Mangalore: Filmy Style Affair - Youth Attempts Suicide for Lover's Sake


Mangalore: Filmy Style Affair - Youth Attempts Suicide for Lover's Sake

Pics: Dayanand Kukkaje
Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (PS/VA)

Mangalore, Feb 25: Being in love is a sweet feeling but when the same love is under snag or hindrance it can lead to adverse consequences. One such incident of ‘troubled love affair’ has taken place in the city resulting in a problematic situation.

Unable to bear the opposition to marriage from the girl's family, the lover attempted suicide by consuming insecticides here on Thursday February 24.








Vinod Wickson D’Souza (25), who is battling for life, has been admitted to Father Muller Hospital, Kankanady. He is the son of Jossy D’Souza, and a resident of Padushedde Bondel. The girl has been identified as Sandhya Shaila Misquit (23), daughter of John Misquith, a resident of Padavinangady.

Sandhya was a lecturer at a private college in Kulshekar. The duo were in love since six years. Vinod, with the intention of settling in life had gone to Afghanistan for work. Before going, he wedded his lover Sandhya through registered marriage.

After a year in Afghanistan, the girl forced him to come back to Mangalore and accordingly he came back and was working in Sony Ericsson showroom for a period of 3 months.

However, the parents of the youth, after learning about their register marriage, wholeheartedly accepted their love. But the girl’s parents did not accept their relation.

Following some dramatic move, they called Vinod’s mother to their house, and told her that they would rather see their daughter jumping into a well than let her stay with Vinod.

Hurt by their attitude the boy’s parents consulted the priest of Bondel church who had agreed to bless the couple.

Amidst all this, the girl’s parents managed to brainwash her and forcibly made her tell Vinod that she does not love him anymore and would not stay with him.

Deeply disturbed by the sudden developments, Vinod took the extreme step of ending his life and attempted suicide. His parents rushed him to hospital. The doctors have said that his liver and intestine have been damaged. He has been kept in the ICU.

The girl's parents' greed for money has caused all these problems, alleged Vinod’s parents.

Incidentally, the girl and her parents are absconding and their house too is locked.

  

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  • ABC,, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Wed, Mar 02 2011

    Thanks for advising the suicide is not only the solution to the problem and money is not the only thing required to live....I too had a love marriage to a Muslim guy,was a christian before....but when my parents came to know abt this they stopped speaking to me for the reason i got maried to a muslim....they think this is againt the society......what do you have to say to those parents who dont understand their childrens wish to marry some...i am happy to day with my hubby, inlaws and blessed with a sweet sone...but still niither they speak nor they have tried to understand me......but they are read to get ma bro married to a girl whom he loved....the reason is she is a christian....diffrentiating b/w 2 religions is in the blood of the elders.....

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  • violet rajesh dsouza , israel

    Tue, Mar 01 2011

    Hi vinod be get well soon the good god is with u forever we will pray for u to get sandya as a life partner ok good luck

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  • adil shiekh dubai, mangalore,Dubai

    Mon, Feb 28 2011

    Beware, arrange marriage 80 to 85% succusfull than love marriage, only about 20 to 25% love marriage succusfull by luck.In this case Mrs Sandya and her family responsible such a poor guy wickson,dont be weak wickson God will help u and we all r pray 4 recovery soon, be a strong guy dont do such bad thing in future.All is well.

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  • Shiva, Kota/Dubai

    Mon, Feb 28 2011

    Love. LIve your life with love.Ok nobody appreciates. But dont die for love nobody recognises and values. Valuable life is lost like a Needle in Haystack.

    I pray god vinod may recover fast and marry sandhya.

    God forbideen something happens wrong, No wonder sandhya will marry anytoher boy and be free from it slowly and sheis right. Then the life of vinod is a page in the history of the family, relatives and freinds.

    come back vinod plz come back. life is precious and you cant leave like that.

    Hope to receive from Daiji


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  • Prakash, Thottam

    Mon, Feb 28 2011

    Get well soon Vinod...dont worry Good God is with you...he will help you forever

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  • Karan Pinto, katapadi/Dubai

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    We most of readers would like to know how Vinod is recovering and we all pray for him. Please if possible. Thank you.

