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Beltangady: For love's sake - Girl chooses to wait for 'hubby' in remand home

  •   Sun, Jul 28 2013 10:33:43 AM

Beltangady: For love's sake - Girl chooses to wait for 'hubby' in remand home

Daijiworld Media Network - Beltangady

Beltangady, Jul 28: Call it infatuation, love, or simply, eagerness to get married. In what could probably be called one-of-a-kind incident, a girl who eloped with her lover, got married and then caught, has chosen to wait for her man in the remand home rather than go to her own home.

A 19-year-old girl from Balanja in Venoor here who had gone missing a few days ago was found in Karkala with her lover.

The girl had left her house on the night of July 17. Her mother had lodged a complaint in Venoor police station.

The girl, a college student, fell in love with Sukesh Gowda, a resident of Kaniyoor. The couple had eloped on July 17 and were found by the police during their search in Karkala.

The couple have got married, but the boy is still 6 months short of completing 21 years, which is the legal age for marriage for a male. Hence their marriage did not get official approval.

The youth went back to his hometown, while the girl has stayed put in the Udupi remand home waiting for him. She has refused to go back to her parents.

Both are students of a college in Laila, the girl in first year and the boy in the final year degree.

  

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  • rameez, guruvayanakere

    Mon, Feb 10 2014

    Nice words

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  • Gretta, Mangalore

    Mon, Jul 29 2013

    There is no guarantee that the girl wont change her mind.

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  • Gurudath, M'lore/Mumbai

    Mon, Jul 29 2013

    Reduce the age of marriage for males also to 18.

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  • Shameena, Katipalla

    Mon, Jul 29 2013

    Feelings don't have words... love is a wonderful feelings plz don't spoil ur life..

    DisAgree Agree [12] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    The marriage with minors is illegal and need to be legalised on becoming major and remarrying again.Eloping with loved one is not a good practice becuse of the social stigma.Hope,the couple understand this and realise their mistake and do the needful to make it legal.All the best.Thanq.

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  • Abdul, Udupi

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    I respect your true love, which ended up in marriage, though it is premature. Only a piece of advice for you both is that keep the same love, trust, life commitments till the end of each other’s life. Never & ever allow your love, trust and life commitments to fade during the journey of your life.

    Hope you both will have a successful married life.

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DUBAI

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    THEIR LOVE IS TENDER..LOVE IS BLIND ..DONT MAKE FUN OF THEM..

    DisAgree [3] Agree [20] Reply Report Abuse

  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Every type Love is unique in its own way but we cannot neglect or sideline our love for monther, sister at the cost of our love for own girl friend or life partner.

    I think Anand, has better experience of having loved some one deeply and that follows his way of expressing the true feelings.

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  • Shakeel, Mangalore/ Melbourne

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Love is Blind.

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  • Farooq, Mangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Anand..your words.. only can be accepted if you relate these things to Mother..only her love is true..second place goes to sister ...rest all is nonsence..

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  • DINESH SHETTY, PADUBIDRI/DUBAI

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Hum Bane Tum Bane Ek Duje Keliye.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Hi Anand. Karkal.

    You made my day !

    What a lovely/romantic words.

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  • Mukhtar, Mlr/Dubai

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Pls go home and lead a better life, dont spoil your life waiting for that stupid lover boy.

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  • Farooq, Mangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    STUPID ACT...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Dear Chimpu...
    What gal gal gal ?
    Boy does not have anything aa ??
    Girl showed first or boy showed first is not the problem. They are in it together.Once sweet dish is prepared can you take out sugar from it? Same way-love also.
    Once happened means -like a final dish-over! No point blaming boy or girl.
    You fall in love, you will understand. Better read what Lydia M'aam writes and understand.I am also waiting to join her classes.
    Chimpu don't feel bad because here I think you are newu.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    A fortunate boy to find a beautiful heart of girl. Long live 'Laila & Majnu'.

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  • SALAM, MANGALORE

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    They are following western culture......After some time they will realize their mistake... God help their parents...

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  • Agnel, Udupi

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    The college name itself Laila? So they were studying in that college and it is her right to wait to her Majnu.

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  • Anand, karkala

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    One of the most beautiful things in the world is a woman’s heart. It is fragile yet strong. Delicate yet resilient. When a woman gives you her heart, she gives you her most prized possession. If you love, nurture, cherish and protect it, she’ll give you the world.

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  • Chimpu, Bannaje

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    It's after all fault of gal.
    Gals are maturing faster and spoiling the boys.
    How dare she stays at remand home..neglecting her parents.
    These Gals don't want to study..only to enjoy happiness at young age itself.
    It's the plan of gal to elope..no doubt.
    Boy is victimised..should stop visiting gal to teach her a lesson.
    Let at proper age after 25 get married..if possible gal should wait upto period completing her studies.
    Upto now not able to make out what's cooking in any of gal's mind.
    Boys should always be careful. Earlier time Boys use to propose Gals. Now vice-versa.
    Gals are spoiling career of Boys.
    Zamana Badal Gaya..

