Sullia: Religious conversion, marriage - Asiya, husband mutual consent for divorce


Daijiworld Media Network - Sullia (SP)

Sullia, Oct 23: "I had been carrying on relentless fight to see that my husband, Ibrahim Khaleel Kattekar, accepted me as his wife and allowed me to become a member of his family, for the last two years. There has not been any positive result or favourable vibes. Therefore, I have decided to withdraw from the agitation and live on my own as per my wishes," said Asiya Ibrahim Khaleel Kattekar.

Asiya and her husband have mutually decided to get divorced. During the long struggle, Asiya said she realised that her husband was not prepared to accept her as his wife, even after she stayed with his family in Sullia for 43 days. "My family in Kannur have offered to take me back if I forsake Islam and return to my original religion but I will not go back to my family or earlier religion, but stay in Sullia and continue with social service activities," she explained.


Asiya

She was addressing a press meet organized at Patrika Bhavan here on Friday October 22. She gratefully took note of the fact that leaders of various organizations and institutions, priests, and Swamijis had sympathised with her and stood in her support.

"I have decided to go back from all kinds of fights I launched against my husband's family which had refused to accept me. I have decided to lead the remaining life happily. Henceforth, Ibrahim Khaleel Kattekar or his family will not have any connection with him. They have assured that they will not post any statements either in favour or against me in social websites or media in future," she claimed.

Asiya stated that she had voluntarily decided to withdraw cases lodged in police station and court, and requested political parties, representatives of religions and caste-based organizations not to issue any statements in her favour or against. She said that she had married as per the Shariat law and that she has decided to continue to work to help women like her who have suffered in life like her. She urged the ladies to properly verify all things, and think deeply before marrying, instead of falling to the oral promises.

The press conference was attended by Sullia town panchayat member Ummer, apart from Ibrahim Kattar, Abdul Latif and others.

It may be recalled, Ibrahim Khaleel belonging to the prestigious Kattekar family from Sullia got to know a Hindu girl, Shanthi Joobi from Kannur and married her. The lady changed her name as Asiya. A few years after marriage, the two had separated due to differences and Ibrahim Khaleel was not prepared to allow her to join him back thereafter. Asiya continued her fight for her right by holding press conferences and showing documents of marriage. She had held a protest demonstration in front of a footwear shop belonging to Kattekar family at Kattekar, Sullia, the whole night, which got widely publicised. Kattekar family refused to budge even though various organizations rallied behind Asiya and offered to hold mediatory talks.

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

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  • Alphonse Rodrigues, Udupi

    Sun, Oct 24 2021

    Ahmad Bangalore, I quote yours:. If your definition of equality is male resemblance, then mind you it is not possible to any in this world... Can a male give birth to a child? No... Can a male have mensus ? No... Are the men and women have similar physical or mental strength? No... Then how are they equal. Unquote. Do you mean to say God made man and woman in-equal?! Your argument is when God did not made men-women equal", so men should make in- equal rights to women. What a crazy mentality is yours?! In fact in your criteria women should, must get more rights than men in islam. However Islam made women a use and throw material.

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  • Dayananda, Mysore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Hindus should teach their daughter's to be like Rani chennamma,Abbakkadevi,Obavva, not like cheap heroin s like Kareena, Gauri,etc. They should be taught Hindu culture. This will prevent our daughters falling prey to Fanatic s

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    sullia family has to be appreciated for having silenced this mallu nuisance by hook or crook... it is good for coastal belt... one nuisance less...

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  • John V., Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    In what sense you are superior to mallu?

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    LL... ...Tak...Takk...

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    LL... ...Tak...Takk...

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    TRUE..., in fact... those who tried to take advantage of the situation... got themselves fooled..., in fact her Ex-Husband too got fooled/shamed.... as she didn't went back to her previous faith..., above all she made her Ex-husband's town as her new home town.., that serve as a moral shame on him..., above all by not returning to her family back...., she avoided a living embarrassment to her near & dear ones..., and above all those who politically try to take advantage of the situation also got themselves become issueless.... , above all she is going to serve as a guardian in support of girls who probably get themselves cheated in similar fashion in future...,

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    she appears to be the "happiest divorcee" in the world...