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  • solomon, manglore

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    if the same girl had ran with bus driver of other caste boy, her parents wouldn't have shown their this atitude

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalve, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    Those who fall in love should know the conduct of each other not the wealth. If the couples are loveable, trustworthy to each other and living truthfully that is the peaceful life. If a person is addicted to alcohol, cigarettes, illicit affairs, smuggling business, robbing desires and gambling on all these activities humans will acquire wealth but they cannot buy peaceful life in the acquired wealth. Jesus clearly says for both men and women
    Matthew 19:9. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalve, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    Dear Mr. John Dmello, Belman, I agree to your comment.
    Further more I would like to add something out of the subject matter here:
    The marriage is a Holy Institution, a sacrament with prayers an oath is taken before all the gatherings, the bride and the bridegroom are taking Holy Communion. God is love and in Holy Communion God is in us/omnipresence.
    Every parent should teach their children that suicide is not an option for disgusting in life and should face life at any cost. Money is nothing. It is only a means of transaction. The means and desires of humans will never end unless the humans realize the love. The means and desires will not compensate love of humans, love of our parents, love of children, love of couples and love of Lord our God.

    Many modern couple doesn't heed the guidance from the Gospels and writing of St. Paul.
    St. Paul Clearly says in 1 corinthians 7: 2. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
    3. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
    4. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
    5. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
    Continued…

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  • lavina , mumbai

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    vinod pls take care of urself ,its time u realise what r ur priorities and u have some duty towards ur parents who have given u so much till today ,atleast u should have thought about them before takin this step,, its not too late recover soon and take over everything

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  • Anina Dsouza, MUMBAI

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    Vinod, we all are praying for you and for your family members. Get well soon. God is there with you, so you need not worry.
    WE ALL LOVE YOU*******

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  • Abdul Narayan Desouza, REGISTAN

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    Karan i totally agree with you and at the same time it is the duty of the parents of the girl to control their child. Inspite of knowing their love affair they could have taken steps to solve this matter intitallly.
    it is evidently wrong on Sandhya's and her parent's part.
    This is the sign how she has been brought up.
    Sandhya and their whole family members to be blamed !!!!!!!!!!

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  • Karan Pinto, Katapadi/Dubai

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    I have seen many comments against girl and her parents. Every parent wishes that their daughter marries decent guy who is having good education or decent job and financially sound to build family. For Vinod, it is time to recover and and get settled in life. If not Sandhya, there are many fishes in the pond. Dont Worry.

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  • victor, d'souza

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    Its nt wrong being in love..and its of the same caste..the gals parents should have supported..

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  • Matilda Maxim Lobo, Karkala - Dubai

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    I do agree that sucide is not ultimate solution.. The very young generation is suffering from this World wide..the parents should understand as they are mature and help the children to put them in posotive , constructive way..as i know even today some mother in laws try to put dispute in between their married son in law and daughter in laws.. really sad.. these incidents among Christian Families..

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  • Nikita Pereira, Mangalore

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    ppl stop posting filmy dialogues here. this is a serious matter. n parents feeding their kid n growing them up is not a favour they hav done. its their duty to do so n the promise the parents gv in front of the alter while christening their child. n i favor Vinod & Sandhya in their marriage. parent need to realise tat their children hav grown up n trust their judgement n hav the right to marry the person the love n wanna live with for the rest of their life n not deny their happiness. Vinod u sudnt have consumed poison n harmed urself but face life as it throws things at u... u r lawfully wedded n no one can deny the fact its very common these days wen a couple has to go far to earn a living... all tat is left now to do is pray for ur recovery n whether u parents agree o not find the gal n marry her in a church n go on in life... sooner o later everyone will hav to accept the fact of ur love & faithfulness.
    gals been brainwashed & threatened by their parents is very common but sometimes we gals need to fight for our rights and happiness n put our foot down... Sandhya come out of hiding, make use of the right and laws and fight for ur love. god is love. and its difficult to go to god without fighting evil with out good nature. i wish u best of luck & hope for a happy ending for u both.

