Udupi: Gloomy incident ends eight-year long love life


Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (SP)

Udupi, Aug 31: Sandesh Kulal and Sowmyashree were in love with each other for eight long years and understood each other well. They did not have any insurmountable problem before them. Still, both died in close succession perhaps due to the stubborn attitude of the youth.

It is gathered that both their families had given their consent for their marriage. But, the youth had cited certain reasons and wanted the wedding to be postponed. Sowmyashree's father, in the meantime, suffered cardiac arrest. He had been hospitalized and was discharged from the hospital a few days back. Worried over the uncertainty of life, he had expressed his desire to see his daughter's marriage before something happens to him.


Sowmyashree (left) and Sandesh

As the youth was not prepared for early marriage and was delaying it, the girl reportedly decided to look for alternative alliances to meet her father's wishes. Sources say that the youth had agreed to this proposal during the talks in the police station.

On the fateful day of the incident, Sandesh had met Sowmyashree near Ashirwad petrol station where the two talked for long. During the course of the discussions, tempers rose, it is said.

Later, the youth drew out a knife, and attacked the girl with it before turning the knife on himself.

 

 

 

 

 

  

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  • John Tauro, M'lore

    Thu, Sep 02 2021

    Akhir Sandesh ne diya duniya ko ek dukh bhara sandesh jiski ko umeed hi nahi thi.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Cynthia, Dk "Flavs....so what ? For searching love, there's no age bar. Who said so ? Then what about those weekend relationships? That time age is beyond the bar? " Wow ! you have cleared my wrong notion about age and scope for making love. I will bear in mind and explore future opportunities. I got all the skills to see happy ending.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Maan gaya Cynthia. Ho zamane me bhi Ek thi ladki Cynthia, aur thum hamco yaad dilathi hai. Mera thakdeer dekho.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    That means my comments, my messages remind your first love? Woww....interesting Flavs. Hope and pray you will meet yiur first love very soon. Because, you always remember her every now and then. May god help you to neet your angel......In every lady, you try to see her. So yiu cannot love others except your first....god bless

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Where are our other comments writers ? Good guys ! Appreciated your silence. Shankar not applicable to you.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Aur commentators means who yaa ? Kahi ...me tho nahi ??othu maka deevn comment gi ? This is not doubt ...

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    @ Veer, Nagpur "Agar Meri Nahi Ho Sakti Tho Kisi Ka Bi Nahi Ho Sakti." Phir kya hogaya ? Maar diya ? Ek Zamane me meh bi isae hi sochtha tha . Dhil tho pagal hai. baad me prem gayab aur ladki bi doosre ke baho meh. Kya karoo ?

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Kya karu ? Matlab flavs ? Jaise aapke baho me dusri ladiki lockdown ho jaathi same vaise hee ditto....copy....aapki pehli ladki ke baho aur koi lock down ho gaya....bas 😑 simplest maths 🤣

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  • John Tauro, M'lore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    It says the boy cited certain reasons and wanted to postpone the marriage. Reasons including financial constraints, need not be permanent. Some reasons are uncertain or unexpected such as the health condition of the girl’s father. At this juncture whatever be his reasons, he should have considered her father’s situation sympathetically and should have agreed for an early marriage. Feeling sad for loss of two young lives for no big reason.

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  • sai, udupi

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    only if they wer admitted to hospital at that moment they would've been alive... i saw the video circulating saying "body muttodchi pander , iruverla jeeva uller aal la pondond ullol" and that video was 2.5 mins and god knows how long they wer there before bleeding out!

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  • Evans C Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA.

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    sai, udupi, I fully with your comments.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Acchu, the right person to impart knowledge above Love life and the benefits of love is Bhandarkar but he is not to be seen at all. He had a big list and second myself. I never regretted. Still I am javing that charisma but ahe bar remonds me I have crossed the limit😫🤦‍♂️

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Flavs....so what ? For searching love, there's no age bar. Who said so ? Then what about those weekend relationships? That time age is beyond the bar? Baari....poora gottasa maka what happens there...i have spies

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    True Indian, Mangalore - from your logic or love philosophy you do not sound or Indian origin but fully Western way of life. Extracurricular activities only before marriage and once committed in marriage bond we are in the cage strictly.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    As if you all stay in cage till life long ? Never ventured out ??? Bhandar sir was my best friend in daiji...don't know how come he doesn't remember me also ??🥲🥲Hmmm hmm 😒

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  • True Indian, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Y to fall in love.... and be cage.... When marriage age comes, search someone suitable and get married. Till we get married we should be free and enjoy our life rather than fall in love and sit like bird in the cage

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    ಪೊನ್ನನ ಸಹವಾಸ ದೀತಿನಕುಲು ಏರ್ಲ ಉದ್ದಾರ ಆತಿಜ್ಜಿ , ಇಂದು ಹಿರಿಯನಕ್ಲೆನ ಪಾತೆರ. Experienced talk. This is always true. Relationship with girl gives pleasure in the beginning, it will definitely have a worst end.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    JOSSEY, Jawani Diwani mera bi wogi haal hai. My first love when I was 17 and she was 12 inafatuation . Lasted few years.

