Brides gifted bats by minister, to be used on husbands if they turn alcoholic


Bhopal, Apr 30 (PTI): What would you generally gift a newly-married couple? A Madhya Pradesh minister decided on an unusual present -- a 'mogri' or a wooden bat-- for nearly 700 brides at a mass marriage ceremony.

While the mogri is traditionally used to wash clothes, the minister has advised the brides to use it on their husbands if they turn alcoholic or harass them and refuse to mend their ways.

The gifted mogri even bears the caption 'sharabiyon ke sutara hetu bhent, police nahi bolegi' (gift for beating drunkards, police will not intervene).

Gopal Bhargava, the state minister of panchayati raj and rural development, gifted the bats to nearly 700 brides during a mass marriage ceremony solemnised on the auspicious occasion of Akshaya Tritiya yesterday in his home town Garhakota in Sagar district.

While others will be flummoxed by the uncommon gift, the minister says women from the region often meet him to complain about their alcoholic husbands and he felt it was an apt present.

"Whenever I visit any rural or urban area in my constituency, women complain about their husband's drinking habit. They inform me that whatever little they earn is snatched away by their husband for alcohol. They (women) are also subjected to physical violence," Bhargava told PTI today.

"The idea of gifting mogri struck me when a woman asked me whether she should get her husband to stop drinking by beating him with this wooden plank," the minister said.

So he ordered 10,000 bats to be gifted to women "suffering at the hands of their alcoholic husbands".

The minister sees nothing wrong in it and feels that it a step towards bringing social change, which is necessary to deal with the menace of alcoholism.

"The government or police alone would not be able to solve this problem. For this, people have to come forward. There are many examples in history which show that when masses intervene, things have changed for the better."

Sale of illegal liquor in every state is a major issue. Unless people come forward to deal with it, things won't improve, Bhargava said.

The minister in the BJP government urged the women to first have a word with their husbands and make them understand the ill effects of drinking and if they don't listen, then let the mogri do the talking.

Bhargava, who has been organising mass marriages for quite some time now, also asked the brides to plant saplings and stop all illegal activities in their villages. He asked them to ensure that their children get proper education.

"An atmoshphere is being created in the entire state against liquor but people need to be educated on the issue. It is essential before declaring prohibition," he added.

  

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Frazer Town,Bangaluru

    Mon, May 01 2017

    Something nonsense and meaningless act of a responsible minister who need to be given right training

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  • Gudana, Mangalore

    Mon, May 01 2017

    Good ...Now somebody will distribute "balls" for the grooms

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  • Jenny, Mangalore

    Mon, May 01 2017

    Wow... what a lovely gift !

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, May 01 2017

    The idea of minister of gifting this bats to women is not just a ideal.What if the same comes on woman s head when they quarrel or in a alcohol stuper?Women are not strong to fight against husband ,when he is high,and much stronger.

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  • JOHN, mangalore/kuwait

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    REALLY BULSHIT!!!WHAT IF A WOMAN BEATS A HUSBAND HE WILL ABANDON HIS HABITS? , NO NEVER! GROW BOSS GROW RATHER HE WILL CONSUME MORE AND MORE ALCOHOL AND THIS MAY LEAD TO VIOLENCE. IF A WOMAN BEATS HIM WITH A BAT WILL HE KEEP QUIET? FIRST OF ALL THIS MINISTER SHOULD ESTABLISH COUNSELLING CENTRES. AND HE SHOULD FIND OUT THE REASON WHY MEN OR WOMEN ARE ALCOHOLIC? IF A MAN IS HAPPY HE WILL NEVER SEEK A PLEASURE FROM ALCOHOL OR ANY OTHER DRUG! OR IF HE REALLY HEARS THE CRIES OF WOMEN HE CAN SHUT DOWN ALL LIQUOR SHOPS.

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  • Dr Mohan Prabhu, LL.D, QC, Mangalore (Kankanady)/Ottawa, Canada

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    Minister is promoting violence. Will the wives who use the bat and kill, be called murderers or as merely acting in self-defence? In either case, it is easy for them to get rid of drunkard husbands.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    Are we moving towards Stone Age ???

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  • Swamy, Mangalore

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    This BJP always wants to be in the news for whatever silly reason like gossip columns in weekly magazines. They can pick on any issues, any controversy on anyone and any community just to be on the front page for people to debate, discuss or even get into argument as long as people are engaged in some sort of verbal communication with each other with BJP up and high on thier mind. As long as people are fully engaged with this mad hysteria BJP doesn't have to do anything practically and go on and on talking, bullshitting and faking and people will have everyday new thing to gossip about. And we too get excited with this and hence our comments and get engaged.

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  • shan, dubai

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    Good decision..... They would have told the wife's also that use this bat for the husband who run away from their wives. Modi would not have not run away from his wife.

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Sun, Apr 30 2017

    Instead of advising brides to turn to violence why cant they prohibit alcohol completely like Bihar. The state want to enjoy liquor tax and they want to increase business to hospitals. Which husband in India takes beatings from wife and keeps quiet?

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