Moodbidri: Wife's Lavish Life Makes NRI Man a Pauper!


Moodbidri: Wife's Lavish Life Makes NRI Man a Pauper!

Daijiworld Media Network - Moodbidri

Moodbidri, Jul 18: Well, this is not the script of a movie, nor an imaginary story. It is the story of an NRI man who was cheated of several crores of rupees by his own wife.

Perhaps disclosing his story to the media was the only option left with him. He wanted people to know about his plight, so that others who are in his line could be careful. He has also registered a case against his wife in Moodbidri police station.

Gantalkatte Moodbidri resident Aboobaker married Sameera (26), a resident of Haleangady Light House seven years ago. Aboobaker was working in Saudi Arabia, coming home once in two years on holidays. Every time Sameera would demand money to buy car, land, things  for home etc. In the last seven years he gave his wife more than Rs 70 lac, but never took any account from her.

But Aboobaker was not aware that his wife Sameera wanted to live a luxurious life, not alone, but with her boyfriends! Her lifestyle was such that she would travel to Bangalore by flight, stay at five-star hotels, and so on. She bought a Swift car, but with loan from the bank!

Now Aboobaker has accused his wife, his mother-in-law, and her two boyfriends Anwar and Sharief from Krishnapura of cheating him.

Not only did she swindle her husband's money, but was in the habit of growing friendly with neighbours and close relatives and borrowing their gold to wear on weddings, promising them to return in a week or so.

As per Aboobaker's estimates, she borrowed gold ornaments worth Rs 1.30 crore from at least five relatives and neighbours, but never returned them! This he came to only after people called him on his Saudi number and complained about their lost gold.

On the other hand, realizing that her husband had  come to know about her 'business', Sameera filed a counter complaint in Moodbidri police station accusing Aboobaker of demanding dowry and mistreating her!

Aboobaker has almost come to the road now, having spent all his savings on his beautiful and young wife. He sent her money for buying land, but she never bought any. Her Swift car has now been taken over by the bank, because she failed to pay the loan installments!

  

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  • Ravindra, Karnataka

    Thu, Aug 26 2021

    "Once cheater always a repeater " "Karma has no menu you get served what you deserved "

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  • jeetu, avaral

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    True,in parappana jail she can get better aboo- bakras coz all our corrupts politicians are held there.she may still live lavishly even after coming out from the jail.

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  • Nisar Ahmed , Riyadh

    Fri, Jul 20 2012

    Love Money or Dhokha this would be the next film of Ekta Kapoor....

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  • Lancelot N Tauro, Manglore - Doha Qatar

    Fri, Jul 20 2012

    ZINDAGI NA MILE DUBARA.

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  • Abdulmannan, Kgd/Mka

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    "INNALILLAHI WA INNA ILAIHI RAJIO0N"
    May be his income earn on right way or wrong. If the income earn by his hardwork he will not send to his lavish wife such an unaccountable way. Aboobacker became a milch animal to his wife and boy friends Thanks to Daijiworld.

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  • Roshan Braganza, Udyavar / Mumbai

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    First its not the young wife he wed , as she was in her late twenties. Recently central govt proposed a amendment to rectify flaws in dowry haraasment bill , as its always used to frame against innocent husbands. Some feminists in the govt successfully tried to stop amendment citing various weird reasons. But later govt given dictat to all poice stations over the country to get easy with filingsof these kind of cases. No FIR without proper verificaton and genuine necessity. I hope new amendment will soon be passed by the govt making section 498 a gender neutral , thus men can also put their draconian wives behind bars.

    The above kind of cases are found in many parts of coastal karnataka. Husbands work in desert for years , become senior citizen and comes back. In the mean times wives use all the money for her betterment , buy property in her name etc. Sometimes also elopes with neighbours or colleagues . Thanx to boom in indian economy , most of the youngsters find job here itself , and some peaple take their wives along them . Which is good trend. I feel sorry for this man , he should have woke up early . Well he can take legal help now . Gather all the left over money , divorce his wife , and move on , start a new family . Its ineteresting to see , who catch young birds always happy , as they are easy to mould , less wining , less expectations . May be one can blame more wrinkles for that.

