddapura

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Yes Cynthia. You are right. I am not pointing to only one gender. But generally, we ladies gossip a lot and are never happy. Our culture requires us to leave home and go to husband's home. Especially our mother and sister are very insecure and do not want to leave their control even after we go to husband's place. If there was no societal pressure, many girls like me , my sister and mother would NOT have got married at all. Actually, we want to live our own life and had no interest in getting married. Marriage requires us to contribute to household work . So we got married to rich families where we can afford maids. But still there is household work that we dont want to do. So, this causes discomfort and we start hating husband and their families as if they were not there, there would be no work to do and we could have enjoyed our own independent life.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Since you are 20 years elder to your sister, start infilling her the good qualities of her husband and in laws and save her family. Fill in the positivity in her. Tell her frankly why did you speak ill about her family and your jealousy just like how you opened up here. With the help of reliable elders, you continue to rejoin her. If your sister gets angry and keeps away, no problem atleast have satisfaction you have given life to her family. Now a days, men too much gossippers just like women. In women, there are some, who never gossip around and mind their own business. Now a days men's tongues are very loose like what's app news that gets viralled. Now, you srart controlling your husband. Whats the difficulty and problem in doing our own household work when major house work done by the house helpers ? You shouldn't be that egoistic that you dont want to do the house work. Adjust with your family and show them you too are a good house wife. First ask pardon from all....Because, after spoiling sisters married life, you are calling yourself a good person having good heart. You are a man actually commenting under female name pseudo id....🤣🤣🤣🤣 utter rubbish....good luck....

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sat, Apr 29 2023

    Radha Gopi Siddapur,dear I say it is not too late,Instead of writing here in media.do one thing,Kindly just go to psychological person and take his advice.You can may be correct few things.Dont gossip any more .Please write it in a diary like.May be you may make your heart bit lighter by doing this.Everyone does mistakes in his /her life.But to admit it takes a lot of courage and say sorry to it still better.Now all the instead of you did mistake ,try to correct it .Help them who suffered because of you in some way or other .You should take up a hobby ,like sport or walking instaed of grumbling or advising sister.Make your world bit better and others too.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Apr 30 2023

    Radha G:Siddapur.I feel you have very bad habit of hanging on telefon all the time,not giving any importance to home or your own people.You should now on avoid talking and gossipping .You have to avoid it .One leads to other and at the end someone is middle point of your hatred or talk.Instead of talking on the phone all the time and advising your sister .do at your home good .That might bring more appriciation from your own people.

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Depression, a silent killer unless otherwise people around her see the changes in the behaviour of the concerned person!! Depression, unless the victim himself understands that he is having some mental issues; in the scenario of depression, the patient will have multiple physical symptoms for which he will be made to run from one specialty to another till some good doctor will diagnose it as a case of clinical depression; which if not treated in time will ultimately lead to suicidal ideation! To see the increasing cases of depression one has to visit a psychiatrist and see the unbelievably long Q of patients there!!

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Rudy sir, Namasthe ji......Sometimes, its difficult to find out the people in depression. Outside, they look normal but deep inside thoughout the day night they keep corroding away inside. Depressed people can be easily noticed if they are on medication. Tablets make them dull/gloomy. May god protect them.....May the departed soul rest in peace...

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Cynthia, I have to admit the fact that I myself am a long time victim of clinical depression/phobic anxiety/OCD and am on medication! The funniest thing is that I myself had to self diagnose my depressive state after consulting a series of physicians and specialists who made me undergo unnecessary tests and prescribed various kinds of very strong drugs, which created havoc in my life and still suffering! Ultimately, I myself convinced my parents to take me to a psychiatrist, which was very difficult because of the taboo attached to it (psychiatrist meant: "pagal logon ka doctor")! Today, I personally know what it is to be mentally depressed; one will have to put his feet in the depressed person's life to know the suffering! To cut the story short, depression ruined my entire career; but some divine Providence has still kept me alive surrounded by loving and understanding family and people!! It's very easy to recognise the signs of depression, to a well read discerning person, from the victim's sudden change in emotional, behaviour, eating and sleeping patterns etc.! All in all this is a very vast subject with various sets and subsets; the worst mental disorder is "schizophrenia"!

