Mangaluru: Married off as child, Anitha fights odds to become private bus conductor


Deekshith D V
Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (DV)

Mangaluru, Mar 28: From riding autorickshaws to travelling to space, women have proved their forte in traditionally male-dominated bastions. We might have read about or seen women auto drivers or bus conductors in government buses, in a rare case in Mangaluru, we have a woman working as a conductor in a private bus.

Meet Anitha, a 27-year-old lady hailing from Yaragatti village in Belagavi district, who is working as a conductor in a private bus plying from Mangaluru to Karkala.

Anitha's journey has not been easy. A victim of child marriage, her family compelled her to marry her relative when she was only in third standard. Fortunately, she was able to continue her studies, and would go to her husband's house during school vacations. However, by the time she was in 10th standard, she became pregnant and was forced to discontinue her studies.

As a young mother, she took up studies once more, and managed to finish her pre-university course while her own mother looked after the couple's child. But fate struck a cruel blow when Anitha lost her husband in a road accident. At the time, her daughter was just three years old.

Her father had passed away when Anitha was very young. After her husband's death, she had no choice but to look for a job. "As there was no other option after I lost my husband, I left my native in search of a job and came to Kundapur," says Anitha.

"After coming to Kundapur, one of my friends helped me get a conductor's job in Durgamba Motors. I took up the job. I have been in this field for the past six years. After completion of my second PU, I came in search of a job to Kundapur," Anitha recalls.

But another tragedy struck her when her mother too passed away. Anitha's daughter is presently being looked after by her uncle and aunt in her native.

As with thousands of others, the lockdown imposed last year due to coronavirus pandemic impacted Anitha as well. "When there was lockdown due to the pandemic, I had no job, so I had returned to my native. I came back to Mangaluru post lockdown.

"At present, I am working in Padmambika Motors. Before this, I also worked in AKMS, Bharathi Motors. Initially, my trip was from Kundapur to Kollur, later Udupi to Kollur, and then Udupi to Mangaluru. Now, for the past two months I have been a conductor of the bus from Mangaluru to Karkala. After corona, I was working in AKMS but as the schedule was heavy, I had hardly any time to rest. Hence I had to quit," she says.

Anitha feels proud of her profession. "I am the only lady conductor in a private bus in the city," she says with pride.

On support from private bus companies, she says, "All bus companies have supported me well, but AKMS supported me a lot. I worked from 6.30 am to 7.30 pm. Being a woman it is not so easy to work on the bus, as various types of people commute. Some passengers even use rough words, and we need to manage them. But in Mangaluru people are really good. Even if the bus is crowded, passengers will make room for the conductor to issue the ticket. I have never experienced anything bad.

"Moreover, in this profession, we can get busy and can forget all our other worries. We get wages daily. In other jobs, we need to wait the entire month for salary. Everything I earn, I spend on my daughter."

In her message to other women, Anitha emphasizes on financial independence. "I came from a village. Women should not lose hope. We should earn for ourselves without having to depend on others."

 

 

 

  

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  • Sushmitha Sequeira, Bahrain

    Wed, Apr 07 2021

    wish you all the best in your future life.

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  • Rohan Karkera, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    I think more women should work as bus conductors. It's The male conductors can be rude sometimes. Especially women who are in need of Jobs.

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  • Evans C Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA.

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    I wish Anitha all the very best and hope God will fulfil all your wishes come true. You have high hopes in life in spite of all have have gone through life in the past as well at the present time. Good luck and God bless.

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  • Sathish jm, Kumpala

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Salutes to you Anitha. You are the true inspiration for all those women to wish to excel in life despite facing ordeals. I must say this to so called 'victim' that it is worth becoming a conductor rather losing your conduct for a job!

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    @ Shankar, Mangaluru Flavian, my suggestions are all top rated ones! 'Shankar's counselling and suggestion bureao' have good suggestions for you. Wanna double your cash in 3 weeks? Boss, God has blessed me in innumerable ways. Fly with two children (daughter & son) both settled, working in Investment co. after 35 years in banking sector. saved for my children & fly. I am not at all money minded. I love to remain active and with my earnings I still take care my siblings and children for their future. I am sorry to inform you that due to Covid I lost my beloved wife last July. She was highly diabetic and high BP. Doctors tried their best but once her lungs got infected end of story (her life) I want to continue as long as my health permits. My hard work and sincerity has helped me to hold my jobs for years together . I too had tough life in the past in Mangalore but I have crossed ocean of difficulties and reached where I am today.

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Flavian, my deepest condolences for your loss. I always write to lighten up. Sometimes it reaches where it was not aimed at. I am sorry to shake you up your memories. I pray for your good health and long life.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Flavian Kuwait,sad to know but late about your wife.May her soul rest in peace.Everyone has to carry their cross one or other way.I just ask you if you are in a position to help this young lady with child,one or other way would you like to help her.Working almost 12 hours every day ,is not aeasy for a woman and look after the child.She is still young ,a widow hard life.Wish she could continue her study take up a better job .What you say?Heartfelt sympathy s to your family.A prayer to the soul of your wife.

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  • Vikram, Dubai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Any sincere profession which feeds you are equal in size & value....

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Beauticians these days make good income either working in beauty parlors or through private services (please do not mean anything else). she has to take some classes and go ahead in life.

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  • Nelson, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    How about crowd funding her ? She can bring ger daughter over and manage her life better. Even a small amount of Rs.100 can take her life in a better direction.

