Bangalore: Despite CM's Offer to Fund Higher Studies, PU Topper Married Off


Bangalore: Despite CM's Offer to Fund Higher Studies, PU Topper Married Off

Daijiworld Media Network - Bangalore

Bangalore, May 23: On May 12, Daijiworld had reported the dire situation of Shilpakala, a PU topper from a poor family whose dream of studying further had looked faint, until chief minister Yeddyurappa generously offered to fund her education.

Once the CM's offer came, everyone expected Shilpakala to continue her studies and achieve her dream of becoming an IAS officer.

But it has now been reported that instead of letting her live her dream, the girl was married off, that too to a college dropout.

Shilpakala had secured the third rank in the state in the arts stream, scoring 93.3 percent. She had been offered free admission to arts by her college and subsidy for her PU studies, which helped her bring thus far. However, after PU, the future seemed bleak and her parents were all set to get her married.

But timely help from Yeddyurappa, who directed the DC of Tumkur to fund her education, rekindled hopes and she even received Rs 10,000 from the district administration for her achievement.

"Pursue studies as much as you want. We will take care of your educational expenses," Yeddyurappa had told her.

But despite CM's efforts and the efforts of the DC to convince her parents to let her study further, she was married off to her maternal uncle's son Raghu at a ceremony on Sunday May 22 at Kolala in Tumkur.

It has now come to light that when the PU results were announced on May 11, she had already been engaged to Raghu.

The girl's father had wanted her to discontinue her studies soon after SSLC, in which she had excelled, but on the insistence of her mother she was allowed to finish her PU. Moreover, she is now 18, and eligible for marriage.

The deputy commissioner informed that a report on the matter would be sent to the chief minister, but as the girl is already married, there are little hopes of any reversion to studies, except if her in-laws agree.

Shilpakala's story is perhaps one among the many that occur everyday in rural India. It is disheartening to see that even when help and opportunities are offered, they are rejected when it comes to girls' education. Shilpakala's brother is pursuing a course at an industrial training institute.

 

  

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  • D Bhat, Naikinkatte/US

    Tue, May 24 2011

    The problem is that after marriage responsibilities will invariably increase even if her husband/in-laws are very understanding. Unless there is great trust simple things can lead to quarrels and end of study. Of course, if they have a child, all studies are over for her. So, I think,it would be best if she had taken up Yeddyurappas offer instead of getting married and then studying.

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  • ashenoy, mangloor

    Tue, May 24 2011

    Why are we politicising this? Education alone does not guarantee a good life. In general,one can live a life without formal higher education- business, farming, etc etc.. ZShe has ahigh school diploma.Its girls and parents choice if they can afford. Does anybody know their family situation? Yeddys money does not guarantee a life to this family.
    Marriage during parents lifetime is a good thing. Of course she can continue her studies with her husbands cooperation if sheand her husband are willing.

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  • Melroy, Dubai

    Tue, May 24 2011

    Thank you Mr. Premnath Shetty for the real story.

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  • Lancelot N. Tauro, Manglore - Doha Qatar

    Tue, May 24 2011

    Whatz the problem in continuing the studies for married person? Promise is a Promise which has to be fulfilled by the CM, thats all. Rest all Bakwas...

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  • JRAO,

    Mon, May 23 2011

    If the marriage is forced one those who are responsible for this action should be punished and the girl to be aloowed to stay in hostel till she completes her education and then let the girl take her own decision to accept the boy or reject. It is DC to see the CM's offer reach the concerned.

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  • Ambrose Naveen, Bangalore/Mangalore

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Dear All
    Please do not comment Until and unless we have the clear story of this girl. I saw in Times this Morning that her Husband is going to sponser her Education and he will support her for further studies.
    I saw one Hindi Movie in which amitabh bachchan has Helped his wife to continue her studies and who in term became a IAS Officer.

    Hope this becomes ture in this case as well

    Wish you all the best Shilpakala and Raghu. CM Can still Sponser her Education..

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  • PREMNATH SHETTY, Bangalore

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Here is the fact as per times of india
    TUMKUR: Shilpa Kala of Tumkur overcame grinding poverty to score 94% in her Class 12 exam. When her parents expressed their inability to fund her further studies, help poured in, even from chief minister B S Yeddyurappa.

    But her parents Maranna and Tulasamma decided it would be better if she was married and on Sunday, she was married to businessman Raghu at Kolala village in Tumkur. Shilpa said her husband would help her continue her education and decided not to take the CM's offer of college fees.

    Shilpa Kala told TOI: "My marriage invitations were distributed even before the results. I never expected to get such good marks. I'm grateful to chief minister Yeddyurappa and so many people who offered to help me. My husband has assured me he'll bear all my educational expenses and that's why I rejected the CM's help."

    Shilpa Kala's father Maranna said: "We're very poor and my wife and I are ageing. Results don't matter to us. It's our responsibility to get her married and we chose our relative Raghu for her."
    Raghu told TOI: "I'm proud to marry her - she is a great achiever. I won't discontinue her education and will support her till whatever level she wants to go."

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  • vincy, shamboor/Bangkok

    Mon, May 23 2011

    I think the state politics will send BJ and RS to convince the groom.The team that sent for rescue of girls stuck at mr.Lance lot Pinto will be perfect army for this mission.

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  • anil lobo, Valencia

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Dont believe yeddy he will not give single pie only promises

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai / Mapusa

    Mon, May 23 2011

    I feel so sorry for this girl.
    Why did she and her family loose trust in Yeddurappa?
    Can we all join in, pool our resources to get this girl back to college?

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  • Jai Shetty, Dubai/Mangalore

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Thanks to our CM & now days its very difficult to get good minister like him in India.

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  • praveen poojari, udupi

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Yeddi should resign taking responsibility of the this and ban RSS,BD, SRS for conspiring behind this.

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  • felix dsouza, shirva udupi

    Mon, May 23 2011

    What Rajaram said is correct, we should not believe these politiciance, chiefminiter has promised something to world cup winners, does any one knows if they have got it,shilpakala you choose your own way good luck

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Studies could be continued even after marriage. Let her go to college for studies..!!?? Let CM pay for it..!!?? marriage not the end of the world.

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  • Rajaram, Bangalore

    Mon, May 23 2011

    You did it right..Do not beleive in the promises made by politicians..All the best to you and Raghu

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  • A. S. Mathew, U.S.A

    Mon, May 23 2011

    This is a very terrible scar of
    the society, that the parents,
    especially the poor sections of
    the society force their children
    (mainly the girls) into marriages
    by bypassing the personal freedom
    of their children. The financially
    struggling parents want to get
    rid of their heavy parental
    obligations and responsibility at the earliest, for which we can't
    fully blame them. However, many
    lives are being wasted and suffered
    due to this terrible trend of the society.

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  • rameez, udupi/muscat

    Mon, May 23 2011

    Please dont publish such news. It hurts.

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  • Karan Pinto, Udupi/Dubai

    Mon, May 23 2011

    It looks like she was forced to marry against her will. Now, atleast we can convince her in laws to allow her to study further.

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  • DEV, Mangalore, India

    Mon, May 23 2011

    The media should approach the girl & find out a clear picture on the girls conset for the marriage,as well her will to persue the education further,the in laws must be convinced to let her continue the studies & allow her to choose a carreer of her choice ,every girl must have the right to acquire the education & choose the carrer of their wish specially when they prove their mettle.Hope the parents & inlaws understand her & allow her to continue,best of luck & all the best Shilpakala.

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