Marriage sacred, concept of marital rape cannot be applied in India: Govt


New Delhi, Apr 29 (HT) : The government told Rajya Sabha on Wednesday the concept of marital rape cannot be applied in the country since marriage was treated as a sacrament or sacred in the Indian society.

The government's stand came against the backdrop of the UN Committee on Elimination of Discrimination against Women recommending to India to criminalise marital rape.

"It is considered that the concept of marital rape, as understood internationally, cannot be suitably applied in the Indian context due to various factors, including level of education, illiteracy, poverty, myriad social customs and values, religious beliefs, mindset of the society to treat the marriage as a sacrament," Haribhai Parathibhai Chaudhary, minister of state for home, said in a written reply to question from DMK MP Kanimozhi.

Kanimozhi had asked the home ministry whether government will bring a bill to amend the IPC to remove the exception of marital rape from the definition of rape; and whether it is a fact that UN Committee on Elimination of Discrimination against women has recommended to India to criminalise marital rape.

She had also said that according to United Nations Population Fund that 75% of the married women in India were subjected to marital rape and whether government has taken cognisance of the fact.

Marital rape refers to unwanted intercourse by a man with his wife obtained by force, threat of force, or physical violence, or when she is unable to give consent.

Chaudhary said the ministry of external affairs and ministry of women and child development have reported that UN Committee on Elimination of Discrimination against Women has recommended to India to criminalise marital rape.

"The Law Commission of India, while making its 172nd Report on Review of Rape Laws did not recommend criminalisation of marital rape by amending the exception to Section 375 of the Indian Penal Code and hence presently there is no proposal to bring any amendment to the IPC in this regard," the minister said.

It may be recalled that the Justice J S Verma Committee set up in the aftermath of the Delhi gang-rape incident to suggest changes in the criminal law had recommended that the exception for marital rape be removed from the Indian Penal Code(IPC).

"The fact that the accused and victim are married or in another intimate relationship may not be regarded as a mitigating factor justifying lower sentences for rape," the Verma Committee had said.

However, the government did not accept the recommendation.

The Parliamentary standing committee on Home in its report on the Criminal Law (Amendment) Bill, 2012 agreed with the view of the Home ministry that criminalising marital rape would weaken traditional family values in India, and that marriage presumes consent.

It said accepting marital rape as a criminal offence could lead to "practical difficulties"

The decision to exempt marital rape has also been fiercely opposed by women's groups.

  

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  • JR,

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    THE GOVT. IS RIGHT IN ITS PERCEPTION BECAUSE THERE CANNOT BE DIFFERENT RAPES AND MARRIAGE IS EXISTING TO AVOID RAPE. IF THE MARRIAGE IS FAILURE THERE IS SCOPE FOR DIVORCE.
    MARRIAGE & RAPE ARE TWO OPPOSITE POLES WHICH CANNOT COME TOGETHER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.
    IT IS ONLY BECAUSE PREVIOUS GOVT. COULD NOT SOLVE THE PROBLEM BUT USED IT AS TOOL TO DEVIDE SOCIETY.
    NOW IT HAS BECOME MARRIAGE AS A SOURCE OF LOOTING HUSBAND BY WIVES IN THE NAME OF MARITAL RAPE. EVEN IN FOREIGN COUNTRIES IT IS NOT MARITAL RAPE BUT RAPE WITH IN LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP(TEMPORARY) WHERE NO BOND OF MARRIAGE EXIST AT ALL DUE TO PRACTICE OF WESTERN CULTURE INDIA LOST ITS SIGNIFICANCE AND THE MOST SUFFERERS ARE AGED PARENTS WHO MIGRATE TO ASHRAMS IN SPITE OF HAVING NEXT GENERATION TO TAKE CARE OF THEM.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Ashok, Mangaluru,
    Whatever the western people or ME people (not all) believe or follow i.e., live in relation, is a temporary solution or short living relation which is possible as long as physical fitness and sound health prevails. Whereas, a relation built out of marriage bond is a lasting relation. Forget about biological needs but the grace that makes husband & wife to be together, nothing can match. Biological body ages but I do not think our feelings. The older we become more are the desires to be close to the companion.
    There are ups and downs but we should learn to adjust and live.

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  • Ashok, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Because of this reason in developed countries example USA, UK, Canada even in Middle east men are not marrying they keep leaving relation or contract( mutual understanding)they don't want they say sorry or change girl or lady. There is reason if he marry & after sometime problem the property & wealth divide equally. Nowadays new trend they go Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines or underdeveloped countries they get teen age girl & leaving together no legal hurdle it future our people also adopt same. principle so they can taste angel, kori rotti beef sukka, etc. property also safe no head ache no court kacheri

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  • gm, mlur

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    What are the main causes for Marital Rape?

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    MARITAL RAPE is a second concoction adopted by a woman whose first strategy to use the little piece of flesh as a bargaining tool with her husband terribly fails her.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Amith, Udupi

    Proposed marriage or Love marriage?
    For Mr. Modi no headache at all. (simply, make in India.