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  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Kbr, I read few stupid comments from you and I started to feel you are one of those kind, like her husband. Why do you think she is the most “happiest divorcee”?. Is it because she left her family to marry this man belonging to your community? Is it because she converted to her husband’s religion? Is it because she had to suffer in the hands of her husband and his family? Or is it because she is the victimized woman falling prey for love jihad? What “nuisance” you think she is making? She is cheated by a man whom she trusted and because of him, she left her family, changed her religion and married him. She tried her best to win back her husband but this man is just a cheat. It’s disgusting that people like you, who support cheats like him. Khuda na kare, how would you feel if it happens to your family member? Would you not create such “nuisance”? You also say she agreed for divorce to get good divorce benefits. Did you not read the news about the struggles she had gone through since she married this devil? If she does not get benefits, who is taking care of her? She is a single woman, her husband and his family are not supporting her. She has no one now, no husband, no parents, no siblings, no relatives. She paid a heavy price for trusting this man and marrying him. If she had married a boy belonging to her religion and if he divorced her, her family would have taken care of her. Here she has nowhere to go. If she gets good benefits, it’s her right, don’t think it’s a gift from her husband.

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  • Zaeem, Mlore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    She found new partner, she is in love now, very soon she will get married. Kakkekar family has no value in the society now.

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  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Did she tell you that she found a new partner? Or you are telling us your experience in this forum? Before making stupid comments, read the news. Despite ill-treating her, she remained in his house for long, she did "dharna" to tell the public about her issues and she did everything that she could do in order to get back her husband but all in futile It's not she got a new partner, it's he who got a new partner, which is the reason he ditched her. People like you don't understand others issues. You have to put yourself in her shoes to know the pain and suffering she is going through. She left her family to marry to this ungrateful husband, who used and discarded her. Her parents don't want her back. She has now become 'na ghar ka, na ghat ka'. Instead of supporting this poor victim, you people support the man just because he belongs to your community.

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    if you have any friends in sulya just call them and ask, you may delete your comments. in my comments where did you see my support. i said no kakkekar family has no value in the society to live.

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  • Varun, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    For that coward man,marriage was never in mind..he just wanted to have his fun...stupid woman dumped her parents for this coward who is hiding behind his family... should not be called a man actually...

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  • aithappa moolya, manglaore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    and some desert cult man in this forum says "HUM MUSALMAN SAR UTAKE JEETEN HAI'..what a farce?

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Sar utha kar hi jiye hai, tum logon ka history dekhna qhol ne ek ne to apology letter pe letter likh diya.... Varna tumlog aaj azaad nahi ghumte.... Angrez k gulaam hi rehte....

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  • Chandu, Karla

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    As usual.....bakwas..... bakwas.....!!!! monkeys always think only its back is Red....ha..ha.

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  • rishi, delhi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    people like her create chutiyapa first and then struggle to prove that chutiyapa is pious and authentic. people like her still do not believe in the fact that they have been a target of love jihad in which their main aim is to destroy the life of non-islamic women majorly hindus bcz sikh,jain and christians girls are smart..but hindus are big time chutiye who fall in honey trap in the name of "love". Total Chutiyapa!

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    hope this lady from kannuru henceforth stops making nuisance in mangaluru...

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @Alphonso, Adam never sinned, his wife sinned by not obeying the order of God Almighty..... Moses never sinned... It was his people who kept doing sin after sin irrespective of his warning many times... Even after taking his men successfully crossing the red sea by the mercy of God, and when he left his people to get God's command and making Aaron/Haroon as their chief what did their men do, started worshiping Heifer made up of gold..... Who committed this sin, Moses or his men? Regarding Joseph/Yusuf, who tried to kill him ? His own brothers... Who tried to seduce him? The kings wife....Did Joseph got involved in such act when he got the offer from the kings wife to sleep with her??? No, he didn't infact he rushed towards the door to open it and save himself..... Neither Jesus nor any of the God's prophet and messengers have committed any sin.....

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  • Chris, Tel Aviv

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    What nonsense are you taking ?? Moses killed an Egyptian soldier and ran from Egypt , Adam accepted Eves offer and at the Apple , which made him a sinner , David had Bethsheebas husband killed and he forcefully married her, God pushed all prophets but they repented later , Jesus never sinned That’s why I always urge you to trust original sources and not second hand one ...

