bhatnarasimha, mangalore

dayananda you are really going against hindu religion ,its like you inspiring violence

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rafeek pakeerabba, charmady kabul

Go now to your dwelling plan to enter in the days of your togetherness and may your days be good and long upon the earth god bless you ............

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John, Mangalore

Lydia,pl. forgive Dayananda and talk about Renita more.Please clarify your stand on her converting to islam which is expected in near future.
I feel there is no problem in it as everyone has a right to choose the religion of their choice.We are born as human beings and not as christians,muslims or hindus.

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NASH , MANGALORE / Bahrain

CONGRATS .... BOTH OF YOU ...
NO RELIGION IN LOVE ...

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Sunil D'Souza, Mangalore / Mumbai

Read the last but one sentence of this article , it reads "Even though Ashraf told Renita to go to her mother’s place at least for a day, she did not heed to his request"........this clearly shows that the boy seems to be trying to slip away from the limelight and settle out things.....it somehow looks as though he got what he wanted and now wants to evade.......I hope this will be a lesson for all parents who spare the rod and spoil the child and I also hope all the females also learn a lesson...........I also wonder what if the case was of some Ashley and Rehana (lets assume)....would the community people give same comments like Mr. Hafeex

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Lydia Lobo, Kadri

Aha.. here come the offer :

"BD and SRS are not your enemies. They are enemies only to THESE anti national and anti social elements.

Support their mission in your own interest."

So, who wants to take the thugs' service ? This is what I have to say :

One girl does not make a sample for all women from Christian community. We don't take hand of those who physically abused us - we are well protected by our father and brothers till marriage and our husband after that. Her family did the right thing by deserting her for now.

When abandoned by Ashraf, our prodigal daughter is welcome back but may she succeed in her pursuit, we will have best wishes for her. We will not honour kill her nor have we raised her as someone else's property pledged with us until marriage - she our daughter for lifetime.

Readers whom Mr. Dayanand has given an offer, do you have any different view ? Please ??

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APPRAISAL, ibrahim/saudi

we need like this intercast marriages to avoid castism. Good decision these two youngs did. let god help them in future

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Hafeeex, dubai

Great comment, well said, Marriage is a personal issue of the couples ,why so much outcry from the public. I wish them successful married life. Belief is just belief, not an guaranteed issue. If they believe Each other and share the life together , we only wish them best of luck. Marriage is nothing but meeting two souls for share the happy, sorrow together.

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n k simha, mangalore

Like in kerala,the cristians & hindus should unite together & fight against love jehad.

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C K DAYANANDA, MANGALURU

Dear Christian Friends

Now you are talking differently as THESE elements are knocking on your doors.

Do not allow THESE people to destroy your houses completely.

Before that wake up.

BD and SRS are not your enemies. They are enemies only to THESE anti national and anti social elements.

Support their mission in your own interest.

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John, Mangalore

There is nothing called love jihad exists, this is the court verdict in Kerala.We are eagerly waiting for our Lydia bai's comments.

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JRAO,

Our legal formalities are designed for animals not for human beings without any obligations on either part and to knock the legal door everytime that too with special protections to female counterpart thereby to devide the bond at the behest of legal protection and our so called police is waiting for such incidents to happen regularly.

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C K DAYANANDA, MANGALURU

A reaction like Anti-Godhra should and will happen in Karnataka.

Then only all THESE elements will learn lesson.

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Mark Lobo, Manglore

This is True case of LOVE JIHAD we can feel the pain she has gone through after seeing renita face GOD HELP HER TO RETURN BACK TO FAMILY.

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Peter Pereira, Pune

Sudheer Mangalore, why do you drag uncivilised BD into this issue ? Who is BD to do moral policing in our country ? If they do it, why do we need police, law & court ? Anyhow, good luck young couple. Trust in one God and live happily. Renita, do not hurt your parents. In the long run, I am sure you will unite with them and have warm relation with both families. God bless you.

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varadhraj, mangalore

Hmm guy looks like highly quailfied may be PHD (Don't ask in what subject).

After few years may be months same guy will marry another girl this is for sure as allowed in thier faith.