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Chimpu,

    Are boys spoof-fed by their moms till the age of 21 and girls start using their brain to eat themselves sooner because they mature earlier than the boys ?

    Common Chimp (you took a name perfectly fitting to your brain) ! All those abuses happening with girls (note Delhi gang-rape where one minor too was involved) are enticed by girls then ?

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  • Mohammed Nadeem, UDUPI / IRAQ

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Now this song she will be singing. Teri Umeed, Tera Intizaar karte hai. Aye Sanam Hum tho Shirf Tumse Pyaar Karte.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Lydia Madam...
    Gotra/ Bari ?What super knowledge
    you have Madam...Honestly.
    However, I feel inter caste marriages and aren and ll should also be promoted. Hearts and Hearts and all that must be allowed to meet.
    No restrictions of any kind. Then the children will be super brilliant. Really...Same field, Same Seed results in same Same crop. Different Field, Different Sees results in Super Crop. Research has proved this. My explanation might be messy...but I hope the gist is got.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Maneyalli beyisi haaklikke jana iddare..adara charbi ashte..Kashta yenu anta tilidilla..Illi MBA,MSC first class pass aadavre kelasa illade bombdi hoditiddare..anyway nimma vishwasa nimma kai bidade irali..idu nanna prarthane..

    DisAgree [4] Agree [32] Reply Report Abuse

  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    MAIN REASON FOR SUCH INCIDENTS ARE MOBILE PHONES, ADVANCED TECHNOLOGY, WESTERN CULTURE EFFECT, FOLLOWING FILM STARS ATTITUDE.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Rakesh Shetty,

    You always have one window open to chat (even if it is DW) and don't others even to have a mobile ? Why ? Are you afraid that they will call their parents/brothers when you make advances while they wait for a bus outside their college ?

    Send your mails by foot-messengers, wear Dhoti-Jubba and travel by bullock cart and then give your lecture - you hypocrite !

    DisAgree [14] Agree [57] Reply Report Abuse

  • Tom Cat , Mangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    I agree with you rakesh 100% so as a start you lead by example disconnect your mobile, internet, live in thatched house like the bharat vasis, remove your pants and shirt as these signs of western culture start wearing kuche, don't use electricity, these are a start list only more to follow .......

    DisAgree [8] Agree [39] Reply Report Abuse

  • JN, Bejai

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    That is the reason our 3 MLA'S(ex)got caught while using mobile (watching mms blue etc)in assembly session.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Hum Tere Bin Kahin Jee Nahin Sakte
    Tere Bina Kya Wajood Mera.....
    Ab Tum Hi Ho...
    Ab Tum Hi Ho...
    Meri Aaashiqui Ab Tum Hi Ho...
    Hoon 'Remand' Mein...
    Lekin Ye 'Demand' Hain....
    Le Jaao Mujhe 'Command' se..
    Kyonki Tum Hi Ho...Tum Hi Ho...
    Mera Sab Kuch...Bas Tum Hi Ho.....

    Lydia Madam.....
    Let's for once give a chance for this 'Romance' to Blossom!. Stomach filling, earning is always there.
    My heart as always goes out for
    this 24 carat lover....

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Crazy kids ! What will they do for a living ? At all they complete their degree, is it a guarantee for a job ? Don't they require a place to live ?

    Whatever, I commend her determination and hope that the boy too is as determined as her. Life is a struggle young couple, I wish you a smooth sailing.

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  • Prashanth Poojary, karkala

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Actually there is no much complication in this love story as i believe, since both belongs to same religion,their respective parents should sit together and solve this issue emicably.Good luck to both boy and girl,let their love story meet with good end.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Prashant,

    Same religion is a relief to quite an extent but then comes Gotra/Bari and so on. This may be exactly why the girl does not want to return home. She did the right thing by deciding to stay in the remand home but I wish she is safe there, not enticed to do something illegal and the boy does not change his mind once his education is complete.

    We need to let go the barrier or this Gotra/Bari restriction and give freedom to youth to choose parted from same religion. This will reduce dowry related problems and exorbitant expenses incurred for marriages by girls' parents.

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  • Prashanth Poojary, Karkala

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Lydia,
    I do agree with you,we should come out from these gotra, bari,nakshatra, and other related age old restrictions,then only we can expect a Modern society.

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  • Mr. India , Bangalore

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Tere naam..... Why you guys worried and wasting your time... You guys know that they are married ... And every indian knows the value of marriage ...now it's up to them how they build up themselves and their life... So just pray for them and wish them the best ... Let them live their life together after 6 months and be happy...God Bless them.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Indian,

    Marriage is not just circling the holy fire, nor saying 'I Do' in front religious heads nor uttering 'Kabool Hai' to Qazi. It needs registering with legal authorities.

    You may have read that he is under-age to register his marriage. What if he changes his mind and decides not to register it ? Where the girl will head to ? Just imagine !

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  • Chimpu, Bannaje

    Sun, Jul 28 2013

    Lydia..
    Here looks like 'Gal' fools 'Boy'.
    Gals all of sudden become matured..not giving even chance for Boys to look after there career in proper manner.

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