Mangalore : A Cry in the Neighbourhood


Mangalore : A Cry in the Neighbourhood
Special Correspondent
Daijiworld Media Network - Mangalore

Mangalore, Feb 20 : These days when Mangaloreans,  especially those living in apartments,  are not aware  who their next door neighbour is, the Monkey Stand in Mangaladevi  has noticed something unusual in their neighbourhood  in past six months.  The one-storyed independent house here named “We Care Family Society for old aged and psycho social rehabilitation Services”,  Mangalore,  claims itself as a charitable institution. But there is something suspicious about the house.

According to the neighbours,  there are about  16 to 19 inmates at this  so called charity home.  But none of the inmates except the caretakers are visible to the outsiders, making people wonder whether they are immobile  or are confined to their beds by the caretakers, or what actually is going on here .

But what the neighbours complain about is the crying, howling  and shouts for help  and loud  threatening (male) voices  that used to emanate from  the house  which the neighbours could hear every day.   One of the neighbours says that the crying and howling  is usually during lunch, evening and dinner times and one could clearly hear the loud  beating sound followed by the wailing of the inmates.  There are believed to be four caretakers, two girls and two ladies apart from the Manager.  It is said that it is these young girls who beat  the inmates mercilessly.  

Neighbours confided that that one of neighbours who stays close-by  to the premises by name Prem D’Sa had complained to the police in January this year after he saw a naked man (one of the inmates)  being  thrown into the  garage  and the loud noise of his falling down.    The police came to the premises and  after scrutinizing gave a clean chit saying “the institute was doing a noble service of caring for the sick and the old”.   It seems the caretaker/Manager of the house told the police that  the said inmate had thrown a lock to his  forehead  and that is why he was put out  in the garage as a precautionary measure.




Though the cries and the waiting of “aiyo aiyo” has stopped after this complaint  this reporter who went to the area  about 2 pm could hear the terrorizing male voice shouting at one of the caretakers of the house.  I could hear the male voice  shouting “ elli sayilikke hogiddiya” (where did you go to die) and the woman responds  she had gone to put the clothes for drying.  This menacing voice of the man continued for some more time but the matter was not audible as they moved to the other side. It seems he speaks frighteningly to the older carekaters.   Neighbours say this is the milder side of the entire sordid saga.  What they hear and see is 100 times more menacing than this. 

Neighbours also say that the inmates are being charged up to Rs.  10,000/- per month .  One of the neighbours, who did not want to be identified says that initially it was a girls’ hostel which subsequently  became an “Ashram”.  “When people started coming and asking  where the ashram is located in this vicinity we used to direct them to Ramakrishna Ashram.  But only later when they said home for the aged we realized they were searching for this and use to direct them to this house.  Since there is no board people used to get confused and ask us”, says a  neighbor, we can see everything from the  first floor of his house.  Neighbours suspect that the Ashram or the charity home  has a hand at the police station which is why they carry on with such nefarious activities with impunity.     Though the neighbours tried to convince the local caretaker (the owner of the house is abroad) about the goings on , he feigned innocence about the whole thing. 

If there are 16 to 19 inmates who are sick and if  they are not at all allowed to come  out of the four walls of their house,  or allowed to walk a few steps a day,   one can imagine the condition of these patients or inmates.  They will turn into cabbage within no time and with the kind of physical and mental torture, they are sure to turn into rogues.  

  

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  • rita Noronha, managalore

    Mon, Feb 21 2011

    I went to visit an old age home in Neermarga. It is run by the nuns and they take only female patients. I almost cried when I saw that place. These nuns were so good and kind to the patients. (We made the surprise visit) You could tell from the place that the place had that warmth and care. nun was a trained nurse and she knew her job well. There were patients who have lived there for so many years and think that is their home. This place is very small and I see the nuns are finding difficult to run that institute. They do not get any funds from outside. They charge a very minimum fees which is not enough to meet the daily expenses of the patients. But this place is really good if you are thinking of an old age home with a difference.

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  • MLK, Monkey Stand (Hostel)

    Mon, Feb 21 2011

    Raina, I am surprised the girl spoke to you nicely. Last time I tried to talk to her when I heard the wailing in that house, she was very rude and disrespectful. I never got a good feeling about that house since three years now. I am sorry to say, Mr. P made a huge mistake in renting that house to that man. I truly wish that everything gets under control and those patients will find a good home. My heart just goes to those old souls. Poor they.

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  • Raina , Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 21 2011

    we visited this house, spoke to one of the girl working there. didnt find anythin suspicious... but i somehow feel things are not alright there... inmates conditions was not so good.

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  • Ashley Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Feb 21 2011

    I along with a couple of my friends visited the place and tried speaking to the inmates, tho there was something that was not giving me a "not right feeling" difficult to take a call. The conditions were bad, it needs immediate attention from the authorities.