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    @Zeitgeist , its shocking you are still unaware of men apathy and their pathetic conditions in India. You can get hundreds of cases where wife's with their befriended lovers killed husband burnt and burried alive , wife tortured husband and cut him pieces . These two incidents happened in new Delhi and Mumbai consequently. I cannot keep on quoting all the incidents here , you can Google your self and find it. In case if you want all details I can forward you. Remember such cases rarely comes on mainstream English media , only Hindi papers like dainik bhaskar , Punjab kesari or Hindustan times keep reporting it. Now abuses which happens between four walls , its again the men are suffering at every point. First of all its the biased law pointing gun on their husband and also frequent blackmail or harassment by wives , persuaded to put old parents out of home. Men are forced at every point to work late hours , earn those extra money , and if they r not , put in jail under various charges. Remember Holy grail that women are always right is no more applicable , please understand on human rights point of view.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Roshan,

    I have read about incidents happening to men but please ask yourself is it equelant to what happens to women. The percentage would be more with women when if you compare domestic violence. Yes you can find some incidents here and there about men being abused. But is far less.

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  • vikhas D' Souza, mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Future generation of Male will be slave of Woman. Better don't get marry. If Need woman just visit some place where man can get satisfied. If this rule came there is no difference in redlight room and your own bedroom. Both place you need to make them happy first then only you will be satisfied.We don't want such hypocrite Law.

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  • Indian, DXB

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Cows have rights in India
    But Woman dont have...

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Embena bethene!

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  • Amith, udupi

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    " Marriages are Made in Heaven " to be suffered on Earth ...:)

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Please be understand MARITAL RAPE is a
    western feminist concept scripted to destroy families world
    wide. In india MARRIAGE as treated as Godly union and
    every woman treats husband as God ( patidev ). What
    happens inside their bedroom is # TheirChioce , state and
    laws cannot peep in their rooms. Husband has every right
    over his wife and carries the right to persuade her for sex. If
    the atmosphere gets too volatile , husband or wife can file
    for divorce . PROMOTING MARITAL RAPE , itself is a RAPE
    of MARRIAGE institution. Feminists promote this because
    they have vested interests , most of them are single oldies ,
    phased out of relationships. It makes them unbearable in
    accepting holy institution of marriage , they spit venom at
    every opportunity . Its sick that media is bulldozed by international illuminati and forcing the debate even when people are not comfortable with it . UN should refrain indulging with peaples culture . Its welcome Decission by
    government to moot and crush those naazi voices and
    feminists demons.

    Women have already advantages and they are misusing it , so goverment agenda should be to make 498 A and dv act Gender neutral and criminalise the Abuses of men by wives. New amendments in favour of women will make men's life even worse ( or it already worse ) . SIF , Confidare under the guidance of prominent MRAs staging a dharna at jantar man tar In newdelhi on 5 may. Please join and spread awareness because its not only about men , lot of women specially old parents and old parents languishing in jails because of false domestic laws , lakhs of suicide Among married men and their children are suffering , men are denied custody of children , lazy wives who rob half property of men and his existence ...........so on. ENOUGH OF WOMEN PRIVILEGES , SUPPORT MEN CAUSES # MyWifeMyRight # MenAgainstFemin
    ism #PurushAyog

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Roshan,

    You are creating a false equalency when you say that men are equally suffer from women.

    Until i hear about an incident where a husband is physically beaten by wife then burned alive by pouring kerosine over him, i wont accept that men also equally suffer. Some of the crimes committed by the man and his family on wife are so gruesome that even death penalty for the whole family seems less (this coming from a person who is against death penalty)

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  • gm, mlur

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    If it is forced marriage then?

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  • GANGARAM, MOODBIDRI

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    When marriage is SACRED,why the concept of MARITAL RAPE cannot be applied India? dont you guys thinK this contradictory to each other?

    IS this mean to say man can force to have sex with his wife without her consent? if yes where remains her dignity of body

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Ganganna,
    If there is such a thick wall of dignity between husband and wife, its not marriage.

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  • Well wisher, Udupi

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Well said Shankar, most of the women folk too would not support this.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Marriage is sacred we understood……But “Akshaya Dwithiya or Thrathiya” is also sacred in India too. Poorala sacred in India Aanda bill barpini husband Ge maatra

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Mr. Sachidanand,

    There is one day, a man will not get to pay the bill in his life until he becomes a husband. That is, when he refuses to take any dowry but asks his bride's side to bear all the expenses of his marriages.

    He orders that the reception should be in TMA Pai Hall, caterers should be of his choice and brings unaccounted number of baarati's with him. This one day, the bill does NOT come to him. Well, all his freaking out of this day, will end up as him being 'total bill payer' for the rest of his life.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Lydia,

    For once i could`nt agree with you more.