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  • Monty Dotor, Mangalore

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Have you tried Cognitive Behavioral Therapy... psychology is very complex - to give an example I believe Mania and Depression are just the opposite but both are treated as depression and with the same SSRI medication, that is why I think medications are not effective in curing or controlling psychological symptoms. Medicines might help few people only.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Your quote...(psychiatrist meant: "pagal logon ka doctor")! "Today, I personally know what it is to be mentally depressed; one will have to put his feet in the depressed person's life to know the suffering " Very well said by you....Very true. Rudy sir, thank god. Now, you have overcome this depression by your self effort, and today you are amidst us. My sincere wish and prayer is, may god keep away from such issues and continue to bless you abundantly. 🙏🙏.......I know, its very easy to recognise the signs of depressed person, from his emotions, behaviour, eating and sleeping patterns etc.! Yes....true....But, these too are the signs of stress and anxiety....A person with anxiety/stress unable to sleep like that of depressed people. One doctor suggested to a friend of mine, not to go to specialists/physicians and PSYCHIATRISTS in such conditions, who make life worst by strong drug, which makes the person to sleep all the time. (Psychiatrists themselves look like gloomy/tensed/lifeless...because of the patients they handle! I feel pity on them)...Instead he suggested to go to a good counselor (not all) and definitely not priests and nuns who did PHD (because they dont have the experience living a married life. I know, it happened in my family with my brother in law. He had anxiety and was worried about his work as he had small kids. He went to a famous psychiatrist in Mumbai. Poor fellow was put on strong medication. Eating and sleeping....Finally, he ended his life...Because dosages were not affecting him...May his soul rest in peace.....This is a very vast subject....I have seen, how he lived and his family members adjusting with him😪😪 I always, in support of such people. Rudy sir, try to be positive in EVERYTHING. What hurting you keep away from that, especially disturbing news/tv serials....🙏

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Monty, I have not undergone CBT, though I have tried almost all types of antidepressants and anxiolytics; though there is tremendous improvement in mood and other debilitating symptoms; the problem is you cannot stop the meds or the relapse occurs; side effects are too much to count; in that some antidepressants themselves cause intense suicidal ideation as a side effect! All in all, I personally having gone through the trauma, it kills you every hour... every day, a feeling you cannot express as to what is happening in the body! My particular case (my personal confirmed diagnosis) is because of PTSD 😭, which I had absolutely no control on; it's my karma! I intended going through "past life regression", but couldn't find a good therapist! Really, BLESSED ARE THOSE WHOSE MIND DOESN'T OVERWORK AND ALWAYS BALANCED AND AT PEACE! Would like to go on... but it'll be endless....,,

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  • Monty Dotor, Mangalore

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Take break from the busy hustle and bustle of Mumbai.Take a family vacation to a small town like Mangalore -Nandini or Pabbas iceream ( like Pappu did today)or Chipun/Ratnagiri enjoy Deodhar Hapus mangoes, or head to Anand ,Gujarat enjoy Amul Pizza and Strawberry milk shake with icecream. These destinations are light on the pocket and good for detox. It is like a reset button on the computer or modem. Wipe out the negative vibes, ( and enjoy my comments)....

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    What is there to enjoy in your comment Montu ji...other than few words...ideal/pabbas/nandini/aapus/goa/karwar/anand/mangluru/pocket/amul/shrikand right poyee? Can we enjoy everyday by reading this pottu comment every now and then...??? Otraaasi baki sab changasi n mangeshi

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Monty, your advise is very right, but it should be for a pretty extended period of time; forest therapy wherein the patient goes and stays in a dense forest without any contact with the outside world has been proven to cure depressive disorders in Japan! The problem with PTSD origin depression is the horrendous recordings of past events do not get wiped out, but are permanently recorded even though one has long forgotten the event as surface as nightmares mostly of persecution the feelings one experiences just cannot be explained by words! BTW, I have studied many psychiatrists in the US and other advanced countries suggesting psylocybin as a potent cure, but that is illegal!! So also some psychiatrists have used ketamine as a very useful medication in drug resistant depression; but I wonder any psychiatrist would have used it here! This platform and the news gave me an option to open out; and I am sure there would be many who can relate to me!!

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  • Naveen, Mangalore

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    I believe her husband is a supporter of Shobha Karandlaje. Prohibition on prasadam at Karnataka temples hurts religious feelings. May her soul rest in Peace .

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  • Haneef, Udupi

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    We can see people making fun of someones death...Great🙏🙏

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  • real kujuma, kodial

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    is this poison jihad? luckily no minority involved...

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  • Rolf, Dubai

    Fri, Apr 28 2023

    Prohibition on prasadam at Karnataka temples hurts religious feelings: Shobha Karandlaje.

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