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  • Badruddeen, Valal

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    I dont agree this nonsense story,while abubacker sending money he need to verify the money is utilizing for proper way or not. Second thing within two years it can be acceptable, for last seven years she is cunning her husband not true.That 100% Abubacker guilty person and he has to suffer any lose.

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  • Eulalia D'Souza, Bijai / Mangalore

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    It is sad for husband Abubacker to go on a huge loss of this kind because of his own wife. But am sure we all agree that when it comes to money, wealth and property, " do not believe your own kith & kin, or even your own shadow" How can a husband go on giving money just because your wife asks for it?
    It is moral duty of a husband to keep accounts and keep a check on wife's spendings, if you have sent money for land, then ask her for land papers, if not then question your wife..
    Never do things blindly to please your partners in life without reasoning in it, especially in today's world.
    Guys now be careful when wives ask you for money..!! Dont go by the saying " Successful husband is the one who earns more than his wife can spend, but successful wife is the one, who spends more than her husband can earn..!!!!"
    Eye opener to all of us..!!!! Careful while giving money, lending money n gold, helping people in need, even when they are your own..!! You can be deceived & here is an example n eye opener.
    I dont really mean that we should loose humanity by just stopping to help people in real need.

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  • Ashok, Udupi/Dubai

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    Mr. Langoolacharya., Belman/USA you are right. Mr. Nagesh Nayak is legend here in Daiji World. I will remmeber him even if Iam not in touch with Daiji World. Really his comments are worth reading weather it is political or social. He incrased the knowledge of many readers of this news Portal. Even my friends are talking about his comments when we sit together. I am sure many readers are waiting for his comments. Mr. Nagesh hats off to you. & my Next fevourate is Mr. Shanawaz Kukkikatte.

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  • krishnan kutty, KOTTAYAM .ABUDHABI

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    LESSON FOR NRI'S. SAVE SOME MONEY FOR OWN PURPOSE OR ELSE END IS TRAGEDY

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mangalore/Mapusa/Mumbai

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    In the good days one man used to have several women. Today the world has changed……..

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  • cjd, Udupi

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    There are many people like that .... mostly people working in the Oil and Gas Sector have schedules like this ... and there is very little they can do to change it ... only reason the person dint bring his wife down was to earn better .... and he believed his wife without doubt ... which unfortunately dint turn out the way he expected.

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  • N. Frank, India/Ksa

    Thu, Jul 19 2012

    A good husband is one who can earn more than his wife spends
    A good wife is one who finds such Husband

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  • Tony Francis, Udupi

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    I think Ameer Khan should next bring up a new episode in his Sathyameva Jayathe to expose how some of the wives black-mail their innocent husands, as he, in the past episodes, exposed husbands torturing their wives. Police and law also blindly believes when such ladies cry and create false stories.

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  • prem, gantalkatte/Moodbidri

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    THIS IS THE WAKE UP CALL FOR ALL THE NRI S WHO WORKS HARD AND TRUST BLINDLY .I AGREE WITH ISMAIL K PERINJE THE STORY IS TRUE .BUT HIS WIFE TOOK THE ADVATAGE OF THE MONEY OF ABOBAKKER AND LIVED A LAVISH LIFE .ANY WAY OUR GOOD WISHES WITH ABOOBAKER .ALLAH WILL HELP HIM TO SOLVE HIS MISTRY.

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  • Joel Fernandes, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    People love gossip don't they? and this article serves as fodder.

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  • Jerry Moras, Canada

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Nagesh, I like your thoughts on Honnu,, Hennu and Mannu Totally true. As long as you have money, your partner is with you. If you don't then she is not on your side. Now, other side of the storey is true lovers will not bother on materials things. NRI boys and girls, know what your partner is doing ! Starts with good friends.... I've number stories and so do everyone does. Hence, watch out and don't trust someone too much....

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  • eskay, udupi

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Something is wrong here. There is a person working in Saudi who is able to send Rs. 70 Lacs to India in seven years. this is roughly 85 thousand per month. 70% of the Indians working in Saudi do not have this salary. those who are getting this salary are affording their family in Saudi. If not, they would have easily traveled once in 6 months at least. Why once in two years. What kind of job is he doing?

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  • Dr B.Rajeeth Shetty, Kadri/Doha

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Its a good lesson for all the husbands and wifes who trust thier partners blindly.History repeats and the abubakkar/samira phenomenon is a Deja Vu. Thank you daiji for sharing this.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/USA.