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  • Raju K. Suvarna, Kaup / Udupi

    Mon, Feb 21 2011

    I think we do not have any rights activists in Karnataka. Or is it that they are busy discussing with gangsters about their welfare!

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  • V.D Aranha, Kulooor

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    We have a dynamic SP and a very efficient commissioner. They will surely look into this case and take necessary action.

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  • Rekha Rao, Kannur

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Readers, do not be disappointed. Nothing is going to happen to this man. No action will be taken. Infact he got free publicity. Now the whole world knows about this place. Thanks for the web news. He will make his millions and start a hospital very soon.

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  • Priya, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    In India you can venture into any business. It is indeed a free country. No standards required. On one hand we talk the talk of the developed country, and on the other side we are forgetting the basic element of HUMANITY that made the so called countries developed. Humanity is the last thing present in Indian culture now. It is indeed sad that in coming years, this country would turn into cannibals.

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  • Melwin Rego, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Thanks for Daijiworld, the civilized neighbors, and PUCL for bringing this matter to light.

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  • GOPAL SHETTY, PILAR,AL-KHOBAR,K.S.A

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    It  is the responsibility of City Corporation to investigate such buildings. We would really appreciate if some one could go and check the house and waht is really going on and flash this message on local T.V.

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  • DEVADAS, MANGALORE,UAE

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Dear fellow readers,lets try to be sensitive,its not time to argue/fight,lets request Daiji to bring this to the notice of the Police commissioner & resolve the issue, its really shame if its happening the way its being suspected.

    Lets be human first rather than bringing politics, which is sheer waste of the time & denying the justice for the people who might be suffering. Media can do wonders with their positive approach & Daiji is well known for that!! Daiji's concern has thrown light on the issue ,hence would bring the issue to a good end.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa, GOA

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    What a shame and we are equally responsible for this non sense.
    We pay Rs. 10,000 and live happily with our family outside the state. Does our responsibility cease after paying this money. Can’t we find a single relative who can visit them at least once a month to inquire about their well being?
    We will also appreciate if Bhajrang Dal, VHP, Rama Sene, Plolice and NGO’s take up this social cause. God will bless them in abundance for their Nobel deeds.

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  • praveen, mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    flash this on local TV . send a copy of this article to police commissioner and home minister, people's union for civil liberties.if tantriks can kill a child in mangalore, such things also can happen.time for govt to make it compulsory to register old age homes

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  • Dinakar M. Bangera, Udupi / Dubai

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    It is very clear that the poice are in their pocket. So, all the social organisations of all communities should jointly raid this place take pictures of the premises and inmates and then call the police. Then police will be forced to act!. It is a worst crime to torture and beat the helpless inmates.

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore - USA

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Can any one start the charity home without permission? Can any person or a group start a old age rehabilitation with out proper team and facilities? Incase if some one sick or died, what the family members doing then? Are they questioning them or just leaving the incident. If a person got sick and taken to hospital and admitted in a hospital, then initially the sick person has to go emergency, where they have to write a detail report like FIR after checking the patient, so what is happening in that case? I can not imagine how any one can leave their parents or any elder person in a place without inquiring. Hope truth will come out and hope daijiworld will publish the article once again who is behind this.

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  • Roopa, Mangalore/Dubai

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Cow slaughter/cruelty is punibale act as per religious acts, but Human slaughter/cruelty is not !!! what at great this world !!

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  • JOSSY, Madanthyar

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Dear Prem Dsa and Daijiworld, You have risen to the occasion.Do not give up.

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  • Ronald, Bejai

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Dear Muthalika please do something!

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  • Sylvester Pereira, Mangalore, Muscat

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    June 2010, I with my fly stayed at Prem house to spend vacation. One day we heard a man and women quarelling at the top of thier voice cursing each other.This continued till 11 in the night. Then suddenly one of the inmate started to cry and care-taker started to beat up.
    The next noon story repeated, care taker was man-handling the inmate who was yelling for the help so I went to stop. A man calling himself manager of the ashram with his maids entered Prem's compound and started to abuse us. I sternly asked them to step out of the compound or else will call the police. The Manager immediately replied on my face saying the police is in my hand, mother of police is our inmate. Do whatever you want.
    When we were arguing with these people, I saw many peeping eyes from the window enjoying the scene. Not a single person came out and supported us. We went to stay there for few days. And this is happening since 1 year,or more than that.
    We fight for religion, we fight against the slaughter of cows.... here human lives are cheaper than the street dogs. These care takers are not feeding the inmates because they donot have control their bowels. They do not give them enough water to drink cause the patients will bed wet. They are not allowed to come out because people will see them, most of the time the patients are kept naked.
    Dear Prem Please give exact location of this Ashram. Atlest Ramsena, Bhajrang dal can do little constructive work.