Then see Mrs.Renita dsouza the pain you will go through..This has happend before happing now and goin to happen in future.

Girl you wil cry one day when all your freedom is took away and not sure what treatment you gonna get in that guys home

All the best hettavara kanniru sarvanashake moola

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diya, PUTTUR

congratulations Mr Ashraf n Mrs Renita!!!have a happy married life n God bless:)

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Sunil, Udupi

Dear Renita you have refused ur parents wish and found someone in ur life hope ur life will be all good for some days.... n ur not metured now and dont know but after that for the whole life time u ll suffer (U look very happy outside but immetually u feel that u hv done something wrong in your life) for making ur parents so insulted and for making their life so painfull.

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Raj Arana, Mangalore

This marriage will not last long if she does not change her religion. Without the blessings of her parents she got married.She will realize her mistake sometime later. Can Muslim girl run away with Christian BOy and get married without the permission of their parents. I think it is imossible in India

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Ajith Dcosta, Kundapura

thanks to Aysha Sheikh, you are really transparent in your opinion, dear all girls try to learn few good lessons in your life.

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nagendra nayak, Kudremukh

wish you happy married life

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paddu, mangalore

Jai ho LOVE JIHAD

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Flavya , kuwait mangalore vittla

Dear Renita i will tell her one thing you will realise after not now you kick out the religion and ur parents wich one u use to have from ur childhood that is god gift for u thats y my opinion still u have chance to come back home pls come.i know u have gud family dont break they r heart u r one the girl in that home.u r young lady

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Padmanabha Shenoy, Udupi / Saudi Arabia

I did not see anything wrong here. Girl liked the boy, loved him and married. Religion is not important in Love marriage. But will the muslim brothers will accept if same happens to their daughters or sisters?

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Thomas Pascal Andrade, Toronto / Valencia

It is quite surprising to read comments from the Daijiworld readers, many of them objecting the decision taken by the newly married couple. Why should we think that interfaith marriage would not last long? If some of such marriages did not last long, then there are many same faith arranged marriages too are not successful. We are in the 21st century and I strongly feel that as much as parents have the right to decide whom their children should marry, the children too should have the right to choose who they want. After all it is their life. Did anyone give a thought that the girl would be happy if she marry someone else instead of marrying the boy she loved? Daijiworld has recently reported a case in Dubai where a newly married Mangalorean woman committing suicide for the reason that she could not marry her college boyfriend.

Love is blind, it has only feelings. It does not have religion, colour and hatred. Let’s stop debating whether the couple took the right decision and just wish them all the best in their married life.

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GERALD, BANTVAL

MS.RENITA - CONGRATS FOR YOUR BOLD DECISION BUT YOU HAVE TO PAY THE PRICE TO YOUR DECISION FOR THE LONG RUN- ALL THE BEST !!!! BY THE WAY IS THIS CALLED " LOVE JIHAD "

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Sudheer, Mangalore

Now all these commentators should ask this girls parents that what BD doing is corerct or not. !00% sure that they will suport BD because the parents knows the pain.

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Agnello, Mangalore/Muscat

Its love, happiness and mutual respect in the married life that determines the success of a marriage. Most of my married friends discussing here should gauge themselves on this barometer.
As Jesus said 'He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her'.

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Namith, Kottara

I think its a wrong decision from the girl. Hope her parents get enuf strenght to bare the pain. By the way y not anyone blaming BD , RSS??

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L Dsilva, Udupi, Manipal

Dear thinker you are thinking right things. God bless u.

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S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, udupi

Respect other religions but love with your own religion in every matter. That is good for our society

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L Dsilva, Udupi, Manipal

Dear Mr. C. Dsouza people take foolish decisions after 30 also. Age is not the barrometer while taking any important decision. This is just my personal opinion.