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Nageshmamu,

    You touched souls of many people in this forum.

    I am sure your words will resonate in their ears for long time .

    I hope they will remember you for long time to come......

    Regards,

    Langoolacharya.

    Jai Hooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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  • Robert, Bangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This is the first comment from Mr. Nagesh Nayak for which so many people pressed agree button. Comment was very tru. I also pressed agree button first time!!

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    My source from GANTALKATTE-Moodbidri, and importantly nearest neighbor confirms the story as true.But also adds that the figure which Aboobecker gave not necessarily true(70/30%)!On the other hand this tug of war is not new as PANCHAYATH-COUNTER PANCHAYATH were took several times to sort issue.Now this case came to boiling point and both parties are went to police station.Wife of Aboobecker after ditching her Mother in law(Aboobecker's mother)used to live separately in a Palatial house in which always two cars were parked!!!!.Aboobecker did took his wife to KSA but children's education purpose she was sent back India along with two children a year ago. However,Aboobecker story remind's me as internet duping mafia story.Anyway,some moral stories are emerged from this DUPE story for generation next that also for gulf NRIs.

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  • C Sharath, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Right said Ismailji. If Aboobaker could save ten lakh per year then why dint he take his 26 year old beautifull wife with him to Gulf ? Also how is that he comes once in 2 years in India. If I was saving 10 lakh per year I would have come to India every 6 months weather I had a wife or not or weather she was young and beautifull or not.

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  • John Crasta, Kundapur/KSA

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    I like the comment from THERESA LOBO, Mukamar-Sharjah. I heard many stories about someone came back to home after serving many years in gulf and his family ill treated them. But this is new kind of story. I dnot believe Aboobaker statement. I am pretty he knows at least half of stories of his wife. It is impossible to carry out such things in small towns without knowing anybody.

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  • Nithish, mangalore/dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    I am completely agree with Rakesh Shetty.

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  • Imran Kaup, Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Logically speaking it Seems Mr.Aboobakkar had a capacity to settle along with the wife in KSA as he is earning enough ( can see the summ in crores in 2 yr )- My question why he dint took his wife along with him ? CRAZY isnt it !

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    'Love is Blind' is a perfect story of Abubaker and his life.He was totally blind about his wife,a situation brought to him to the roads.It is said 'A sucessful man stands a woman behind'A wife or Mother but here story tells otherwise.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Stupid foolish Aboobacker in seven years 70 Lakh rupees thrown away to his wife!!!Wait a minute!!!?Yearly ten lakh net income!!?What is his job?Are he businessman?If a person has 10 lakh rupees income a year,then did he wait for two years for his vacation for 60 days?If he have that much of income why did not take his wife with him?I have full doubt over the issue and on the other hand may be his wife like that but I can't say definitive about her lifestyle on that terms.WHY FOR SEVEN YEARS SHE WAS ALLOWED TO ROAM FREE?if that should be the case neighbors certainly raise the issue with her husband.Some are how this story to be reconfirmed.Hopefully,I will go in to deep through my sources know the guilty.

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  • Joyson, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    She made Aboobaker...to .... Aboo bakra. Not good for you Sameera. You spent lavish life with your husban's hard earned money.

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  • Saifulla Sulaiman, Gerukatte, Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    what a unbelievable incident this........... nobody can believe straight away. here Mr Aboobakkar made stupid job. I am totally confused in this matter that for seven years Mr. Aboobakar working in abroad but he would came to country once in two years for two months leave at this moment why he could not check with his wife about the money which has sent to her for expenses. this is lesson to all the man who is working in abroad apart from his wife and his family. and my suggestion to like this people that when you send the money to your family you must ask details what they will do for this amount with proof. now a days we cannot give up silly things.

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  • Roshith, Padubidri/Muscat

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Parappana agrahara central jail is the best place for her to stay and think about past.

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  • Mohammad Sherif K, Uppala/ Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Very sad on u Mr. Aboobaker. Wife spoiled your Life!!!!

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  • Saifulla Sulaiman, Gerukatte, Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    What a unbelievable incident this........... nobody can believe straight away. here Mr Aboobakkar made stupid job. I am totally confused in this matter that for seven years Mr. Aboobakar working in abroad but he would came to country once in two years for two months leave at this moment why he could not check with his wife about the money which has sent to her for expenses.