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  • Alwyn Dsouza, Canada

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Ahmed please donot fool people with false stories. Reality is different than the books whoever has written . . Believe in humanity and do good to one another is ultimate solution for everyone life. All religions are fake and everyone run after saying thier religion is better than others. In reality no one know why all these books are written and for what. No one have any idea everyone run after increasing numbers of thier own brand by teaching various forms of exercises or getting married to other but very few go out there to serve the poor, feed the hungry, cloth the knacked, shelter the homeless, care for the sick and elderly. Recently so many people fight against religious conversation without knowing depress peace loving communities who has studied in thier schools, hospitals. So please keep your theological thought at home and go serve poor. Thanks you.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @Alwayn Should i have to learn from you what I should do and should not be doing ???. We don't dp humanitarian services for any showoff.. The biggest human service is to make people understand the true God.... Aren't you a fool to deny God? You may not be knowing who has written doesn't mean that others donot know who has written.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ahmad bangalore, prophet muhammad sinned & asked forgiveness from allah. surah al fath (victory) 48:2. muhammad himself agreed he has sinned. his sins were of grave nature. moses sinned by killing an egyptian. exodus 2:11-12 don't write crazy things. v people know u r ignorant of da holy bible & quran & hadiths.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    She has apparently agreed for divorce after ensuring good divorce benefits... compensation and monthly alimony... no ghar wapasi, staying in sullia, no involving other religious organisations -- all these must be part of the agreement... a victorious smile can be seen on her face... by sherlock holmes...

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  • Thomas Andrade, Toronto

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    What is the big deal if she gets good divorce benefits? Are you aware of alimony which is given to divorced wife? She was used and thrown. She left her dear family for this idiot husband, left her religion and finally got ditched. Such things happened with so many girls who left their loving family and religion for cheating husband. Despite ill-treatment from her husband, she was determined to continue with him but this man is not worth to be a husband for any woman.

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  • Anand, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Why males still think that once married, the women is like garbage. Women have full right to live a dignified life or if she wants to live with some one, let her do so. The male dominated society always think that they are superiors and have freedom to do whatever they want.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ Rajesha, By your philosophical response, you void your earlier point of view.., How come you propose Coffee... while Hindustani's are made to waste time by - "Chai pe Charcha", .... Though Coffee stimuli.... Jokara breed chai culture....,after all education & literacy matters most....

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    The response is evident man. But jokers who carry such inferiority feeling that their hndu parents are Nikammas, wont get it easily.. Read twice. or thrice LOL

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  • raj, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    I never understood the Kind of love were the Man/Woman when during the time of love is Ok with whatever religion they are from but during the marriage time the love is overcome by religious identity. In my terms such love is business, actual love is the way you accept the partner. But most of the time conversion is adopted in Muslim and Christian houses. Hindus doesn't fall in converting categories.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    marry from far and … get cheated..." is a proverb...

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ ahmed bangalore, hAhAhAhAhAhAhAhA...... i got laugh after reading your response 2 my comment. read by your own immature response u r still in an elementary school. u say islam has given equal rights & equal inheritance. further u write men cannot have menstruation, men cannot give birth 2 children etc., etc... these r natural by birth & nobody can change it. whereas y your men have made discriminations & biased 2wards females. females have no right 2 divorce by pronouncing 3 times talaq, talaq talaq.. y a divorced wife is not getting equal inheritance & da rights of children. y discriminated by men 2wards women. what is da punishment 2 a muslima if she marries a non-muslim man. 1st of all da III uthman has not kept da original scriptures. da originals were burnt. so how will u trust your book.

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  • John V., Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Also, why women cannot have 4 husbands while men can have 4 and marry again and agan after divorcing their wives so that they can have 4 wives at a time? Don't think you guys that I'm making fun here, I just need an answer to know why.

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  • Vaibhav, Mumbai

    Sun, Oct 24 2021

    He won't reply to it as he had got no logical reply. And Izlam is bane to the entire world. It shuts down the brains of its followers and these brainless creatures roam around spewing venom, killing people.

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  • Alphonse Rodrigues, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Ahmed Bangalore, No Prophet or Messenger of God went without being tested on this earth.. Be it Adam, Noah/Nuh, Moses/Musa, David/Dawood, Abraham/Ibrahim, Ismail, Isaac/Ishaaq, Jacob/Yaqoob, Joseph/Yusuf, Solomon/Sulaiman, Jesus/Isa, Mohammed peace be upon them all. Unquote. All prophets of God had been tested & sinned. Except Jesus Christ, the Word of God, was tested on this earth but never sinned.