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Arun, Mangalore

I liked the comments of my Christian friends.. I wish they repeat the same good comments when its between a Muslim guy & Hindu girl :)

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Ratan, Sullia

The comments here are very very childish.You can take my testimony.I got married against the wishes of my wife's family since she is from a different religion.She was very young when we got married lie Ms Renita.Many 'elders' form both sides used to say that "This marriage will not last long".It has been 11 years of our marriage and everyone is fine now & all want to follow our path in our relatives and friends circle.If some one has doubt over the authenticiy of this comment, they can check for my contact details from Daiji.I AM WISHING THE NEWLY MARRIED A VERY VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.LOVE IS THE RELIGION FOR THEM AND LET IT BE SO.BE BOLD AND DONT LET LAME COMMENTS COME ON BETWEEN YOU TWO.

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Riyaz, Dubai/Mangalore

Guys!!!!!!!!!Enough. It is their decision and let them live happy. I hope both of them trust and repect each other, for this is the basic thing that is required for a successful marriage.

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dev, managalore

mr. roy patrao,
y do u say that she has ditched her community? coz she married a muslim guy?
dont worry she will never ditched her husband nor islam in future. all the best for the best for u both. god bless

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Anil Pinto, Puttur / Dubai

wrong decision from Renita Dsouza.sad news...

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Naufal, Mallur

In our community,there are so many girls waiting for their marriage since long time due to evil dowry system.He could have marry that girls.It will very appreciable matter.

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Rudolf Rodrigues, Loretto/Mumbai/Mangalore

We cannot just reject this alliance downright giving racial connotations. There are so many of such alliances blossoming and getting successful. The girl, at this point in time, is too young to comprehend the future and she is not to be blamed, but the hormones running in her system. But, we have to remember she is of legally marriageable age. We can only wish her all the best for the future in her matrimonial life!!!!!!!!!!

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Aadil Khan, Kasaragod, Saudi Arabia

Parents' consent and blessings should be paramount for any marriages. As much as Renita's parents going thru the trauma, I think Ashraf's parents too might be not happy with this alliance. The couple has brought disgrace and shame to their parents. I wish the couple, anyway, good luck and a happy married life.

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shalini salian, mangalore

Renita is really too young to have taken the decision to marry against her parents will. Marry in hurry then worry whole life. Feel really bad for the girls parents. bringing up children with such difficulty and suddenly one day marrying against parents wish not at all a wise decision i feel.

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emy, mangalore/Qatar

Renita GOD BLESS YOO. now already everything is done. any way yoo did not think yr doing right or wrong.now yoo have to think if yoo going to do something .atleast ask with yoor perents to bless yoo .they r the one feed yoo .dont forget them .hope yoo will be happy with yr Asraf. please Asraf dont leave her dont break her heart she will come to yoo she belive at yoo.

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Langoolacharya., Belman/USA.

People,

She will know conseqances of her act,,, when her daughter does same to her....

Let's see where she will be in next few years....

Perhaps her parents should search their souls to find out if they brought her up in a responsible way or they were busy with their own livelyhood.....

Jai Hooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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kabeer, Dammam

99% of people here given their comments/openion looking at their names. definetly not from heart... in case the names are typo errors same ppl would have given different comment!! Jago India!! jago

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Maria, Moodbidri

If it'z meant to be...it will happen! if the girl stayon with her present religion, it will beautify their love.otherwise it's a love jihad. Wishing the couples long married life.

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AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE

This has nothing to do with love. Young girl is carried away by irresistable emotions that are irrational and blind. Most likely she will cry and regret, but then parents who cry now will be moved to accept her back. That's life, that's love, so called love! Love is blind so people marry! Little patience would avoid many divources, and probably marriages too!

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thinker, mlore/london

Dear everyone, This couple is old enough to think what is right for them. what we think is right for them is not necessarily right for them . There is a old saying ' we indians think how everyone else should live life except our own.I read some of the comments which sounds like from elderly people, saying ' it wont last long' etc etc. Who are you and I to decide that? say even if the couple separates after a year .Whats the big deal they w ill learn and life goes on. You all talk about parents blessings, gods blessings etc that keeps the couple together , all that is rubbish. Its the compatibility , and so many other practical issues which matter. And its not how many years couples stay together that matters its the quality of life they have had together that matters. And someone here might think they are smart n say survey shows that there is less divorce with arranged marriage.Thats purely because they are scared to separate due to family respect, social pressure from our soceity.
I have seen families around suffering day in day out and not able to do anything as it would cause shame to the family.
So please stop judging people and sort out the stinking rats in your own backyard. And i dont think you all have done anything that great in life to decide about others sucess.thanks

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kuppendare suleiman, madikeri/dubai

WE ALL KNOW LOVE IS BLIND.

