Mangaluru: Renowned author, 'Laughter Guru' John B Monteiro passes away at 86


Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru

Mangaluru, Jul 16: Renowned author, 'Laughter Guru' and founder of the Bondel Laughter Club, John B Monteiro, passed away at the age of 86 on Tuesday, July 16, due to age-related ailments.

John B Monteiro was well-known for his bestselling books such as 'Corruption - Control of Maladministration' (300 pages, Allied Publications) and its update 'India’s Painful Crawl to Lokpal' (360 pages, published by Strategic Book Publishing & Rights Co.) 56 years later. He also authored 'The History of CASK (Canara Association of South Kanara) and Other Centenary Institutions of Mangaluru' (400 pages).

Monteiro was a prolific writer in both print and electronic media, including the prestigious coastal region website, daijiworld.com, and was a permanent panel writer for the Daijiworld Weekly. Additionally, he had his own website, www.welcometoreason.com, which is now defunct. 

Monteiro's writings were simple, filled with historical anecdotes, and carried a sense of humanism. His work was devoid of vulgarity or negativity. His love for writing was evident and touching, whether he wrote about a celebrity or a person digging graves at the parish graveyard. He took care of the English section of the Bondel parish bulletin, 'Bondelchem Bonder', a monthly magazine.

Monteiro's lifestyle was simple and enterprising. He would rise sharply at 5 AM, perform initial prayers, and read before preparing tea for himself and his wife Lynette. Despite Lynette's passing on August 11, 2017, he continued this routine. He would then walk to the nearby Bondel Public Grounds to conduct the 'Laughter Club' sessions for over 20 minutes. Monteiro introduced the concept of laughter therapy to Mangaluru after retiring from L&T in 2000.

After the 'Laughter Session', he would attend the first Mass of the day at St Lawrence Church. He preferred a quiet life, avoiding unnecessary socializing and WhatsApp chats.

Born on July 17, 1938, in Bantwal, Mangaluru, to the late Hilary Monteiro and the late Carmine, John pursued his initial education at the nearby church school before completing his graduation at St Aloysius College, Mangaluru. He then moved to Bombay to pursue post-graduate studies in economics, political science, and public administration at Bombay University.

After earning his post-graduate degree, Monteiro briefly taught at St Aloysius College before moving to Bombay, where he worked for reputed companies, including a 30-year tenure in the communications department of L&T. During this period, he contributed articles to well-known dailies such as the Evening News of India and Free Press Bulletin.

Monteiro was also known as an 'unknown donor' who contributed to humanitarian causes, adhering to the Biblical dictum, 'the left hand doesn’t know what the right hand is doing' (Matthew 6:3).

Comparisons have been drawn between Monteiro and Khushwant Singh, the renowned writer and former editor of the Illustrated Weekly of India. Both enjoyed good wine and whisky, along with the company of beautiful women. Monteiro's wife Lynette, however, would always note that he preferred vodka because it did not smell. Notably, it was Khushwant Singh who published a special edition on 'Mangalorean Catholics' in 1970, with Monteiro writing the lead article, 'Canara Catholics'. Monteiro reproduced this edition 50 years later to commemorate his daughter Primrose's golden birthday in 2020. Primrose is currently the managing editor of ‘Femina'.

At the L&T campus, Monteiro discovered the 'Laughter Club' phenomenon and led sessions during lunchtime for his colleagues in Ballard Estate, South Bombay. Upon retiring and returning to Mangaluru, he dedicated his time to writing and social work, continuing the 'Laughter Sessions' at Bondel Grounds.

John was father to two children, Primrose (Prima) and Mohan, who are settled with their spouses, Kevin D’Souza and Neisha Lobo, respectively, and their children, Zach and Maya. 

 

 

Funeral details: Viewing at Johnlyn Cottage, Bondel, Mangaluru on Thursday, July 18 at 2.00 pm. Mass in St Lawrence Church, Bondel, Mangaluru at 3.30 pm, followed by burial in the church cemetery.

 

 

  

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  • Naveen Frank, Mangalore/Sharjah

    Sun, Jul 21 2024

    Although our families were very close to each other due to our Bantwal connections, I did not associate myself with John in my earlier years as he was a lot more senior to me. But strange to mention, John was my silent mentor and motivator even before I had met him. As a young boy, I was fascinated to see his front page article on Mangalore published by the erstwhile “Illustrated Weekly of India” in the 70’s. That triggered in me an interest in also writing to the same Weekly. Years later which I was doing my graduate studies, Pritish Nandi the then Editor of the same publication published my 2 page article about a blind college student in Mysore. But since a couple of decades, I was in association with John. What fascinated me most was his simplicity. In spite of being a very popular figure, he was always that gentle soul. He always encouraged those aspiring artists and writers with his valuable comments. During my visits to his Bondel home, the best conversation with John was our Bantwal roots and ancient grandma tales. In the passing away of John, we have not only lost a prolific writer, but a good human being. May his soul rest in peace. Naveen Frank Sharjah, UAE

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Sad to hear about his demise.May God give him eternal rest .Heartfelt sympathy to his family.