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  • Dhanendra, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Consider yourself lucky that you are in India and your family has accepted you. Forget the past and live a good life ahead. There are others who have married and disappeared after being taken to Delhi and Mumbai. Some have been taken to Afghanistan and perhaps today are sold off. This is the gift and gratitude you get when you support such faction. Every country has realised this. Migrant destinations are a mess.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    it is doubtful in this case to say whether man got fooled or lady got fooled...

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  • Junglee, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Sonn there will light in the end of tunnell..she will see the real God our saviour the Christ

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Asiya Maam.... now you realize the real motive behind your conversion!!! If he really loved you...he would not have left you alone even if you follow different religion!!!

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  • jr, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    ASIYA MAY LIKE TO LEAD A SECRET LOVE LIFE WITH HER HUSBAND MUTUALLY CONSENTING FOR DIVORCE OPENLY.

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  • Sanjay, Hebri

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Once a victim of pracefuls, her life has already damaged beyond repair.....She will suffer till her life for her one wrong decision.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ Sanjaya..., true ... no doubt.. not only she suffer.., but also her beloved parents, kith & kin, dear & near ones.., and above all those who try to play politics out from this incidence..., only Chai can get some temporary relief.., let's enjoy one chai... table no 420...

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    This life is short, One may live for 90 years or 100 years. Even if she suffers entire life here, it does not matter, She has to bear all the sufferings of this life patiently. Our next life after death is eternal, for which we have to do preparation in this life and follow the Right path.

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  • aithappa moolya, manglaore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    oh eternal life means the same 72 which inspires most of the bombers of desert cult?

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @Moolya, "Gadha kya jane zafraan ki kadar"

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  • GURKA, Mangaluru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Is it giving any credentials to any of the religion here !! one human being suffering because of beliefs and tradition and no one is helping out that FROM so called RELIGIOUS GURU GANTALS ~~~

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  • Guru, Mulki

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Thank god. New life for lady.

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  • Prakash.A, Mlore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    She has shut-out all politics by saying "not going back to husband" and "not reconverting" back to Hinduism either. "This is called freedom" !! All our girls should have the necessary skills and education to make a life of their own , independent and self reliant.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    if some organisation takes care of her roti, kapdaa aur makaan and her rehabilitation in society, she might do ghar vapasi....

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  • Mohammed, India

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Bhakts and rice bags are not happy here

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  • T.Dsilva, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Yes, Ahmed, ,,, Only Brainless who implement and force stone age rules on innocent people, with the help of and hiding behind Most modern western machine guns, tanks ,bombs, latest western technology mobiles and internet are happy... Shameless...

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Whe n two are in fight third one may take advantage ! Wait for further development. Conversations for name only.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Contrary to perception .... that girls are a commodity in Islam practioners ...., now a days Muslim Boys take care of their wives much better than others... coz.. there is not enough girls in their own community for boys to get married and lead a family life..... Just take example in our state ... the highly educated, empowered girls from respected family boys and girls from Hindu community are getting divorced or abandoned... and it can be seen every 2nd family on the street...., Time for Hindu's to take care of ourselves...,

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Some Isisi toiilet cleaners have a compulsion to bootlick and portray all is well on the masters house. Such people will be ready to spare their own wowan for the honor of the master. bcz for some people it is not dignity but the money that alone matters... One google on woman body found in bag, suitcase, love jiihaad alledged -can give a dozen results.. LOL

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Interesting facts & information..., you have every right to highlight this information., and i won't dispute it., but it is equally important for us Hindus to defeat the Manuwadi/Upper class mandated rituals to oppress the lower strata Hindus from practicing Devadasi., please join to defeat the FEKU Hinduism.., we Hindu's shouldn't be a laughing stock in front of others..., while you have every right to alert Hindu girls from being highjacked for oppressions from social evils.,

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Do Ex Hindus exist? Plenty. Mostly due to poverty, job, illness Ex chrstains? Yes. mostly in west Ex muslims ? yes.. but not many, As they are too scared of repercussion. What it means is - All religion have some or the other issue due to which people may want to switch the boat. Some succeed, some wont. 'ellara mane dose toote'.. Stop living in inferiority for eternity. Just wake up and smell the coffee. LOL

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  • ROHITH, Mlore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Than you have with pseudo name fake Place Mr Girish KHAN..........................?

