Lucknow: Groom's head tonsured by bride's family after he calls off wedding over dowry


Lucknow, Oct 23 (ANI): In Lucknow's Khurram Nagar area, the family of a bride tonsured the heads of the groom and his relatives after he called off the wedding owing to unfulfilled dowry demands. The incident took place late night on Saturday.

The groom identified as Abdul Kalam was unhappy with the bike he received as a gift from the bride's family. He asked the bride's family to buy him another bike and also a gold chain.

According to the family of the bride, the demand for the bike was made only five days prior to the wedding. And, even though they hesitantly agreed for the bike, another demand for a gold chain cropped up.

When the bride's family could not fulfill the said demands the groom and his brother called off the wedding.

Following this, the matter got heated up, the family of the bride locked up the groom and his family. Things got uglier when groom's head was tonsured.

Seeing all the commotion, the people at the wedding called up the police. Upon arriving, the police helped the parties to sort out the matter. No case was registered against anybody and the wedding was eventually called off.

The family of the bride also accused that they already offered the groom a washing machine, refrigerator, cooler, TV, and a bike (Bajaj Pulsar)when the wedding date was finalised.

Speaking about the incident the grandmother of the bride said, "They made these demands five days before the wedding. He refused to marry after we said we can't fulfil them. I don't know who tonsured his head."

  

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  • Shaf bhak, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Shameless youngsters.

    Only few will know the pain, others does not care.

    Polygamy n dowry should be strictly banned just like triple talak.

    One community will not promote woman working but want huge dowry for her maintenance.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Nasty people.Handling a girl as a cosume ware but not as their future family member and a loveing daughter in law .a girl to their son.Demanding a nonstop money and gold and other vehicles household materials.Actuelly bridegroom should ashame for his demands.why does he marry when he cant support a girl his wife?When boys start to demand ,girls family should put a stop and cancel the marraige.Afterall now mostly girls have to demand,because there are less girls,girls are studied,work,have a good paid jobs ,Thatswhy why girls family fall to their feet?Even after marraige ,their demand is not yet complete.nowadays there are less girls and more boys ,so start now to demand from boys.What about the bike they gave already to boy?Given back or want to get complete head shaved?what more have they givenor not yet?What would he do with two bikes?Sell and drink?Good they taught him a lesson.

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  • RkR, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Mangalorean think about the the future of their daughter.
    Hidden secret- Nobody speak about it.

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    i say fault from both the parties.
    why the bride's family offer dowry in first case?? obviously the second party will become greedy.

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  • Mohammed, Kundapur/Qatar

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    i say fault from both the parties.
    why the bride's family offer dowry in first case?? obviously the second party will become greedy.

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  • shuba, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Tit for tat

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  • G R PRABHUJI, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Some what he looks like Rajanikant.🤗😊

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Let them make some publicity for a new hairstyle.
    Greed never ending
    Lost everything.

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  • Hussain, Abu Dhabi

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Meanwhile Yogi will assess to rename Lucknow as Lakshman Pur !!!

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    marriage is n/w bride & bride-groom. what a marriage????????? name of marriage is nullified

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Now what happened to that given bike..??

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    peaceful, peaceful, peaceful peeeeece.... y violence & silence from da benevolence.

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  • Haneef, West Africa

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    In undevided DK most of the bearry and bunts youth enjoy in father in laws money .
    Dowry is the secondary evil, first of all we should stop attending marriages . It’s a grave human rights violation.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    In islam...father in law give dowry to bahu's family. Better you learn more.

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  • Fact, Udupi

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    In Islam, a mahr(in other terms, dowry) is a mandatory payment, in the form of money or possessions paid by the groom, or by groom's father, to the bride (not brides family) at the time of marriage, that legally becomes her property

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    How did you compare mahr with dowry...?? It's totally different.
    It can be useful by husband if wife gives..when need.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Sirji, Since your brought the word Islam, let me teach you a bit here.

    In Islam dowry is Haram and there is no concept of dowry system, first you need to keep this in mind. Its an evil practice which started in Non arab countries especially Asian, where the Groom and his family demands money from Bride.