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  • Antonio DSilva, Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Without applying the concept of marital rape there are so many claims of marital rapes in India imagine if the concept of marital rape is legally applied in India?

    In a marriage a woman claims for an equal share of the man's wealth, financial support and everything and then tells him no you cannot have me whenever you desire.

    A woman is so blinded by her desires of getting liberated that she even goes to the extent of accusing a husband of raping her.

    But the million dollar question is:
    liberated from who, what and why?

    And unfortunately the wild west is working harder each day to liberate a woman.....

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Antonio,

    Liberation from being treated as a property.

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Wow..... people who disagree with me want to subjugate women.

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    And who says woman does not treat man as a property!

    Looks like you are a woman or a cross between both man and woman that you can think for both?

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Antonio,

    ''Looks like you are a woman or a cross between both man and woman that you can think for both?''

    So now you have to attack me personally to discredit what i have to say. Dont argue with me regarding who treats whome as property. Gather the facts then come to me with an credible argument.

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    A man and woman were created by God with distinct fit for purpose roles.

    The role of a man is to provide for the home
    and that of a woman to make the home

    both of these roles are endowed with equal and tremendous responsibilities

    and it is when one feels inferior that all hell breaks loose within the union of man and woman called the FAMILY.

    and then one wants to get liberated.

    I am talking here about the millions of ideal Indian families where either of the partners endure a lot of pain and sacrifices to ensure that they raise families with good values and respect for each other and who do not have to concoct marital sex as marital rape to disguise their inferiority complex.
    Yes I am for a well educated woman who may opt to work temporarily to support her husband to go over the bumpy part of the

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  • Zeitgeist, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Antonio,

    I cant take anyone seriously who brings up god to make a point. Anyways about the women being considered a property, look into your holy book which considers the same.

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Zeitgeist

    I have never said a woman or for that matter a man is PROPERTY.

    It is you who in your comment implied that a woman is a PROPERTY.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    "Ganda Hendira jagala Undu Malaguva Varege"

    If every forceful intercourse between married couple are treated as rape, the above Kannada saying will go meaningless.
    Every married men and women here in this forum will agree with me for the fact that all of the forced intercourse by any of the counterpart, ends up in mutual contented orgasm for both.
    If that doesn't happen, then its time for a counselling.

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  • India First, India

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    If sex without wife's consent is marital rape then Shopping without husband's consent is robbery !! Law should be equal for all..... !! Only for fun

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Erena Pathera kende “Shopping without husband's consent is robbery” Budedige dialogue SMS Malte……. Earr Bayyage Ellade Bale Bokka Tupe Pandal!!!!! Nana Daadana Devere Gati!!!!

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Shetre,
    Negative aad dethonodchi.
    Who knows, there will be pleasant surprise for you in the evening!

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    India First,

    You guys want a Graduate/PG bride but don't let her earn her shopping expenses, you guys deserved to be robbed !

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Lydia Madam….pls pardon…….fully agreed to pay shopping bill without any further question……………Merci my Lord Merciiiiiiiiiiiii

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Sachidanandanna,

    Atthigeg kuda vora SMS malpuvara ???

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  • India First, India

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mam, I will be happy to be robbed by my wife who left her job for our new born baby.... !!

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  • Anonymous,

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Ditching wife within weeks of marriage and then claiming as unmarried also sacred!!!

    DisAgree [21] Agree [16] Reply Report Abuse

  • A N Seshadri, Madhurai/Bangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    You r right.....Till you filling election form in 2014

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  • Valerian D'souza, Udupi / Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    If ethics and truthfulness is prevailing then only law can be enforced for the purpose it is formulated.
    If not there are all possibilities of mis-using / abusing the law.
    No amount of laws are going to better our lives.
    We are aware of the laws of protecting Dogs that have backfired on humans.
    Earlier humans were harming Dogs and now stray Dogs started harming humans including small children and specially travelers at late nights.

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  • Animal lover, Udupi

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    What do you mean by your last sentence about dogs, why did you drag them in midst of dirty humans, please don't they are innocent and divine, they starve without food for days if humans were starved they would kill each other for food,

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  • Valerian D'souza, Udupi / Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Dear Animal Lover,
    Please note I don't hate animals neither I hate humans.
    At the same time I can't tolerate animals harming innocent humans and humans harming innocent animals.
    Both should conduct themselves properly

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  • Animal lover, Udupi

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Mr valerian,
    But will you agree with me that humans are harmful than the dogs when it come to environment destruction. I try to put myself in the shoes of these animals and feel terribly sad for them,

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Advantage Modi ...

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  • Darryl Lobo, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Pappu makes frequent travels to Thai, Columbia, Canada, Italy, Singapore, Tashkent and others. Hope you now understand why he is not tieing nuptial knot.

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  • vidisha, Mumbai

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    You are so informative. Do you also travel with him for company.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Thu, Apr 30 2015

    Baarugu popinu masaala dose thiniyerena??

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