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ Rohitha..., FEKUISM is the mantra for success...., what you say.... when everything fails.... FEKUISM Triumph....,

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ Nazareth.., you have a point...it is time to identify the ulterior motive of these kind of modus operandi....,agree that all is not well....

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    her fight was for compensation / alimony and not for re-union.. any woman knows that reunion is not worth with a man who does not want her any more...

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  • Indian, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    "My family in Kannur have offered to take me back if I forsake Islam and return to my original religion but I will not go back to my family or earlier religion, but stay in Sullia and continue with social service activities," she explained. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU & GUIDE YOU IN RIGHT PATH. MAY HE MAKE YOU VICTORIOUS HERE AND HEREAFTER. STICK TO IT SISTER.

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    You are overwhelmed and bestowing blessing on her-- No, not on her married life.. but just bcz she did not go back to her parents relgn. It just shows how heartless and communal you are.. For you, count is all that matter. no loss in number? Zero sentiments or feelings for her sad state?. Why not keep handle of Porkitan instead of indiian? LOL

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Rajesh... Someone else will marry her... There is no dearth of good men on earth.... She is not an old lady.... Even if she was old then surely someone would have come forward to take care coz of blessings from Lord Almighty.... See, if the partner is not good, then better to divorce than waste time and start a new life with right partner again.

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    sad. If a courageous woman suddenly announces peace after years of relentless fight, there is a high chance of threat also. she may not want to return back to parents bcz Its gong to be costly affair, looking at many trends in the past. HOOpe authorities keep an eye on her security.

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  • Moshu, Mangaluru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    A true muslimah, a courageous lady who never change her faith despite many fake sympathisers try to change her mind. Definitey there should be a valid reasons behind their seperation..

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  • Stanley, Sacharipete

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Threat received to her from various Islamic Radical Organizations which made her to change her decision. Now here after she will lead muslim womens who as given talaq by there husband for minute reason. Reputation of her husband's family now become spoiled unknowingly.

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  • Shan, Dubai

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    I think the guy is not in love with her, he just used her..he must be punished

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  • UP wala, puttur/abu dhabi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Expected a Ghar wapsi here? why it is not happening?

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  • SRJ, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    yes, the conversion bogie brainwashes her mind. It's just a matter of time, lets revisit this after a few years.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Those who convert for the sake of worldly glitters will easily return back coz for them its all about material gain, but for those who convert for the sake of Allah alone will never return back no matter how ever hardship they face... coz once you decide you are true beliver and follower of Allah, then your examination starts, it could be in any form of hardship... The one who carries true love towards their God and patience will succeed.... No Prophet or Messenger of God went without being tested on this earth.. Be it Adam, Noah/Nuh, Moses/Musa, David/Dawood, Abraham/Ibrahim, Ismail, Isaac/Ishaaq, Jacob/Yaqoob, Joseph/Yusuf, Solomon/Sulaiman, Jesus/Isa, Mohammed peace be upon them all to name a few... Everybody went with extreme test and hardship and Alhumdulillah everybody succeeded in their exam.... Forget about Prophets, even the pious men and women on earth were tested and tried, such Asiya wife of Pharaoah/Firaun, Blesses lady Virgin Mariam mother of Jesus, Companions of Prophet, all were tried and tested..... You can't attain the exalted status without being tested...... Thats the belief and truth one has to carry if they really want to be a Muslim and love Allah.

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  • Chandu, Karla

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Awwal biriyani...naichor....now finally back to Sajjege bajil.....!!?!!

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  • A .Nazreth, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Feel sorry for this lady. I am still scared of the plight of Sonia Sebastin as Ayesha, Merin Jacob as Miriam and Nimisha as Fathima. All these were sent to Afghanistan and now god knows perhaps sold off as ISIS brides. But still we run after Bajrang Dal .

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    The organization name what you used will surely send to Brothel if not other places.... There is no concrete evidence madam... We all know how our institutions are currently functioning these days with ulterior motives under the command of Muslim haters.

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  • aithappa moolya, manglaore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    this is a lesson to all the non-muslim girls to be careful while making friendship with the desert cult boys...ultimately they will show their crooked mind...for them love does not exist..it is just lust and they treat females in the community as just an object...so always stay far and stay away and live a good life..there are plenty of boys who are well mannered and loving in other communities...no need of going behind these medieval people..