    This is lesson to all the man who is working in abroad apart from his wife and his family. and my suggestion to like this people that when you send the money to your family you must ask details what they will do for this amount with proof. now a days we cannot give up silly things.

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  • MUHAMMAD RAFIKKH MOODBIDRI, MOODBIDRI / JEDDAH, SAUDI ARABIA

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Dear Mr. Joerg Belman,
    I am very sorry to read your comments as mentioned 'slavery life in Gulf". If you come and see the luxurious life leading by Indian in Gulf Countries. Of course, there may be some exemptions for. But in practical, life in Gulf is far luxurious compared to one's education and profession he is having. If one is well qualified - he can lead a very luxurious life in Gulf. In case of Mr. Abubaker, we should not blame anyone else that to Mr. Abubukar himself. As he can spend such a amount on his wife, the why he didn't spent his life together with his wife in Gulf itself.

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  • SUNDAR KARITHOTA, HALEANGADI

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Now Many boys mentaly suffer by this menace but for the reason of social respect they are helpless and will not release the truth. If questioned about her character she will suecide or burn herself or go away with her boyfriend and wife's family will file a suit on him for harassment or Dowry death. If asked for Divorce or seperation he may have to spend his entire life for feeding his Divorced wife and children. Our women oriented Indian Law is so beautiful.

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  • Dinesh Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This is not the just one. I have seen many poor husbands working in Mumbai/Dubai/Bangalore and sending money to their wives on monthly basis. Their wives enjoying life here. Wives extort money from their husbands.

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  • MUHAMMAD RAFIKKH MOODBIDRI, MOODBIDRI / JEDDAH, SAUDI ARABIA

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Dear Mr. Joerg Belman,
    I am very sorry to read your comments as mentioned 'slavery life in Gulf". If you come and see the luxurious life leading by Indian in Gulf Countries. Of course, there may be some exemptions for. But in practical, life in Gulf is far luxurious compared to one's education and profession he is having. If one is well qualified - he can lead a very luxurious life in Gulf. In case of Mr. Abubaker, we should not blame anyone else that to Mr. Abubukar himself. As he can spend such a amount on his wife, the why he didn't spent his life together with his wife in Gulf itself.

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  • Dinesh Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    ಹೆಂಡತಿಯೊಬ್ಬಳು ಮನೆಯೊಳಗಿದ್ದರೆ ಅದೇ ಕೋಟಿ ರೂಪಾಯಿ is no more valid.

    Women are harassing men everywhere. Men are losers now a days. We need strong laws to protect our rights and interests. It is the time to create MEN AND CHILDREN WELFARE MINISTRY by Govt Of Karnataka.

    Few men are forced to do illegal activities by their wives inevitable demands of money and gold.

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012


    FIRST OF ALL KEEP IT AWAY THIS STORY FROM RAM GOPAL VARMA.

    ABOOBAKKAR BECOME BAKRA. WHAT A FOOLISH MAN HE WAS. I FEEL SAD ABOUT HIM.

    HE COULD HAVE AWARE EVERYTHING AND MAKE PROPER BUSINESS. HE NEVER USED HIS BRAIN.

    HE JUST SPOILED HIS MONEY TO ILLEGAL BUSINESS. I FEEL HE JUST SPEND MONEY WITHOUT KNOWING HIS PARENTS OR FAMILY MEMBERS. EVERYTHING HE KEPT SECRET. HE MAY BE SCARED ABOUT HIS FAMILY MEMBERS.

    HE DOESN'T KNOW THE VALUE OF MONEY. IS THIS ILLEGAL MONEY WHICH HE IS SPENDING?

    FUNNY THING IS WHEN HE COME TO INDIA, WHY CAN'T HE CHECK ALL DOCUMENT ABOUT HIS PROPERTY OR BUSINESS?

    SAD THING IS HE MADLY LOVED HIS WIFE AND TRUSTED HER.

