Raksha Bandhan: Of sibling affection, protection and bond for life


Harshini Brahmavar
Daijiworld Media Network

Aug 29: Every Raksha Bandhan is special for sisters because it builds a strong emotional bonding with their brothers. This Hindu festival calls forth a celebration of universal bond. This year Raksha Bandhan is being celebrated on Saturday, August 29 all over India.

On this day, sisters tie ‘Rakhi’ symbolically signifying their love and devotion towards their brothers. In response, the brothers pledge their love, affection and protection for their sisters from all perils.

The festival of ‘Raksha Bandhan’ is known by different names in different communities but the essence of the festival remains the same.

The ritual of tying the ‘Rakhi’ comes a day after ‘Rigupakarma’ which is usually performed by the Brahmins. Over the years, they have changed their ‘Upanayana’ thread and accompanied it by relevant rituals during the month of ‘Shravana’.

On this day, sisters bathe early in the morning and prepare a platter with a dye thali. It contains Rakhi, Kumkurn, rice grains, diya, incense and sweets. Before tying Rakhi, sisters say to their brothers ‘I am tying a Rakhi on you, like the one on mighty demon king Bali. Be firm, O Rakhi, do not falter’. Then she ties the sacred thread on the wrist of brother and gives him the sweets. On this occasion, sisters also pray for their long life. Brothers then go on to pledge to protect them from every peril.

The day is celebrated with great enthusiasm and siblings get an occasion to express their love for each other. Brothers offer gifts to their sisters as a token of affection. Some girls may even go on to demand expensive gifts from their brothers, making the best use of the opportunity!

Raksha Bandhan is also an occasion to celebrate brother-sister family bonds between cousins or distant family members and sometimes between brother-sisters who are not biologically related.

The colourful Rakhis are ideally made of silk with gold and silver threads. They are beautifully crafted, embroidered with sequins, and studded with semi precious stones.

The readymade Rakhis are colourful and made of funky threads and are easily available in the market. Girls sometimes experiment with rakhis and give them an artistic look.

According to a mythology, Rakhi was intended to be the worship of the sea-god Varuna. Hence, offerings of coconut to Varuna, ceremonial bathing and fairs at waterfronts accompany this festival.

There are also myths that describe the ritual which was observed by Indrani and Yamuna for their respective brothers Indra and Yama.

May this blessed bond only grow stronger.

  

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  • Rohith Shetty, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Alexander the Great and King Puru.

    According to one legendary narrative, when Alexander the Great invaded India in 326 BCE, Roxana (or Roshanak, his wife) sent a sacred thread to Puru, asking him not to harm her husband in battle. In accordance with tradition, Puru, the king of Kaikeya kingdom, gave full respect to the rakhi. On the battlefield, when Porus was about to deliver a final blow to Alexander, he saw the rakhi on his own wrist and restrained himself from attacking Alexander personally.

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  • Ramakrishna A K , Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Raksha Bandhan is a sacred festival when Brother vows to protect his Sister,
    (including Moral Police of Mangalore !)

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  • Alban D Souza, Udyavara/Bajjodi/Mumbai/Doha Qatar

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Happy Rakshabandan to all the readers! What a beautiful tradition. May God bless, keep and protect all the sisters of every families and give them a good happy life. HAPPY RAKSHBANDAN TO ALL READERS .

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  • A Reshma Monteiro, Dubai

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    I belive people will know the meaning of Raksha Bandhan,Somebody think otherwise,

    A R Monteiro
    Dubai

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Reshma, tell us your version ...

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  • yogesh, mumbai

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Raksha bandhan greetings

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  • Harsha Malhotra, Mangalore/New Delhi

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Happy Raksha Bandhan to all..
    We do not have any sisters...a sad fact.

    Behna ne bhai kee kalai se pyar bandha hai
    Pyar ke do tar se, sansar bandha hai
    Resham kee doree se sansar bandha hai

    What a beautiful tradition..having it's own meaning.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    All women excluding your wife are your Sisters.
    Please Care & Protect your Sisters ...

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  • Harsha Malhotra, Mangalore/New Delhi

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    It will be a good idea..if slain soldier's wife and daughters will tie 'rakhie' in the hands of 'terrorists'
    Let message go beyond the boundary..at least terrorism will decrease in some extent.
    Earlier day when mughals capture kingdoms..rajput women's use to tie 'rakhee' in the hands of 'mughals'.
    In the world..somewhere someone knows the meaning of 'sister and brother' relationship irrespective of any religion.
    Things will become good..only by 'love'.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Harsha, Going by your logic all girls should carry Rakhie in their purse to stop RAPE ...

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  • G Z t Kunte, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    Just observe the facts that have come out in Indrani Mukharji family while investigating Sheena Murder case. Brother-Sister Father-daughter every thing was permissive !

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  • ALOK, kadri

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    HAPPY RAKHSHA BHANDHAN , to all my brothers n sisters..


    Happy week end

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  • kumar, udupi

    Sat, Aug 29 2015

    HAPPY RAKSHBANDAN TO ALL READERS ..

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