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  • Amaze, karkala

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Ok Sir noted. Looks like u hv done Phd on muslims via whatsapp university

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  • Raj, Ullal

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Atlast gujri wala se mukt ho ga ya...

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  • Varun, mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    marrying into different faith in india is very difficult..young people specially girls must realize this as girls will be forced to accept new faith and even after that chnaces of getting separted is very high

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Why all this KOLAVERI... I am speechless...., in fact Asiya is very courageous, and she know why she didn't choose to return to her original religion...., in matrimonial matters public shouldn't interfere...., it is a personal choice & it should be respected...., for the public this may be seen as a choice by Asiya.., but I bet may be under compulsion eternal love towards her husband to uphold his respect & honor.., She may be wrong in the hawkish eye of people & the section of public... but eternally she know & aware of what she is doing.., consciously may not be feeling guilty....and the reflection of confident face Complexion itself is a testimony to that....,

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    This girishikka is a converted soul for sure. He must have benefited immensely by providing services too his desert masters!!!

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  • Mbeary, Dxb

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    May Allah give her strength. Ups and downs will always be in life. It probably means that the man doesnt deserve you. Not the end of life though. I am sure u will get a deserving man in future. However, i hope community members make sure she gets regular alimony from her ex husband. Bhakths are interested in this case only becoz of conversion angle. And i think they are having a burnout since she wants to continue in her chosen religion. Even BD thought they will gave 2min of fame in this case but failed. Hope they will fight for Jashodaben's justice

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  • Aniket, Mumbai

    Sun, Oct 24 2021

    Bhakt are very divine word. We don't take it as a offense. We can proudly say we are Bhakt on the any international Airport of western countries and India, but Jihadist can't proudly say. They are Jihadist, if they ever try to yell he's proud Jihadist. He might get shot down by security forces in the Suspicion of being terrorist

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    her face is full of smile... must have got hefty lump sum amount and assurance of decent instalment amounts ....

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  • Subhash Chandra, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    It's better to think not twice but thrice before making a decision to live rest of your life with another community especially when they have their own rules & regulations so stay with it & be committed for them or never go for it... You made a choice nobody forced you....you were not minor aren't you ?

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    any females b4 falling in love with a muslim or marrying a muslim should know dat da Islamic marriage is not a holy matrimony. it is a marriage contract. even a females marriage contract shall nullifies by pronouncing a triple talaq. females have no right 2 pronounce talaq, talaq, talaq. males 1nly have dis triple talaq right. females have limited rights under Islam. no equal rights as other faiths have. there4 marrying a muslim & becoming a muslima think 1000 times b4 marrying under islamic rules which r notat all favorable 2 females whatsoever. love is not blind. & open your eyes & use your God given brain.

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  • Nadeem, Bangalore/ dubai

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Seems you watch too many saas bahu seriel.. Wen two different individuals with obviously different mindsets n background s Come into a union to lead a socially accepted way of life .. approved by a legal authority.. Need to have a contract which is accepted as a document in the court of law. Emotions and feelings is a personal domain.. Not only 2 individuals but 2 families come into bonding.. So like any relationship ..a legally accepted clause is required to find common ground for amicable settlement ..or termination of a relationship between a couple..so Imagine ..in another abrahamic fatith the only ground to seek divorce is infedility.. As if there are no other causes which can lead to separation. Therby compelling to fabricate and tarnish the character of a spouse!!