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Well said Nelson. Good idea. Daiji should take an initiative. Anitha too should agree, but I doubt.

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  • Abdullah, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    God bless you sister.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Shankar, Good suggestion she is pretty too. She should explore opportunities through friend circle or marriage bureau or from any reliable sources. She can pursue her higher studies later. Lets hope that her luck will open one day.

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Flavian, my suggestions are all top rated ones! 'Shankar's counselling and suggestion bureao' have good suggestions for you. Wanna double your cash in 3 weeks?

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  • Thomas lobo, Thottam/Udupi/ Kuwait.

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    wish you all the best in your future life. indeed # Women Empowerment.

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  • Jaggu, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Salute to you sister for your courage and grit. it is not easy in a male dominated world to hold on to these type of professions. I wish you all the best.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Very true....i agree with you wholeheartedly...God bless you and your daughter Anitha. May almighty protect you both and keep you safe and happy.

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  • AD, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Anitha you are a a hero. God bless you and your daughter.

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  • Prescilla Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Because of hard work, one day Anita can become an owner cum conductor of a bus. All the best Anita. Because of your daughter you are taking troubles and determined to provide her good things.

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  • Joshua, Mangalore/ Ireland

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Good Anita god bless you That CD lady must learn from you. I respect many women who work hard. But women like CD lady sell their flesh inorder to grab a government job Shame shame Poppy shame

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    She is still young. She should think of getting married again.

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  • Francis, Dubai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Brother Shankar, How Anitha will marry? She has sacrificed her life it seems for the sake of her daughter. Please read this: "But another tragedy struck her when her mother too passed away. Anitha's daughter is presently being looked after by her uncle and aunt in her native".

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Fancis Dubai, I am not talking about a marriage for support or so. I am suggesting it for a companionship, which will be looked entirely with different angles if it is not bound with a wedding lock. Hope you got my point.

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  • Concerned citizen, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Women Right NGOs should take notice of her and arrange to settle her with descent job.

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  • RK, mangalore / doha

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    inspiration to all

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  • Flaviane, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Hard working and guarding self respect. Example for so many others who follow easy path by selling their boy for past bucks and some fall victim to fake promises. Hard work and sincerity will pay in longer run. God bless her.

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  • Dsouza, Mudarangadi/udupi

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    This the perfect example for thr failure of government facilities not reaching right peoples. This lady can avail self employment benifits from Central and state government, but still she is working as bus conductor, though she is educated. Why our politicians not guiding these peoples? She only say use to hear abusive word, why our BD and others not helping her for self employment???

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  • Shanthi, Kundapur

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Very inspiring journey of Anita..Keep it up Sister..May you get Govt Job soon..

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  • Dsouza, Mudarangadi/udupi

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Dear shanthi, why she get govt job? On sympathi? If all go for sympathi what about educated and deserving candidates , sell pakoda or grow potatoooo??

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Truly Aatmanirbar ...

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  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    When women can become engineers, doctors, pilots, military personnel, politicians, why not bus conductor? All types of jobs should be respected equally and none of the jobs should be discriminated, thus giving dignity for every labor. There is no shame in doing any jobs as long as one works honestly and sincerely. When I arrived in Canada for the first time, I was surprised to see women bus drivers and women in other positions which are normally considered men’s job in India. When we replaced roof of our house, two of the workers were women and I did not find them less capable in their work than their male counterparts. Anitha should be commended for choosing to become a conductor as she chose it for supporting her family, which would make other women to follow the suit.

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Great. When I was a child my life too was difficult. Pouring water to our neighbor's coconut trees, cutting wood at the wood depot, painting houses, working in garage, and washing plates in catering companies. Hard work, a blessing from my departed parents, and God's mercy kept me safe and healthy. Don't give up Anitha your moral and good thinking, you will succeed in your life.

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  • Daniel, Ujjodi/Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    So proud of Anitha. You are a role model of age old Kannada saying 'Manasidarey Marga Untu'. God bless you and your daughter with good health, protect you all ways. May he shower you and your family with his abundant blessings.

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  • Prakash, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Its an heart wrenching difficulty Anitha facing. Those born in villages are ready to face any difficulties in life. Anitha you are a role model to other women's. Daijiworld thank you for publishing this article. We are ready to support her what we can. Please provide her Bank Details.

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  • Ruben pinto, Mangalore/Australia

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    This lady has true grit. There is no anger in her face. may lord Shiva guide her to a better tomorrow.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    People, I have seen many people earning fat salary ...but still complaining...others getting more... This woman work really very hard ...earns much less than other women...loves her work ....very impressive.... Last word here ....in my opinion ...women generally are less corrupt and more punctual than men....So I am sure Padmambika bus owner too will be happy with her performance..... Happiness is state of mind people.....nothing to do with wealth.... ...Tak...Takk...

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  • Ben D'Souza Prabhu, Mangalore, Bombay Bandra now in Canada

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    May the Good Lord Bless you and protect you dear Anitha and your little one. Our Graceful Lord is so Compassionate and will be by your side always everywhere and will not forsake you. Have implicit faith in him. I am praying for you. Just remember that you are NOT ALONE ! He will help you to overcome your problems and there are MANY MORE to come and HELP YOU !!!

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  • Student, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Wahh.... I have Travelled in Her Bus😃 Was really Suprised Seeing a Lady-Conductor for the First Time.... Indeed #WomenEmpowerment

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