    In Islam there is a concept of Maher, where a groom is entitled to give Maher to the bride for her furture. Without which Nikah cannot be established.

    The bride cannot demand Maher more than the Groom's capability, keep this point noted. Also its upto her how much she can demand looking forward to her future and also looking upon the groom's financial condition. Not a single Paise has to be taken from a bride or her family. Islam strictly prohibits it. Man should be capable enough to look after his family, then only he is eligible to marry, but not upon relying on bride's money.

    But in our countries such as India, Pakistan due to cultural impact, reverse is happening where in the groom is demanding dowry from bride. It goes upto such an extent that, wedding gets called off, divorces takes place within short span of marital life, and also murder and suicides. This is really evil practices and we guests should avoid attending such marriages where dowry has been begged from bride.
    Attending such marriages and having a food from such wedding is totally haraam in Islam.

    1st of all brides family shouldn't fix their daughters marriage to such greedy family when they demand dowry. How can they justify buy saying that by giving dowry their daughter will be happy in her marital life? The greed of human is never ending. Those who demand dowry before marriage, they keep on doing the same even after marriage. To such proposal, take a slipper and trash them if they enter house. No family should give their daughters to such dowry seeker, then only these beggars can learn a good lesson when they find no female to get marry.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    quote- But in our countries such as India, Pakistan due to cultural impact, - gross violation of your noble book is a blunder.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    In middle east countries most of girls are not married eventhough crossed age due to groom and his family do not have money to pay.
    For that reason grooms check girls from other countries like jordan...egypt...syria...palestine..tunisia and get married by giving small sum. Some people who are even having less money..go to indonesia...malaysia...pakistan...india..bangladesh to wed themselves.
    Due to these trend continue from many years local girls percentage is high unmarried...latter somewhat in some cases become 4th bride of wealthiest person. In india bride groom family demand dowry from bride's family.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    your quote - In Islam dowry is Haram - quote from your noble book - Also (prohibited are) women already married, except those whom your right hands possess: Thus hath Allah ordained (Prohibitions) against you: Except for these, all others are lawful, provided ye seek (them in marriage) with gifts from your property,- desiring chastity, not lust, seeing that ye derive benefit from them, give them their dowers (at least) as prescribed; but if, after a dower is prescribed, agree Mutually (to vary it), there is no blame on you, and Allah is All-knowing, All-wise

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    in bunts in general da brides & bride-grooms family members r advised 2 tell more dowry is given 2 keep da prestige of da bunts rather giving very2 very less dowry. if 2 lakhs, dey tell 4 lakhs.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Tonsured head many times i had seen in Big Boss. One thing i liked of these people..are always teaching something extra-ordinary..so other people follow.

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  • Yamby, Qatar / Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Very good punishment....................

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Thank God he was not Lynched ...

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    lalchi 4 others materials free. dowry & polygamy r da main causes 4 violence in da society.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    Communalism is the main cause of problem in society.

    Polygamy has nothing to do with social injustice, infact when practiced properly and when women understands its value then it will become a good cause and give new life to other women.
    Polygamy is not a lust, but infact extra marital affair and prostitution is a lust. Polygamy is a moral responsibility to look after the family and provide a wife a status in society.

    Ek Aurat, dusre aurat ki dushman hoti hai.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    polygamy & missyar marriages r prostitution. dowry is evil of da society.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    In such case by your own logic, even a single legal marriage is also a prostitution Na Auzubillah.

    Kindly 1st understand what is prostitution. Here any man goes and sleeps with that women. In marital relationship do any husband allows that his wife can sleep with any man?

    In prostitution a women earns money, so here in marriage does any wife earns any money from her husband to sleep?

    In Prostitution, men comes and sleeps and doesn't take any responsibility of a family till her last breath, but in marriage, a husband takes the responsibility of wife as well the kids born till his last breath.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    marriage is union b-tween da two. they r made 2 live 2gether - not2 separate. marriage - a holy matrimony. it is not a use & throw material. no women likes 2nd wife 4 her husband. polygamy & dowry r da evils of da society.

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Tue, Oct 23 2018

    He should not be allowed to marry again.

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