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  • Melwin Pinto, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    160000 for him in a month, handsome bribe for the police and the malaria for the neighbors. Tolerate India Tolerate.

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  • Sunil, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Please storm in and take pictures of the house from inside. we need more clear information. please hurry up before it is too late..there are many better organisations to take care of the needy than this hell..

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  • Dinesh rao, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    16 patients, 160000/- per month. Vow! Why did I not think of this before. I work my butt out for 6500/- per month. I have a three bed room house... all that it takes is 2 girls, one vehicle and a tall compound wall... and 2 sticks to beat the patients. I will be a crorepati in 3 years. Forget stock market, forget America, and forget real-estate... this is the best business.

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  • Sandeep Rao, Monkey Stand

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    What a business!!! The open gutter that runs under his compound has been blocked since 6 months and there is no response from the corporation to repair it. The mosquitoes are breeding in lakhs too...and it is impossible even to sit in the bathroom to relieve the natures call even for a minute.

    Definitely, there would be more patients for him soon and that would mean more money for him

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  • Nevidita L, Mangaladevi

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Let us hear and see something good from these activists this time. This is a noble cause... better cause than stopping the girls from going to a pub... and atleast much more than cow slaughtering. Lets see who will come ahead and look into this matter. I salute Prem D'Sa for taking this cause.

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  • narendra Shetty, Monkeystand

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    If the neighbors did not come to help it is for the reason because the man has support from the police..... as one of the inmate is the family member of the policeman.

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  • Vijay, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    Its very sad and pitty to read this news. Now where are the so called BD, RSS etc who were very much interested in helping the needy one. Please come forward and stop these types of incident rather than disturbing the peace and harmony of the Mangalore city.

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  • Savitha lobo, Mangaladevi

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    My dad had an accident and was immobile. We did not know what to do at that time and we went around looking for homes which took care of the patients and when I researched I found more than 100 institutes like that charging around 10 - 15 thousand a month. The conditions of these homes were pathetic, and none of the patients who lived here looked happy and most of them died within a year. I gave up my job for a while and stayed home with my dad and took care of him. It was very very difficult but my dad began to talk, walk and slowly socialize. In four months time my dad was able do all self help skills and now I am glad and thankful to God for not letting me choose the Old Age Home. According to me the children of the sick and disabled should be punished more than that man for putting their parents in such dire conditions. I bet out of those 16 patients, 80% would be the parents of well to do families.

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  • Alex, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    When the police came to investigate none of the neighbors wanted to be a witness, and the few who came forward were later harassed by the Man and his care-takers calling them names, abusing them and threatening them of dire consequences. In Mangalore only muscle and money power works. If you do not have money, then you do not have any rights.

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  • Shobana, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    I know this locality very well. Four years back some boarders were living in this house who were working in St. Agnes Special school. Later this house was rented to a family who stayed there for almost a year. Since two years this particular man is running his business which appeared in the beginning like a hostel but in a few weeks it started looking very suspicious. In a few months he changed his business to old age home.

    When asked what happened to the girls in his house, he said that business somehow did not work and so she has started old age home as he has a lot of knowledge on nursing. Earlier to this he had convinced the neighbors that he was a headmaster.

    Everytime you speak to him he gives a different story about himself. Anytime I have seen him, he has been very rude and nasty .... always yelling and screaming. One of my relatives who lived in that neighborhood said there was so much wailing and screaming coming from that house that it was impossible to sleep in the nights.

    We would really appreciate if someone could go and visit the patients inside the house and find out what is really going on in that house. This should have been done immediately, as by now he might have shifted those patients elsewhere.

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  • ISMAIL K PERINJE, PERINJE/YANBU-KSA

    Sun, Feb 20 2011

    If they are charging RS 10,000/month,then how come it could be an charitable institution?Public distrubances and human rights abuse must be looked in to by concerned authority is lacking.Police has to take action against the so called Charitiable institution.

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  • Dinesh Shetty, Padubidri, Al Khobar, Saudi Arabia

    Sat, Feb 19 2011

    Daijiworld, please investigate. These places for old aged where children sometime put their parents by paying monthly charges and it becomes a business place, also inmates are not properly taken care. Also these places are sometime used for illegal activities.

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  • Maisie, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 19 2011

    what are the social activists doing ???? they too must be sleeping

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  • Lavina, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 19 2011

    Really, pity on inmates. Should punish to those who are taking care of them. ( For two girls & Two ladies).

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  • esther, India

    Sat, Feb 19 2011

    Please and pppllleeaaassseee do expose this and add to one of hte umpteen Scams being investigated of late. U Police, do not pls be hand in glove with them. God watches and fear Him atleast.

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  • Alwyn, Neermarga, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 19 2011

    I think police are sleepy.

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