But Plzz dont Make your Parents Blind by rejecting them.

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vashal, mangalore

This 21st Century anything will happen.New generation lost moral ethicks & they think they are supreme.But time will answer all.

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Vivek, Canara

Nobody would mind this marriage, if the muslim community gives the same freedom to thier girls. This is not a real marriage. the innocense or the jovial nature of the girl or the poverty at home has been manipulated by the boy for his personal interest.Girls from christian community are very liberal than the girls from other communities. but the parents won't admit it.

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thinker, mlore/london

Dear everyone, This couple is old enough to think what is right for them. what we think is right for them is not necessarily right for them . There is a old saying ' we indians think how everyone else should live life except our own.I read some of the comments which sounds like from elderly people, saying ' it wont last long' etc etc. Who are you and I to decide that? say even if the couple separates after a year .Whats the big deal they w ill learn and life goes on.

You all talk about parents blessings, gods blessings etc that keeps the couple together , all that is rubbish. Its the compatibility , and so many other practical issues which matter. And its not how many years couples stay together that matters its the quality of life they have had together that matters. And someone here might think they are smart n say survey shows that there is less divorce with arranged marriage.Thats purely because they are scared to separate due to family respect, social pressure from our soceity.
I have seen families around suffering day in day out and not able to do anything as it would cause shame to the family.
So please stop judging people and sort out the stinking rats in your own backyard. And i dont think you all have done anything that great in life to decide about others sucess.thanks

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Clifford, Mangalore

I Wish both of you a lengthy united happy married life. Please decide your children religion now itself....

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Prakash, Mangalore/Bantwal

Shortly she will be in some brothel for sure. Good luck Renita. You are a great girl who have made your parents proud and used the freedom given by them trusting you.

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C DSouza, Mangalore

While everyone has a personal right to make decisions regarding marriage, 19 is still a very young age and many youth take rash and foolish decisions at that age.... For all inter-religious marriages I think the government should increase the age of the girls for marriage to 21 and boys to 24... Just my personal opinion.

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RAJESH SHETTY, Udupi,Bahrain

THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE,REPENT RENITA, WITHOUT PARENT'S BLESSINGS YOUR LIFE WILL BE ZERO. END IS NEAR...YOU WILL REALIZE SOON.

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Dr S kamath , Mumbai

It is True Parents Consent is Must for a successful Marriage .But Nothing is Most Important than Girl should Like the Boy as husband .Then Parents Consent is useful for further strengthening .My worst Fear is many Parents still neglect Girl Children in India thinking that they are a Burden ,Their Marriage is a burden etc .Parents please change that mentality .Lets us Love our Children whether Girl or Boy Equally

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Aysha Sheik, Kundapur/Dubai

Dear Sister renita,I think you have made big mistake of your life. See the damage you have done and the pain you caused to your dear parents.I think your love affair will not last long( Personal opinion)Beside in my religion you will find many like Ashruf who have spoiled many Girls.Very sad indeed

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Ronald, Mangalore

Ashraf, take well care of her man. She has trusted you more than her parents (not sure why?). may be it is her small age, less wisdom, no knowledge of real life challenges. A day will come when she will be longing to see her parents. I am sure parents may be angry now but will acpet her in her tough times becuase parents love is unconditional. I think Renita will get a lesson for life then.

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Vicky, India/Canada

It would have been ideal if the young girl brought up in a christian household talked to her parish priest and got his advice too on the matter. Parents blessings are necessary time is a healing factor and she can still go to her parish take his advice and discuss this with her parents and his parents amicably I know love is blind and knowing parents will oppose she should have been guided beign so young. Praise the Lord she did not commit suicide Lets all pray that her marriage works and end happily for them
Vicky

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Agnello, Mangalore/Muscat

Looking at the majority of the responses it would look that this marriage WILL NOT BE ALLOWED to succeed.
Only if religion was good humanity would love succeed and peace prevail.