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  • John Dmello, Belman

    Sun, Feb 27 2011

    This is what happens when we go away from God. For Christians marriage is between Man, Woman and God. If God is not involved in the marriage, it tends to lead to a disaster. Both Vinod and Sandhya are to be blamed for this sad situation. Children once they become adults look down upon their parents as their enemies. The very parents who have given so much love and care in bringing up the children, fed them, taught them to walk, took them to school, gave them good education and all necessary things of life so that their children come up in life. Every parent wants to see child happily married according to their customs and beliefs but see what their child does.

    The child forgets all that is done by the parents and hurts them by taking important decisions without their knowledge. The end result we can all see, have seen and will see in the future. To all those youths, please do not hurt your parents or you will face disaster in your lives.

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Anybody any further on this news? how is Vinodh doing now?

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  • wilson dsouza, bajpe

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    In this case surely,sandhya shaila did mistake.we hate shaila

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  • Proud Indian gal, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Mr.Ambrose Naveen,Mangalore/Bangalore.
    DoNOT SAY ALL GALS R CHEATS.WHAT ABOUT THOSE GIRLS WHO GOT BETRAYED BY THEIR LOVE,WHO BECAME PREGNANT AND DIE IN THE NAME OF HONOUR ,BECOME A PREY OF HONOUR KILLINGS.
    This gal sandhya is brainwashed cant u read that and might be out of parents fear she quit in love,so y blame other gals.When it comes to LOVE BETRAYAL,IT'S 50-50 CASE BOTH MAN AND WOMAN R RESPONSIBLE.BY THE WAY I LL NEVER TRUST ANY MEN,THE WAY THEY SEE GALS IN BUS,THE WAY THEY ADJUST THEIR MIRRORin AUTO,TAXI,MOLESTING ETC.i AM SICK OF IT.For ALL MEN WOMAN R THEIR LUST CUISINE.THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT IS BITTER FOR MEN.
    -LOYAL FEMINIST(MEN HATER,EXCEPT HER DAD)

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  • LEVIN RUDOLF DSOUZA, MUMBAI

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    hi vinod , pls. take my advice . In life , we must never CHASE 3 things . (1).BUS , (2).TRAIN , (3).GIRL . becauseIF ONE GOES , ANOTHER ONE DEFINITLY COMES. pls get well soon , praying for u.

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  • Lloyd D'souza, Dubai/Surathkal

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Action should be taken against girl's family,but what Vinod did was wrong.He had many ways to solve this problem.
    Solutions:He could have brought this issue into higher authorities of Church & they could have solved it talking to eachother face to face both the parties(girls side & boys side)
    2.If these couples got married legally,Vinod had right to solve this through by Law.
    3.As they were married legally they could have settled seprately or he could have brought this girl to his home soon after marriage.

    There were many solutions my frnd Vinod.

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  • Deepak, Mangalore/Dubai

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    I guess Vinod has taken extreme step,but the girls parents & girl should be penalised & should bear consequences of being cruel...end of the day its boy & girl stays together & not parents , they can only support..

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  • Vishal D'Souza, Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    This is what happening in our Christian community. If the bride had loved a guy from other community & if he is a conductor or driver & if he don't even have education then the parents might have agreed to that. but when it comes to Christian grooms, bride & their parents expect wealth & status & they have many more conditions. It's very sad in christians & there are thousands of Vinod's who are not married due non availability of brides who expect high. This happens only due to brides parents & relatives who expect everything hi-fi for thier bride.

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  • flavian a. N., Bajpe/Neermarga

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    This is reallly a sad thing..... Love should end happily with marriage... ""Vinod"""" had so many ways to consult and solve the problems..... but he did foolish thing by committing sucide attempt.... Flavian Bajpe/Neermarga

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  • Athydxb, Manipal / Sharjah

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Dear Vinod, you have shown true love and proved, now the rest life just live for yourself anf ur parents who are understands ur feeling and been with your side. (never think about suicide again) may allah bless you and get well soon..