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  • Prakrithi, Mangalur

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    17 and 12 ????? U both were vry slower than tortoise 2 fall in lov. Shld hv started when u wer 6 and she was 4. Dat is y, i cal u Ploughin

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  • Imtiaz Ahmed, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    What kind of love was this? Man attacked his lover and killed her. Very sad to hear this.

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Really hard to judge human. In 8 years of relationship She never realized that he can reach to this level..

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    Jossey, ttrue love story. Most of us have gone through similar phase in life. I too had gone through rype of puppy love when I was 17 and my Angel was 12 all infatuation but at that age we are not in a real state of mindbut mad love. All short lived. Finally, its the blessings to accept that matches are made in Heaven. Some firm relations see happy ending some go on exploring. Only time will prove. Now all such stages are over.🙏

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  • Prakrithi, Mangalur

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Dnt be depressed n 😡upset. Omitting comes. Go search 4 ua angel n start writing comments . So i cal u Ploughin. Gadde uludu

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  • Anand Poojary, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    He came with knife means, his intention was not good. Good he died. Othewise he has to rot in jail for life long. Looks like he was Using her.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    At the age of 14 I was in love with a girl from my village but the grass always looked greener other side ...

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  • Sanjay, Udupi

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    I cannot believe this

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  • Sunil D'Souza, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    The person responsible for that was Mr Harmones.....it actually blinds the logical part of your thinking and brain like an anaesthetic

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Thane

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    You sound like Munna Bhai MBBS ...

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  • Prakrithi, Mangalur

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Parents wer sending u all 2 school or to do romance in da fields ? Den looking out 4 greener pasture

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  • KS Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    Eight years is a lot of time and in spite of all these years of relationship, he could still kill her. The guy was clearly insensitive towards her if he came ready with a knife and probably did not have marriage plans even after being in relationship for 8 years. Really sad for her and a benefit of doubt that she had after all trusted him to do the right thing, which for her turned out to be disastrous. Ladies, please learn from this incident. We are not in the western world. If it does not happen in 2~3 years it will never happen.

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  • Shashi Shetty, Santhoor

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Ego played it's role. it was not that , he wanted to marry and settle with her and give her self respect. but, he wanted her to be his possession and use her at the whim. for him it was not the person in his lover mattered but, her body and flesh which mattered and very thought of thinking with his dirty mind that, it will be of someone else someday and he will lose the authority made him become a cannibal. its the upbringing solely responsible to culture. Mother's are the first culprit who objectifies the girls in the family and we are seeing this day in and day out in every middle class Indian family. the syllabus must be changed, time of taking MCP out of our boys have come. the bravado of looking at girls as a sex object must be done away from the beginning. Boys must he watched closely during their formative years who are their friends and whom they are going with instead of constantly supervising girls.

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  • Cris, Santhekatte

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    My mother was one of the few people who talked to her for a little on the same fateful day. Me and my mom went to the bank where she worked in the morning. i stayed in my car while my mom went for bank work and she had helped my mom. Evening came and my mom was shocked to hear the news from neighbours. How sudden and tragic this was. May her soul Rest in Peace.

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  • Veer, Nagpur

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    Agar Meri Nahi Ho Sakti Tho Kisi Ka Bi Nahi Ho Sakti.

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  • Golibajje, Mangalore

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    Never take decisions in a fit of rage or in the moment. Such decisions will only and only cause irreparable damages like this. Things happen, some times they don't workout,you just have to move on for the good. Killing others or hurting yourself will do no good,you are just worsening the situation. Think that it's an opportunity to start life afresh and have a new beginning that's all. I hope their souls rest in peace.

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  • Sunil D'Souza, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 01 2021

    Is it ok to eat Golibaje in a fit of rage?

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  • Vicky Chopra, Mangalore/New Delhi

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    One of saddest incident gloomed in udupi region never be forgotten too easily. Youngsters lost there lives for there wrong move and more of misunderstanding. How one can kill his partner having affair and loved for eight years period. How easily can finish her off carrying knife in a bag. Satan played a vital role. Destiny after all. So horrific way killed will affect in mind of others.

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  • real kujuma, kodial

    Tue, Aug 31 2021

    destiny and fate play a vital part in everyone's life..cannot say what will happen to whom..very sad ending to a beatuiful love story..may their souls rest in peace.

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