    MY ADVICE AND FREE SUGGESTION TO ABOBAKKAR:

    1. PLEASE COME TO INDIA AND CLEAR ALL ISSUES,FORMALITIES QUICKLY TAKE HELP FROM SOMEBODY.

    3. NEVER TRUST ANYONE MADLY IN YOUR LIFE.

    2. PLEASE TAKE YOUR WIFE WITH YOU AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE THERE. JAI HO.

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  • MAS, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Aboobaker is a big stupid and fool, why he did not keep any accounts and for what he sent 70 lakh rupees for 7 years, why he did not check her expenses and assets till 7 years. He was craze for just her beauty. My request to all NRIs just send countable money for the household expenses only and monitor all the expenses each and every month so you will not face such problem.

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  • Robert George, Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This riches-to-rags story is really disheartening. On the face of it, it may appear be a far-fetched story. But the victim has apparently been carried away by charms of his wife. It is a cruel story of betray of trust. This should open the eyes of naïve and impressionable (married) men.

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  • K.Raghava Mayya, Padil, Mangalore-7

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Many years ago, on an occasion, an elderly man told to me thus: 'I donot trust anyone. I even do not trust myself,because I also am a 'HUMANBEING.'

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  • Imran Kaup, Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Along with Malcom Lewis I too blame Abubakkar, confused to call him Stupid or Foolish - Abobakkar always Better be safe than Sorry - Abobakkar, nw a days pepole think 5 time to give 5rs whether its nearone or dearone !!!

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  • Elvira, Bangalore/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    He trusted his beautiful and young wife so much without asking any account of her expenses. Never do this even to your wife or children. Just keep trust on yourself.

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  • Pinto, M'bidri

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Kyun paisa paisa karti hain
    Kyon paise pe tu marti hain
    Ek baat mujhe batlade tu
    Us Rab se kyun ni darti hain
    Paisa aavee paisa jaavee
    Ek ka ho ke tikta nai
    Ek pyaar hi sacha duniya mein
    Bazaron mein jo bikta nai

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012


    FIRST OF ALL KEEP THIS STORY AWAY FROM RAM GOPAL VARMA. AFTER LONG TIME A HEARD A DIFFERENT KIND OF STORY. I REALLY FEEL SAD ABOUT ABOOBAKAR.

    ABOOBAKKAR BECOME BAKRA. WHAT A FOOLISH MAN HE WAS.

    I FEEL HE IS EARNING MONEY FROM ILLEGAL BUSINESS. IF IT IS REAL MONEY WITH HARD WORKING, HE WILL NOT MAKE THIS KIND OF WORST MISTAKE.

    HE COULD HAVE AWARE EVERYTHING AND MAKE PROPER BUSINESS.

    HE JUST SPOILED HIS ILLEGAL MONEY TO ILLEGAL BUSINESS.

    FUNNY THING IS WHEN HE COME TO INDIA, WHY CAN'T HE CHECK ALL DOCUMENT ABOUT HIS PROPERTY OR BUSINESS?

    SAD THING IS HE MADLY LOVED WITH HER WIFE AND FULLY INVEST HER WHAT SHE WANT.

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  • Ajith, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    We live in a materialistic world.We can trust no one now a days.The family values of yesteryears have disaapeared.Do not give money to woman unless you can watch her what she does with that.Now a days men have become more responsible as compared to their female counterparts.Women watch too many crooked TV serials and try to follow the same ideas in real life.

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  • Ashfaq Hussain, Dubai/Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Good article! An eye opener. But it is absolutely foolishness of Mr.Abubakker, sending money without any accountability. Atlease he could have asked about the copy of documents for the car purchase or land purchase. Moreover he has sent money as and when she needs which ultimately empowered her to make him scapegoat. Keep ladies under control and do not give too much liberty and do not rely on wives 100%. Always keep watch on them if you are away from home.

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  • noel d costa, Dubai/mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Dear Readers,This can happen with anyone.its the word "Trust" & 'Love' where everything goes wrong.

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  • JOHN DSOUZA, USA/MUMBAI

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This same thing happen to me . this is common now in India regarding girls they will marry and leave a Luxury life on husband Hard earned Money and then filed a false Dowry case and harassement case. This same thing which had happened to me. And our Indian Law support Girls and even i had to pay my hard earned Money to get out of the false case and Had to bribe the lawyer also to withdraw the case. This is our Indian one sided Law

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    A pity to Abubaker,a great fooliness happened within himself.Marriage love and children are parts of our life,but a story of Abubaker is bit differnt in common.Beliving your wife, your child is your duty but upto what extent that determines the most.A story should not be a common but a eye opener to the NRI's who love and care thier families to the most.May 'GOD' give strength to overcome his strain and sorrows in his life,a mistake he done unknowingly.