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  • Bobato Charlie, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    May his soul rest in peace 🙏

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  • Victoria, Bondel/ Muscat

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    My heartfelt condolences to Primrose Kavin Douza and family members he was very loving and caring Person loved his children society May his soul rest in peace🙏

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  • Victoria, Bondel/ Muscat

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    My heartfelt condolences to Primrose Kavin Douza and family members he was very loving and caring Person loved his children society May his soul rest in peace🙏

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  • DENZIL FERNANDES, MANGALORE

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Mr. John Monteiro was a very popular personality in the Mangalore cicle contributing his bit with his beautiful stories including the laughter club. Surely, many will miss his enthusiasm and energy to write and invite people to join him in his activities. A rare man of our era. May his soul REST IN PEACE and condolences to his family at his sad time. GOD BLESS ALL. DENZIL FERNANDES

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  • Neela, Gonsalves

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Dear Prima and Mohan my deepest condolences to you and to your families. Uncle John was a wonderful person whom I loved catching up with during my visits to his Bondel home. He will be missed a lot. We have some lovely memories of meetings in Bangalore, visiting him at the L&T guesthouse in Fraser town, his being moved to tears during the bride giving away ceremony at my wedding, months later when I was expecting my son he took me out for a very hearty meal. These I hold very close to my heart. Today is a very sad day. I have been praying for him this past week, may he rest in eternal peace and bless and guide us from above.

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  • Prakash, Manipal

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    A complete life he led that is beneficial to the society... RIP to the great soul...

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  • Stany Dsouza, Mumbai Kalina, Bondel Woodville

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Very sad news indeed. May his soul rest in peace. May God give strength to the family to bear the irreparable loss. I came to know about Mr Monteiro 5-6 years ago. He visited my flat. Told me to join laughing club. But the timings 6am, did not suit me. I have read his many articles in daijiworld. Once again May his soul rest in peace.

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  • Allwyn Mascarenhas, Bondel, Mangaluru

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Uncle John was young at heart. Had been for his Birthday last July. Recall those conversations we had a couple of times at my house over his column here. Also when I visited his villa with my kid when we wrote regarding Bondel parish for the church project. Rest in peace dear uncle. My heartfelt condolences to the family.

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  • Sandra Fernandes, Bantwal/Colaba

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    John Monteiro was a big part of our lives growing up. He was my father, John's best friend, my sister's godfather and was a regular visitor at our house, along with his wife Lynette and children Prima and Mohan. We lived close to each other. We have wonderful memories of the times spent together. He was a man of many talents and was a jolly soul. We had the privilege of seeing him a couple of years back when we visited him with my father. Our heartfelt condolences to Prima, Mohan, Kevin, Neisha, Zack and Mario.

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  • Gilbert John Pinto and Family, Bejai, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    A gem of a Man and a beautiful soul. Our heartfelt sympathies to the members of John's family. When I worked for L&T in the 70s and 80s I knew John through his articles in the company's newsletter - Powai Pageant. May our Lord Jesus Christ welcome John in to His kingdom with open arms.

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  • Emy Teacher, Thodambila

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    It is indeed we have lost a man of honour, in simple words a good human being . Mr John Monteiro though he resides in Bondel he had a special concern for his loved ones in Bantwal. During his visit to Sacred Heart School, Thodambila back in 2000 he observed that there is no proper washrooms for the school children which made him to consult L&T company and under their CSR initiative he ensured proper washroom facility for the students for which, Sacred Heart School, Thodambila will be ever grateful. Eternal rest & peace grant unto him, O Lord, And let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace in heaven. We extend our heartfelt condolences to his family members.

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  • Arsdeep Ravi Moars, Kathalsar

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    May Mr Montiero soul Rest In Peace , Heartfelt condolences to all family members

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Raheja Waterfront

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Rest in Peace ...

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  • KS Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    I used to read his articles published here and liked it a lot. He has done his bit for the society and I am sure must be content. Many heartfelt condolences to his near and dear ones.

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  • Ravi, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Great visionaries of Mangalore. Rest in Peace !!!

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  • Yeshvir Monteiro, Mangalore/Australia

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    A day of sorrow and memory. John Monteiro was a friend of my Uncle Nobby at St Aloysius College in Mangalore and, when he moved to Bombay, became a lifelong friend of my Father. I remember his engagement to my mother’s sister, Lynette, at our apartment at the Tata Colony in Andheri West. I was a page boy at his wedding along with my cousin, Prakash. A visit to his apartment at Strand House in Colaba was always an adventure. He knew the best places to eat, the best vantage point to watch boys jumping into the sea with statues of Ganesh at the Gateway of India, and where to see the residents dislodging the human pyramids which were part of the Krishna festival (dahai handi). He was always positive and encouraging. At a low point of my life he assured me that i would suceed. When Neela was expecting Dhruv he took her out for a big meal because it was traditional. I shalll miss his presence and will hold his memory close to my heart.

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  • Vaneeta Monteiro, Queensland Australia

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    My thoughts and virtual hugs are with Prima, Mohan and families. He was a wonderful man and uncle taking us on so many adventures in Mumbai and Mangalore. He really knew the best and most authentic places to eat. Such an icon. He will be missed.

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  • Leeda Fernandes, Bellore-Denmark

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    Very sad. We are lost a great comedian, he made to laugh others.We miss you John but you will remain always in our heart. Heartfelt condolences to the family members. May his noble soul rest in peace.

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  • Rajesh, Mulki

    Tue, Jul 16 2024

    The passing away of Mr John B Monteiro is a real loss for the society. People like him who lead a disciplined, successful yet simple and fruitful life contributing to the welfare of the people around them and for society at large are very rare to find. His tireless dedication to spread awareness through his analysis and writing skills about the current socio- economic challenges will be remembered for long. May his life be a role model to the present generation. RIP John B Monteiro.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, INDIA

    Tue, Jul 16 2024

    "John Uncle, who won hearts with his writing and brought joy to our hearts and minds through his humor and jokes, has left this world. May his soul rest in peace, and may his family and loved ones find the strength to bear this sorrow. We have lost a legend, and an era has come to an end.” 🙏

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  • Charles Dsouza, Mumbai

    Wed, Jul 17 2024

    John was my nephew and beneficiary. My condolences to the family. May he rest in peace.

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