Mangaluru: Shannel D'Souza leaves behind valuable lessons on child safety


Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (SP)

Mangaluru, Jun 1: In the tragic demise, five-and-half year-old Shannel D'Souza, who was alone when she fell down from her eighth floor apartment complex in Shakthinagar here, has left warning bells ringing for families which are too callous about the safety of their children, little noticing that even things which they consider to be of minor consequence like a bucket of water, LPG cylinder or a knife can pose grave danger to children.

There have been instances in which spoons and marbles have got stuck in the throats of children and caused their deaths. There have also been instances where small children on the way of reversing cars have been crushed under the car wheels.

Particularly those who live in apartment complexes have to be doubly careful about the children in the family and their friends who might be playing together, and might overlook risks in an enthusiasm to play. Some elder should keep an eye on children when they venture nearer to unsafe windows, doors, or balconies. Balconies should always be made safe by providing grills to a proper height and sliding glass doors. If the verandas are open, a grown family member needs to supervise the children closely. Windows without grills in any part of the house at a low height pose grave dangers.

Slippery bathrooms or bucketful of water kept unattended have proven to be grave mistakes many a time. Small children should never be left unattended or allowed to use lifts or escalators when they are alone. When going out of the apartment, care should be taken that if there are children inside the house, responsible elders who are able to take care of them should be present.

Children should be repeatedly warned of the dangers of peeping through windows or grills, and they should be stopped from going near dangerous objects like electrical equipment and things that can fall on them if shaken.

While all the precautions which need to be taken cannot be listed exhaustively, people have to closely watch a house that would be their prospective home before going in, to find out whether it is safe for their children in the first place. Naughtier the children, there is added need for the parents to be doubly careful.

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  • roque dsouza, mumbai vasai

    Sat, Jun 02 2018

    may her soul rest in eternal peace Amen

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  • John B. Monteiro, Bondel, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    I deeply condole the tragic death and pray for the parents to bear their great loss.
    Without being judgmental in the present instance, I feel we do not pay sufficient attention to the safety of our children. This applies to educated affluent people as well. For instance, at airports there are two potential danger spots. One is the escalator that takes passengers up and down the floors and the other is the luggage conveyor, especially at the arrival/collection point. Both have record of accidents, specially involving children.
    As a frequent air traveller, I am sorry to say parents allow their children to play with the conveyor belt .Two things can happen/have happened. The outsized luggage can hit the leaning children and hurt them. Their hands can get caught in the folds of the conveyor belt slats and drag them along their moving path.
    I have drawn the attention of parents to these antics by over-pampered kids playing with conveyor belt only to invite severe dirty reaction.
    Without being pretentious, the right word to use in this context is grille, not grill.

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  • JOHN, MANGALORE/KOBE,JAPAN

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    THE SORROW AND PAIN IF A MOTHER LOSES A CHILD AT VERY YOUNG AGE WITHOUT ANY SICKNESS IS TOO MUCH.. HERE HOW THE MOTHER WILL FEEL!!! IT IS NOT EASY TO BRING UP A CHILD FOR 5 YEARS. HOW MANY SLEEPLESS NIGHTS THIS MOTHER HAVE SPENT...
    NOTHING HAPPENS IN OUR LIVES WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD!!
    ONLY THING WE SHOULD KEEP IN MIND
    AGE 3 TO 6 IS AN IMITATING AGE! AT THIS AGE CHILDREN TRY TO IMITATE ANY PERSON OR ANY THING DISPLAYED ON T.V. NEVER SEE IN FRONT OF CHILDREN ANY STUNT MOVIES OR SERIALS
    DURING THIS AGE ALSO CHILDREN ASK SEVERAL QUESTIONS
    DURING THIS AGE CHILDREN ARE CURIOUS TO KNOW
    IF MOTHER WARNS A CHILD DONT GO NEAR THE GALERY,U WILL FALL!!OUT OF CURIOSITY CHILDREN ALSO TRY TO CLIMB!! AFTERALL THEY ARE CHILDREN..
    IF YOU HAVE TIME IT IS NICE TO TELL THEM STORIES OF GREAT PEOPLE AS MOTHER JEEJABAI TELLING STORIES OF GREAT PEOPLE TO SHIVAJI IN THE SAME SPIRIT HE GREW UP..
    AND FINALLY BEGIN YOUR DAY BY THANKING AND PRAISING GOD!!NO MATTER WHICHEVER RELIGION U BELONG TO.. AFTER ALL THERE IS ONE GOD. AND WE ALL REACH ONE DAY ONE DESTINY...

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  • Prashanth, Bantval/ Bangalore

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    Trust me.. we Indians have taken a solemn vow that we will never learn to make safety a priority. You can see how many people don't use helmets or seat belts. But we definitely cry like the most responsible humans ever born in the aftermath of an incidence like this.

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  • C.A. Cardoza, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    RIP sweet heart.

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    RIP Shannel D'Souza. It is sad and most unfortunate for the parents to lose a young child so suddenly. May God give them peace and comfort to all the loved ones.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    It is the most tragic incident because the human life loss is irreparable and the children are especially needed to be care round the clock. RIP little Angel.

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  • Maria, Moodbidri

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    RIP sweet heart. After few days people will forget the incident. By the way how many youths lost life by venturing into sea & muddy ponds?

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  • Maria, Moodbidri

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    RIP sweet heart.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Bengaluru/Katapadi

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    ANY NEGLEGENCE OR LACK OF CARE TO THE CHILDREN MAY ENDANGER THE INNOCENT LIFE OF THE CHILD WHICH CANNOT BE GAINED BACK.

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  • Pavan, India

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    RIP

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  • Af,,, Mangalore

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    People are ready buy crores worth flat but dont even think to spend another 10 thousands for safety requirements, A big lesson to everyone.

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  • I wish I was there, Bahrain

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    Many parents still don't get it. how to take care of kids.
    Innocent girl lost her life because of sleep walking.

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  • Robin, Byndoor

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    It is difficult to imagine situation. Not only to parents, all who saw that girl in the apartment and school - difficult to digest the pain.

    The points here to think are:

    This is not the first time the tragedy happened in Karnataka. People including the builders read news papers and see news channels. But they build and go. The people who stay in the apartments are somebody else.

    The authorities who gave permission to build should check and give OK slip to occupy after thorough check after the building came up. If minimum essential security features are not implemented or if any security vulnerabilities found should be told to correct before issuing the conformity slip.

    Builders, authorities and also the people who blindly purchase or take the flats on lease should learn from these incidents.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    We learn only from Tragedies.
    RIP Shannel ...

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  • judith, mumbai

    Fri, Jun 01 2018

    very good article.. must read.

    RIP angel!!

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