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Mangalore: Groom ends life four days before marriage

  •   Mon, May 20 2013 11:31:33 AM

Mangalore: Groom ends life four days before marriage

Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (SP)

Mangalore, May 20: Chethan Shetty (33) residing in Kurunjigudde in Ulepady village committed suicide late night on Saturday May 18 in the bathroom of his home.

Chethan tied a nylon rope to the wooden beams of the bathroom of his house to make a noose and commit suicide by hanging himself.

He was to get married on Wednesday May 22. 

He reportedly came home intoxicated on Saturday night, and fought with family members on flimsy grounds. He committed suicide late night on Saturday, the police said.

Mulky police have registered the case and begun investigation.
  

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  • Vasu Kotian, Kodavoor

    Tue, May 21 2013

    No where it is mentioned that he was drunken at the time of fight with the family or suicide

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  • robin, kadri

    Tue, May 21 2013

    how u know he is druken person? dont judge yourself

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman / Washington,DC

    Tue, May 21 2013

    People,

    Its cruel and mean spirited to write against dead people without knowing enough facts.....

    Jai Hoooooooooo

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India

    Mon, May 20 2013

    This is my opinion:
    Crucial stage of boys life which parents should understand are
    a.When a boy finished his studies and earns his first salary and having his first salary party with his friends.
    b. when boy works abroad as bachelor and comes home as his first holiday. He comes with lot of expectations from parents. Keep them always joyful. He will cherish this memory rest of his life.
    c. Period before marriage and the period soon after marriage. Treat the boy as matured boy not like a small baby. During this period, he want to do his own way, allow it to happen. That period he will not get it back.
    d. When he become the father of his first child. That is the happiest moment of a boy's life. Parents should allow the boy to be himself with his wife.
    Any irritation to the boy in the above crucial stage, may lead to disaster in the boy's life and many times the scar created in these stages, difficult to vanish But the good memory too happened during these stages, keeps going for the boy.

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  • Rita/Germany, Omzoor/Germany

    Mon, May 20 2013

    how many families are gone destroyed because of Alcohol? and still further? a sad Story. I am sure he committed suiside not because some filthy reasons but his Alcohol was punched with forbidden material like drugs and it must have caused him to go out of himself which led him to committ suecide.or his Alcohol was mixed with medical Alcohol.who knows the reason.

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  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Mon, May 20 2013

    How old one may be, if he/she is not ready for a marriage, may be due to various reasons, the elders should thrust marriage on them.
    RIP!

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Hi Bollu,

    As you said the Bride is lucky c'se everything happened before the marriage.

    Assuming the whole incident was the result of a triangle (what is fate of the third person. We cannot rule out anything.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    John,

    Be realistic :
    Dowry : The man must be happy to receive
    Harassment : Its the man who harasses for more dowry.
    Law : He must be really a crook to misuse the law and therefore is afraid of it.

    None of your theories above require a solution of suicide by a man but surely by a woman who is married to such a man

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  • JOHN DSOUZA, USA/MUMBAI

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Lydia,
    I have been one who have gone through the False Dowry and Harsement case in India where my Ex-Wife demanded huge amount as Compensation and gave false charges for getting the amount. where i had no other option but had to pay her or go behind the bars for couple of day and then fight my entire life behind the court and the lawyer. Even i had to pay the opposite party lawyer for taking the flase case back.
    Thats India any thing can happen when you EX decide to go so Cheap.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    John,

    I may have had a close interaction with you personally over a specific topic, besides, I've read your opinion on TOI on various occasions. I understand your situation and sympathize with you but there is nothing we women can do re repair what has happened.

    Please do not paint all women with same brush because if you do that all men too may need to be labelled similarly, which I refuse to do because of the gem that I am affianced to. Chill..

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  • JOHN DSOUZA, USA/MUMBAI

    Mon, May 20 2013

    May be afraid of Dowry and Harsement or the useless Indian one sided law.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Sad incident. Bad way of ending ones own life.

    Possible, he was forced to get into wedlock againist his wish.

    Real cause may come to light in the near future.

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  • Bollu, Mangalore

    Mon, May 20 2013

    'Bride' is lucky..
    everything happened before marriage..!!

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India

    Tue, May 21 2013

    Bollu, I could see highest number of AGREE - to your comments. Appreicate Daiji readers, as they always says yes if they feel right and NO if they fee not right irrespective of person. This is really very healthy sign with Daiji readers.

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DXB-SHARJAH

    Mon, May 20 2013

    VERY SAD INCIDENT.NOW A DAYS EVERYBODY THINK SUICIDE IS EASIEST WAY TO OUT FROM THE PROBLEMS.IF GOD GIVES THE PROBLEMS,ALONG WITH THAT HE GIVES SOLUTIONS ALSO..BUT WE ARE NOT THINKING ABOUT THAT..AND WE TAKE QUICK DECISION..HIS SOUL MAY REST IN PEACE..

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mangalore/Mapusa/Mumbai

    Mon, May 20 2013

    The bride must have demanded dowry from the groom........

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  • robin, kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    I think law favouring to women is responsible to sucide ,,,,,,,,,, no one listen mans story now a days

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Ribin,

    It got to be jealousy that made you tell this. Take up the test yourself - go bride hunting to a widower and see how many parents are ready to give their daughter to such man. At the same time, hunt for a groom to a widow nobody will take interest.

    The man in this case died over family dispute, over his drunkard habits, over his irresponsibility towards tasks that have to be done withing four days.

    Got nothing to do with 'for' or 'against' laws.

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  • robin, kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    how you know his inside mind story

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Who wants to know a dead man's story ? If he was not happy with the proposal, he would have said so.
    See the legal hassles he has caused to his family and the trauma he has caused to the girl who was about to marry him ? If she is bold, she will say "better riddance before marriage than a drunkard's hell afterwards" and go on with her life. What if she came from a poor background and her parents pledged all they had to prepare for her marriage ?

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  • Mithun Boloor (MB), Dubai

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Hmmmm Positive reply..

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  • Gayathri, Mangalore/Dubai

    Tue, May 21 2013

    Robin kadri, does man ever wants to be heard? he just gives orders and decide on everyone's behalf... before men were considered to be responsible... now man wants sympathy, financial support... i think those days are gone when men were independent...

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Whatever may the fight was about, suicide isn't the answer. Life is precious, it happens only once. We are to cherish it and use for the betterment of ourselves and others, not bear it as a burden.

    Hope this incident does not shadow the girl's future. Hope she gets a better groom with some commonsense that she will not be held as bad omen.

    This has always been happening in our society - for everything good man is the reason, for all that is bad the other half should take up the blame.

    Nevertheless, may God rest his soul in peace.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'Lore

    Mon, May 20 2013

    Talk of developing cold feet....
    Only a few can take the 'plunge' to suffer!Right?
    Kelavereg Aapuji Ye Avu!
    Suruke Dethonver Ballah!

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