Udupi: Missing Woman Found Dead, Suicide Suspected
Daijiworld Media Network – Udupi (VM)
Udupi, Sep 13: Sangeetha, a 24-year-old married woman who had gone missing on Tuesday September 11, was found dead on Thursday September 13. Another man who was with her was also found dead.
It is learnt that Sangeetha had married Sathish (31) five years ago and was residing near Kanangi temple in Kuthpady.
Sources said that Sangeetha was working for Shanthalas electronic shop in the city since a year, where she became familiar with Gaurish, a resident of Bannanje.
On September 11, Sathish’s parents had allegedly seen Sangeetha talking to Gaurish near Sathish's residence at around 9.30 am. When the parents came home at around 11.30 pm they found her to be missing from the house.
A case had been registered at Udupi police station by Sathish.
On Thursday September 13, Sangeetha and Gaurish were found dead near Hoige Thota pond. It is suspected to be a case of suicide.
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monica, dubai
Sat, Sep 15 2012i like the comments of lydia and kavitha...99% correct
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Kavita, Mangalore
Sat, Sep 15 2012Ms. Lydia, agree with your comments. 99% of DIL's are having same problem including me. Thank you for mentioning it here...
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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Fri, Sep 14 2012Alban,
For once you put yourself in the shoes of us women and live our life for one day. Be a daughter-in-law, get criticized for everything you do from day one you enter your in-laws' house and then understand what we women are going through and observe yet how many of us survive this testing.
If one or two Sangeetas happen to be created by the circumstances its once again you and your society who is crucifying us. This is exactly the type of life we women live gentleman, not dictating as you and your society practically does.
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alban lewis, Kallianpur/bangalore
Fri, Sep 14 2012LL, Kadri
What you observe from this write up is your views -
My views are same as before
I did say - if she had a problem with her married life, she could have discussed the matter.
There is a chance husband may not want to have a solution for the problem - then she could have taken the legal route.
By not taking the legal route, both are no more. As earlier, I am asking"WHAT DID THEY ACHIEVE"
It's a mess for the parents of both families.
Solace outside marriage is wrong anytime, I hope you do not approve of that.
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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Fri, Sep 14 2012Mohan,
That is a most neutral comment. We always blame one gender for the fall-out and hold the other at extreme respect.
Today, I salute for what you have said and hope that our society is made out of many more members like you.
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Mohan, mangalore
Thu, Sep 13 2012There are many forced marriages in our society. Some men are married only because of dowry. Some men have extra marital relationship. Some have multiple wives and really not satisfied in their married life. In some case men are the reason for womens extra marital relationship and some cares woman themselves are responsible. Investication must reveal the truth. To avoid such incidents couple must willingly take a step before the wedlock it shouldn't be a forceful marriage.
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Bruce, Mangalore/Mumbai
Thu, Sep 13 2012The cops cannot term this as suicide. Certainly foul play is suspected. The cops want all the cases to be open and shut. This case sure needs investigation by competent authorities.
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Aadil Khan, Kasaragod, Saudi Arabia
Thu, Sep 13 2012Love is blind. Her husband is also partly responsible for not tracking her movements. Love can not be developed in a day or two. Could be over a period of time, Sangeetha and Gaurish started liking each other and might have fallen in love and where was her husband all these days till this relation culminated to an inseparable relation. Anyway, it is a tragedy, I pity her parents.
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Naveen, Udupi/Bahrain
Thu, Sep 13 2012Do not label it as suicide and conclude the case.What motivated her to take diversion from her married life to switch on ? Probe truth emerges.
May their soul rest in peace
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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Thu, Sep 13 2012Alban & ER,
Please view the situation in a humane angle, not man/woman perspective. A reader rightly observed that her in-laws returned as late as 11.30 p.m. They may have gone to attend an important event but their daughter-in-law wasn't part of that event. Also, there is no mention about where was their son was till 11.30 p.m. Now do you see what may have driven her to seek solace outside her marriage ? Why is honor always expected of a woman ? Please watch for further developments before passing judgement.
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Lydia Lobo, Kadri
Thu, Sep 13 2012Edwin Nazreth,
You have very valuable observance. May I add one more incident here, the 'Thodi version' of Karnataka. Budding Lawyer Preetham Kumar is missing/dead/murdered - nobody knows. I wonder how the 'Priyanka' of both tales continue to survive.
Human life so cheap compared to family honor ! I will not be surprised if the present news develops in same direction.
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ER, Mangklore
Thu, Sep 13 2012I fully endorse Mr.Alban lewis, Kallianpur/bangalore views.
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alban lewis, Kallianpur/bangalore
Thu, Sep 13 2012Cheating on husband is not good at all. She could have had a dialogue with him, to explain her problem.
May be there was a chance for divorce without a court case, on mutual consent.
What did she achieve - a night's stand and gone with the wind
No regrets at all
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alban lewis, Kallianpur/bangalore
Thu, Sep 13 2012Cheating on husband is not good at all. She could have had a dialogue with him, to explain her problem.
May be there was a chance for divorce without a court case, on mutual consent.
What did she achieve - a night's stand and gone with the wind
No regrets at all
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Mark, Udyavara
Thu, Sep 13 2012Life is for living not for committing suicide!
"Daal me kuch Kala" hai!!
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Sebi, Udupi
Thu, Sep 13 2012On September 11, Sathish’s parents had allegedly seen Sangeetha talking to Gaurish near Sathish's residence at around 9.30 am. When the parents came home at around 11.30 pm they found her to be missing from the house. “point to be noted my lord” why parents are out till late night 11.30 pm? When they left out from home after seen Sangeetha talking to Gaurish?
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cjm, Karnataka
Thu, Sep 13 2012If it is real suicide nothing can be done,none be held responsible. If it is "maryadha murder" nothing can be done, only some will fill their pockets, none will be held responsible, culprits will go scot free.. Mera Bharath Mahaan.
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Edwin Nazareth., Shankerpura. Udipi
Thu, Sep 13 2012Better to check properly, police department saying it is suicide, but finally report comes not suicide, it is murder, same thing happen to udupi MLA. Raghupathi bhat case, I saw him personally crying in KUNJARGIRI. I felt so sorry about him but finally, different picture came to the screen, God fearing man V.S.Acharya left the world.
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R.Bhandarkar., M
Thu, Sep 13 2012This 'Ek Phool Do Maali'cases on the rise are really baffling.
Pray-why dig your own grave? Take a plunge only if you know to swim. Life is too precious and to be expended on trivial issues like affairs etc in this era really makes no sense.How can such souls rest in peace?
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SURESH bangalore, BANGALORE
Thu, Sep 13 2012what can i say. is it suicide or murder? police only can find the real matter.
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