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  • Mitwa, Sharjah

    Wed, Jul 18 2012


    I totally agree with our Naagesh Maam.. Good comments and also worth appreciating

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  • Lancelot N Tauro, Manglore - Doha Qatar

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Waw what a taughtful comments by Nagesh Nayak, is it you dear NN.?

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, BAHRAIN

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    I have come across many such stories, a lot and lot of women do cheat and most of the husbands keep thier eyes and mouth shut. But in such cases there should not be any kind of space for the excuses. It has been the zenith of the destruction of their relationship. Leave each other immediately be it she or he, immediately get seperated @ any cost else the life would make suffer each and every second.

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  • Ismail Shaikh, Moodbidri/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Aboobakeer trusted his wife too much and she took maximum possible advantage of his innocence.How come he doesn't know about the money sent for purchasing a piece of land and has been used for lavish life. Generally any one who wants buy a land/property they will thoroghyly enquire with the land lord and then deal will be done upon agreed by both the parties.This means she is like husband of Abookkar and vice versa.This bitch is to be given maximum punishment for cheating neighbours and relatives by crores of rupees. Her husband must be very careful nowonwards as his wife, her boy friends/mother in law may plot extreme steps against Aboobaker to close this case forever.

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  • THERESA LOBO, Mukamar-Sharjah

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Very sad story. Really touched my heart. Here in Gulf I see many Men are working very hard leaving their family back home and send all the money to the famly and family back home enjoying life.
    Really cheating the husband.. I hope and pray to God ...it should never happen to any one who are working in the Gulf. More over Aboobaker loved his wife and he trusted. Very sad. May God help him to solve his problem and keep him happy always and united with his family.

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Loot gaye ohh loot gaye !! this kind of stories always amuses the readers.
    7 years is bit too long to realize about her wife's habits, how can anyone be so careless, is he stupid or innocent?

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  • Sarita D'Souza, Valencia/Kuwait

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Pyar andha hota hai...... He was blindly trusting his beautiful wife.

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  • vivian, dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    ಯಾರಾದೋ ದುಡ್ಡು ..ಎಲ್ಲಮ್ಮನ ಜಾತ್ರೆ..

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  • ahmed, bangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Feel sorry for Mr.Aboobakar,looks she took advantage of his absence,We get so much to learn,for many money is everything.

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  • Malcom Lewis , Kallianpur/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Mr. Aboobaker is equally responsible for this mess for not keeping the simple account of his finances over seven years. Though this is one of the best eye opener for others.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    NOWADAYS IT IS VERY VERY DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE NEAR & DEARS.

    AFTER READING THE STORY IT IS CLEAR THAT ABOOBAKKAR MADE " BAKRAA" BY SAMEERA & FAMILY.

    IT IS ALSO CLEAR THAT HUSBAND & WIFE RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A SHEEP( ABOOBAKAR ) & LIONESS ( SAMEERA ).

    RELATIONSHIPS BREAKS EASILY ON THREE MAIN REASONS :

    1. HENNU ( FEMALE )

    2. HONNU ( FINANCE )

    3. MANNU ( PROPERTY)

    IF WE HAVE FIRM CONTROL ON THE ABOVE NOTHING WILL HAPPEN IN OUR LIFE.

    IF WE SLIP SLIGHTLY FROM THE ABOVE OUR LIFE BECOMES MISERABLE.

    WE SHOULD BE VERY VERY CAREFULL WHILE DEALING WITH FAMILY MEMBERS & CLOSE FRIENDS.

    NOWADAYS MISUNDERSTANDING IN FINANCE MATTERS ARE NO.1 ISSUE TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP.

    A FAMOUS KANNADA PROVERB FITS TO MR. ABOOBAKKAR " LEKKAKKE DHUKKAVILLA"

    IF WE ASK , ENQUIRE OR KEEP THE PROPER RECORD OF MONEY SENT & SPENT ON REGULAR BASIS , NOTHING WILL STOP US .