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ nadeem, dubai, in india prior 2 registering a marriage in da registrar of marriages, v da christians were submitting marriage certificate issued by da priest/pastor. dat is a legal paper accepted everywhere even in da government of india. presently in india to get church divorce, court divorce is also required. christian re-marriage is allowed 1nly on mental issues, geneology problem etc., etc... not all like 3 talaq's, 1-4 marriages r not allowed & r given equal rights to women in christianity. prior 2 register marriage da registrar asks priest's/pastor's marriage certificate. no contract is required whatsoever. contract can be broken anytime anywhere. holy matrimony has a moral obligations & morals r applicable. y u people have abandoned 10 commandments of the old testament.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @David..... When you have no knowledge of Islam and have not studied a single verse of Quran, then you don't have any right to comment on Islam with your ill knowledge.... When your talking equal rights, then there is no other on earth except Islam which can give the status, dignity, inheritance equal to all.... If your definition of equality is male resemblance, then mind you it is not possible to any in this world... Can a male give birth to a child? No... Can a male have mensus ? No... Are the men and women have similar physical or mental strength? No... Then how are they equal... They are not equal individually but are equal in overall.... Female has high status as a mother than the male... female has the high regards in upbring of her children to turn good than compared to male counterpart..... It is the Islam which protected the girl, when the culture before Islam was to bury alive the girl infant.. The same practice is still found in our own country but in a different approach as abortion. Regarding divorce, Islam is the only religion on earth which provides the right to divorce for both men and women in the simplest form... Men has the option of Talaq and women has the option for Qhula... Then there is also the option of Fask e Nikah...... You might have not even heard these words... How will you, coz you are an ignorant. Marriage in not an agreement what you make in court... There is no such thing as once you marry then its janam janam ka rishta even if the spouse has difficulty in living together....Rules in Islam with respect to Marriage and Divorce are not complicated what you find in other faith..... Others take years and years to get divorce languishing in courts, wasting their precious time of life...... Davis, if you want to understand and Judge Islam don't look at its followers, you find good and bad followers, but look at the pious men or women or even better read and understand Religious books....

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  • Daddy, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Well said...All their knowledge is wikipedia..They copy paste from wikipedia if they want to argue about islam...The fact is they dont know that wikipedia is opensource and any tom dick and harry can change its contents..Earlier Mr borewell, swami of a popular matt tried a lot for converting her again but when this woman was adamant that she wont convert, they all vanished as this case was of no interest to them..

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @ahmed, stop saying know da quran. quran is not a spiritual book like da holy Bible. da dawa & islamic sharia approves 3 times talaq even in da whatsapp. plenty of approved cases in ksa which is a follower of quran. virtually islam is a male dominated society. I reiterate 1nce again females in Islam has limited writes & no equal rights as other faiths have given, I ask nadeen, ahmed & daddy 2 read your own quran& hadith's properly w/o making it just a bye-heart. just always don't must read da quran & get da meaning from islamic fool scholars like zakir naik & his guru a. deedat.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    corrected: just always don't say must read (b4 just always don't must read)

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    corrected: just always don't say must read (b4 just always don't must read)

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    hAhAhAhAhAhA....... I got laugh after reading your response 2 my comment. read by your own immatured response. u r still in elementary school. u say islam has given equal rights & equal inheritance. write us den y da divorced wife is not getting equal inheritance. y a muslima cannot marry a non muslim. if married what is da punishment.. don't write blah, blah.....

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    @David... who said Divorced women is not getting equal inheritance.... Infact in Islam women get double inheritance, from her parents side as well from husband side.... You are an ignorant fool arguing without knowing ABC of the Shariah... Regarding marrying a Non-Muslim. how does this comes under equality? With your logic, Let me ask you, do you call your parents as your parents or somebody else as your parents? In such sense you should marry a man being a man that will be equal to you and both of you should give birth that will be again equal to you...

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    hAhAhAhA equal inheritance!!!!!!!!! give me verse from quran. 1nce da parents sell his daughter 4 a highest bidder, da father shall marry 1 more & if her daughter is divorced she may hardly get her food in her father's house or 4 money she has 2 go 4 pros work. becoz her father already married 4-6 from da received dowry. y no equal rights with men. inheritance from her groom 1nly half . where is equal rights????????? y she cannot marry a non -muslim. what is da punishment. actually u r 1nly defending man made rights. no moral rights at all. y from her husband gets 1nly half of da inheritance.

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  • Alphonse Rodrigues, Udupi

    Sun, Oct 24 2021

    Ahmad Bangalore, I quote yours:. If your definition of equality is male resemblance, then mind you it is not possible to any in this world... Can a male give birth to a child? No... Can a male have mensus ? No... Are the men and women have similar physical or mental strength? No... Then how are they equal. Unquote. Do you mean to say God made man and woman in-equal?! Your argument is when God did not made men-women equal", so men should make in- equal rights to women. What a crazy mentality is yours?! In fact in your criteria women should, must get more rights than men in islam. However Islam made women a use and throw material in a triple talaq as and when men wishes to.