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IMRAN, MANGALORE- JUBAIL-SAUDI

Heard saying LOVE IS LIFE after reading today, yesterday news and the news before few weeks ago about a father hit his daughter by knife, When love succeed you lose either your family or her family, but the young heart will not think anything about it, the attraction and the feelings between two hearts will never look at the AGE, COLOR, MONEY, CASTE Or RELIGION.
Ye pyaar cheez hi ajeeb sa hai...

Ek Shayar Pesh karna chahta hoon..

KitnA Pyaar Karte hain tumse
Kaash TumkO bhi yeH ehsaaS ho JayE
Magar AisA na Ho Ke
Woh hosH mein tab Aaaye
Jab HuM gehri neenD mein so JaayE"

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Kurt Waschnig, Oldenburg Germany

As a foreigner, who loves India a lot, I wish the young couple the best in their life and hope that the girl and her parents will be able to build up a normal relationship again.
When a relationship between parents and a child (19 year old girl) break apart is it extremely difficult to become close again.
The other point is the couple belongs to different religions, that is a big problem too.
There are so many problems and just I try to understand both the couple and the parents.
A peaceful way should be possible.
Life is short and one day all will regret breaking apart.
The young couple face tremendous problems but perhaps their love will be strong enough to overcome problems and maybe the parents of the girl will be able to accept her decision.

The Beatles composed a song "All you need is Love", therefore love is the strongest power and religious human beings should forgive.

Perhaps the young woman will get pregnant and give birth to a baby.

That could break the ice and the couple and parents could make a first step.

Every young married couple has the right to lead a happy and joyful life and to build up a future for themselves and their children.

Love is so powerful that these problems can be overcome. It may take time but let us hope that love will be stronger than hatred.

The new year just has begun, let us be full of hope.



Best regards



Kurt Waschnig Oldenburg Germany


e-mail: oldenburg1952@yahoo.de

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roy patrao, mlore

This girl is brain washed at this moment. SHE HAS DITCHED HER PARENTS & COMMUNITY . she will pay price after few years as many have faced similar

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Joseph Barrows, Kundapur / Dammam

Hope, Asraf is not married previously & has a wife at home! or his parents have someone in their mind for his marriage within their family circle, as many such cases happened earlier!
In that case, Ranita may face hell of problems and soon she may have to remove her burka/abhaya and come back home... save me & my parents!

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mohan, mangalore

may be her poor knowledge of cristain values,or may be her poor edgucation in her church and at her home, no use of crying afterwords,

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Rakesh Dsouza, Mulky

Atleast you should had waited for 5 more yrs to get married and by this time you could had known each other well.there is a saying "Marry in haste and repent later", im not cursing you but its too early for u to get married at 19.Anyways dont forget your Lord Christ and everything wil be fine,May GOD bless you.

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Ajith Dcosta, Kundapura

Dear sisters, be careful while selecting your partner, in this case sooner the heroine will find that her hubby had already married and has few children." AB PACHTAYE KYA FAIDA JAB CHIDIYA CHUG GAYI KHETH" so dear one's please think twice

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gilbert, shirva

Renita, you are still a teen just came to maturity. There is along life ahead you would have been taken your decision of marriage later some other day concentrating on your studies,family and your future.But now be strong never let u down be strong and come up in life.

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Shahab/Kasaragod, Dubai

A high percentage of married couples make some critical mistakes that damage their marriages & end up in choas. Don't be a part of these high statistics,
You both look wonderful ……when you face real life don’t allow this love go with the wind. May God bless you both with peace, Love & Happiness.

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mohammed, mangalore

Dear sister Renita you have respect your parents coz whatever u do in life you need your parent’s blessings. so please lead a happy life with Ashraf after taking blessings from your parents.

Dear Asraf, if any body do the same thking in your familey what u do .....

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Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

Renita D'souza..Alias Renita Ashraf..Very bold,brave decision.Congrats.Now you have entered Chakra Viewha.You have to face many hurdles.One of the hurdles is you will not be having any connection with your parents from today onwards.Ofcourse from some close relatives too.In simple..TOTAL DISCONNECTION. Are you prepared for this test.? Hope you will come out successfully from this Chakra Viewha. Good Luck.