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  • Ethan, Florida/Mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    "Vishwasagatha" in Kannada or "Breach of Trust" in English applies to IPC section Central Government Act 405. Criminal breach of trust. Whoever, being in any manner entrusted with property, or with any dominion over property, dishonestly misappropriates or converts to his own use that property, or dishonestly uses or disposes of that property in violation of any direction of law prescribing the mode in which such trust is to be discharged, or of any legal contract, express or implied, which he has made touching the discharge of such trust, or willfully suffers any other person so to do, commits" criminal breach of trust"
    This can be applied when a spouse or a person is requested legally to take over a property for various reasons, when the spouse or person to whom the property has been bequeathed refuses to part or confiscate inappropriately or disposes it without the consent of the partner!
    There are cases of such nature which I personally aware of…persons who do this please be aware “Breach of Trust” is a criminal offence and can be punished by fines and imprisonment!

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  • Ashok, Dubai

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Hi Jerry Moras, Canada - Nagesh Mamu is a hero. Because some narrow minded minorities treating him as a villian. He is true Indian & Hindu. He is a straight foreward, complete man. There is no bias in his comments. Some minorities can not digest his true comments. Jai ho Nagesh & Jai Ho Daiji. Keep writting. I am here just because of Nagesh Mamu's comments.

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  • PSL Abu Dhabi, Kundapur/Abu Dhabi

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    I strongly condemn whatever happened is wrong, but vinod wouldn't have taken extreme steps and spoil everybody’s peace instead of wise decisions. Every problem there is solutions. It’s not wise decision end up life with suicide.

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  • sham, dubai/mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    mr nagesh today you are right....

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  • Reena, Mangalore/Dubai

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Vinod, Many people will come and suggest or advice you, the person who is actually undergoing the pain only knows it, Be strong always, forget about past what happened, come out with new life, ITS YOUR LIFE..JUST DONT LOOSE HOPES...FACE IT...WISH YOU ALL THE SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE...regards
    Reena/Dubai

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  • sweety, mlr

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Mr Llloyd .don blame vinod..we all in some way hurt parents..

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  • reckson pinto, taccode/dubai

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    Love is starting from hearts and ending from tears......its a real thought.......so who is making love have to purchase one bed sheet because hand towel is not enogh to wipe their tears........

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  • reckson pinto, taccode/dubai

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    manish u r wrong here.....love is not starting from any caste or any community.......not b blame any community here......suicide is not be a solution 4 any problems.....we will pray for ur early recovery dr bro....

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  • sweety, mlr

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    very bad comment Jonathan.its aesy to preech..but only d person who is undergoin d pain knows it..

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  • sweety, mangalore

    Sat, Feb 26 2011

    i agree wit harry..but in tis case it is clear tat its wrong from sandya's side.otherwise she would not run instead of facing..

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  • Fredrick Castelino, Udyavara

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    The only remedy to the above incident is that both the families should compromise with each other and immediately after recovery of Mr. Vinod, marriage to be solemnised in the Church and the issue to be ended emicably.

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  • TSPA, Oman

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    you need 2 things to succeed in life ..intelligence and love..Well intelligence seems to be missing in this case.When the "religion" tag is same the "Status" tag comes into picture

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  • Rakesh Sharma, Bajegolli/Karkala

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    what vinod done is totally wrong..afterall 'Love is Sacrifice'..In life not all of them achieve there goals...sometime we should adjust to the circumstances due to different reasons..you cannot achieve love by force..afterall it's called 'lust'..vinod should have seen from another angle of 'sandhya'..why did she refused him?..If both her in love..he would have better walk-out from 'sandhya's life..it's gentlemen's decision..love won't die..it's now a 'black spot' in life of girl whom he has loved the most..in life..

    jeevan se tu bagha ke..sirf ek dil ke karaan. yuu saree duniya tayga ke..chor de saree duniya kisske liye yeah munasif nahin aadmi ke liye...pyarase zarruri kahi kaam hai..chanda miltha nahin sabko sansarmein..chalna padtha hai sabki khushi ke liye..jai ho..

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  • Mrs.Suman V Uthappa, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    felt very sad after reading this news. I pray Vinod Wickson get wel soon...

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Dear Commentators, Read my comment clearly.
    I have commented to the article in the first paragraph (I quote: Concerning this article suicide is not …..)
    Then the next paragraph which separates from the first one and that is for those who commented as coward because Mr. Yeddyurappa's wife was also suspected as suicide/murder which relates to below commentators.

