Bengaluru: Freedom from domestic violence still a dream for women in Karnataka


Daijiworld Media Network – Bengaluru (MS)

Bengaluru, May 29: For women in Karnataka, freedom from domestic violence is still a distant dream. Though they have progressed a lot in different sectors, the cases of torture and harassment are increasing.

According to Pramila Naidu, president of State Women’s Commission, from March 2020, 1072 cases of domestic violence, 221 dowry harassment cases and 22 dowry related deaths are registered by women in Karnataka.

The commission for women has also received 27 rape cases, 67 sexual harassment cases, 208 harassment at work place and 160 cases related to property. Pramila Naidu said that in total she has received 4762 cases of harassment on women from March 2020.

According to the National Health Survey-5, 73.4% women in the age group of 15 to 49 are well educated in Karnataka. In the same age group, 35.1% are employed. But the atrocities on women are continuing.

Regarding reasons for the increase in harassment of women, Pramila Naidu says, “Many of the victims of domestic violence are not educated and financial not independent. So they continue to compromise. They are living under pressure for the sake of the future of their children. The other reason is the stigma that is attached to divorce in our society. So whenever I visit schools and colleges, I take an oath from them that they will get married only after they become financially independent."

“During Covid lockdown, cases of atrocities on women increased considerably. That too, during the first wave, women faced enormous pressure. Everyday the commission used to receive 40 to 50 calls. Men were frustrated due to prohibition of alcohol and they used to vent their anger on women.”

Dr Smitha Segu, head of plastic surgery department in Victoria Hospital says that everyday six cases of burning of women were occurring in the city of Bengaluru due to harassment by family members.

 

 

  

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  • mohan prabhu, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 02 2022

    Dowry is the root cause of all evil and it was rightly banned. Yet parents want to get rid of their daughters as early as they can by luring the best matches possible. Parents must be blamed for this for offering dowries. They should concentrate on educating their daughters to the highest level possible and put them in a position to earn their own living. If marriage is delayed, everything is gained - and even the Indian population will stabilize. Once this is done, then women can be on equal status with their husbands, and if he (they) do not submit to reasonable demands, the law will take care of them - and the alternative for the husband is to be a "gandu" (hen-pecked). Shoe will then be on the other foot!

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  • Jd, Mlr

    Thu, Jun 02 2022

    Social behaviour improvement can not be sought in isolation. On o e front, we are training children to be violent and confrontational at school level for matters which don't concern them and expect them to be calm and mature individuals as they grow? They have learnt how to be unreasonable, forceful, arrogant and violent. This streak won't leave them. Family life is ruined.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Toronto

    Wed, Jun 01 2022

    Yes, Hussain, you are right. This is the reality and though it is illegal, dowry will be in India till girls are able to stand by their own with enough education and capacity to earn a living. In Mumbai, at one place, during the marriage, the dowry issue came up and boy's side said no marriage until dowry case was solved. Girl's father was in tears. Looking at the tears in her father's eyes, girl threw her wedding garment and said, "I do not want to marry a boy, who gave tears to my father". We have to bring our daughters to that level. Also, domestic violence is going on in India. First and foremost, mothers have to treat boys and girls equally and in house work, both should be given equal responsibility. When I was sweeping in my house in Mumbai, the visitor asked me "Aap bi jaadu maarte ho". My daughter-in-law (not a Mangalorean) told me, she never saw her father sweeping the floor !!

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Wed, Jun 01 2022

    Out of the mentioned dowry and Harrashment cases, how many stand genuine. When law is in favor of women still they keep crying, as if all women are saint. Ghar k fasaadh/jhagde ki root hamesha aurat hi hoti hai.

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  • Hussain, Moodbidri

    Wed, Jun 01 2022

    I came across a case of dowry harassment. Father of the bride gave good education to children. He had big house and leading a healthy life. But, he has no enough saving. Bridegroom's side thought that he had lot of money. They told father of bride that they do not have any demand. Because, they were sure that they will get more gold. But, after marriage, they realized that she did not brought enough gold, as they expected. They started to harass bride and made her life hell. Relatives of bride tried to solve the problem. Mother of bridegroom was giving the only reply that they would see in court. Still there is no solution. In male dominated society, justice to bride is a long distance dream. My suggestion is give girls best education, as per your capacity. At least she can lead a decent life.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Thu, Jun 02 2022

    Kassal sangthat tumi hangasar ??? Who root cause ? Why women? Its men....Men are very good and outsmart by sowing the seeds of fight in a womans mind. Thats how roots grow slowly from the seeds. Because men get fed up with a woman after few months. So ignite fire of fight and allow it to grow. Then say woman is the root cause and reason to leave her. People see only the fight and cannot see the seeds of fight, burried in the heart and mind...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Raheja Waterfront

    Wed, Jun 01 2022

    Shobha has to so something ...

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