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Richard Vaz, Hirgan-Muscat

I don't appreciate the step taken by the Girl.Now she is young after sometime she will realise her mistake whatever she has taken.You made a big mistake my dear sister.Even the boys should think twice before cheating the girls of different communities with their false promises.Anyway I wish them all the best to become Renita to Rizwani or Rinisa soon.Good Luck.

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Kavitha, Karkala/Kuwait

Very sad news. One day she will ralise what mistake she has done by insulting her parents like this. May God bless her parents

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shahnawaz kukkikatte, dubai/udupi

Whatever the case may be, marriages should have parents and elders blessings. Registration of the marriage should take place with the consent of parents from both sides. Since law allows the marriage between two adult members from opposite sex, people dont have respect and regards for their parents wishes.. Such marriages wont last for long and end up in chaos. Parents, churches, masjids, mandirs, temples and mutts should create mass awareness on the negative consequences of interfaith marriages....Lets not import western ethics and life styles into our society. Such imports will only do much harm than better...I always advocate that muslim girl should marry a muslim boy, christian a christian boy, a hindu a hindu boy, a sikh a sikh boy.. However intercaste within the same faith can be allowed as it will not have disasterous consequenses...

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anamika, Gurpur

Appreciate her courage to follow and trust her boyfriend in this present society wherein betrayal and self-interest plays a rather prevalent role. Who would second this incident, when something is done against the parents and siblings consent who looked after their children for so many years?????????????
I appreciate intercaste marriages but not hurting the elder ones!!

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RP, Mangalore

She will realize her mistake sometime later.

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Amin Bhoja, Kkuh /Riyadh

Parents always love thier childrens.They always want to see thier childrens future a bright one.Sometimes fate decides otherwise.The inter caste marriage and its result mostly it is negative,as per the servey.In this case we hope 'GOD' give strength to the married couple and as well as the parents ,a decision you cannot change always.

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santhosh, mangalore

religion made from us ,but soul made from god all the best couples, safe journey to the long life.

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Harry, Mangalore

Before commenting, I would like to say sorry if it hurts any one, which I was feeling as my personal view after seeing many such cases..
For sure this marriage will not last for year…
As I seen some cases like this…all look green at this time, but days are passing, it will be hell for both, hope no one commits suicide..!@!
As someone said in one of comments in minor girl rape, these kind of issues are more in one community ( again I say this is my opinion ).
& issue also become big, it will not create more problem in Hindu / Christian community.!
Best way is educate & keep vigilant about kids.! Parent will be having tough time in all this issues..!

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Arman, Managalore

Dear sister Renita you have respect your parents coz whatever u do in life you need your parent’s blessings. so please lead a happy life with Ashraf after taking blessings from your parents.

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rupesh , Mumbai

Childish love. where it leads time will tell. Parents who nurtured her brought her up the ones who are worried of their daughters future. At least she should have taken a chance to go home and convince their parents to lead a peaceful life.

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felix, Mangalore, Karnataka

so many cases........like this. where parents have gone wrong in bringng up their children? why these children dont think of their parents? feeding, schooling.....teaching moral values...

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Dinesh, Mumbai/ Abu DHabi

If they have chosen each other. it is their destiny. Let them live peacefully.
Dinesh

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vincy, haleangadi

wish you happy and enjoyable married life , god bless you.

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Nithin Poojary, Mangalore/UK

The girl said that she does not want to return to her mother’s house, and instead wants to lead a married life with her husband.

In Hindi there is a proverb..."Jo apno ka na ho saka...woh dusron ka kya hoga". Her parents gave birth to her, loved her, bought her up but she did not had any feelings towards them, what is the gaurantee she will not ditch her husband.

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Kapali, Kudla

well, now pseudos will still ask the parents to teach their children about life and le r will blame poo ashraf who gave a life to this young lady. congratulations ashraf you are a role model.

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Lobo, Mangalore

Looks like gal gonna regret her decision very soon.....

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