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  • Aaron, Mnaglore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    LOVE IS SLOW POISON

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  • Hancy, kavoor, mlore/Muscat

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Dear vicky was shocked to know abt the incident..Get well soon Wil pray for ur speedy recovery....tc

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  • Rosario Fernandes, Kallianpur/Goa/usa

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Please do not send Sandhya's parents behind the bars. Make them re-mary themselves & understand what is true love.

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  • Ambrose Naveen , Mangalore/Bangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Dear Readers
    Many of you have said about love..Can anyone define love by your own words.. Vinod's Love for Sandhya was true.. I re-call my friends story.. Even he did the same thing ... Now they are one. Dear Vinod if your love was true.. Sandhya will come back to you for sure..I wish you a speedy recovery.
    I dont see much comments from girls.. cos they do not know what is love..am sorry to make this statement..But its true..

    May god bless all the girls who have ditched their true love.

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  • Ronald, Bejai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Getwell & Recover soon!
    Good you had a proof of marriage!!!
    Otherwise now a days it is tough to trust one.

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  • Steevan, Mangalore.Dubai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Wish u speedy recovery Vinod. In a true love there is lot of pain u need to undergo, but remember one thing 'If u love something set it free, if it's urs, will comeback, if its not it never it was. If its true love from both sides no one can block behind the bars, in anyway she or he will break the bars and comeback safely in ur heart.

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  • Abdul Narayan Desouza, Vinod's Heart

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    I DO NOT BLAME VINOD AT ALL. I JUST BLAME Sandhya. THE BOY HAS TO DANCE AROUND THE GIRL FOR EACH AND EVERYTHING AND ALL THE TIME. VINOD HAS BEEN VERY VERY COMMITTED TO HER, IN THE CONTRARY WHAT DID SHE DO ?????. SHE AND HER WHOLE FAMILY MEMBERS SHOULD BE PUT BEHIND BARS SEVERLY.
    I HOPE NO OTHER BOY MARRIES THIS GIRL WHO HAS ENJOYED HER LIFE AT THE COST OF VINOD'S LIFE
    vinod get well soon and v all r praying for you and for your family members.

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  • lloyd, udupi

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    @ Mr. Henry how can you use the word VISHWAASGAATH without knowing the real fact..There could be mistake from boy's side also..Whatever he did is wrong,he brought tears in his parents eyes.

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  • austin, mlr

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Welcome nagesh mamu Great comments. After a long time sense has prevailed on you. Good that you did not see italian hand behind this. God bless your and let this sense keep prevailing on you for all times to come

    Vinod, wish you speedy recovery. Remember this girl is not worth for you she has betrayed you even after civil marriage, which shows that her love was never firm.

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  • Adv sandhya prabhu, mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Hey, Vickson my family prays for your early recovery.Always Love is blind and when your girl refused you would have at least remembered about your parents.I  had also asked my brother to tell you not to take any such decision on rejection by your wife..but u did not.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa, Goa

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Mr. Joseph F. Gonsalves, you need some lessons in shadow boxing.
    Hey Mr.Vinod Wickson D’Souza we admire you. In Karnataka we have many incidents where the husband murders his wife or abets her suicide but you are willing to sacrifice your own life for the happiness of your wife. Get well fast.

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  • Jerry Moras, Canada

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Nagesh,
    I never thought such comments from you. Thanks for not writing at here Jai Hind, Yeddi, BJP, VHP.

    Thanks for stopping once for all. See, have you have been converted.

    Hope, you'll keep that way unless you wanna go back to sq. 1.
    I think you don't.

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  • Asha, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    These days it is so rare to find someone who can LOVE you so deeply. How fortunate one has to be to get one. From ancient time it is the same sad story, Romeo Juliet, Devdas, Heera Majunu...etc. Dear Vinod i honestly pray for your speedy recovery... I wish and hope you will find a girl who can LOVE you more than you can ever imagine. Yours in prayer ....