    WE SHOULD ALWAYS DEMAND FOR ACCOUNTS FOR OUR MONEY.

    IN THE ABOVE CASE SAMEERA & HER FAMILY UTILISED INNOCENT & FAITH OF ABOOBAKKAR FULLY .

    SAMEERA DID WRONG IN ALL THE ASPECTS:

    1. NO PROPER ACCOUNT FOR MONEY .

    2. MONEY SENT BY HUSBAND UTILISED FOR NON PRODUCTIVE PURPOSE & FOR JOLLY LIFE.

    3. SHE SPENT DAYS WITH BOY FRIENDS IN HOTELS .

    IN A NUTSHELL :

    ABOOBAKKAR WAS MADE BAKRAAA. TAKING LEGAL ACTION ON SAMEERA WILL NOT BE SOLUTION FOR ABOOBAKKAR.

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  • George Belman, Belman

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Really funny but sad story. Husbands slog in rough desert but relatives and family back home splurge on luxury.

    This is a social issue. Why are our youngsters leaving Udupi and Mangalore to work in almost slaving conditions in Gulf countries? Those who oppose power plants and industries in Udupi and Mangalore are responsible for these. If more industries come our youngsters need not go work as slaves in Gulf.

    No wonder those who comment from Dubai etc sound very frustrated. Can't blame them - they slog in desert and their family treats them as ATM machine!

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  • Aadil Khan, Kasaragod, Saudi Arabia

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    I would definitely call Aboobaker a fool because how come he kept on remitting so much funds without an accountability.Is it not his responsibility to track her's day to day activities and movements? If properties are bought, is it not his obligation and right to see and reassure the sale deeds (at least a fax copy, since he is away). In all these years he could not read his wife's mind, her intentions and mainly her conjugal loyalty toward her husband?

    Having read of her flamboyant lifestyle, frequent outing with boyfriends and the ornaments borrowed, I guess, the very same boyfriends might have blackmailed her with the sexually explicit pictures of her and that could gave prompted her to kept on borrowing jewelery and meet their continued demands.

    I believe police could crack this case, and the woman her boy friends should be punished. Hope Abubacker gets justice.

    Thank you Daijiworld, this is an eye-opener for the thousands of Gulf immigrants - Trust your wife, but do not blindly believe her.

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  • Royal, Mangalore / Dubai

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Very bad,she will never get love from her boyfriends, one day she will come to know.

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  • Brijlal Dindayal Sharma, Sirsi/Lucknow

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Good Article. Eye-Opener for all NRI's. In Islam it's clearly mentioned if 'spouse' won't join with his wife from more than one year or more, in that case wife is having authority to give even 'Talaq'. It's what going around in our surroundings. What's the use of 'Headscarves/Burqa' if they themselves do not have any modesty???> It looks like 'name' upheld. Same story from Moodbidri I knew it earlier. What else can wives will do if husband not coming to there hometown more than two years???>> Everything cannot be finalised just in phone. Now-a-days even 'Nikkah' happens thru phone.

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  • rajesh, mangalore/dxb

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    We all shout about women empowerment,harshment on women bla bla bla..

    Now whats this? there are many such cases where many womens taking advantage of law stating themselves from weaker section of socity

    Actually men are torturted mentally these days..

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  • Clifford, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This man acted like blind man for seven years. This is absolutely Mr. Aboobaker's fault.

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  • Mahesh, Udupi/UAE

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Bechaara Pati!!!!!!

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  • clara helen, Mangalore, Oman

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Blessed is the man who has a sensible wife! I hope this man comes out of this trauma soon.

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  • Prasad, Mangalore/W.Africa

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    Love is totally BLIND. Its high time NEGLIGENCE on the part of HUSBAND and high time MISUSE of money and trust by the so called DEAR LOVELY WIFE. Don't Trust anyone.

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    hum loot gaye !! ohh loot gaye !!
    this kind of stories no matter how serious always amuses the readers.

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  • VEENA DSOUZA, MLORE/KWT

    Wed, Jul 18 2012

    This is a good lesson for all NRI's hardworking even sacrificing in all way to save money sending beloved ones at the end retirement day something like this shocking atmosphere wake up and live each day and save some money of your own for old age without money cant survive at the end thanks daiji for publishing this real story of life......

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