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  • sanjay pinto, manglaore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    very well said Mr Pais..........renowned write Sara Aboobacker highlighted the same point in her book 'SARAKUGALU' meaning goods...referring to the Muslim girls who were given on contract to rich arabs in calicut and hyderabad...they will throw money...stay with them for two or three months..make them pregnant and never return....you must be knowing that Sara was stoned at Puttur in a meeting by the males of the pieceful community...so you are right in saying that the marriages in this cult are just a contract...that is why they marry three or four without any feelings..just goods..

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  • Nadeem, Bangalore/ dubai

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Pot calling the kettle black.. You are twining a personal vendetta with a legal opinion.. Which faith promotes widow re marriage? Women were burnt alive ..during ancient Times..just because she her husband was dead.. .. Widows were packed off to ashrams.. were they were abused With their mane shaved off.. wat more brutal?? Wen they get periods...kept in outhouse.. Ask the same writer to write on this topics! Off recent there are cases of girls who are registered in matrimonial website Being the target of serial killers.. Just because she is born under a inauspicious star.. They are declared manglik.. and can't understand get husband's of their choice.. Relegating them to clutches of quacks who proclaim to change a planet' s positionin their orbit!!!( I am sure Carl Sagan) wil be pleased! How are u going to prove that in court!!

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Sun, Oct 24 2021

    agreement can b broken, & r misused with some compensations. but da sacrament cannot b broken. if broken dey will have 2 face da wrath of God. as per Indian law everyone has 2 register in da marriage registrar office. 4 the same purpose marriage certificate is required otherwise some procedures of da registrar office have 2 follow. christian marriages certificate & baptism, birth certificates r accepted even in da court. agreements r used for commercials. it has no moral values. of course 4 da divorce court will ask agreement. so da male must give alimony. see what da indian court says. https://lawbeat.in/news-updates/muslim-marriage-contract-not-sacrament-observes-karnataka-high-court muslim marriage is a contract, not a sacrament - observes karnataka high court. muslim man filed a case dat he can not give maintenance money/alimony becoz he ha 2 look after his a other wife. if in ksa's sharia enforcing authorities will allow dis muslim man/ permit dis muslim man w/o giving alimoney 2 ex-wife. islam is a male dominated society.

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Brother Pinto, just relax go to any church nearby and seek peace from your GOD! everything will be alright. You might have gone through hell during your young age. Repent and seek forgiveness from your GOD. Mental peace is a necessity for you right now!

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  • Richard, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    David has given best verdict & clearly explained the real truth. Not everyone has studied the books ..if did things would have been out of control.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Madam Asiya....its good news. But, why do you dress like muslim lady ? When you know they didnt accept you (as per your say) and your family wants to take back, when you dont follow their religion, why do you appear as muslim woman ? Feeling shy to represent yourself according to your original religion?

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  • real kujuma, kodial

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    that is the power of one God...though husband as left her, the faith which she has accepted wholeheartedly, she is sticking to it because her eyes are opened with the true worship of almighty God who is only one..

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  • Rajesh, Karkala

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    saav ninna ...

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  • Rajesh, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    when sword is more powerful, the return is too dificult. . one can imagine what will happen to the poor woman the next day.. LOL

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  • Ganesh M, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Similar case happened to Madhavi Kutty alias Kamala Das. Her husband deserted her after feigning love. That man knew that Madhavi was a writer and wanted her to write in favor of her converted religion. his mission was completed and then he deserted her. Her own son has confessed that she wanted to revert back to her former religion at her ripe age but was convinced by her son that it was a risky affair. Everything in this cult is one way street.

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  • Amaze, karkala

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    She stays as a Muslim or goes back as Hindu or converts a Christian.. Its her life and she decides what to do

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    She already decided what she wants. Read the article once again. No need of speaking in her favour. I just spoke about her dress and not on her decisions.....you reply on what i said like how ahmed clarified. No need of writing unnecessary things blah blah blah

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    The news article says that she has decided not to go back to her original religion, that means she will continue to follow Islam. No need to worry about her Islamic dress now, that is her personal choice.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Love Sex Aur Dhokha ...

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Its a horrible matter. Goosey goosey gander..who cheated you in the first two and gave you to eat dhokla ?

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Call me at 9322282790 & I will explain ...

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  • Sujan, Kudla

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    99% love jihad cases end with divorce, murder or suicide...

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  • Sandy, Udupi

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    Some have ended up in Afghanistan and Iraq

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  • Daddy, Mangalore

    Sat, Oct 23 2021

    100% cheddi jihad cases ends with murder and suicide..

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