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, BAHRAIN

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Get well soon Vinod....., Sandhya u did vishwasgaath........ repent end is near

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  • Younus, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Hey Vinod, Understand there is pain which cannot be controlled when you loose ur loved one's, But!!! The man who control's that pain & comes out from that n lead a life na, He is a greatest & strongest Man in this world forever. Let God recover all your pain & sadness soon.
    Get well soon & lead a successful life frnd!!!

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    in addition to my commnet earlier Vinod, wishing you a speedy recovery. love hurts sometimes but sucide is not a solution. you have so many ways to come over it. Concentrate on other things, keep yourself very busy in work. There are so mnay things to do in this world.I gurantee that you will succeed in life. Think possitve young man and see success coming your way. don't get carried away looking at negetive things in life. Be possitve. God bless you.

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  • Ronald, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Vinod would have at least considered his parents before thinking of sucide act. they are the best parents as i can see. they have supported him very well in his decession. Just becuase girl refused to marry how could he do that act? i feel very sorry for the parents who are going through uncessary pain for his act.

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  • jaison, mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    I have one question for vinod.would you have commited suicide if your mom said that i won't love you anymore.do you?????

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  • Anand, Dubai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Indeed its very sad. I pray to almighty God for the speedy recovery of Vinod. One thing to notice here is, only one part of the story is reported here. There can be different version of the same story from the other side as well. Daiji can put some more efforts here.

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  • KT, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Maine Pyar Kiya

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  • ISMAIL K PERINJE, PERINJE/YANBU-KSA

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Very unfortunate incident.Girls's family did foolish thing even an fool can't do."HENNU CHANCHALE""MUNIDARE MAAAAARI"Sandhya, being an lecturer,her actions not par with her education.Get well soon Mr Vinodh.

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  • JENIFER MARIA D'SOUZA, MANGALORE

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    DEAR VINOD I PRAY JESUS FOR YOUR SPEEDY RECOVERY, MAY HE GIVE YOUR FAMILY STRENGTH TO FACE THE SITUATION AND YOU GET YOUR LOVE BACK AGAIN

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  • PRAVEEN D POOJARY, MANGALORE

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    DEAR VICKSON,
    GET WELL SOON AND DON'T DISAPPOINT THOSE WHO LOVE YOU-YOUR PARENTS, FRIENDS,RELATIVES,FOR THE SAKE OF GIRL WHO CHEATED YOU

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  • Reena and Lovely, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Get well soon Vinod .. Praying for your happy future ahead..

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  • santhosh barboza, bantwal/kuwait

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    “Suicide is the remedy of pain”but vinod still are you suffocating with the pain of love .....wish u a speedy recovery...

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  • Matin Shirali/Oman, Shirali

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Dear Vinod God Bless you what you did brother you are selfish you dint thought about your parents 3year love when you lost you took stream desion but about your parents specially mother what she's feeling now when she's loosing her 25 years nobel love front of her god give strenth to ur parents ameen

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  • reshma, mangalore/kuwait

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Very well said alister...its very true what u have said.....

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  • alister, bantwal/kuwait

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

     mr.joseph f. gonsalvis?y u brought cm here?is he relaterd here?or wats the role here for the cm?just think twice before u comment anymore....

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  • amar, maqngalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    so sad and get well soon we all pray for god for soon recover

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  • alister, bantwal/kuwait

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    so great news such an idiot he is he .just for the sake of luv n for the sake of a girl attempted suicide,mad guy,even see the girl yaar just for the sake of parents she refused him,if she loves him den let her also commit suicide.these people are still back...its 21th century my dear vinod..

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  • stany, Bejai/mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    What u did vinod it not good, we will pray for u get well soon

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  • Vinod John, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Some people said attempting suicide is being coward. I dont think its true. I think we all will be scared to kill themselves. I dont think we will ever think of suicide as we know it will be painful. I think it takes lot of courage to face death.
    Dont dont me wrong I am not supporting suicide. I just remembered my friend killed himself as he was saddened by something. He was somebody who told me nobody should commit suicide, but fate took him to do the same. He was not a coward.. He was just so sad that he didnt want to live.

