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Daijiworld Media Network – Udupi (TP)
Udupi, Jun 21: “Depression is the gap between expectation and reality. When we come to terms with reality, 90 percent of depression can be resolved,” said Walter Nandalike, founder of Daijiworld media. He was addressing the general body meeting held at Silas International School, Udupi, on June 21, under the theme ‘Together We Can Build a Better Future for Our Children’.
Commending parents for selecting the right educational environment for their children, Walter Nandalike emphasised, “Sometimes, we make mistakes unknowingly and sometimes knowingly, but either way, we must make efforts to correct them. It is a misconception among many that schools are solely responsible for children. As parents, we have two roles: to look after them and to truly care for them.”
Sharing real-life stories to underscore the importance of parental care, Nandalike spoke of Dr Ben Harrison, who once used a knife on a friend in his youth. His mother later helped him channel that aggression into saving lives as a doctor. Another example he cited was Sangram Singh, a motivational speaker and Commonwealth gold medalist who once used a wheelchair. His achievements, Nandalike noted, were made possible because of his mother’s unwavering support.
Nandalike further highlighted that depression has now overtaken cancer as a major concern in the medical field, particularly among children. “Around 25% of children are suffering from depression and anxiety. There are now dedicated psychological hospitals to address this rising issue,” he informed.
He pointed out the shift in mobile phone usage post-COVID. “Before COVID, we warned children not to use mobile phones. During COVID, we encouraged them to learn through it. It started as a habit and has now become a way of life. Children cry, and we give them mobile phones. They lose themselves in that digital world. Even during meals, they are given devices, leading to issues like obesity,” he explained. “If your child eats without a mobile phone, consider yourself a lucky parent.”
Highlighting the urgent need for mental health support in schools, he added, “Earlier, one psychologist was sufficient for 1,000 students. Now, we need ten. Parents should ensure children leave home for school happily each morning. Even if there are problems, children must return home happily.”
Drawing from personal experience, Nandalike advised parents, “We tend to give our children what they ask for, sometimes more, rather than what they truly need. This prevents them from learning to accept rejection. It’s essential to prepare them for failure and to teach them resilience.”
He also stressed that children should be allowed to follow their own interests and not be pressured into conforming. “We should focus on their strengths, not weaknesses. When faced with problems, we often focus only on the problem. Instead, we should concentrate on finding solutions—just like when a dog bites us, our first focus should be on treating the wound, not chasing the dog,” he said.
Criticizing the current education system, Nandalike remarked, “Our system teaches only how to succeed and score marks, not how to handle failure. Forcing children to get marks restricts their passion. Do not compare your children with others, and don’t let them remain in their comfort zone.”
A one-on-one session was held during the meeting, allowing parents to share their concerns with the school principal, Jecintha D’Costa.
On the occasion, Geetha, Lecturer at Silas PU College, conducted a session on JEE and NEET courses. A presentation on Vedic Mathematics was also delivered.
The event began with a welcome address by Amrutha Acharya. Arpitha Acharya proposed the vote of thanks. Guest introduction was given by Valita Lobo, and Bhavna Bhat, Assistant Teacher, compered the program.
Trustee Sharlet Maben, PTA members, staff, and parents were present on the occasion.
The general body meeting concluded with the school anthem.