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  • Ravindranatha, KSA/Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    VINOD IS NOT A COWARD, IT IS SANDHYA. EVEN AFTER GETTING REGISTERED MARRIAGE, AND MADE HIM TO COME BACK FROM AFGHANISTAN, SHE DID NOT STAND WITH HIM AND CHANGED HER MIND. LET VINOD BE SAVED AND LET HIM GET MARRIED TO A GIRL WHO HAS BACKBONE.

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  • naveen, udupi

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    joseph f gonsalves bannur/ putture
    ur comment is totaly wrong.u r adding cm name.

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  • Rudolf, Bantwal

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    This is tragic indeed. The girl has cheated the boy in that after getting married for 6 long years she suddenly decides to renege which would be a shocker for any person. She should be tried for abetment of suicide.

    What was the real reason for the girl's family in not accepting the boy is anybody's guess?

    Wish Vinod recovers from the trauma fast..

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  • Hamdan, Katapady / Dubai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    I will pray with god for his good health and recovery. I can understand his feelings, but attempt of suicide is stupidy. Oh god please recover him soon.

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  • ANIL THOMAS DSILVA, MANGALORE-IRAQ

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    true love never dies,,, accept their marriage and let them live together,, vinod the step u have taken is not good dera friend,,, think abt ur family also,,,
    get well soon,, think and take desition,,, by suiciding u and no body will get any thing

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  • Joseph F. Gonsalves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Concerning this article suicide is not an option for any humans. Face life. Don't deceive, don't rob, don’t kill yourselves and don't kill others. Humbleness is required not arrogant.
    Mr. Yeddyurappa's wife committed suicide or murdered??? If she had committed suicide she was a coward. If Mr. Yeddyurappa murdered her law must be enforced. I urge the law enforcement to carry out full investigation in the matter.

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  • Anil Pais, Mangalore/Pune

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Falling in love is not a sin.When you are in love, you are ought to get some difficulties.You need to show some machurity in this case.Why do you want to commit suicide for the mistake which is not yours? Suicide is not ultimate solution. If you dare to love/ marry, dare to face the trouble also.

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  • stan, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Dear, Harold D'cunha, please do not bring religion into everything. Read the news properly: issue is neither religion nor state.

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  • Amith, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Prayers to God to save Vinod and strength to his family.

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  • vasant raj, udupi/Abudhabi

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Totally we can come to a conclusion that Sandhya s parents are culprits. They should compromise and should say sorry for the whole incident, otherwise they should be punished for their crime, immediately. My support to Mr.Vinod, anytime.

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  • sunilprabhu, mumbai

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Nagesh First time i hear something good from you ....

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  • VISHAL, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Young boys and girls, please get into affairs in the very young age! Life is a fun. Parents who advise children not to get into this at a immature age, are stupid. It is a style now to fall in love. Fall in love with fun and then, commit suicide!

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  • AZIZ, MANGLORE

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    MAY GOD UNITE THIS COUPLE.I AM SHOCKED TO SEE NAGESH MAAMU'S COMMENT,COZ FIRST TIME NAGESH MAAMU GAVE A HEALTHY COMMENT,GOD BLESS NAGESH MAAMU ALSO.

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  • Ashwin S, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Realy sad to know condition of Vinod and his parents! Hope God give them strength and Vinod recovers soon and have sweet life ahead.

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  • manish kumar, mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    It is very sad news that the same community still also problem then what about different caste or religion.if different religion people started to blame each other here.

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Mad character. Which is greater. Relgion or State.
    Both have he wedded through registered marriage. Police complaint could have saved this heineous tragedy. This utter non sense by the boy. Might be he didnot get right support from his peer group and from the neighbours, soceity. Negative approach leads to negative action and negatiev results.

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  • Jonathan, Mangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    Only Foolish and Failures are trying to end thier God given gift of life. Wise always live & solve man made problems" Vinod, keep it up. You are good for nothing.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    SHOCKING NEWS.


    VINOD IS A COWARD. ATTEMPTING FOR SUICIDE IS A CRIME.

    SANDHYA'S PARENTS SHOULD BE PUT BEHIND THE BAR.


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  • TAURO, mangalore/malad/nigeria

    Fri, Feb 25 2011

    This is true and real love but one sided ,however now both the sides will feel and experience the real pain of real love.

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